Carl and Heather Present

Carl and Heather Cartee
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Carl and Heather Present: Marriage, Faith and thriving with your total opposite. We are taking on the humor, challenges, highs and lows of staying married to someone who is nothing like you, while holding to the hope that marriage is worth it all.

  1. 5d ago

    The Tragic Decision The Whole Internet Had An Opinion About

    A young couple made a tragic, public decision — and the whole internet had an opinion. This week, Carl and Heather step into the headlines with honesty and tenderness, asking three questions: What actually happened? What can a crisis like this reveal in a marriage? And what does God say about the value of a human life — no matter what? This is a conversation about holding conviction and compassion in the same hand. Because marriage was never meant to make us comfortable; it was meant to make us holy. So was parenting. So is raising every kind of child. We open up Psalm 139, Jeremiah 1, Genesis 1, and more — and we land where every hard story should: in the grace of a God who redeems what feels unredeemable. If you're carrying a private grief of your own, there's room for you here. New episodes every Tuesday from Carl and Heather Cartee for prayer and to connect hi@carlandheather.com Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    30 min

  2. Jun 2

    Episode 85: When Your Faith Feels Flat w/ Jeffery & Shannon Scott

    Have you ever felt stuck in your faith? Like you're doing all the right things, but God feels distant and spiritual growth seems nowhere to be found? In this episode, Carl and Heather sit down with Jeffrey and Shannon Scott to talk about the often-overlooked seasons of the Christian life when faith feels flat, progress feels slow, and nothing seems to be happening. Together, they explore how God is often doing His deepest work beneath the surface, even when we can't see it. If you've ever wondered whether you're growing, drifting, or simply walking through a difficult season, this conversation will encourage you to stay faithful and keep trusting God. Be sure to check out Shannon's podcast, The Everything Beautiful Podcast, where she shares honest conversations and biblical encouragement to help women find beauty and purpose in every season. If this episode encouraged you, don’t just move on—join us. Subscribe and turn on notifications 🔔 so you don’t miss conversations that are helping couples fight for what matters most—their marriage, their family, and their walk with God. If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment 💬 and tap like 👍—it helps more couples find this message. Need prayer? We’d truly be honored to stand with you. 📧 hi@carlandheather.com And if you’re looking to invest in the health of marriages at your church or event, we’d love to serve you. ⛪💍 Submit a request at carlandheather.com/booking Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    38 min

  3. May 19

    Episode 84: Everyday Spiritual Habits

    Can small spiritual habits actually change your marriage? This week we’re joined by author and Bible teacher Hanna Seymour and her husband Tyler to talk about Hanna’s new book, Everyday Spiritual Habits. Hanna’s message is simple but powerful: spiritual growth doesn’t happen through perfection or pressure — it happens through small, faithful rhythms practiced over time. In this conversation, we unpack how everyday habits like prayer, gratitude, Scripture, friendship, and practicing the presence of God can reshape not only your faith, but your marriage and family culture too. We also talk honestly about: Feeling spiritually exhausted in busy seasonsWhy couples drift spirituallyThe power of consistency over intensityBuilding connection with God in the middle of ordinary lifeWhat it looks like to pursue Jesus together as husband and wifeThis episode is encouraging, practical, and deeply relatable for couples who want a deeper spiritual connection without adding more pressure to their lives. Find Hanna’s book through Worthy Books or at her official site: Hanna Seymour. We're building a hospital and we need your help: If you want to join us in building a maternity ward in South Sudan, Check out Episode 78 to learn more and help us by giving at transformsouthsudan.org/maternity. 100% goes to build the hospital. If this episode encouraged you, don’t just move on—join us. Subscribe and turn on notifications 🔔 so you don’t miss conversations that are helping couples fight for what matters most—their marriage, their family, and their walk with God. If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment 💬 and tap like 👍—it helps more couples find this message. Need prayer? We’d truly be honored to stand with you. 📧 hi@carlandheather.com And if you’re looking to invest in the health of marriages at your church or event, we’d love to serve you. ⛪💍 Submit a request at carlandheather.com/booking Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    34 min

  4. May 12

    Episode 83: Engaged? Listen To This Before You Walk Down The Aisle

    If you’re engaged—or know someone who is—this might be one of the most important conversations you hear before marriage. Because most marriages don’t fall apart in a moment…  they drift slowly through poor communication and unresolved conflict.  In this episode, Carl and Heather walk through five essential conversations every couple needs to have before saying “I do.” This isn’t about planning a wedding—  it’s about preparing for a lifetime. In this episode, we cover:  How to build a shared purpose and direction How to understand and improve your communication How to handle conflict and repair in a healthy way  What real intimacy actually looks like  How to clarify expectations around money, roles, and familyA simple truth: You don’t drift into a strong marriage—  you build one on purpose. Important note: This episode is a tool—but it’s not a substitute for biblical premarital counseling. If you’re getting married, don’t skip that step. 🌍 Join us in making an impact We’re partnering with Transform South Sudan to help build a maternity ward at the Ahick Women’s Clinic.  We’re raising $85,000, and a generous donor has already matched $42,500. To learn more or give:  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    28 min

  5. May 5

    Episode 82: Sexless Marriage?

    No one plans to end up in a sexless marriage…  But a lot of couples quietly drift there. It’s not loud.  It’s not explosive.  It’s silent—and that’s what makes it so dangerous. In this episode, Carl and Heather talk about the hidden struggle many couples face:  two people who love each other… but have lost connection. You’ll hear:  The real reasons intimacy fades (and why it’s rarely just about sex)  The physical, emotional, and spiritual impact of disconnection  Why unresolved conflict and poor communication are often at the root  Practical ways to begin rebuilding intimacy—without pressure or shame Because sex isn’t the foundation of marriage…  but it is a vital expression of a healthy one. This episode is for couples who:  Feel distant but don’t know why  Struggle to talk about intimacy  Want to reconnect but don’t know where to start 💬 A reminder: A sexless marriage isn’t the end of your story—  it’s an invitation to rebuild something deeper. 🙏 Need prayer? Email us anytime: hi@carlandheather.com 🌍 Join us in making an impact We’re raising support to build a maternity ward in South Sudan.  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    28 min

  6. Apr 28

    Episode 81: Two Leaders, One Marriage, Now What?

    What happens when both spouses are strong leaders? Chris and Maribeth Dodd join us to talk about the tension, beauty, and challenge of building a Christ-centered marriage when both husband and wife are high-capacity leaders. We cover leadership, submission, differences in pace and personality, and what it really looks like to become one—without losing who God made you to be. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    34 min

  7. Apr 21

    Episode 80: Parenting The Anxious Generation

    Something has shifted—and our kids are feeling it. In this episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to parent in the age of rising anxiety. From the explosion of smartphones to the loss of play-based childhoods, we unpack why this generation is struggling—and what we can do about it. We explore:  The difference between a play-based vs. phone-based childhood  How constant comparison is shaping identity  Why resilience is declining (and how to rebuild it)  Practical ways to disciple technology, not fear it  Creating a home where kids can process instead of perform  Anchoring our children in truth, not just tools We’re not raising kids for comfort—we’re raising them for strength. This episode will help you move from reacting to anxiety… to leading your kids through it with clarity, confidence, and faith in Jesus. To help us build a maternity ward in South Sudan, go to Transformsouthsudan.org/maternity and give. It costs $85,000 but a donor has already given a matching gift of up to $42,500 so every dollar you give is doubled. Thanks for helping us make a difference. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    30 min

  8. Apr 14

    Episode 79: The Roommate Trap

    The Roommate Trap What if your marriage isn’t falling apart… but it’s quietly drifting? In this episode of Carl and Heather Present, we’re talking about a season almost every couple experiences—but few know how to name: the roommate phase. It’s when life gets full, conversations become transactional, and connection slowly fades into the background. You’re not fighting.  You’re functioning.  But you’re also not really seeing each other anymore. We’ve lived this.  And after a season of travel, ministry, and a packed schedule, we’re feeling the pull ourselves—and we know we’re not alone. We’ve heard the same question over and over on recent panels:  “What if we don’t have anything in common anymore?”  “What do we do if we feel more like roommates than lovers?” In today’s episode, we talk honestly about:  What the “roommate trap” actually looks like in real life  Why busy seasons quietly disconnect us  How small, intentional shifts can rebuild connection  The role of unresolved hurt in creating distance  Simple, practical ways to start reconnecting todayBecause marriage was never meant to just share space—it was meant to share souls. “You don’t drift into connection. You drift away from it.”And the good news? You can choose your way back. Try this tonight: Ask one real question. Start there. 💛 Partner With Us This year, we’re partnering with Transform South Sudan to help build a maternity ward at the Ahick Women’s Clinic in Lietnom, South Sudan. We’re believing to raise $85,000, and a generous donor has already committed a $42,500 matching gift. You can be part of bringing life-saving care to women and babies:  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity 📩 Prayer requests: hi@carlandheather.com  🎧 New episodes every Tuesday Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    30 min
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Carl and Heather Present: Marriage, Faith and thriving with your total opposite. We are taking on the humor, challenges, highs and lows of staying married to someone who is nothing like you, while holding to the hope that marriage is worth it all.

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  • Creator
    Carl and Heather Cartee
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    90
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Carl and Heather Present
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