Safeguarding Redefined

Cornerstone Safeguarding

Welcome to Safeguarding Redefined, a podcast by Cornerstone Safeguarding. We explore everything from child protection to adult safeguarding, with expert guests sharing valuable insights and real-world experience. Every voice matters! If you have a story to share or a question to ask, please let us know. Please note: Some of the topics we’ll be discussing may be sensitive in nature and may trigger strong emotions. Follow Cornerstone Safeguarding on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/102020259 Or visit https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk for more info about who we are

  1. 1d ago

    I Couldn't Save My Son: A Father's Fight to Prevent Suicide | Hidden Safeguarding: What We Don't See

    Content warning: Contains personal accounts of suicide, bereavement and emotional distress. One moment, George was making plans for the weekend. Hours later, his dad received a message that would change their family forever. George was just 24 when he died by suicide. In this deeply personal and emotional episode, Chris speaks with Adrian Ellis, founder of ACE Lived Experience UK, about the devastating loss of his son, the questions that remain unanswered and the promise he made to George that night. Together, they explore the hidden struggles behind a smile, the language we use around suicide, the importance of difficult conversations and why checking in with someone could make all the difference. Adrian couldn't save George. But through sharing his story, he's helping others find the courage to speak up and seek support. Find out more about Adrian Ellis: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrian-ellis-64163754/ ACE Lived Experience UK: https://ace-lived.co.uk/ Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East Chris East on LinkedIn:⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/⁠ Leah East on LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/⁠ Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.

  2. Oct 23

    Are We the Problem? Why Children Don't Tell Us About Online Harm | Hidden Safeguarding: What We Don't See

    We tell children to speak up when something goes wrong online. But what if we're the very reason they stay silent? In this episode of Safeguarding Redefined, Chris is joined by Anna Sarjantson, founder of Screensafe and online safety specialist, who works with schools, families and organisations to help children navigate the digital world more safely and confidently. Together, they confront some uncomfortable truths about the digital world we've created and the children we're trying to protect. From AI-generated abuse and online exploitation to social media bans and the pressures of growing up online, they challenge whether our approaches to safeguarding are keeping pace with the reality young people face. Are we actually listening to children, or are our own assumptions, judgements and reactions making it harder for them to ask for help? Together, Chris and Anna explore: Why children may be more frightened of getting into trouble than asking for help. The hidden pressures young people face in an increasingly digital world. Whether social media bans and restrictions alone can really keep children safe. Why calling ourselves a 'trusted adult' doesn't necessarily make us one. Because telling children to speak up means little if they don't feel safe enough to tell us the truth. Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

    Are We the Problem? Why Children Don't Tell Us About Online Harm | Hidden Safeguarding: What We Don't See
  3. Oct 9

    She Knew What Was Coming. Nobody Saw the Signs | Hidden Safeguarding: Abuse in Older Age

    To anyone watching, it was an ordinary action. But to his wife, it meant something very different. She knew she'd broken a rule. She knew there would be consequences. Yet the professional visiting their home had witnessed this behaviour many times before understanding what it really meant. It poses a serious question - how often are we looking straight at the signs of abuse without recognising them? In this episode of Safeguarding Redefined, Chris East is joined by Carrie Bower, Domestic Abuse in Later Life Specialist, to explore the hidden reality of domestic abuse in older age. Why do we assume an older person has simply fallen? Why are older victims so often overlooked? And how can abuse become so normalised that even those witnessing it fail to recognise the signs? From decades of coercive control and abuse by adult children to financial exploitation and the dangerous assumptions we make about ageing, this conversation challenges us to question what we think we know. Content warning: This episode discusses domestic abuse, coercive control, familial abuse, physical violence and financial exploitation. Connect with Carrie Bower: Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

    She Knew What Was Coming. Nobody Saw the Signs | Hidden Safeguarding: Abuse in Older Age
  4. Sep 25

    She Finally Left. So Why Didn't the Abuse Stop? | Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don't See

    Content warning: This episode discusses domestic abuse, physical violence, coercive control and trauma. "Why didn't she just leave?" It's a question we've all heard, and maybe we've asked ourselves. But what happens when she finally does, and the abuse doesn't stop? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Chris is joined by Charlotte Budd, founder of The Wholeness Project, who shares her experience of domestic abuse and the terrifying reality of life after leaving. From coercive control and financial abuse to ongoing threats and a traumatic battle through the family courts, Charlotte reveals how escaping an abuser doesn't necessarily mean escaping their control. Together, they challenge the victim-blaming attitudes that surround domestic abuse, question whether the systems designed to protect survivors and their children are actually keeping them safe, and explore what schools and safeguarding professionals need to understand about the abuse they don't see. Because leaving an abusive relationship and finally being free from abuse are two very different things. Find out more from Charlotte Budd: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlotte-budd-20221425a/ https://www.thewholenessproject.co.uk/ ---- Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

    She Finally Left. So Why Didn't the Abuse Stop? | Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don't See
  5. Sep 11

    The Secret He Kept for 19 Years: Something to Say | Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don’t See

    Jeremy was eight when the abuse ended. He was 27 before he spoke about it. Not because there was one obvious barrier stopping him. For years, there simply wasn’t a conversation around him that helped him understand that he had something to say. In our second episode of Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don’t See, Chris is joined by child sexual abuse survivor and campaigner Jeremy Indika for a conversation that challenges some of the safeguarding messages we’ve relied on for years. What if abuse doesn’t feel scary? What if a child experiencing it doesn’t look withdrawn or distressed? What if they’re happy, sociable, successful… and nobody suspects a thing? Jeremy didn’t fit the picture we’re often taught to look for. Together, they explore why grooming can feel like warmth, attention or even love. Why there may be no obvious signs. Why telling children to “tell someone” isn’t enough. And why young people need to know what will actually happen if they tell us. Because perhaps we’ve been asking: “How will we know if something is wrong?” When we should be asking: “Have we created an environment where they would tell us?” About Jeremy Jeremy Indika is a male survivor of child sexual abuse who now shares his story in creative and powerful ways to raise awareness and challenge the stigma surrounding abuse. Through film, animation, illustration and speaking directly with children, young people and professionals, Jeremy is helping to create conversations around a subject that can still feel incredibly difficult to talk about. Connect with Jeremy: https://jeremyindika.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/ --- Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/

    The Secret He Kept for 19 Years: Something to Say | Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don’t See
  6. Aug 28

    When Sh!t Gets Real | Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don’t See

    One had 40 minutes to make a decision that would change his life. The other went into hospital expecting routine surgery and woke up with a stoma after doctors discovered a rare form of bowel cancer. For our two guests, Kev and Ferenc, everything changed in ways most of us will never see or fully understand. In this first episode of our ‘Hidden Safeguarding’ series, we're not sanitising any of it. Our guests talk openly about the realities of living with a stoma, the moments that have pushed them to their limits, the humour they've found along the way and what they wish other people understood. Yet this episode is about more than just stomas. It's about the assumptions we make when someone looks ‘fine’ on the outside, but also remembering that the person standing in front of you might be managing something you know absolutely nothing about. Some of the biggest things people are dealing with are the things we can't see. Welcome to Hidden Safeguarding. Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/ Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East

    When Sh!t Gets Real | Hidden Safeguarding: What You Don’t See
  7. Jul 31

    Smartphones Aren't The Problem. We're Fighting the Wrong Battle.

    Everyone seems to be asking how to get young people off their phones. What if we're asking the wrong question? In this episode, we speak to Anne Morris, Founder and CEO of Yipiyap and Peerscroller, about a different approach to digital safeguarding. If young people are already consuming short-form content every day, shouldn't safeguarding meet them where they are? Rather than competing with social media, could we use its strengths to deliver trusted, peer-led content that starts the conversations we all need to have? Together, we explore: Why banning phones alone won't solve the problem The safeguarding topics young people are actively engaging with How schools can identify emerging risks before disclosures happen Whether social media could become part of the safeguarding solution It's a conversation that challenges one of education's biggest assumptions: maybe the issue isn't the phone... it's what's on it. Anne Moris on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amdmorris/ YipiYap LinkedIn page: https://www.linkedin.com/company/yipiyap/ YipiYap website: https://yipiyap.co.uk/ Peerscroller website: https://www.peerscroller.com/ ------ Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/ Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East

  8. Jul 17

    Safeguarding Is Messy: From Compliance to Culture

    Do your staff know your safeguarding policy... or do they know how to think when safeguarding gets messy? In this episode of Safeguarding Redefined, you'll discover why the future of safeguarding isn't about more paperwork or longer training sessions. It's about creating a culture where everyone is thinking, questioning and reflecting every day. Chris is joined by safeguarding expert John Rees to explore how short, realistic safeguarding scenarios can help you build confidence, identify knowledge gaps and keep safeguarding conversations alive long after September's annual training. If you want to build a safeguarding culture, not just demonstrate compliance, this episode is one you won't want to miss. Useful Links:  https://buymeacoffee.com/cornerstonesafeguarding  - Every coffee you buy helps us keep creating practical tools and content for safeguarding professionals like you To find out more about Cornerstone Safeguarding - www.CornerstoneSafeguarding.co.uk  Email us at Cornerstone: info@cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk Book in a meeting to discuss your safeguarding needs:  https://calendar.google.com/calendar/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0ZwllED1_R0eAmzurUNbXW6dk92TtCp9BE8oysOnlPwBl3L2vNEooyvSJ3fQaQBk_q1onKflh4 Subscribe to Cornerstone Connect -  https://cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk/resources/cornerstone-connect-sign-up/ - for fresh safeguarding insights, priority access to support, and exclusive discounts.  Chris East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-east-801496174/ Leah East on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-east-cornerstone/ Producers of this episode: Chris East, Leah East Host of this episode: Chris East

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Welcome to Safeguarding Redefined, a podcast by Cornerstone Safeguarding. We explore everything from child protection to adult safeguarding, with expert guests sharing valuable insights and real-world experience. Every voice matters! If you have a story to share or a question to ask, please let us know. Please note: Some of the topics we’ll be discussing may be sensitive in nature and may trigger strong emotions. Follow Cornerstone Safeguarding on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/102020259 Or visit https://www.cornerstonesafeguarding.co.uk for more info about who we are

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