Unspoken: The Fertility Network Podcast

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Welcome to Unspoken, a heartfelt podcast by Fertility Network UK, dedicated to sharing the real-life stories of individuals and couples navigating the complex world of fertility. Whether you are facing fertility struggles yourself, know someone who is, or simply want to learn more about this often overlooked aspect of reproductive health, this podcast is for you. Find out more at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ Follow us: www.instagram.com/fertilitynetworkuk https://www.facebook.com/FertilityNetworkUK www.linkedin.com/company/fertility-network-uk https://www.tiktok.com/@fertililitynetworkuk https://x.com/FertilityNUK www.youtube.com/@FertilityNetworkUK

  1. May 26

    Fertility Without Borders: Seeking Treatment Abroad

    Guest: Dr. Rima Rajkhowa MD FRCOG In this episode, we’re joined by Dr. Rima Rajkhowa MD FRCOG, Consultant Gynaecologist and Medical Director of Gynaecology and Fertility Services at The Medical Travel Company. With over 25 years’ experience leading fertility and assisted conception services across the NHS and private sector, Dr. Rajkhowa brings valuable insight into the growing trend of patients travelling abroad for fertility treatment. We explore what’s driving this shift, the challenges and opportunities it presents, and what patients need to know before making such an important decision. Dr. Rajkhowa also highlights how waiting lists, rising costs, and cultural considerations—particularly within South Asian and ethnic communities—are shaping people’s choices and experiences. Tune in to learn: · Why patients are looking overseas for fertility care · What to consider when choosing a clinic abroad · The steps involved in working with an international provider · The benefits and challenges of using donors A must-listen for anyone navigating fertility treatment or supporting someone on their journey. Links: You can find out more about Dr Rima and The Medical Travel Company here: https://themedicaltravelcompany.com/fertility-care?utm_source=fnuk&utm_medium=podcast If you are struggling and need support, please contact the following organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast. Fertility Network UK: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/fertilitynetworkuk Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FertilityNetworkUK LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/fertility-network-uk TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fertililitynetworkuk X (Formerly Twitter): https://x.com/FertilityNUK YouTube: www.youtube.com/@FertilityNetworkUK

    45 min
  2. Apr 27

    Episode title: Fertility Uncovered: Hormones, Cycles & What Every Woman Needs to Know

    Guest: Dr. Natalie Crawford MD Anita Guru speaks with fertility expert Dr. Natalie Crawford to break down what every woman should know about hormones, cycle tracking, inflammation, and egg quality. They explore how the menstrual cycle really works, why irregular cycles matter, the impact of conditions like endometriosis and PCOS, and the lifestyle factors that influence fertility for both women and men. A clear, empowering conversation packed with practical insights for anyone on a fertility journey. A must-listen for anyone navigating fertility treatment or supporting someone on their journey. Dr. Natalie Crawford MD is board certified in both Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility and is co-founder of Fora Fertility, a boutique fertility practice in Austin, Texas. Dr. Crawford is a digital health educator on social media, YouTube, and hosts the podcast “As a Woman: Fertility, Hormones and Beyond” with over 6 million downloads, and has appeared on Steven Bartlett’s podcast, The Diary of a CEO. Her debut book, “The Fertility Formula”, has now been released by Penguin Random House and is available to purchase. Dr. Crawford is CEO and co-founder of Pinnacle, a professional network for women in medicine. She completed her undergraduate at Auburn University obtaining a degree in Nutrition Science, Medical School at UTMB, OBGYN Residency at UTSW, and REI Fellowship at UNC, concurrently obtaining a Master of Science in Clinical Research. Links: Order ‘The Fertility Formula’ https://www.nataliecrawfordmd.com/book out now! Follow Natalie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nataliecrawfordmd/ Follow Natalie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalie-crawford-md/ If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast. Fertility Network UK: Website: Fertility Network Instagram: www.instagram.com/fertilitynetworkuk Facebook: www.facebook.com/FertilityNetworkUK LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/fertility-network-uk TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@fertililitynetworkuk X (formerly Twitter): Fertility Network (@FertilityNUK) / X YouTube: www.youtube.com/@FertilityNetworkUK

    50 min
  3. Apr 6

    It’s The Hope That Kills You: The Untold Male Experience in Infertility

    Guest: TIM ROYLE, TELEVISION DIRECTOR In this conversation, Tim Royle shares his personal journey through IVF, highlighting the emotional and mental challenges faced by men during the process. He discusses the creation of his impactful short film that aims to amplify the male perspective in infertility, the importance of mental health support, and the need for better communication and understanding in the IVF community. Tim emphasizes the hope that exists even in the face of adversity and the significance of finding a supportive community. Tim Royle is a freelance continuing drama director, who works on Coronation Street, Emmerdale and Eastenders. Tim has written and directed the award winning short film, “It’s the Hope that Kills You” about the struggles of going through IVF. The film deals with the emotional toll of fertility treatments, the male perspective on the experience, and the importance of communication and support. Tim hopes to shed light on the struggles of fertility. You can find out more here: YouTube: https://youtu.be/pupNbegZERo?si=uW9KQJHtLoQJgrzJ Instagram: @itsthehopethatkillsyoufilm DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast. If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 Fertility Network UK: Website: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/fertilitynetworkuk Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/FertilityNetworkUK LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/fertility-network-uk TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@fertililitynetworkuk X (formerly Twitter): https://x.com/FertilityNUK YouTube: www.youtube.com/@FertilityNetworkUK

    38 min
  4. Mar 16

    Life After Fertility Treatment

    Guest: Debbie Newson, Nurse and Author. In this conversation, Debbie shares her personal journey with infertility, describing her painful journey of trying to conceive, the impact on her mental health and relationships through all the trauma, and the experience of coming to the end of her fertility journey without conceiving. She shares how it’s shaped her life and led her to her purpose, whilst living childless not by choice. Debbie is a nurse, author, and motivational speaker who is passionate about inspiring hope, freedom, and transformation. After overcoming childhood trauma and defying expectations, she went on to earn multiple degrees, publish impactful books, and become an accomplished charity ultra-runner raising thousands for charities. In 2025 she completed her “25 in 25” marathon challenge to raise funds for Save the Children. Through her writing, speaking, and nursing, Debbie encourages others to break free from limiting beliefs, embrace their worth, and pursue their boldest dreams. Debbie’s first book, ‘God: Naked at Last’ was published in September 2024 and her second book, ‘The Unexpected Journey’ will be released in 2026. Connext with Debbie: www.debbienewson.co.uk https://www.instagram.com/debbie.newson22/ If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 Fertility Network UK: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok X (Formerly Twitter) YouTube

    39 min
  5. Feb 23

    How Stress Impacts Fertility

    Guest: Dr. Alice Domar Ph.D. In this conversation, Anita Guru speaks with Dr. Alice Domar who discusses the profound effects of stress on reproduction, drawing parallels between levels of stress and fertility outcomes. She explains how stress can inhibit reproductive capabilities and emphasizes the body's instinctual responses to environmental threats, suggesting that stress relief education and tools is crucial for fertility. Alice D. Domar, Ph.D., is a pioneer in the field of mind/body medicine. She conducts ongoing ground-breaking research which focuses on the relationship between stress and various medical conditions, including infertility and the impact of lifestyle habits on mental and physical health, with a focus on the impact of cognitive behavioural interventions as well as access to care and patient retention. She is currently the Chief Compassion Officer at Inception Fertility, the largest provider of fertility services in North America, where she leads the Inception Research Institute, furthering the organization’s commitment to advancing groundbreaking research to better understand and treat infertility. She is also an associate professor in obstetrics, gynaecology, and reproductive biology, part-time, at Harvard Medical School, and a senior staff psychologist at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Centre. Links: Website - https://dralicedomar.com/ Published works - https://dralicedomar.com/published-works/ If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 Fertility Network UK: Website: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/fertilitynetworkuk Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FertilityNetworkUK Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/company/fertility-network-uk TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fertililitynetworkuk X (Formely Twitter): https://x.com/FertilityNUK YouTube: www.youtube.com/@FertilityNetworkUK DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast.

    45 min
  6. Feb 9

    Navigating the Complex World of Fertility Treatment

    Guest: Clare Ettinghausen, Director of Strategy and Corporate Affairs at the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA). In this conversation, host Anita Guru speaks with Clare Ettinghausen from the HFEA about the critical role of the HFEA in regulating fertility treatment in the UK. The HFEA plays a vital role in ensuring fertility clinics meet the highest standards of care and transparency, helping patients make informed decisions on their fertility journey. Clare shares the latest updates, insights, and guidance available to patients’ navigating treatment in the UK. They discuss the complexities of IVF, the importance of patient safety, the controversial add-ons offered by clinics, and the wealth of data available to patients. Clare emphasizes the need for patients to advocate for themselves, the importance of understanding success rates and costs, and the disparities in treatment experiences among different ethnic groups. This conversation offers practical advice and trusted insights for anyone navigating their fertility journey. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to HFEA and Its Role 03:08 Understanding Fertility Regulation and Patient Safety 05:50 The Controversy of Add-Ons in IVF Treatment 08:59 Utilizing Data for Informed Decisions 11:54 Preparing for Fertility Treatment 14:53 Addressing Misinformation in Fertility Treatment 17:55 Choosing the Right Fertility Clinic 20:55 Understanding Success Rates and Costs 23:45 Addressing Disparities in Fertility Treatment 26:47 Navigating Complaints and Patient Advocacy 29:54 Resources and Support for Patients Links: You can find out more about the work of the HFEA in the following links: HFEA: HFEA: UK fertility regulator HFEA dashboard | HFEA Research and data | HFEA National Patient Survey 2024 | HFEA Treatment add-ons with limited evidence | HFEA Choose a fertility clinic | HFEA If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast.

    45 min
  7. 11/06/2025

    Breaking the Silence – Fertility Journeys in the South Asian Community: 3. Navigating Life Without Children

    Breaking the Silence – Fertility Journeys in the South Asian Community What happens when life doesn’t follow the path to parenthood? This heartfelt discussion explores identity, purpose, and creating a meaningful life beyond having children with honesty and openness. In this final episode of the Breaking the Silence series, host Anita Guru is joined by: Aisha Balesaria, Coach & Founder of MindBodyRevival_Coach; Writer, Speaker & Reproductive Health AdvocateDr Rima Lamba, Clinical Director & Counselling Psychologist, Blue River PsychologyMs Srividya Seshadri, Consultant Gynaecologist, Apex Fertility Together, they explore how to navigate life when the journey to parenthood takes an unexpected turn. Aisha shares her lived experience and reflections on redefining womanhood, while Dr Lamba and Dr Seshadri bring emotional and clinical perspectives on wellbeing and acceptance. This live recording was part of the Breaking the Silence – Fertility Journeys in the South Asian Community event, held on Tuesday 5th August 2025, bringing together voices from across the community to spark open, honest conversations about fertility and reproductive health. Find out more: If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast.

    28 min
  8. 11/06/2025

    Breaking the Silence – Fertility Journeys in the South Asian Community: 2. Experiencing Baby Loss, Miscarriage & Failed IVF

    Breaking the Silence – Fertility Journeys in the South Asian Community A heartfelt conversation about grief, miscarriage, and IVF loss in the South Asian community. Our guests share powerful stories of healing, compassion, and finding light after heartbreak whilst balancing cultural expectations from both a lived experience and expert perspective. In this deeply moving discussion, host Anita Guru speaks with: Dr Rima Lamba, Clinical Director & Counselling Psychologist, Blue River PsychologyMadhuri Bedi, Outreach Coordinator for South Asian Communities, SANDSMs Srividya Seshadri, Consultant Gynaecologist, Apex FertilityTogether, they explore the pain and stigma surrounding baby loss, miscarriage, and failed IVF within South Asian communities. Madhuri shares her personal story of loss and advocacy, Dr Lamba brings a therapeutic lens to grief and resilience, and Dr Seshadri offers compassionate clinical insight. This live recording was part of the Breaking the Silence – Fertility Journeys in the South Asian Community event, held on Tuesday 5th August 2025, bringing together voices from across the community to spark open, honest conversations about fertility and reproductive health. Find out more: If you are struggling and need support, please contact the charity at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ or organisations that can support your mental health are below. Contact Samaritans on 116 123 Contact NHS on 111 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast.

    31 min

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Welcome to Unspoken, a heartfelt podcast by Fertility Network UK, dedicated to sharing the real-life stories of individuals and couples navigating the complex world of fertility. Whether you are facing fertility struggles yourself, know someone who is, or simply want to learn more about this often overlooked aspect of reproductive health, this podcast is for you. Find out more at https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/ Follow us: www.instagram.com/fertilitynetworkuk https://www.facebook.com/FertilityNetworkUK www.linkedin.com/company/fertility-network-uk https://www.tiktok.com/@fertililitynetworkuk https://x.com/FertilityNUK www.youtube.com/@FertilityNetworkUK

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