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Real women doing real life with a real God! Join the Pretty & Wise Collective as they deep dive into your relationship with Jesus, have heart to heart conversations, share some laughs and stories, and help you connect to the heart of God.

  1. 4d ago

    The Faith They’ll Carry: Building a Legacy in Everyday Motherhood | Wendy Lynne Smith

    What kind of faith are we actually passing on to our kids? In this episode of She Is His, Lyndsay sits down with writer, speaker, teacher, and mom Wendy Lynne Smith for a conversation about building a legacy of faith in the middle of ordinary motherhood. Together, they talk about the small, everyday moments that shape our kids more than we realize: reading Scripture together, creating family traditions, opening our homes, choosing encouragement, apologizing when we get it wrong, modeling forgiveness, and simply making time to enjoy the people God has placed in front of us. Wendy also shares the powerful story of a journal she bought for her adopted daughter before she ever came home—a journal that years later became a way to remind her daughter of God’s hand on her life, her identity, her belonging, and the truth that she is deeply loved and chosen.  This conversation is especially for the mom who feels tired, busy, stretched thin, or worried she isn’t doing enough. Legacy doesn’t require a perfect home, a platform, or elaborate family discipleship plans. Often, it is built quietly—around the dinner table, in five-minute conversations, in shared work, in laughter, in repentance, and in the consistent message: I love you. I see you. I enjoy being with you. And Jesus is at the center of our home. Wendy describes this kind of influence as a “whisper quiet legacy”—the kind built through ordinary moments like cooking, gardening, playing games, creating together, and simply being present.  In this episode: Building a legacy of faith in ordinary family rhythmsWhy the small moments often become the memories our kids carryHelping children develop a faith of their ownReading Scripture together without making family discipleship complicatedCreating traditions that communicate belonging and loveWendy’s adoption story and the journal she created for her daughterWhat adoption can teach us about belonging in the family of GodEncouragement for working moms who feel like they only have small pockets of timeLetting your children see you work with joy and purposeChanging your attitude when motherhood feels exhaustingWhy your kids need to see you apologizeModeling forgiveness, repentance, and reconciliationWhat to do when you’ve pursued reconciliation but the other person isn’t willingBuilding gratitude, laughter, and joy into the culture of your homeWhy you don’t need a platform to leave a meaningful legacyOne of our favorite takeaways from Wendy: “Faith becomes a legacy when God is at the center of your home.”  Connect with Wendy Lynne Smith Wendy encourages listeners to connect with her through her website, blog, Facebook page, and Instagram.  Website + Blog:⁠https://wendylynnesmith.com⁠ Facebook:⁠https://www.facebook.com/WendyLynneSmith⁠ Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/wendylynnesmith_/⁠ Wendy’s writing has also been featured with organizations including Guideposts, Focus on the Family, and Keys for Kids.  Scriptures discussed: Ephesians 1:4–5 — Chosen and adopted through Jesus ChristActs 17 — God determines the times and places in which we liveRomans 12:18 — “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”Colossians 3:23 — Doing our work wholeheartedly as unto the Lord Connect with Pretty & Wise The Pretty & Wise Co. exists to encourage women to passionately pursue Christ, confidently live out biblical truth, and intentionally disciple the women around them. Website:⁠https://prettyandwise.com⁠ Follow She Is His wherever you listen to podcasts, and share this episode with a mom who needs the reminder that the ordinary things she is doing today may become part of the faith her children carry tomorrow.

    The Faith They’ll Carry: Building a Legacy in Everyday Motherhood | Wendy Lynne Smith
  2. Oct 16

    How to Build a Home That Feels Like Peace: Caring for the Soul of Your Family with Rob & Joanna Teigen

    What makes a home feel like home? Not just a place where everyone lives, eats, sleeps, and keeps the calendar moving—but a place where your spouse and your kids feel safe, known, loved, and at peace? This week, Lyndsay sits down with Rob and Joanna Teigen of Growing Home Together for an incredibly practical, honest conversation about marriage, parenting, and caring for the soul of your family. Rob and Joanna share wisdom from more than three decades of marriage and raising five children, including what they’ve learned about fighting their way back to connection when marriage starts feeling more like a business partnership, navigating differences without resentment, having hard conversations well, apologizing specifically, and knowing when it’s time to invite outside support into your marriage. They also talk about the kind of home we’re creating for our children. How do we build a family culture rooted in unconditional love rather than performance? How do we make room for laughter, fun, conversation, prayer, and connection in the middle of very full lives? And how do we create a home our children will still want to come back to when they’re grown? This conversation is full of simple, doable encouragement—put the date on the calendar, ask a better question, give the longer hug, play the game, eat ice cream before dinner, say the specific apology, put down the phone, pray for your people, and keep choosing each other. Because a peaceful home isn’t a perfect home. It’s a home where we lead with love, believe the best in one another, and let God shape the way we love the people He has entrusted to us. CONNECT WITH ROB + JOANNA Growing Home Together Website Shop Rob + Joanna’s Books & Family Resources Growing Home Together Podcast Instagram — @growinghometogether Facebook — Growing Home Together YouTube — Growing Home Together RESOURCES FROM ROB + JOANNA MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE 📖 88 Great Daddy-Daughter DatesThe book that helped launch Rob and Joanna’s writing journey, filled with simple ways for dads and daughters to spend meaningful one-on-one time together. 88 Great Daddy-Daughter Dates 💬 Conversation Starters for CouplesRob and Joanna talked about using simple questions to break out of “business partner mode” and create deeper, more intentional conversations. 88 Great Conversation Starters for Husbands and Wives 🙏 Prayer Resources for ParentsLooking for help praying specifically and intentionally for your kids? Rob and Joanna have created prayer resources for parents of both sons and daughters. Powerful Prayers for Your Son + Daughter 🙏 Free 30-Day Prayer JourneyReceive short, Scripture-rooted prayers for marriage, parenting, stress, forgiveness, fear, and everyday family life. Join the Free 30-Day Prayer Journey 😂 Laugh-Out-Loud Jokes for KidsRob is also the author behind the hugely popular clean-joke series for kids mentioned at the beginning of the episode. Laugh-Out-Loud Jokes for Kids OTHER RESOURCES + PEOPLE MENTIONED ❤️ The 5 Love Languages — Dr. Gary ChapmanGary Chapman and The 5 Love Languages came up during the conversation about learning how to communicate, encourage, and care for your spouse well. The Official 5 Love Languages Website 💍 Mark + Jill SavageRob and Joanna referenced marriage teachers Mark and Jill Savage while talking about the power of slowing down and giving your spouse your full attention—even through something as simple as a real, lingering hug. Marriage Resources from Mark + Jill Savage ABOUT GROWING HOME TOGETHER Growing Home Together exists to help families grow closer to God and to one another through practical encouragement for marriage, parenting, prayer, faith, connection, and family life. If this conversation encouraged you, send it to a friend, share it with your spouse, and take one small step this week toward caring for the soul of your family.

    How to Build a Home That Feels Like Peace: Caring for the Soul of Your Family with Rob & Joanna Teigen
  3. Oct 2

    The Relationships We're Missing: Why Women Need Women Across Generations

    What if some of the relationships we need most are already sitting a few rows away from us at church? In this episode of She Is His, Lyndsay sits down with Leslie Schonfeld of Dragonfly Ministry for a conversation about the relationships we’re missing when we stay inside our own generation. Leslie shares how simple acts of noticing, listening, remembering someone’s name, and making space for curiosity can grow into the kind of intergenerational relationships that shape our faith and our lives. Together, they talk about why mentorship doesn’t have to begin with a formal church program, how technology and cultural shifts have widened the gap between generations, and what it looks like to build trust with women whose experiences may look very different from our own. They also unpack how different generations communicate, why Gen Z especially needs safe places to ask hard questions without fear of judgment, and how we can hold tightly to truth while still protecting relationship. Leslie offers practical wisdom for listening well, asking better questions, creating margin for real connection, and becoming the kind of woman who notices the people around her. Because the body of Christ was never meant to be divided by age—and both younger and older women have something deeply valuable to give one another. If you’ve ever wished for a big sister in the faith, wondered how to connect with a younger woman, or felt unsure how to bridge the generational divide, this conversation will give you a place to start. Action Items: + Start with a simple hello to someone from another generation + Practice reflective listening in conversations + Share your story to build trust and connection + Invite someone older or younger for coffee or a walk Featuring: Leslie Schonfeld, author, speaker, mentor, Family Life Pastor, and founder of Dragonfly Ministry Resources: When God Transforms Your Broken Story Follow Leslie: Website - dragonflyministry.com Facebook - Leslie Schoenfeld, speaker author, founder Dragonfly Ministry Instagram - @Lesscho

    The Relationships We're Missing: Why Women Need Women Across Generations
  4. Sep 18

    How to Make Your Faith Your Own: Staying Rooted in College with Elaiyna Hope

    What happens when the faith you grew up around suddenly has to become the faith you choose for yourself? Whether you’re stepping onto a college campus, moving into adulthood, encountering ideas that challenge what you believe, or simply realizing, I don’t want to believe this just because my parents told me to—this conversation is for you. In this episode of She Is His, Lyndsay sits down with author, speaker, and young women’s mentor Elaiyna Hope for an honest, practical conversation about developing a faith that can withstand questions, cultural pressure, disappointment, doubt, and independence. Elaiyna shares how her own faith became personal—not through one dramatic moment, but through repeated choices to trust what she knew to be true about God even when her circumstances and emotions told her something different. Together, Lyndsay and Elaiyna talk about: the difference between your parents’ spiritual training and your own personal faithhow to choose a healthy, biblically grounded church when you leave homemoving beyond Christian culture into an actual relationship with Jesuswhy Christian community and deep sisterhood matter so muchforming biblical convictions instead of simply borrowing someone else’swhat to do when someone challenges your beliefs and you don’t know the answerwhy saying “I don’t know—but I’m going to find out” can actually open doors for meaningful conversationswrestling with questions and doubts without assuming your faith is falling aparthow to tell whether you’re genuinely searching for truth or searching Scripture for a loopholetrusting God through heartbreak, disappointment, unanswered prayer, and painful seasonspractical rhythms that help keep your faith rootedmoving from consuming Christian content to actually studying Scripture for yourselfhow moms can disciple their daughters without reducing Christianity to behavior managementcreating homes where children are free to ask hard questions while still being taught biblical truthElaiyna also shares the story behind her devotional book Felt That: A Search for Relational Honesty and Truth Amidst Emotional Clutter and Social Chaos, a collection born from her own middle and high school experiences. Designed for individual or group study, Felt That encourages girls to move beyond surface-level relationships and become honest with God, themselves, and one another. If you’re questioning what you believe, remember this: Don’t confuse questions with conclusions. You’re allowed to wrestle. You’re allowed to admit you don’t understand. You’re allowed to ask hard questions. But keep seeking truth. Keep opening your Bible. Keep bringing your heart to Jesus. A faith that has been examined and wrestled with can become stronger—not weaker—through the testing. Mentioned in This Episode Connect with Elaiyna HopeWebsite: elaiynahope.comInstagram: @elaiynahope Read Felt That: A Search for Relational Honesty and Truth Amidst Emotional Clutter and Social Chaos by Elaiyna Hope Firefly with Elaiyna HopeFirefly is Elaiyna’s one-night women’s event featuring acoustic worship, biblical teaching, intentional community, and a spiritual reset centered around the question: Are you shining effective Kingdom light? Churches interested in hosting a Firefly event can contact Elaiyna through her website. Read Elaiyna on the Pretty & Wise BlogThe Whole “Church” Thing: A College Girl’s Guide to Protecting Your Faith Wonder App by Revive Our Hearts + True Girl True Girl with Dannah Gresh TheosU Scriptures Mentioned Psalm 46:10  Galatians 6:9  Revelation 12:11  About Elaiyna Hope Elaiyna Hope is an author, speaker, ministry student, and mentor passionate about helping the next generation of girls know Jesus deeply and develop a faith that is genuinely their own. She has served with True Girl, mentors teen girls through the Wonder App by Revive Our Hearts, leads young adult women in her local church, and travels to churches with her Firefly women’s events.

    How to Make Your Faith Your Own: Staying Rooted in College with Elaiyna Hope
  5. Sep 4

    When God Doesn't Give You the Good Thing | Heather LaVigne

    What happens when the thing you’re asking God for is good—and He still doesn’t give it to you? In this deeply honest conversation, Lyndsay and Lori sit down with author Heather LaVigne to talk about infertility, miscarriage, unanswered prayer, disappointment with God, and what it looks like to keep trusting Him when your story doesn’t unfold the way you believed it would. Heather shares her own journey through years of infertility, IVF, pregnancy loss, endometriosis, and the spiritual wrestling that followed. There were seasons when she still believed the truth about God intellectually but felt completely numb toward Him emotionally—when opening her Bible felt impossible and the goodness of God felt much harder to believe than it once had. We talk about what helped bring her back. Not easy answers. Not Christian clichés. Not rushing through grief. Community. Women who sat with her. Friends who prayed when she couldn’t pray. People who read Scripture over her when she couldn’t bring herself to read it. And a God who remained trustworthy even when Heather couldn’t understand what He was doing. We also talk about how the Church can better care for women experiencing infertility and pregnancy loss, why grief shouldn’t be rushed, how suffering can expose the places where our theology needs to deepen, and the difference between God giving us the thing we desperately want and God doing something even deeper within our hearts. If you’ve ever prayed for something good—a baby, a marriage, healing, restoration, a dream, an open door—and wondered why God hasn’t answered the way you hoped, this conversation is for you. IN THIS EPISODE:• Infertility, IVF, endometriosis & pregnancy loss• Wrestling with God after unanswered prayer• Lament and making room for grief• Supporting a friend through miscarriage or infertility• Finding God when you feel spiritually numb• Trusting God’s character when you don’t understand His plan• Biblical women who experienced barrenness, waiting & loss• Allowing our broken places to become places God uses RESOURCES + LINKS 📖 Barren: A Shared Journey of Infertility, Loss, and Faith — Heather LaVigneAmazon: https://a.co/d/02S2hukR 🤍 Circle of HopeA nationwide virtual support group for women walking through infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, and related grief. Heather serves as a facilitator/moderator.https://www.twelve12ministries.org/circleofhope 📖 The Broken Way — Ann VoskampHeather’s answer to the question, “What is one book besides the Bible every woman should read?”https://annvoskamp.com/thebrokenway/ CONNECT WITH HEATHER Website: https://heatherlavigneauthor.comInstagram: @heatherlavigneauthorFacebook: Heather LaVigne SCRIPTURES & BIBLICAL STORIES MENTIONED Psalm 33:9James 4:7Revelation 12:11Luke 1 — ElizabethGenesis — Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel & Hagar1 Samuel 1 — HannahRuthJohn 6:68 — “Lord, to whom shall we go?” CONNECT WITH PRETTY & WISE + SHE IS HIS More encouragement, articles, resources, events, and podcast episodes:https://www.prettyandwise.com Follow along on social media and make sure you follow She Is His on Spotify so you don’t miss the next conversation.

    When God Doesn't Give You the Good Thing | Heather LaVigne
  6. Aug 21

    When You Don't Want to Forgive with Rebekah Storey

    Some wounds are so deep that forgiveness doesn't feel possible. In this honest conversation, Lyndsay sits down with mentor and speaker Rebekah Storey to talk about the reality of forgiving when your heart simply doesn't want to. Together they unpack the misconceptions many Christians have about forgiveness, why unresolved hurt quietly steals our joy, and how God gently leads us toward freedom—one step at a time. Rebekah shares her own powerful story of learning to forgive her father, the simple prayer that became the turning point in her healing, and practical, biblical encouragement for anyone carrying anger, bitterness, or pain. If you've ever wondered, "How do I forgive someone who hurt me so badly?" this episode is for you. In this episode you'll discover: • Why forgiveness is a choice—not a feeling • The difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and healthy boundaries • How unresolved hurt can affect your spiritual life, anxiety, and burnout • A simple prayer that can begin your healing journey today • Practical first steps toward lasting freedom in Christ No matter how impossible forgiveness may seem, Jesus never asks us to walk the road alone. Freedom is possible—and it begins one surrendered step at a time. Links Mentioned in This Episode Website - www.rebekahstorey.com Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/rebekah.storey.2025 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rebekahstorey Mom's Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/1035691729024323

    When You Don't Want to Forgive with Rebekah Storey
  7. Aug 7

    When God Writes a Different Story: Finding Your Identity in Every Season with Ashley Higgins

    Life rarely unfolds the way we imagined. For Ashley Higgins, the journey has included military deployments, PTSD, infertility, foster care, adoption, countless moves, and ultimately discovering that God's plans are often far better than the ones we write for ourselves. In this deeply encouraging conversation, Ashley shares how seasons of disappointment, waiting, and uncertainty became the very places where God revealed His faithfulness. Together, we explore what it means to find your identity in Christ when life takes unexpected turns, how to surrender the dreams and expectations you've held tightly, and why knowing God's Word is essential to remaining anchored when everything around you changes. Whether you're navigating infertility, grief, loneliness, a major life transition, or simply wondering what God is doing in your current season, Ashley's story will remind you that your circumstances do not define you—God does. God may write a different story than the one you planned, but His story is always good. ✨ In This Episode:• Finding your identity in Christ through life's changing seasons• Navigating infertility, foster care, adoption, and motherhood• Trusting God when life doesn't go according to plan• Why biblical literacy matters for a strong faith• Surrendering expectations and embracing God's faithfulness• Learning to thrive through seasons of uncertainty and transition 📚 Resources Mentioned:• From Gardens to Glory by Courtney Doctor• The Bible Recap by Tara-Leigh Cobble• Bible Project: bibleproject.com • Ashley's P&W Article 🌿 Connect with Ashley:• Website & Blog: ashleymhiggins.com• Identity Quiz: ashleymhiggins.com/identity-quiz• Instagram: @ashhiggins7• Facebook: @ashley.higgins913 🎙️ If this episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who needs the reminder that even in unexpected seasons, God is faithful and your identity is secure in Him.

    When God Writes a Different Story: Finding Your Identity in Every Season with Ashley Higgins
  8. Jul 24

    Recognizing God in the Wilderness with Nan Jones

    Have you ever walked through a season where you wondered, God, where are You? In this deeply encouraging conversation, author, Bible teacher, and longtime pastor's wife Nan Jones shares how God faithfully met her in the darkest seasons of her life—including devastating loss, ministry heartbreak, the suicide of her brother, the death of her parents, and caring for her husband through frontotemporal dementia. Together we talk about: • Why God's promises sometimes take years (or decades) to unfold• Trusting God's timing when you're stuck in the waiting• How suffering becomes the place where we truly come to know God• What it means to recognize God's presence in difficult places• The beauty of shepherding others wherever God has placed you• Why your calling is bigger than a title or platform• Letting go of performance and learning to simply stay close to Jesus• Forgiveness, restoration, and God's healing work in broken relationships• The faithfulness of God in seasons that make no sense• Why the wilderness is often where our deepest roots of faith are formed If you've ever felt abandoned, overwhelmed, or wondered if God still sees you, this conversation will remind you that He has never left—and He is still faithfully drawing near. Connect with Nan Jones: 🌿 Website & Weekly Blog:https://www.nanjones.com 📖 Books:• The Offering: How to Emerge from Shattered Faith• The Perils of a Pastor's WifeAvailable on Amazon or directly from Nan's website (autographed copies available). 📘 Facebook:Nan Trammell Jones 🤍 Join the Alabaster Girls Community:A private Facebook community for women featuring:• Daily prayer• Monthly topical Bible studies• Scripture reflections• Encouragement and authentic Christian community 📧 Contact Nan:nan@nanjones.com 📱 Also find Nan on Instagram and X (Twitter), though she is most active on Facebook. Connect with Pretty & Wise: 🌐 Website:https://www.prettyandwise.com 📸 Instagram & Facebook:@prettyandwiseco If today's episode encouraged you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who may need this reminder: God has not abandoned you in the wilderness. He is already there, faithfully walking beside you.

    Recognizing God in the Wilderness with Nan Jones
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