Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
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  • Sexuality
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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

  1. 5d ago

    Kink Night at Club Eden: Our First BDSM Club Experience

    Kink Night at Club Eden just broke our brains — in the best way. On this Wednesday quickie, Adam & Pris recap their first-ever Kink Night at their home swinger club, where a dominatrix friend and her sub gave them a front-row education in flogging, electric wands, sounding rods, and the real meaning of consent and power exchange in the BDSM world. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about where kink and the ethical non-monogamy / swinger lifestyle overlap — and where they don't. In this episode: Why Kink Night at Club Eden in San Antonio is nothing like the Saturday swinger crowd Meeting "Mistress Vampirella" and her sub, dressed head-to-toe in gear Adam & Pris had never seen up close Adam's Indiana-Jones-style flogging lesson (and why he couldn't bring himself to do it) The electric wand, nipple clamps, c**k cages, and an intro to sounding rods (yes, really) Why humiliation play is about consent and power exchange, not cruelty Headspace, aftercare, and the biggest myths about the kink community Adam considering a future as a dom (maybe even a "dom porn star") A shout-out to their upcoming Shibari adventure: ShibART-i in Houston on November 14th Ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and kink all live in the same neighborhood of judgment-free exploration — this episode is proof. Catch us live: Every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central on FullSwapRadio, plus our FREE weekly livestream at beyond-monogamy.com. Upcoming event: Join us at ShibART-i in the Houston area on November 14th — a Shibari art event we can't wait to experience (and yes, we're having the organizer on the show soon — stay tuned). This episode is brought to you by ProDX Health. At-home STI and hormone testing — no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations, just answers. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round (even more during special events). Subscribe, share, and leave us a five-star review — and don't forget to catch us on YouTube too. Got a story, question, or confession? Drop it in our 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional at beyond-monogamy.com — we just might read it on the show.

    Kink Night at Club Eden: Our First BDSM Club Experience

  2. Aug 30

    The Kinky Bros: Two Brothers Bond Over Rubber, Leather & Kink

    Two brothers. Two very different kinks. One podcast that almost didn't happen. This week Adam & Pris sit down with Gryff and Jason, the real-life siblings behind the Kinky Bros Podcast — one gay, one straight, both deep in the kink world for years without ever telling each other, until a shared Netflix binge of "How to Build a Sex Room" blew the whole thing open. In this episode, we get into: How two brothers accidentally discovered they were both kinky — and how it changed their relationship Rubber and latex fetish life: stealth wear, breathability (or lack of it), and Texas summers Jason's jockstrap-and-thong origin story (thanks to a mystery pack he almost didn't order) Raising sex-positive kids in a non-monogamous, blended household Houston's surprisingly thriving queer kink community, vac cubes, and CBT 101 Compersion, jealousy, and hot wife dynamics — and why swingers aren't always as open-minded as they think Pegging, prostate pleasure, and why the swinging world still side-eyes it This is a raw, funny, genuinely educational conversation about ethical non-monogamy, kink, and the family bonds that can come from finally being honest about what turns you on. Find the Kinky Bros: search "Kinky Bros Podcast" on Apple, Spotify, iHeart, and Amazon Music, follow @kinkybrospodcast on Instagram & BlueSky, @kinkybrospod on X, or visit thekinkybros.com. Upcoming event: Shibari E, a live rope art show & demo night from Bound HTX, hits Houston on Saturday, November 14th. Details to come at beyond-monogamy.com. This episode is brought to you by SDC.com — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a free profile and start exploring. Use code 38236 at sdc.com. Catch us every Thursday at 7PM Central for our FREE livestream at beyond-monogamy.com, and streaming live on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central on fullswapradio.com.

    The Kinky Bros: Two Brothers Bond Over Rubber, Leather & Kink

  3. Aug 26

    Do Swingers Get Nervous? Confidence & Anxiety in the Lifestyle

    Do swingers still get nervous? After 15 years in the swinger lifestyle, Adam & Pris get real about nervousness, anxiety, and confidence in ethical non-monogamy. Spoiler: one of them still gets butterflies before every playdate, and the other struts through the club in lingerie like she owns the place. Guess who's who. In this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite ENM podcast couple digs into why nerves hit so differently for men and women in open relationships — and how to actually get past them. Why Pris stopped getting nervous (and the exact moment her confidence switch flipped) Why Adam STILL gets nervous after 15 years — even with planned playdates The mind-body connection nobody warns guys about, and why "just get hard" never works People-pleasing, rejection, and learning not to care who likes you Confident vs. egotistical — where's the line? Adam's field-tested advice for nervous guys in the lifestyle: say it once, then be a friend Spicy pic etiquette in the swinger community: who gets one, who gets blocked, and why you should always ask first Body confidence, exhibitionism, and the world's least suave way to put your underwear back on Whether you're new to swinging, curious about open relationships, or a lifestyle veteran who still feels the jitters, this episode is proof that nervousness is normal — and confidence can be built. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every episode and the blog. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM. Upcoming events: Lots coming — check the Events tab at beyond-monogamy.com and watch the socials. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile, explore, and find your people. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236.

    Do Swingers Get Nervous? Confidence & Anxiety in the Lifestyle

  4. Aug 23

    Random Talks: Bedroom Dealbreakers & Swinger Club Etiquette

    No script. No plan. Just Adam & Pris, a list of questions on a smartphone, and zero filter. This week on Beyond Monogamy, the swinger lifestyle podcast that says what everyone else is thinking, we free-flow through the questions couples in ethical non-monogamy actually ask each other — and the answers get real, fast. In this episode of your favorite ENM and open relationship podcast: Bedroom dealbreakers — what we absolutely do NOT want partners doing during play (porn-style pounding, neck sucking, and teeth all make the list) Instant turn-offs — including the "no glove, no love" conversation too many new swingers skip Oral honesty hour — why "low and slow" wins and why you should ALWAYS speak up Swinger club etiquette — couch swaps, when it's okay to touch, and why just asking never kills the mood Playing separately — the two-hour gap, the "deer in headlights" look, and what's too intimate with someone else Could a girlfriend ever happen? — WLW relationships, sexual roommates (hard no), and keeping connections organic How to actually link up with Adam & Pris — plus who should proposition who in couple-on-couple play Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle or a full-swap veteran, this candid Q&A between real-life partners covers the consent, communication, and comedy that make non-monogamy work. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus all episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. Come hang out with us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, MO — February 2027! We're doing a LIVE show at the weekend takeover. Tickets at krazykasbh.com — use discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Your people, all in one place. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236. Like the show? Love us? Hit follow, drop a five-star review, and share it with a lifestyle friend.

  5. Aug 19

    Why Are People So S****y? Swinger Drama, Bullies & Trolls

    Why are people so s****y? It's the question nobody can answer, but this week Adam & Pris sure try. In this candid episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite swinger podcast couple airs a little dirty laundry (no names, promise) about drama, bullies, and trolls in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy community — and how to protect yourself without losing your fun. In this episode: The 80–90% of the lifestyle community that's wonderful — and the tiny percentage that isn't A group owner gone rogue: platform bullying, minions, and a two-year obsession with fake profiles Why outing people in the swinger community is the one unforgivable sin Discretion vs. connection: why you can't be 100% anonymous and still succeed in the lifestyle How to vet new people (yes, including the video-with-your-name-and-date trick) Trolls, anonymous comments, and why Adam officially does not give a f*** One bad apple doesn't spoil this bunch — it's a whole fruit salad Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — chat with us free, drop a question in the 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional, and check the events tab. Also on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central, alongside a whole cavalcade of adult podcasters. Come party with us: Krazy Winter Nights — February 2027 in Kansas City, Missouri! Register at krazykasbh.com with discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. Exact dates on the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com. This episode is sponsored by FirmTech: makers of the Tech Ring — a wearable ring for firmness and blood flow that connects to an app with real, clinically researched data. And don't miss the Ring Mate attachment for your partner's pleasure (everybody wins). Get 15% off at firmtech.co with code BEYOMONO. If you like the show, say so — like, subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who needs it. It costs nothing and helps the swinger lifestyle and ENM community find us.

    Why Are People So S****y? Swinger Drama, Bullies & Trolls

  6. Aug 16

    Catfished! Spotting Fakes in the Swinger Lifestyle (Revisited)

    That gorgeous couple sliding into your DMs? Yeah... about that. In this revisited episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris dive into catfishing in the swinger lifestyle — the fake profiles, filtered photos, and flat-out fictional people lurking in ethical non-monogamy spaces. With 15 years in the lifestyle, they've seen (and nearly fallen for) it all. In this episode: Adam's AOL chat room days — and the too-perfect mystery woman who vanished Filters, angles, and 20-year-old photos: where does flattering end and lying begin? Why catfishing hits harder in the swinger lifestyle than in vanilla dating The "personality catfish" nobody talks about — fake nice, fake in love, fake experienced Scammers, bots, and the infamous $45 nail-money hustle Red flags in open relationships and swinger apps: no photos, model-only photos, stories that don't add up, dodging verification, pushing for nudes How to protect yourself: live video verification, Pris's date-on-paper photo trick, cross-referencing profiles, and trusting your gut Why trust, consent, and honesty are non-negotiable in ethical non-monogamy Got a catfish story of your own? Share it at beyond-monogamy.com — Adam & Pris may read it on a future quickie episode! Watch us LIVE: Catch the FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus episodes, blog, reviews, and all our socials. On the radio: Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris on FullSwapRadio, Thursdays at 1PM and 6PM. This episode is sponsored by ProDX Health — discreet at-home testing for STIs, hormones, and more. No waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round — even more during special events. Keywords: swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, catfishing, online dating red flags, swinger apps.

    Catfished! Spotting Fakes in the Swinger Lifestyle (Revisited)

  7. Aug 12

    Swinger Dynamics 101: Full Swap, Soft Swap & Knowing Your No

    What's your dynamic? It's the one question every couple new to the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) needs to know how to answer — and Adam & Pris break it down in this Wednesday Quickie. They dig into full swap vs. soft swap, same room vs. same roof vs. separate play, and why knowing (and stating) your dynamic up front saves everyone's time. Plus: mismatched libidos, menopause and the lifestyle, learning to say no, and why non-monogamy really is a team sport. In this episode: What "dynamic" actually means in the swinger lifestyle Full swap vs. soft swap, and why the label matters Same room, same roof, or separate play — how couples decide Handling mismatched pace and comfort levels as a couple Talking openly about menopause, hormones, and desire in ENM relationships Why Pris handles "the no" and how they split roles as a team The one question to ask any couple at a swinger event or meet & greet Whether you're brand new to open relationships or you've been in the lifestyle for years, this one will help you put words to what you actually want. Keep the conversation going: Everything Beyond Monogamy — episodes, blog, merch, and our Confessional — lives at beyond-monogamy.com Join us LIVE and free every Thursday at 7:00 PM Central right on the website — just hit the live button up top Catch us streaming on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central Mark your calendar for Krazy Winter Nights, coming this February — details on our events tab Check the events tab at beyond-monogamy.com for takeovers and meetups we're hitting up this month If you loved this episode, subscribe, share it with your favorite couple, and leave us a review — it seriously helps this swinger podcast grow.

  8. Aug 9

    Our First Swinger Experiences: Everything We Did Wrong

    What were your first swinger experiences really like? A listener couple just entering the swinger lifestyle dropped that question in our anonymous confessional, and Adam & Pris answer it with zero filter. From a drunk Halloween party that went completely sideways to a first full swap that turned into a lifelong friendship, this is the ethical non-monogamy origin story we've never told on the show — mistakes, jealousy, death glares, and all. In this episode: The Halloween party "non-experience" that almost ended everything — and the boxes every new ENM couple must check first (sober, communicating, on the same page) Pris's first single-guy experience, nerves on all sides, and why the equipment failing is almost never about you Adam's unauthorized round two — and the look Pris gave him that he calls "visual cyanide" The full swap couple who became forever favorites The strangest swap of all time: a historic mansion, uncontrollable laughter, and a velociraptor impression we cannot unsee Jealousy, disconnecting, and the communication lessons that saved their marriage Got a confession? Leave it anonymously at beyond-monogamy.com — where you'll also find every past episode, clips, the blog, and the merch store. Catch our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, right on the website. We're also part of the lineup at FullSwapRadio — Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. See us LIVE in February at Krazy Winter Nights, hosted by Krazy Kasbah and Full Swap Radio. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com for a discount — come say hi! This episode is sponsored by 3Fun — the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. Easy, low pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it out on your own. Download it here: https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932

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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

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