TheRootedWife

Tessa Robertson

TheRootedWife is a space where you can find faith based lifestyle content that is passionate about encouraging, enriching, and influencing a divine change in your life. A place where you can find solace in personal testimony of womanhood, motherhood, and marriage matters that reflect the realities of our daily lives & combat it with scripture. This content will reflect some of the very raw and real experiences we go through while persevering through the chapters of life. Lets get ROOTED, together.

  1. Marriage Matters: Can a Marriage be Successful if you aren't "equally yoked"?

    01/11/2025

    Marriage Matters: Can a Marriage be Successful if you aren't "equally yoked"?

    In this episode we explore the frequently asked and debated question; Can a marriage be successful if you aren't "equally yoked"? The short answer of it is YES, because with God ALL things are possible. We do not serve a limited God that is limited to our human abilities and perspective. In a marriage where there is an "unbelieving spouse" or a spouse who isn't actively seeking the wisdom and knowledge of God in order to strengthen and solve marital issues that arise that produce unity; the believer who actively seeks God, will and can receive the divine protection of God. That is the blessing of a covenanted minded marriage vs a contractual minded marriage. What we must realize first and foremost is that it is not about our spouse and their lack of obedience but our own. Are we ourselves living out the ways of God within our marriage or do we too allow our sinful nature to lead our thoughts, behaviors and actions? Are we being image bearers within our own marriages? Are we allowing ourselves to be changed by God OR the actions of our spouse and our own sinful nature that desires to rebel, be prideful, hold contempt, have unforgiveness, harden our hearts, remain stuck in our own ways, fall into hopelessness, faithlessness? Are we believing what the world says or are we believing God? Regardless of the success of our marriages who do we serve...God or ourselves? Are we dying to our old ways and being made new in Christ? Lets take some inventory! Lets get ROOTED! Stay well & stay blessed I apologize for the slight inconvenience of barking in the background towards the ending of this episode. The overall message I believe was far to great to scrap this entire episode. Thank you in advanced for your grace. TheRootedWife

    28 min
  2. Marriage Matters: The effects of idolizing your spouse & marriage above God PART 2

    12/11/2024

    Marriage Matters: The effects of idolizing your spouse & marriage above God PART 2

    In this two-part episode we are dissecting and analyzing the ways that we consciously and subconsciously idolize our spouse and marriages above what God calls us to do, and who He calls us to be. How we allow our flesh to control the ways that we show up, treat and work through our issues within our marriages. We are going to explore what it means to "die to yourself daily" in relation to our marriages and the benefits and blessings that come from doing exactly that. Doing marriage Gods way is not for the faint of heart because it means that there will always be areas in our marriages that we must take personal inventory and accountability for how we are showing up and in fact choose to die to ourselves, daily, if not minute by minute. The covenant is a sacrificial agreement we make with God, not just each other. Its a oath to God that we will show up and do what He asks of us not succumb to our feelings, emotions, frustrations, and dependence on one another's illusionary perfectionism, rather marriage will reveal just how much we are to depend on God. If the marriage covenant is a reflection of how Christ loved the church-the body, then we must really look at the actions of Jesus, what did He do for us? He died and He honored the Father regardless of the limitations of the flesh that He was in. In His weakest moments while in the body He cried out to God for perseverance, wisdom, knowledge, guidance, restoration, renewal; so that we may reap the fruits of His blessing. Such as marriage which will require the same. Jesus didn't die for us because we were "good", "right" or "perfect" He died because God is and we are made in His image. Once we see that functioning under the mindset of a "contract" is a fundamental flaw in the success of marriages we can begin to align our actions, words, behaviors, and habits to the WILL and way of God and realize that its all about Him, not each other. Putting God first allows us to receive the best parts of one another like the gift and blessings He promises us by doing so. Lets get ROOTED! Stay well & stay blessed & be sure to follow us @TheRootedWife on Instagram for the latest updates, live chats, and tangible application tips of the word in your marriage. TheRootedWife

    21 min
  3. Marriage Matters: The effects of idolizing your spouse & marriage above God PART 1

    12/11/2024

    Marriage Matters: The effects of idolizing your spouse & marriage above God PART 1

    In this two-part episode we are dissecting and analyzing the ways that we consciously and subconsciously idolize our spouse and marriages above what God calls us to do, and who He calls us to be. How we allow our flesh to control the ways that we show up, treat and work through our issues within our marriages. We are going to explore what it means to "die to yourself daily" in relation to our marriages and the benefits and blessings that come from doing exactly that. Doing marriage Gods way is not for the faint of heart because it means that there will always be areas in our marriages that we must take personal inventory and accountability for how we are showing up and in fact choose to die to ourselves, daily, if not minute by minute. The covenant is a sacrificial agreement we make with God, not just each other. Its a oath to God that we will show up and do what He asks of us not succumb to our feelings, emotions, frustrations, and dependence on one another's illusionary perfectionism, rather marriage will reveal just how much we are to depend on God. If the marriage covenant is a reflection of how Christ loved the church-the body, then we must really look at the actions of Jesus, what did He do for us? He died and He honored the Father regardless of the limitations of the flesh that He was in. In His weakest moments while in the body He cried out to God for perseverance, wisdom, knowledge, guidance, restoration, renewal; so that we may reap the fruits of His blessing. Such as marriage which will require the same. Jesus didn't die for us because we were "good", "right" or "perfect" He died because God is and we are made in His image. Once we see that functioning under the mindset of a "contract" is a fundamental flaw in the success of marriages we can begin to align our actions, words, behaviors, and habits to the WILL and way of God and realize that its all about Him, not each other. Putting God first allows us to receive the best parts of one another like the gift and blessings He promises us by doing so.

    22 min

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TheRootedWife is a space where you can find faith based lifestyle content that is passionate about encouraging, enriching, and influencing a divine change in your life. A place where you can find solace in personal testimony of womanhood, motherhood, and marriage matters that reflect the realities of our daily lives & combat it with scripture. This content will reflect some of the very raw and real experiences we go through while persevering through the chapters of life. Lets get ROOTED, together.