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Terry Evans

Remarkable people with fantastic stories that deserve to be heard. Terry Evans let's the guest tell their story. Comics, Musicians, Sports Personalities, Entrepreneurs, Weirdos, Wackos and Nutbars. People that make Terry's world go around... Good friends and great conversations.

  1. 6d ago

    Les Bits Encore - Oilers! Sports!

    The Edmonton Oilers are back—and so are Quinn Phillips and Paulina Denholm from The Bits! Terry welcomes two of his favourite sports guests back to The Reluctantly Podcast for a wide-ranging, unfiltered conversation ahead of the #Oilers’ season opener.The trio tackles the controversial #AlexFormenton signing, the Oilers’ history of offering second chances, and the bigger questions surrounding hockey culture, accountability, and making sports a safer, more welcoming space for women. They also dig into #MikeBabcock behind the bench, Edmonton’s goaltending, life without #DarnellNurse, Ryan Nugent-Hopkins’ place in Oilers history, and reasons for optimism heading into the new season.Then things get lighter with the surging Edmonton Elks, #NFL predictions, and Terry getting a crash course in #fantasyfootball—including learning how to actually change his lineup.Sports, strong opinions, laughs, and absolutely no shortage of tangents.Key TopicsOff-season moves of the Edmonton OilersImpact of recent signings like Alex FormentonTeam culture and issues in men's sportsCoaching styles and leadership in hockeyFantasy football strategies and league insightsCFL enthusiasm and fan engagementThe significance of player character and accountabilityThe influence of sports culture on team dynamicsChapters00:00 - Introduction and Guest Introduction02:00 - Edmonton Oilers' Off-Season Highlights03:56 - Significance of Alex Formanton Signing05:54 - Team Culture and Past Incidents10:10 - Historical Context of Second Chances in Hockey14:53 - Addressing Sexual Assault and Accountability20:05 - The Role of Leadership and Coaching Styles25:06 - The Impact of Court Verdicts on Sports Culture30:00 - Goalkeeping and Defensive Strategies35:03 - Player Development and Leadership in Oilers40:01 - Coaching Styles and Team Dynamics45:44 - NFL and CFL Season Outlook49:48 - Fantasy Football Insights and Strategies55:03 - Engagement with Sports Fans and Community58:54 - Closing Remarks and Future Outlookwww.thebits.ca www.reluctantlypodcast.com @TheBitsYeg @ZoneOnePodcast @TheWealthRoundUp @TheAlbertaGolfPodcast @DistilleryDiscovery @thenetworkofgiving #EdmontonOilers #sportsculture #teammanagement #coaching #CFL #sportsdiscussion #womeninsports Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Les Bits Encore - Oilers! Sports!
  2. Sep 22

    Maureen & Randall Purvis - A Dance to Remember

    As Remembrance Day approaches, Terry sits down with Maureen and Randall Purvis of the No Stone Left Alone Memorial Foundation to explore how a promise made by a 12-year-old girl in 1971 grew into an international movement of remembrance. Since its official beginning in Edmonton in 2011, No Stone Left Alone has connected thousands of students with Canada’s military history by bringing them into cemeteries to place poppies on veterans’ headstones, say their names, and simply say, “Thank you.” Today, the initiative reaches hundreds of locations across multiple countries. Maureen and Randall discuss the importance of passing remembrance to a new generation, the upcoming Dance to Remember fundraiser, the power of volunteers and community support, and their vision for ensuring the mission continues for generations to come. It’s a conversation about service, sacrifice, gratitude, community—and keeping a promise that no stone will be left alone.Key TopicsThe origins of No Stone Left Alone and its significanceThe evolving recognition of veterans' sacrifices over the yearsUpcoming fundraising events including the Dance to RememberThe importance of community involvement and volunteer supportEducational efforts to keep the memory of fallen soldiers aliveThe role of government and military support for remembrance initiativesThe impact of international involvement and global recognitionStrategies for sustaining and expanding the organization’s reach Chapters (00:00) - Introduction to No Stone Left Alone and its significance(01:06) - Maureen and Randall Purvis share the origins of the organization(02:34) - Personal stories and the importance of remembrance(05:04) - Changes in remembrance practices over the years(07:00) - The impact of recent global events on remembrance awareness(09:22) - The significance of the annual Dance to Remember event(12:50) - The power of community and volunteer involvement(14:09) - The emotional experience of attending remembrance ceremonies(16:37) - Details about the upcoming Dance to Remember and fundraising efforts(19:20) - Exciting auction items and sponsorship opportunities(21:09) - The importance of volunteer support across Canada(22:51) - The national remembrance ceremony and future plans(26:01) - Ways to get involved and support No Stone Left Alone(30:02) - Fundraising ideas and ongoing support opportunities(32:55) - The significance of community support and military recognition(35:47) - Closing remarks and upcoming events Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  3. Sep 15

    Melody McArthur - She's All That

    Terry sits down with multidisciplinary Cree artist, actor, musician, writer, mentor, and entrepreneur Melody McArthur. Melody shares how grief, loss, an abusive relationship, and years of self-doubt shaped her determination to build a meaningful creative life. She reflects on stepping beyond her comfort zone, trusting intuition, overcoming imposter syndrome, and using every opportunity to help others see what is possible. Melody also discusses her early musical influences, Indigenous identity, touring with the ground breaking all-Indigenous musical Bear Grease, performing off-Broadway, and joining Audible’s Indigenous Writers’ Circle. The conversation explores her forthcoming album and memoir project, The Gospel Truth, as well as a deeply personal new podcast focused on missing and murdered Indigenous people. With honesty, humour, and vulnerability, Melody explains why storytelling, community, compassion, and taking risks remain central to everything she creates—and why talent means little without the courage and drive to keep going.Key TopicsThe experiences that shaped Melody’s ambitionBuilding confidence through risk-taking and stepping outside her comfort zoneGrowing up in Canyon Creek and Slave LakeDiscovering performance as a childLeaving an abusive relationship and rediscovering her identityLaunching a podcast about missing and murdered Indigenous peopleBear Grease, off-Broadway history, and Indigenous representationMentorship, creative collaboration, and her upcoming writing projectsAddiction, mental health, social responsibility, and root causesWhy representation can inspire people to pursue their own dreamsChaptersAbsolutely — here they are with the timestamps in parentheses:(00:00) - Where to begin?(01:21) - Why Melody’s story has many layers(02:15) - Grief, loss, and a bigger-than-self mindset(03:14) - Comfort zone, risk-taking, and imposter syndrome(04:53) - Finding opportunities(06:59) - Supporting artists is part of her own art(09:41) - How childhood sensitivity shaped her growth(12:06) - Growing up isolated in Canyon Creek and Slave Lake(13:04) - The early impact of Shania Twain(15:24) - Becoming a storyteller, not just a singer(16:17) - Early stage life, pageants, and talent shows(18:14) - Singing as a vessel and becoming vulnerable onstage(18:43) - Leaving abuse and rediscovering herself on tour(20:56) - Internal change, spirituality, and self-protection(21:53) - Launching a podcast on missing and murdered Indigenous people(23:20) - First cases, audience response, and doing the work carefully(24:20) - Research, emotional limits, and pacing the project(26:25) - Why social media comments reveal hidden information(27:48) - Community roots, Bear Grease, and shared social issues(29:45) - Why long-form storytelling matters in true crime(31:15) - Mentoring younger people and encouraging them to try(33:23) - Taking risks before knowing the full plan(34:30) - Compassion, healing, and recovering after loss(37:18) - Loss of a son and her father, and finding meaning again(38:17) - Juggling the lyric book, podcast, gigs, and seventh album(40:02) - Applying to Audible’s writer’s circle(41:23) - Mentorship, alignment, and creative growth(42:48) - Workshops, networking, and the book project(43:41) - A future collaboration she cannot yet discuss(43:49) - Bear Grease, off-Broadway history, and representation(45:29) - Broadway vs. off-Broadway explained(46:36) - What off-Broadway feels like as an artist and audience member(48:37) - Pride in performing for Indigenous communities(50:43) - Keeping the story universal while rooted in culture(52:25) - Division, leadership, and the power of collective action(53:13) - Speaking her mind on social media(54:29) - Could politics be part of the future?(55:02) - Staying open to possibility without forcing it(56:01) - Using humor to handle disagreement(57:18) - Why Melody could be an effective leader(58:39) - Becoming the “someone” you’re waiting for(59:09) - Why her family never formed a band(60:38) - Survival, family history, and cultural reconnection(63:53) - Residential school trauma and intergenerational impact(65:41) - What needs to be talked about now(66:19) - Addiction as a symptom, not the root problem(67:48) - Society’s role in shaping people and outcomes(69:34) - Labels, race, and unlearning division(70:37) - What is next for Melody(71:01) - Returning to acting and auditioning(72:28) - Barriers, bias, and trusting the universe(74:00) - Anxiety, stage work, and channeling energy(76:01) - Vulnerability, homelessness, and social responsibility(76:50) - Where to find Melody online(78:11) - The Secret Sound story and a $5,000 win(80:10) - Wrap up over beerswww.melodymcarthur.cawww.reluctantlypodcast.com @ZoneOnePodcast @TheWealthRoundUp @thenetworkofgiving @TheAlbertaGolfPodcast @DistilleryDiscovery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Melody McArthur - She's All That
  4. Sep 8

    Mike Plume - Plumes Head West

    Mike Plume is back, and as usual, there’s no set list.Terry and Mike catch up for a wide-ranging conversation about music, memories, and the stories collected over a lifetime of playing songs. Mike shares an unforgettable encounter with Dolly Parton during his Nashville years and reflects on her song-writing, humour, generosity, and remarkable ability to make everyone around her feel important.The conversation wanders through The Tragically Hip, Loverboy, Bruce Allen, Elvis, song-writing, self-deprecation, and Mike’s earliest days as a terrified teenage singer in Bonnyville. He also talks about a possible 30th-anniversary vinyl reissue of Song & Dance Man and plans for an anniversary tour.TakeawaysAuthenticity and kindness are key to a lasting music careerDolly Parton's genuine personality left a lasting impression on Mike PlumeStorytelling and sharing personal stories enhance live performancesReissuing albums involves significant costs and planningBuilding a community through live shows creates lifelong fans. Chapters (0:01) — Intro and catching up(2:21) — Dolly Parton story begins(3:30) — Voiceover work and the double-booked studio(5:33) — Dolly walks into the studio(7:32) — Dolly’s kindness and “give them one of yours”(9:47) — Seeing Emmylou, Dolly, and Linda at the Ryman(11:20) — Dolly’s confidence, work, and generosity(14:39) — Songwriters known by first name(18:14) — “Jolene” at half speed and the Cocaine and Rhinestones podcast(21:00) — Bobby Cameron and self-deprecation(24:41) — Bruce Allen, Loverboy, and the Colonel(26:34) — Canadian Songwriters Hall of Fame discussion(29:34) — Bonnyville gala and music community(30:58) — First performance memories in Bonnyville(35:35) — Set lists, improvising, and reading the room(37:26) — Internet radio station idea(39:30) — Song and Dance Man turning 30(46:09) — Upcoming western tour dates(47:13) — Jenny duo show and how it came together(49:38) — Songs and stories format for the duo show(51:18) — Jenny’s song-writing and audience discovery(53:07) — Road life and touring logistics(55:58) — Tour dates and ticket info(56:27) — Guitar stories and future guitar episode idea(59:21) — Wrap-up and hockey talk Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Mike Plume - Plumes Head West
  5. Sep 1

    Remembering Dolly

    Terry sits down with legendary CFCW radio personality Jackie Rae Greening to remember the extraordinary life and legacy of Dolly Parton. From her humble beginnings in Tennessee’s Smoky Mountains to becoming one of the most beloved entertainers in the world, Dolly never forgot where she came from—or the people she could help along the way.Terry and Jackie share stories about Dolly’s songwriting, her unforgettable interviews and performances, her business savvy, Dollywood, the Imagination Library, and the remarkable generosity that defined her life. They also revisit classics like “Jolene,” “9 to 5” and “I Will Always Love You,” along with Jackie’s personal memories of meeting and interviewing Dolly.More than a tribute to a music legend, this is a conversation about kindness, authenticity, ambition, joy and a woman whose legacy reaches far beyond the songs. Long live Dolly.TakeawaysDolly's authenticity and kindness made her universally loved.Her strategic career decisions helped her become a global superstar.Her philanthropic work, including Dollywood and the Imagination Library, leaves a lasting legacy.Her ability to stay true to her roots while evolving her brand is inspiring.Her humility and professionalism set a standard for success.Chapters00:00 — Remembering Dolly Parton** — Terry and Jackie Rae Greening reflect on Dolly’s passing and why the response crossed generations and musical genres.01:54 — From the Smoky Mountains to Nashville** — Dolly’s childhood, early performances, unmistakable image and determination to become a star.03:00 — Jackie’s Personal Memories of Dolly** — Meeting and interviewing Dolly and discovering just how professional and genuine she was.04:10 — Poverty, Family & Giving Back** — Growing up one of 12 children, Dollywood, education and how Dolly turned her roots into opportunity for others.07:03 — How Dolly Became a Global Superstar** — Reinventing her career, reaching younger audiences and the massive 2014 Glastonbury performance.10:41 — Ambition Without Losing Her Warmth** — Dolly’s professionalism, confidence and ability to make everyone feel valued.14:19 — Dolly Live: The Rogers Place Story** — Jackie remembers Dolly’s intimate, stripped-down Edmonton performance and her remarkable connection with an arena crowd.16:52 — The Imagination Library & Dolly’s Edmonton Connection** — Her commitment to literacy, hundreds of millions of books and some lesser-known Edmonton connections.18:59 — The Wigs, the Look & the Joke** — Dolly’s legendary wigs, wardrobe and willingness to laugh at herself.20:41 — The Story Behind “9 to 5”** — How Dolly wrote the song during filming—and turned her acrylic nails into percussion.22:17 — “Jolene” & “I Will Always Love You”** — Were two of Dolly’s greatest songs really written on the same day?23:37 — Whitney Houston, Elvis & a Brilliant Business Decision** — The Whitney version of “I Will Always Love You” and why Dolly refused to surrender half the publishing to Elvis Presley.26:26 — Women Taking Control of Country Music** — Dolly, Loretta Lynn and other women who wrote about real life and fought for control of their careers.28:50 — Breaking Free From Porter Wagoner** — The lawsuit, Dolly’s independence and her eventual reconciliation with Porter.31:41 — Dolly’s Influence on Lainey Wilson** — Branding, authenticity and how Dolly became a blueprint for generations of female artists.34:25 — Kindness Was Dolly’s Superpower** — Why seemingly everybody loved Dolly—and why kindness never meant weakness. 36:40 — Joy as a Responsibility** — Dolly’s generosity toward other performers and the small gestures people remembered forever.37:24 — Tributes From Across the Music World** — The reaction from artists including Brett Kissel and Jackie’s unforgettable personalized Dolly message for Brett.40:06 — Philanthropy With a Purpose** — Literacy, jobs, medical research and using the proceeds of her success to create opportunities for others.41:28 — Is “I Will Always Love You” the Perfect Song?** — Terry and Jackie discuss the extraordinary emotional power of Dolly’s original recording.43:05 — “I Thought She’d Always Be Here”** — Jackie reveals why she never prepared an obituary piece for Dolly—and they reflect on a legacy that will outlive all of us. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  6. Aug 25

    Clayton Bellamy - Prairie Soul

    Clayton Bellamy returns to **The Reluctantly Podcast** nearly two years after helping launch the show, and there’s a lot to catch up on. Clayton and Terry start with the stories behind some of the treasured guitars in their collections—because every great guitar seems to carry a little history with it—before diving into Clayton’s early days grinding out six-night-a-week gigs and learning how to command a room.Clayton also opens up about his new seven-song solo album, **Soft Kind of Loud**, a stripped-down, soulful collection inspired in part by his years performing *The Legendary Life of Tom Petty*. They talk 20 years of The Road Hammers, the growth of Sky Song Records, and Clayton’s passion for creating opportunities for the next generation through his foundation and new performing arts centre.Music, guitars, Tom Petty, old road stories, new beginnings—and two long time friends catching up.Key TopicsClayton Bellamy's guitar stories and their significanceThe influence of Tom Petty on Clayton's music and performancesThe importance of community and legacy in supporting the artsDetails about Clayton's upcoming album 'Soft Kind of Loud'The role of the performing arts center in nurturing new talentThe evolution of The Roadhammers and their ongoing projectsSky Song Records and artist developmentThe emotional connection to guitars and their storiesClayton's approach to song writing and musical experimentationUpcoming performances and the significance of live showsChapters00:00 - Introduction and Clayton Bellamy's Guitar Wall Stories01:10 - Special Guitars and Their Stories: From College to the Road04:12 - The Rickenbacker and Gretsch: Iconic Guitars with Stories08:13 - Inherited Guitars and Their Personal Significance12:32 - The Broken Dobro and the Gift of Music13:35 - Guitars as Memories and Hauntings17:44 - Touring with the Steel Guitar and Lessons from Gordy Johnson20:54 - The Early Days of Touring and Building a Career25:36 - Two Years of Nonstop Growth and Projects28:44 - Upcoming Gala, Golf Event, and Exciting Lineup31:03 - The Song 'I Miss Tom Petty' and Its Significance34:52 - New Album 'Soft Kind of Loud' and Its Emotional Depth36:47 - The Gospel and Big Band Elements in Clayton’s Music40:23 - Vocal Range and Artistic Experimentation43:00 - The Influence of Chris Stapleton and Soulful Music45:22 - Evolution of Clayton Bellamy’s Musical Style50:52 - Balancing Multiple Projects and Future Plans01:03:35 - The Importance of Community and the New Performing Arts Center01:08:29 - Inspiring the Next Generation and Leaving a Legacy01:10:15 - What's Next for Clayton Bellamy and His Musicwww.claytonbellamy.comwww.theroadhammers.cawww.reluctantlypodcast.com @theroadhammers @claytonbellamy @ZoneOnePodcast @TheWealthRoundUp @thenetworkofgiving @TheAlbertaGolfPodcast @DistilleryDiscovery #ClaytonBellamy #guitarstories #musiclegacy #TheRoadhammers #TomPettytribute #newalbum #SkySongRecords #strathconaperformingartscenter #songwriting #musicalinspiration Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Clayton Bellamy - Prairie Soul
  7. Aug 18

    Dahlia Wakefield - Phoenix Rising

    On this episode of The Reluctantly Podcast, Terry welcomes Alberta song-writing duo Dahlia Wakefield and Kevin Frey for a Local Music Spotlight. They talk about their unlikely connection over pico de gallo, how their song-writing partnership began in 2023, and the chemistry that turns Kevin’s rock riffs and Dahlia’s lyrics into original music. Dahlia shares her journey through country, rock, metal, tribute bands, music teaching, and a return to writing and recording her own songs. They also discuss their award-nominated music, including “Well Dressed Lies” and “Light of the Phoenix,” which has received international recognition and radio play around the world. Along the way, they get into the realities of making a living in music, surviving the COVID shutdown, performing everything from Heart and Iron Maiden to classics for seniors, and what’s next—including a new single, a full album, live shows, and plenty more music to come very soon.Key TopicsThe journey of Dahlia Wakefield and Kevin Frey in the music industryChallenges faced by musicians during COVID-19 and how they adaptedThe importance of live performances and upcoming gigsTheir experience with awards and recognition in the music sceneThe process of song-writing and collaboration between Dahlia and KevinPlans for new music releases and international recognitionThe role of music education and mentorship in their careersInsights into the Edmonton music scene and local venuesThe evolution of music distribution and streaming platformsThe significance of supporting local artists and live music venuesChapters0:00 – Opening and studio setup1:21 – Introducing Dalia Wakefield and Kevin Fry1:49 – International Singer-Songwriter Association nominations3:09 – Atlanta, Nashville, and travel plans6:37 – How the song-writing partnership began7:57 – Music training, Grant MacEwan, and learning guitar11:02 – Teaching music and building a foundation12:47 – Dalia’s background and family story14:07 – Live shows, band projects, and performance life17:02 – Rock, metal, and finding her lane19:40 – Covers vs original songs23:01 – Recording, harmonies, and finishing the album24:36 – Stepping away from music and coming back26:23 – COVID, caregiving, and the impact on musicians31:24 – Online lessons and adapting to teaching34:13 – Working with Sandro Dominelli36:30 – The song-writing process and creative synergy38:55 – Radio play, PR, and international reach41:51 – Writing through struggle and emotion46:23 – Performing for seniors and different audiences49:40 – Doo-wop, Beatles, and older classics51:05 – Heart, Led Zeppelin, and vocal range53:50 – Upcoming shows and release dates55:43 – New single, album release, and party planswww.dahliawakefield.comwww.reluctantlypodcast.com @dahliawakefield @ZoneOnePodcast @TheWealthRoundUp @TheAlbertaGolfPodcast @thenetworkofgiving @DistilleryDiscovery #Music #Songwriting #LivePerformance #MusicIndustryAwards #MusicCollaboration #EdmontonMusicScene #MusicEducation #NewMusicReleases #yegmusic Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Dahlia Wakefield - Phoenix Rising
  8. Aug 11

    TBS Flashback - Bobcat Goldthwait

    Before podcasts, or at least when Podcasts were JUST starting...there was great radio—and this is one of those moments. Originally heard only once on The Terry, Bill & Steve Show, this unforgettable interview with legendary comedian, actor, filmmaker, and author Bobcat Goldthwait is now available again exclusively on the Reluctantly Podcast. Bobcat joins Terry, Bill and Steve for an unfiltered conversation packed with hilarious stories from his stand-up career, the Police Academy films, directing independent movies, working with Robin Williams, and collaborating with Ray Davies of The Kinks. Along the way, the conversation takes unexpected detours through Hollywood, radio, celebrity encounters, comedy writing, and Bobcat's uniquely twisted outlook on life. Fast-paced, irreverent, and completely unscripted, this is the kind of interview that could only happen on live radio. If you missed it the first time—or want to hear one of Terry's favourite interviews again—this exclusive flashback is your chance to experience a true broadcasting gem.Key TopicsBobcat Goldthwaite's career highlightsStories from Police Academy and HollywoodInsights into comedy and filmmakingHumorous behind-the-scenes anecdotesHis perspective on aging and creativityTakeawaysHumor can be found in everyday life and career experiences.Authenticity and staying true to your style are key in comedy.Behind-the-scenes stories reveal the human side of Hollywood.Laughter is a universal connector and a powerful tool.Persistence and passion drive success in entertainment.Chapters00:00 - Intro & Chilean Miners02:08 - Bobcat Goldthwait Joins the Show08:50 - Comedy & Touring13:00 - Being Recognized in Public15:00 - Weird Hollywood Pitches18:40 - Mormons, Scientology & Stand-Up20:55 - Police Academy & Movies24:30 - Robin Williams & Ray Davies26:45 - Setting The Tonight Show on Fire30:00 - Life on the Road32:00 - Opening for Nirvana34:10 - Relationships & Radio Stories36:15 - Wrap-Upwww.reluctantlypodcast.com @ZoneOnePodcast @DistilleryDiscovery @TheWealthRoundUp @TheAlbertaGolfPodcast @thenetworkofgiving #BobcatGoldthwait #comedy #Hollywood #PoliceAcademy #stand-up #filmmaking #entertainment #stories #humor Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Remarkable people with fantastic stories that deserve to be heard. Terry Evans let's the guest tell their story. Comics, Musicians, Sports Personalities, Entrepreneurs, Weirdos, Wackos and Nutbars. People that make Terry's world go around... Good friends and great conversations.

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