Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

  1. 3D AGO

    Compersion Isn't Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy

    Compersion Isn't Automatic — And That's Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it's a requirement, sometimes like it's a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn't come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to "do non-monogamy right." This is a raw, honest conversation pulled straight from real life — no scripts, no coaching language, and no pretending it's always easy. Pris opens up about why compersion doesn't come naturally to her, how cultural upbringing and jealousy wiring play a role, and why being okay is sometimes the best she can offer in the moment. Adam shares what it feels like to want to share excitement and connection with your partner — and what happens when that moment doesn't land the way you expected. What We Talk About In This Episode What compersion actually means (and why it's not the opposite of jealousy) Why compersion is not natural for everyone Jealousy, possessiveness, and territorial instincts in non-monogamy The pressure to perform happiness for your partner How ADHD, stress, and mental overload affect emotional presence Why not talking can be more damaging than feeling jealous Different processing styles between partners Learning to communicate without shutting down Why compromise matters more than emotional perfection Real-Life Moments, Not Theory This episode is sparked by a real play-date experience that went well — but didn't get talked about right away. Adam and Pris unpack why timing, mental space, and communication matter just as much as intentions. If you've ever felt like you were failing at non-monogamy because jealousy showed up instead of compersion, this conversation will feel very familiar. The Takeaway You do not need to feel compersion to be successful in ethical non-monogamy. You do need honesty, self-awareness, communication, and respect for each other's boundaries. This episode is a reminder that non-monogamy isn't about checking emotional boxes — it's about navigating real human feelings together. Connect With Beyond Monogamy Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com for: Upcoming events and meetups Beyond Monogamy merchandise The anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Blog posts and episode breakdowns You can also hear us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. If this episode resonated, please subscribe, rate, review, and share the show — it helps us grow and keeps these conversations going.

    37 min

  2. 6D AGO

    Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley & Rob)

    Episode Summary: In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exists even in sex-positive spaces, and why honest communication matters more than labels. Ashley shares how Rob came out early in their relationship and why that honesty laid the foundation for trust instead of fear. Rob opens up about navigating bisexuality as a man in the lifestyle, why bi men often stay invisible, and how judgment — not desire — keeps people silent. This episode tackles myths, insecurities, and real-world experiences around mixed-orientation relationships, consent, and boundaries. It's honest, supportive, and exactly the kind of conversation the lifestyle needs more of. In this episode, we discuss: How Ashley & Rob entered the swinging lifestyle Why bi men still face stigma in sex-positive communities The myth that "bi men are rare" Why visibility doesn't always mean being out publicly Consent, boundaries, and debunking harmful assumptions Supporting a bisexual partner without fear or control Why community matters when you feel isolated Guest: Ashley & Rob – United Bi Swinging Podcast Connect with Beyond Monogamy: Website & Events: www.beyond-monogamy.com Streaming on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Follow us: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u X: @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy Please rate, review, and share the show. It helps these conversations reach the people who need them most.

    59 min

  3. 12/24/2025

    Busy Isn't Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle Etiquette

    In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as "being ghosted." Just because someone doesn't reply immediately doesn't mean they disappeared — it usually means they're busy living a real life. This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping, and a crash course in what not to do when talking to people in the lifestyle. We break down: The difference between being busy and actual ghosting Why patience is sexy and entitlement is not How lifestyle etiquette gets thrown out the window in DMs Why visibility does not equal availability Respecting boundaries without killing the vibe How pushiness quietly ruins attraction If you've ever thought "Why haven't they responded yet?" — this episode is for you. Take a breath, slow your roll, and remember that confidence, respect, and patience are what actually make connections last. Find everything Beyond Monogamy at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Check out our Events tab to see where we'll be in 2025 and 2026, stream us on FullSwapRadio.com, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review.

    28 min

  4. 12/21/2025

    Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle

    Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it's really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle. Rae shares how she stumbled into the lifestyle, why she immediately felt at home, and how her journey as a content creator naturally overlaps with ethical non-monogamy. We dig into monetization in the lifestyle, why "free access" entitlement is a red flag, and how communication (especially for women) makes sex exponentially better. Recorded live at Club Eden San Antonio, this episode is funny, sexy, validating, and full of real talk you won't hear anywhere else. Show Notes Meeting Rae and why she fit right in immediately Being new to the lifestyle as a single bi woman Cosplay, anime cats, and content creation beginnings OnlyFans, boundaries, and monetization in the lifestyle Entitlement culture and why it doesn't belong here Hypersexuality, gooning, and finding your people Why communication makes sex better (especially for women) Feeling safe at lifestyle events and clubs Why content creators absolutely belong in non-monogamy Guest Info Rae Crush is a content creator, cosplayer, and lifestyle unicorn known for her playful anime-inspired looks, authenticity, and zero-BS honesty. Find Rae here: https://raecrush.carrd.co About Beyond Monogamy Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris explores real conversations around consensual non-monogamy, swinging, lifestyle dynamics, sex positivity, and connection — without the fluff or judgment. Website & extras: www.beyond-monogamy.com Hear us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST. If you enjoyed this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on your favorite platform.

    37 min

  5. 12/17/2025

    Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild Night

    In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio. From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into the ultimate reminder of why we love this lifestyle. We talk about: Hosting our first Beyond Monogamy meet & greet at a lifestyle club Recording a podcast inside Club Eden before doors opened Being lifestylers who also create adult content — without being salesy Entitlement, authenticity, and monetizing the lifestyle How one play session turned into a full-blown multi-person orgy Why comfort, trust, and connection matter more than labels Overcoming anxiety as hosts and fully leaning into the night This episode is raw, funny, sexy, chaotic, and honest — exactly what a Wednesday QUICKIE should be. If you've ever wondered what happens when podcast hosts, content creators, and lifestyle friends collide at a club… this one's for you. Want to see us in person? We've already posted the first half of our 2026 events calendar. Find everything Beyond Monogamy at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Don't forget to check out our Events tab, Confessionals, blog posts, merch, and all the juicy extras. Streaming every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 2 PM & 7 PM Central. Support the show: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy

    35 min

  6. 12/14/2025

    The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom

    SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, and consent was just starting to evolve. From key clubs and the dawn of "no-fault" divorce to the lessons that still apply to modern swingers, Sam's stories remind us how much the world has changed — and how much it really hasn't. We talk about jealousy, connection, freedom, communication, and how couples can keep their spark alive even decades later. This one's a fun, flirty, and eye-opening history lesson for anyone exploring non-monogamy today. Sam's humor and honesty prove that freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile. SHOW NOTES Guest: Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances Topics covered: The sexual revolution and how "key clubs" started it all How couples handled jealousy and boundaries before "rules" existed What freedom meant for women in the 60s and 70s — and what's at stake today Why communication and consent still make or break connection How to keep date nights, desire, and humor alive — even after 60+ years of marriage Favorite quote from Sam: "Freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile." 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! And don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — it helps us grow and keep bringing real conversations like this your way. 📣 JOIN THE BEYOND MONOGAMY COMMUNITY 💻 Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 🎙️ Stream us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 📬 Share your stories (anonymous or not) in the Beyond Monogamy Confessional 🎟️ Check out our Events Page for live shows, meet-and-greets, and travel plans — 2026 dates are already stacking up! 📚 Grab Sam's book: Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances 👉 Help keep the conversations going — rate, review, and share the show with your lifestyle friends, club buddies, and open-minded circles. Every review helps more curious couples find us! Follow us on social media for all things Beyond Monogamy: Facebook: @BeyondMonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond X/Twitter: @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Real talk, real couples, real connection.

    42 min

  7. 12/10/2025

    QUICKIE Confessionals: Swinger Secrets, Rejections & Real Talk

    This Week's QUICKIE: Confessionals This week's QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with "horny brain." From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it's equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable. They also shout out The Happy Swinger for the handmade gifts (yes, including a penis whistle), talk about their live hotel-takeover show that almost survived the tech gods, and share why sometimes the best nights in the lifestyle are the ones spent doing absolutely nothing. 👉 Don't forget: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Saturday, Dec 13 @ 9 PM Central at Club Eden in San Antonio! Come hang out, meet the crew, and catch a live show taping before doors open. 🎧 Catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com. 💋 Join our community for behind-the-scenes content, early drops, and exclusive extras at Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris. 🌐 Find everything — blog, merch, confessionals, events, and more — at www.Beyond-Monogamy.com. 🗒️ Show Notes  Episode: QUICKIE Confessionals Hosts: Adam & Pris Alvarez Highlights: Real listener confessions about navigating attraction, rejection, and self-doubt in the lifestyle The struggle of saying "no" gracefully — and why honesty is the sexiest thing you can bring to playtime "Horny brain" moments, hotel takeovers, and why it's okay to skip the play and just rest The awkward art of separating vanilla life from lifestyle life BDSM trust, vulnerability, and what it means to feel truly safe with your partner A special shoutout to The Happy Swinger — custom lifestyle-themed gifts, including that unforgettable dick whistle 🎟️ Upcoming Event: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Naughty & Nice Edition 📍 Club Eden San Antonio 📅 Saturday, Dec 13 • 9 PM CST Come meet Adam & Pris, join the party, and be part of the Beyond Monogamy energy live! 💬 Submit your own anonymous story via the Beyond Monogamy Confessional at www.Beyond-Monogamy.com. 🎧 Listen every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. 💋 Support the show and unlock Patreon-only extras at Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris. 📱 Follow us everywhere: Facebook | Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u | TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adamandbeyond | X (Twitter) @beyomono | YouTube @BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris

    35 min

  8. 12/07/2025

    Ms. Nookie on Making Consent Sexy & Dating Without Losing Your Damn Mind

    🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She's teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe. From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it's a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshingly human. Whether you're a swinger, poly, ENM, or just relationship-curious, this episode is packed with truth bombs, belly laughs, and practical takeaways you can use tonight. 🔥 Key Topics How to make consent sound sexy, not clinical The two questions swingers fear most — and how to stop being awkward about them Why self-love is your sexiest asset Nookie's guide to dating apps (and how to filter out the first layer of scum 😉) The art of slowing down and tapping into your feminine energy Confidence, communication, and why monogamy isn't "natural" — it's a choice 💬 Favorite Quotes "Big life changes come from small mindset changes." – Ms. Nookie "If you don't love yourself, why would I?" – Adam "Monogamy isn't natural. Anything you have to work at isn't." – Ms. Nookie "You craft your relationship. It doesn't have to fit society's box." – Ms. Nookie ✨ Connect with Ms. Nookie 🌐 Website: https://msnookie.com 📸 Instagram: Follow on Instagram 📘 Facebook: Follow on Facebook 🧵 Threads: Follow on Threads 💼 LinkedIn: Connect on LinkedIn 🔥 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 💋 Listen on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 🔥 Find us on SDC.com & 3Fun 🎙 Leave us a voicemail or confessional directly on our website ❤️ Like | Subscribe | Share | Review — it keeps the lifestyle love flowing!

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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

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