The Parenting Standard

Priya Narthakii and Harry Goldberg

This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path yet. Zero scripting. Zero planning. Decades of Parenting experience.

  1. 2D AGO

    # 96: If you want a child who leads themselves, then...

    Imagine this: Your child is "perfectly" compliant. They make their bed, they get the grades, and they follow every rule. Then, they leave home—and they completely fall apart. Without your constant "management" and biased questioning, they have no internal compass. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- They aren't responsible; they’re just well-trained. We discuss the terrifying reality of "projected emotions" and how parents unknowingly rob their children of their own identities. If you keep naming their frustrations and setting their metrics, you are ensuring they will be forever dependent—or worse, that they will eventually cut you out entirely just to breathe. Discover how to ask the "unbiased questions" that foster true responsibility and build an adult who leads themselves, even when you aren't in the room. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!

    18 min
  2. APR 30

    # 95: If you treat parenting like a career instead of a chore, then...

    Picture this: Your thirteen-year-old walks into the room. Instead of the usual eye-roll or the retreat into a smartphone, they sit down and ask, "I’m struggling with a choice—what do you think?" In this moment, you realize the transition is complete. You aren't the manager barking orders anymore; you are the trusted consultant. We explore how to trade the exhausting role of the family "nagger" for the prestigious role of the "advisor." By treating parenting as a high-level career rather than a series of chores, we show you how to build a relationship based on influence rather than control. It’s about making yourself replaceable in the small things so you become indispensable in the big ones. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!

    29 min
  3. APR 23

    # 94: If you're concerned about your kids weaknesses, then...

    Imagine this: It’s five years from now. Your child has spent a decade "fixing" their weaknesses. They are well-rounded, proficient, and utterly miserable. They’ve mastered skills they hate to please a version of you that doesn't exist. By forcing the "one-year commitment" on a child who lacks the "value radar" to understand why, you aren't building character—you're building a habit of resentment. We’re diving into why the traditional parenting advice on "strengths" is failing our kids and how you can stop the cycle before the light in their eyes goes out for good. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!

    26 min
  4. APR 16

    # 93: If your child identifies as dysregulated, then...

    Imagine this: You’re standing in the middle of a chaotic storm—deadlines are looming, the kids are screaming, and your heart is hammering against your ribs. But instead of drowning, you feel a surge of electricity. You realize that your racing heart isn’t "anxiety"—it’s fuel. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- We dive into the "Responsibility Muscle," a simple psychological shift that transforms every stressful sensation into raw, usable energy. We’re moving past the labels that keep you (and your kids) small and handing you the blueprint to design your (and your kids') own emotional experience. Learn the three questions that turn "I can't" into "I choose." It’s time to stop regulating your system and start leading your life. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!

    22 min
  5. APR 9

    # 92: If you fear AI is destroying your kid's ability to think for themselves, then...

    There you are, watching your child graduate into a world where their entry-level skills were automated three years ago. While we argue over whether they should use AI for their homework, countries on the other side of the globe are integrating "thinking models" into the core of their survival. The walls we are building in our schools are actually cages. If your child doesn’t have a strong internal compass, AI won't just help them; it will lead them like a sheep toward a destination they didn't choose. We’re stripping away the hype to reveal the cold truth: if you don’t teach your kids to lead the machine, the machine will inevitably lead them. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- We’re moving past the "Google Search" era and into an age where character is the only currency that matters. Join us as we reframe the future from a place of anxiety to one of absolute excitement. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!

    23 min
  6. APR 2

    # 91: If your boundaries keep getting violated, then...

    Imagine this: your front door swings open, and instead of the usual dread at the sight of bags strewn across the hallway, there is a sense of flow. You don’t need to bark orders or point to a list of rules on the fridge. Your eldest naturally places their bag in their basket, and your youngest hangs theirs on a hook we installed together. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- There’s no "us versus them," no "I’m the boss and you’re the worker." Instead, we’ve replaced the complex tax code of household "Don’ts" with a simple, shared "We." We’ve stopped being border guards and started being a team. In this episode, we explore how moving from rigid boundaries to radical cooperation transforms your home from a battlefield into a sanctuary where everyone’s needs—even yours—actually get met. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are: - Short - Too the point - Engaging - Weekly And they have: - Zero scripting. - Zero planning. - Deep insights. - Inspiring stories. - Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe. 2. Follow. 3. Turn On Notifications!

    21 min
  7. MAR 26

    # 90: If you want your kids to stop interrupting you, then...

    There you are, trying to work, trying to connect, trying to just be, but you are "under siege". Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- Every five minutes, a new request, a new "interruption," a new explosion of noise. You’ve tried boundaries, you’ve tried negotiating, but nothing works. You’re exhausted, and your child is frustrated. The truth is, your "open door" policy is actually a trap for everyone involved. If you keep ignoring the biological drives behind your child's behaviour, you'll stay stuck in this cycle of anger and guilt. It’s time to stop managing behaviour and start understanding meaning. We explore how to co-create experiences that allow everyone to win, shifting from rigid rules to a family culture where everyone feels heard, and your one-on-one time is finally sacred. ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!

    26 min
  8. MAR 19

    # 89: If you want to help your kid decide what they believe about others, then...

    Imagine this: Your child is standing in a room full of costumes. They reach for the cape of a hero, not because they want to hide, but because they are practicing the "triad" of a leader. We’ve found that when we play, we aren’t just pretending; we are building the neurological pathways of who we want to become. In this episode, we dive into how "dress-up" is actually a high-level training ground for empathy, observation, and self-mastery. We share how to turn every playground game into a journey of self-discovery, helping your kids—and yourself—distinguish between the drama on the screen and the peace of the witness within. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ---------------------------- ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!

    23 min

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This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path yet. Zero scripting. Zero planning. Decades of Parenting experience.