Sam And Gen Got Divorced

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We're Sam and Gen, a formerly married couple currently navigating the complex landscape of divorce. Our journey has been filled with heartache, confusion, and doubt, but it has also been a path to healing, growth, and hope. Together, we're on a mission to create a space where those experiencing divorce can find support, understanding, and practical guidance. We're committed to sharing our stories and insights to help others on their own journeys. #divorce #healing #marriage #relationships #mentalhealth

  1. Apr 2

    Ep. 39 - Situationships, Pt. 2 - Are They Ever Healthy?

    In this episode, Sam and Gen sit down for a candid conversation about what people are really looking for when they say they do not have capacity for full commitment.Gen shares why a situationship can make sense in a season where long term investment is not possible, but the desire for connection, affirmation, romance, and companionship is still very real. Sam reflects on his own version of that dynamic, including what he calls a “holy grail friend with benefits,” while also arguing that situationships may be more convenient than healthy.The conversation explores clarity, honesty, unmet needs, and the tension between what feels good in the moment and what actually builds strong relationships over time. Sam and Gen also wrestle with whether situationships are helping people relate more honestly, or simply giving them a more socially acceptable way to stay in undefined spaces.-- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/👀Follow Kwesi:https://www.instagram.com/kwesi_jamaal👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

    24 min

  2. Mar 21

    Ep. 38 - Situationships, Pt. 1

    Our funniest episode yet... Join Sam, Gen, and guest host Kwesi as they share their perspectives on situationships and the value (or harm) they bring, as well as their own situationship experiences post-divorce.

    35 min

  3. Mar 7

    Ep. 37 - Grieving a Divorce, Pt. 2

    In this episode, Sam and Gen are joined by guest host Shereen for Part 2 of their conversation on grieving divorce. Sam reflects openly on his regrets surrounding children, legacy, and the future he once imagined. Gen shares how her parents’ marriage and divorce shaped her expectations of commitment, conflict, and what love was supposed to look like. Together, they explore how early narratives influence adult decisions, and how grief often extends far beyond the end of a relationship. The former couple discuss regret, generational patterns, and the tension between accepting what happened and mourning what never did. This is a conversation about loss, perspective, and the slow work of healing after a shared dream ends. -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👩🏾 Follow Shereen: 👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

    40 min

  4. Feb 6

    Ep. 36 - Grieving A Divorce, Pt. 1

    In a deeply relatable episode for anyone who has been touched by divorce, whether their own or that of a loved one , Sam and Gen outline how their respective grieving processes started before the marriage ended, and share the aspects of grief that are still with them today.

    27 min

  5. Jan 16

    Ep. 35 - We Remember It Differently, Pt. 2

    In Part 2 of this conversation, Sam and Gen turn their attention to the stories we tell after a relationship ends, and who those stories are really for. They explore whether Sam has shared the full story of their separation in a way that feels authentic to Gen, and what it means to tell the truth publicly while still honoring personal boundaries. The discussion moves into when full disclosure is helpful, when it can be harmful, and why some details belong in support circles rather than on a public platform. Along the way, Sam and Gen continue to debate parts of their separation, sometimes seriously and sometimes lightheartedly, revealing how time, healing, and perspective change the way the same events are understood. -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👨 Follow Simone: https://www.instagram.com/sim.livelaughlove/ 👀 Follow Gen: https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/ https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam: https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾Follow The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced

    29 min

  6. Jan 8

    Ep. 34 - We Remember it Differently - Pt. 1

    In this episode, Sam and Gen are joined by guest host Simone Smithson for a candid conversation about memory and meaning, and why two people can experience the same relationship and remember it completely differently. Through specific moments from their marriage, including how their relationship began, a honeymoon memory that carried opposite emotions, and a gift that was deeply meaningful to one and barely noticed by the other, they explore how memory is shaped by need, emotion, and survival. The former couple also discuss love languages, selective memory, and how reframing the past can either keep us stuck or help us heal. Sam and Gen reflect on how growth changes perspective, how hearing each other’s memories now feels different than it once would have, and why healing does not require perfect agreement. -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👨 Follow Simone: https://www.instagram.com/sim.livelaughlove/ 👀 Follow Gen: https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/ https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam: https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾Follow The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced

    29 min

  7. 11/11/2025

    Ep. 33 - One-Sided Fights, Pt. 2 - On Boundaries

    This episode continues our conversation on conflict—this time focusing on boundaries.With Cheddy back in the guest host seat, we get into how we learned to set limits with each other, the difference between protecting yourself and shutting down, and why men and women often process trauma and seek support differently. We also talk: When to trust your body vs. when to question if it's a trauma response What online dating is doing to connection And how growing up on screens might change the next generation’s ability to love This one gets honest, tense, and clarifying. #love #dating #relationships #divorce --☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram!   / samandgengotdivorced  👀 Follow Gen:  / cornercounsellor    / genevieve.alao.5  👋🏾 Follow Sam:  / samueltheconnector    / sr3ms  👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾Follow The Podcast:  / samandgengotdivorced    / samandgengotdivorced

    31 min

  8. 10/02/2025

    Ep. 32 - One-Sided Fighting, Pt. 1

    What happens when fights are totally one-sided? In this episode, Sam and Gen open up about their fighting styles, how conflict shifted after the honeymoon phase, and the surprising arguments that actually brought them closer together. Returning fan favorite Cheddy joins to push the conversation deeper into boundaries, reflection, and what communication looks like post-divorce. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 1:34 Sam & Gen's Fighting Styles When Married 2:34 Yelling vs the Silent Treatment 5:20 How Fighting Changed After the Honeymoon Stage 7:12 Why Avoidants Fight the Way They Do 8:38 How Sam and Gen Fight Now 12:17 Are You Guys Friends? 14:40 Colleagues vs Spouses 15:19 Arguments That Brought Us Closer 17:12 How Gen Got Through To Sam About Dressing Better 19:14 How Communication Improved Post-Separation 22:14 Fighting & Self-Reflection 23:21 Boundaries Around Communication 26:19 Sam vs Gen on Boundaries/Yelling If you’ve ever wondered what really goes on behind closed doors in a marriage—and what happens after—this episode pulls no punches. #SamAndGenGotDivorced #DivorcePodcast #Relationships -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👀 Follow Gen: https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam: https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾Follow The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced

    33 min
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We're Sam and Gen, a formerly married couple currently navigating the complex landscape of divorce. Our journey has been filled with heartache, confusion, and doubt, but it has also been a path to healing, growth, and hope. Together, we're on a mission to create a space where those experiencing divorce can find support, understanding, and practical guidance. We're committed to sharing our stories and insights to help others on their own journeys. #divorce #healing #marriage #relationships #mentalhealth

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  • Creator
    Sam and Gen
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Sam and Gen
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    Sam And Gen Got Divorced