Dont Make Me Call Her

Grace Lam
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Society & Culture
  • Updated Weekly

What can a former VOGUE fashion editor talk about? Fashion? Nah—way more! Welcome to DON’T MAKE ME CALL HER, the podcast reviving the lost art of real conversations. Be ready for candid, unfiltered chats about life, G-ninja training, self-help tips, culture, parenting, F1 and everything in between. Expect sweary humour, surprises, and even Cantonese slang lessons. Tune in every Wednesday for authentic stories that are as relatable as they are hilarious. Follow, subscribe, rate and share with a friend. Instagram/TikTok: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle

  1. 1d ago

    Where Are You Actually From Karen?

    This week we return to our favourite format: Two nobodies, zero plan, whatever's on our minds. First up a big shout-out to our 14 loyal listeners, who show up every Wednesday for reasons we genuinely cannot explain and frankly don't deserve. Then we get into why "where are you from?" has somehow become a very loaded question and why an entire generation now watches live concerts exclusively through a 6-inch phone screen instead of, you know, being there. As always: no research, no filter, mostly just vibes. Thanks for tuning in again — whoever you 14 are. Keep It Real People! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get intoit. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou.  If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

  2. Aug 25

    Is Ringing Someone Considered A Crime?

    We eavesdropped on our teen's phone call recently, purely for research purposes, and came away with more questions than answers. No time was agreed. No location was mentioned. At no point did anyone say a full sentence. And yet, apparently, plans were made. This week we take a good hard look at how younger generation communicate, compare to the Gen X and Boomer approach and try to work out how an entire generation became fluent in vibes but not in venues. Along the way: the quiet epidemic of loneliness hiding behind 900 online friends, and why answering an unscheduled phone call is now considered a hate crime. Kettle on. This one requires many cuppa tea. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle/ @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube.Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! ThankYou.  If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagramfollowers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in yourdilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our uselessadvice.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

  3. Aug 18

    How To Turn A Small Problem Into A Disaster?

    This week on Don't Make Me Call Her podcast, We are running an unofficial masterclass in one of Grace's most well-practiced skills: taking a completely minor inconvenience and turning it into a full-blown disaster, entirely inside her own head. Dramatic much Grace Lam? We break down the actual psychology behind it because apparently this isn't just Grace being dramatic, experts narrow it down to childhood, trauma, genetics, the whole catalogue — we get into where this pattern actually comes from. Jason, as always, remains baffled by how quickly Grace can go from "0 to 1000000000" without any warning. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.  If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

  4. Aug 11

    What A F****g Shit Show!

    This week on Don't Make Me Call Her, we ditched the structure entirely and just fired random questions at each other because we can. No theme, no notes, pure vibes. Topics include: modern dating etiquette, AI boyfriends and girlfriends, mean boss behaviour and what happens at Cannes Film Festival doesn't stay at Cannes. Oh — and there's a special "inchident." You'll just have to listen and find out. Zero structure, lotza chaos, exactly the energy you didn't know you needed today. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.  If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

  5. Aug 4

    What's It Like Sleeping With Grace Lam?

    This week on Don't Make Me Call Her, we're pulling back the curtain on what it's actually like sharing a bed with me — and no, we are not getting into the spicy stuff, nobody needs that mental image. Instead, Jason is finally airing every annoying bed habit he's been quietly cataloguing for years, and I am, unfortunately, fighting back with receipts of my own. Covers get stolen. Someone talks too much right when the lights go off. Who breathes too loud at night? We're naming and shaming, keeping score, and finding out once and for all who's actually the worse person to share a mattress with. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.  If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠⁠

  6. Jul 28

    Rules We Made Up, Follow Them!

    This week on Don't Make Me Call Her, Grace and Jason lay down the modern survival guide nobody asked for but everybody needs. First up: how to dodge scammers by essentially becoming your own personal FBI field agent — trust no one, verify everything, treat every unexpected text like a national security threat. Then it's an intervention on emoji dependency because apparently a carrot, an apple or a lemon emoji shouldn't be an official grocery shopping list. Finally, the Gen X dilemma: what do you do when an unknown number calls? Grace has thoughts. Strong, borderline unhinged thoughts. Jason, as always, suggests the reasonable option. Grace does not take it. Modern life doesn't come with a manual, so consider this the unofficial one — written by two people who are absolutely not qualified to write it, and doing it anyway. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.  If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

  7. Jul 21

    Fxck Ageism!

    This week on Don't Make Me Call Her, Grace and Jason tackle ageism — or as Grace calls it, the moment society decides you've expired like a carton of milk, except milk doesn't come with 20 years of experience and better judgment. Somewhere between "overqualified" and "not a culture fit," an entire generation quietly got filed under "no longer relevant," and nobody even had the decency to say it to their face. The two get into it — the very specific flavour of ageism that hits women a decade before it hits men, and why "seasoned" apparently means something different depending on gender. Quite frankly Gen X are saying 'We are too old for this shit! Period!' New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it. If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.  Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

  8. Jul 14

    Grill Me Like Yakitorie (BBQ)

    This week Jason puts Grace in the hot seat, grilling her with listener questions — most of which boil down to some version of "how do I become as fierce as you?" Grace tells it how it is with no filter, no PR training, no agent whispering in her ear to be more likeable. We get into the actual logistics of clapping back. Jason, meanwhile, plays the calm one, gently suggesting that maybe not every interaction requires a Chinatown-level response. If you've ever replayed an argument in the shower four hours later and thought of the perfect comeback way too late, this episode is basically a public service. For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out! DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You.  New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it. Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats  @gracelamstyle  @jasoncapobiancophotography TikTok:  @dontmakemecallher  @gracelamstyle Hosts:  Grace Lam and Jason Capobianco Produced by Herrrooo Production Music by Lindsay Lai  ⁠⁠www.lindsaylai.com⁠⁠

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What can a former VOGUE fashion editor talk about? Fashion? Nah—way more! Welcome to DON’T MAKE ME CALL HER, the podcast reviving the lost art of real conversations. Be ready for candid, unfiltered chats about life, G-ninja training, self-help tips, culture, parenting, F1 and everything in between. Expect sweary humour, surprises, and even Cantonese slang lessons. Tune in every Wednesday for authentic stories that are as relatable as they are hilarious. Follow, subscribe, rate and share with a friend. Instagram/TikTok: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle

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  • Creator
    Grace Lam
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    37
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Grace Lam
  • Show Website
    Dont Make Me Call Her

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