Not What I Planned

Lamisha Serf-Walls
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You had a plan. Life had other ideas.Not What I Planned is what happens next — the pivot you didn't see coming, the version of you that fell apart, the one that showed up instead. Sometimes the detour wrecks you before it hands you something better than anything you could've imagined. Either way, nobody warns you that becoming yourself would feel like this. Messy, uncertain & wilding uncomfortable. This is a show about taking the next step before you have all the answers — because waiting for clarity is just another way of staying stuck. If your life looks nothing like the one you planned, good. You're exactly who this show is for. Join Lamisha on her own journey of finding out what happens when things don't go as planned.

  1. 1d ago

    The In-Between Space- Part 1

    The in-between space is that uncomfortable feeling when you know you've outgrown the version of you that you were before and the "new" you has yet to emerge. It's an often cloudy space that feels confusing, frustrating and pretty foggy at times. It's a space that Lamisha knows well so she's decided to begin a series where she pops in every now and then to simply share how she's coping in the in-between and what she's doing that is working. So sit back, relax and listen to another real talk episode where Lamisha shares her personal experiences in the in-between so far. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

  2. Oct 15

    Ep. 5 Breakthrough Happens on a Random Tuesday

    Too often we think that the "breakthrough" moment we're waiting for comes in these big, elaborate moments that we can almost predict and when we don't see the signs leading to the breakthrough, we must not be close. Or we think it's going to take a really long time to get to the breakthrough based on where we think we are in the moment. But what if our breakthrough happens on a random Tuesday and we don't even know we're in it because it's such a normal life moment? Tune in to hear Lamisha riff on these seemingly normal breakthrough moments and what it means for you when things don't go as planned. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

  3. Oct 8

    Ep. 4 Not Supposed To Know

    In today's episode, Lamisha shares the thought..."What if were not supposed to know?" What if? What if that's the whole point of our evolution, expansion and forward momentum. It seems we're all stepping into a new world individually and collectively and what if for it to actually be "new" we can't know what to expect or how it will unfold. What if our job is simply to "be" in the unknowing as it all unfolds? What if? Listen in to hear how Lamisha dives into the unknown and makes peace with the unknown. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

  4. Oct 1

    Ep. 3 When 'control' is the plan -

    When things fall apart, what if it's not about the plan at all? What if it's about hanging on a little too tightly to the outcome? In this episode, Lamisha unpacks her recent aha moment about what's really been causing stress around, well everything over the last 18 months and it has absolutely nothing to do with the 'plan'. Tune in to get the full scoop & hear how she's turning this aha moment into a permission slip to living life differently. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

  5. Sep 24

    Ep. 2 Waiting isn't Walking

    Join Lamisha as she shares her experience over the last 18 months of waiting, watching & hoping for a sign. Knowing that change was brewing she found herself waiting for the breakthrough that would take her from one chapter to the next, only...it never came. In this episode, she's getting honest about the highs and lows of waiting and her realization that "waiting" isn't the same thing as walking forward...into the unknown, one step at a time. For those who are waiting for the answers that seem to never come...this episode is for you. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

  6. Sep 17

    Not What I Planned- Ep. 1 Origin Story

    Welcome to the Not What I Planned podcast. A podcast journey about what happens when life doesn't go as planned. It's so cute how we all have these grand ideas about how life, love and the pursuit of happiness is going to go. We map out our 'plan', start checking off boxes and executing the plan until things get all topsy turvy. Thinking something has gone "wrong" we try desperately to get back on track only to find that is often a futile effort. Listen, I'll be the first to tell you I love a good plan with check boxes and the whole nine. But I've also been around long enough to know that sometimes things not going as planned is the BEST thing that can happen to us. So, join me (Lamisha Serf-Walls) as I share my journey of what happens when things don't go as planned. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

  7. Sep 3

    Life Update & News

    After taking an unexpected summer sabbatical from the podcast, Lamisha is back with a massive life update & some news about what to expect moving forward. Needless to say change is on the horizon & there's something new brewing behind the scenes to listen in to find out more. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

    Life Update & News

  8. Jun 4

    Life- What's it all about

    If you've ever stopped to ask yourself "What's the point of all this?" You're not alone. I think a lot of us are looking at our lives and having some pretty deep questions about what we're doing and more importantly why. In today's episode, Lamisha shares her thoughts on what this thing called life is all about and why she thinks more people are asking the bigger, deeper questions. Is this episode going to answer all the lingering questions you have about life? Likely not, but it will hopefully give you a perspective shift that you may or may not know you need right now. Listen in and feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below. If this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way. 📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com ⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think. 📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook, Instagram 💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. ☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ Join the VIP list for bonus content.

    Life- What's it all about
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You had a plan. Life had other ideas.Not What I Planned is what happens next — the pivot you didn't see coming, the version of you that fell apart, the one that showed up instead. Sometimes the detour wrecks you before it hands you something better than anything you could've imagined. Either way, nobody warns you that becoming yourself would feel like this. Messy, uncertain & wilding uncomfortable. This is a show about taking the next step before you have all the answers — because waiting for clarity is just another way of staying stuck. If your life looks nothing like the one you planned, good. You're exactly who this show is for. Join Lamisha on her own journey of finding out what happens when things don't go as planned.

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  • Creator
    Lamisha Serf-Walls
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    82
  • Rating
    Explicit
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