Unmask Your Mind

Annie Sousa

If you were told you were too loud, too sensitive, too much — or just never felt like you belonged — you're in the right place. Welcome to Unmask Your Mind, the podcast for neurodivergent people who are done pretending, done shrinking, and ready to understand themselves on their own terms. I'm Annie Sousa — therapist, mental health advocate, and AuDHDer. I didn't get my ADHD diagnosis until my 20s or my Autism diagnosis until my 40s. In between, I survived domestic violence, rebuilt my life as a single mom of two neurodivergent kids, and spent years learning how to stop masking and start living. I don't just understand this journey professionally. I live it. This is a no B.S. space. No toxic positivity. No one here is going to tell you to think your way out of a dysregulated nervous system or suggest you just need more gratitude. What you'll get instead is real talk — honest, evidence-based, and grounded in actual lived experience. Every episode goes deep on what actually matters: ADHD, AUDHD, ASD, CPTSD, trauma, nervous system regulation, masking, emotional dysregulation, and what genuine healing looks like. We bust harmful myths about neurodivergence, challenge the systems that made you feel broken, and replace shame with understanding. The tools I share are ones that work in real life — not just in theory. Whether you're newly diagnosed, raising neurodivergent kids, supporting ND clients, or just finally starting to understand why you've always felt different — this show meets you exactly where you are. You are not broken. You never needed to be fixed. You needed to be understood. Hit subscribe and join me every week. You don't have to navigate this alone. "When we dare to unmask, we discover that our authenticity was our strength all along." — Annie Sousa If this resonated with you, leaving a review takes 30 seconds and helps more people find their way here.

  1. 01/15/2025

    Why Do I Keep Attracting Toxic People?

    Are you tired of feeling like a magnet for toxic relationships? In this episode of Unmask Your Mind, host Annie Sousa dives into the psychology behind why certain patterns keep showing up in our relationships—whether with friends, romantic partners, or even colleagues. Annie unpacks how subconscious patterns, unresolved childhood wounds, cultural narratives, and insecurities can unknowingly influence who we allow into our lives. Drawing on personal stories, real-life examples, and evidence-based insights (yes, backed by science!), she explores the role of boundaries, self-awareness, and healing in breaking free from these cycles. You’ll hear a listener’s story about energy-draining friendships, Annie’s own journey with toxic dynamics, and how self-sabotage often keeps us stuck in familiar but unhealthy situations. Most importantly, this episode provides actionable steps to rewrite your script, redefine your boundaries, and take back control of your relationships. ✨ Key Takeaways: Why toxic dynamics feel familiar and how to spot them.The science behind subconscious attraction to emotionally unavailable people.Practical tools to set boundaries and prioritize your needs. 💬 Join the Conversation: Have you noticed recurring patterns in your relationships? Drop a comment below or connect with us on social media to share your thoughts and experiences. 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with someone who might need it. Let’s unmask the mind and start living healthier, happier lives—one conversation at a time! #ToxicRelationships #Boundaries #HealingJourney #UnmaskYourMind #AnnieSousa #trauma #abuse #narcissist @unmaskyourminds @unmask.your.mind and www.unmaskyourmind.com

    22 min
  2. 12/18/2024

    The Body Keeps Score: Understanding Your Body's Trauma Language - A Deep Dive into Somatic Experience

    Ever wonder why your heart races before a big meeting or why certain sounds, smells, or sensations bring a flood of memories? In this powerful episode, host Annie Sousa guides you through the hidden language of the body — how it stores trauma, sends us signals, and how we can learn to listen. Drawing on the groundbreaking concepts from Dr. Bessel van der Kolk's The Body Keeps the Score and the transformative Polyvagal Theory, Annie breaks down the science behind the body's survival responses: Ventral Vagal (Safety) — Where calm, connection, and clarity live.Sympathetic (Fight or Flight) — The rush of adrenaline when danger feels close.Dorsal Vagal (Freeze) — When the world feels overwhelming, and the body shuts down. This episode blends relatable stories, simple science, and actionable tools. You’ll hear the story of Sarah, who felt anxiety every time she heard keys jingling, and how Mark overcame his stress response to his boss’s calls. More than just theory, you’ll walk away with two powerful, practical exercises — Body Mapping and Nervous System Resets — to shift your body from stress to safety. Episode Highlights 🔹 Why your body remembers what your mind forgets 🔹 How cortisol and adrenaline shape your stress response 🔹 The difference between explicit and implicit memory 🔹 Simple techniques to reclaim a sense of safety in your body Takeaways & Resources 🎉 Leave with tools to release stored tension and restore your sense of calm. 📘 Access more support at unmaskyourmind.com — including practice videos and free mental wellness guides. Whether you're on a journey of healing or supporting a loved one through theirs, this episode is a must-listen. Subscribe, share, and remember: Your body isn't broken — it's doing its best to keep you safe. Mentioned in this episode: INTRO intro INTRO intro

    19 min

About

If you were told you were too loud, too sensitive, too much — or just never felt like you belonged — you're in the right place. Welcome to Unmask Your Mind, the podcast for neurodivergent people who are done pretending, done shrinking, and ready to understand themselves on their own terms. I'm Annie Sousa — therapist, mental health advocate, and AuDHDer. I didn't get my ADHD diagnosis until my 20s or my Autism diagnosis until my 40s. In between, I survived domestic violence, rebuilt my life as a single mom of two neurodivergent kids, and spent years learning how to stop masking and start living. I don't just understand this journey professionally. I live it. This is a no B.S. space. No toxic positivity. No one here is going to tell you to think your way out of a dysregulated nervous system or suggest you just need more gratitude. What you'll get instead is real talk — honest, evidence-based, and grounded in actual lived experience. Every episode goes deep on what actually matters: ADHD, AUDHD, ASD, CPTSD, trauma, nervous system regulation, masking, emotional dysregulation, and what genuine healing looks like. We bust harmful myths about neurodivergence, challenge the systems that made you feel broken, and replace shame with understanding. The tools I share are ones that work in real life — not just in theory. Whether you're newly diagnosed, raising neurodivergent kids, supporting ND clients, or just finally starting to understand why you've always felt different — this show meets you exactly where you are. You are not broken. You never needed to be fixed. You needed to be understood. Hit subscribe and join me every week. You don't have to navigate this alone. "When we dare to unmask, we discover that our authenticity was our strength all along." — Annie Sousa If this resonated with you, leaving a review takes 30 seconds and helps more people find their way here.