Diamonds in Dumpster Fires

Melie Williams
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Diamonds in Dumpster Fires is a faith-meets-neuroscience podcast for anyone determined to rise from the rubble. From divorce and dating disasters to burnout and betrayal, we talk about life's messiest moments with honesty, humor, and zero toxic positivity. Just real tools, raw faith, and the reminder that healing is still possible—even here.

  1. Jun 3

    The Resilience Skill Nobody Wants

    Sometimes the most resilient thing you can do isn't push harder, it's stop fighting reality. In this episode, Melie explores the concept of radical acceptance and why acknowledging what is can be the first step toward healing. Blending faith, neuroscience, and personal experience, she unpacks the difference between acceptance and giving up, why resisting reality often adds to our suffering, and how God can meet us right where we are. If you've ever found yourself stuck wishing things were different, this episode offers a hopeful path forward. In this episode: What radical acceptance actually means The difference between pain and suffering The neuroscience of fighting reality What Scripture teaches about acceptance and surrender A simple exercise to help you move forward Connect with Melie: https://www.diamondsindumpsterfires.com/ Subscribe, rate, and share with a friend who might need this encouragement today.

    15 min

  2. May 20

    What to do when you're waiting

    Sometimes the hardest part isn't the pain itself, it's not knowing what happens next. In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, we're talking about the emotional, spiritual, and neurological reality of waiting for an answer. Why uncertainty feels so exhausting, what happens in the brain during unresolved situations, and how faith can coexist with honesty in the middle of the unknown. This is not an episode about pretending everything is fine. It's about learning how to stay grounded, hopeful, and emotionally healthy while you wait. Plus, I'll be walking you through a guided exercise from Renewed Mind created specifically for moments like these. Because resilience isn't always confidence. Sometimes it's simply staying open to hope one more day.

    16 min

  3. May 6

    Building a Life That Aligns With Your Calling with Sandy Bastien

    Guest: Sandy Bastien, Author, Entrepreneur What happens when the opportunities in front of you all seem good… but not all of them are actually yours to carry? In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, Melie sits down with entrepreneur, inventor, author, and mother of five Sandy Bastien for a grounded and encouraging conversation about purpose, entrepreneurship, motherhood, and learning how to discern what God is truly calling you toward. Together, they discuss what it looks like to build something meaningful while navigating real life, why growth often starts small, and how entrepreneurship is as much about personal transformation as it is about business. Sandy shares her powerful story of overcoming an abusive relationship, reclaiming her identity in Christ, and stepping into entrepreneurship through motherhood. She also opens up about creating BabaLid, writing books, and learning to trust God through seasons where the fruit wasn't visible yet. If you've been feeling stretched thin, overwhelmed by expectations, or unsure what direction to take next, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to chase everything to walk in your calling. In This Episode: How Sandy's entrepreneurial journey began as a little girl Reclaiming your identity in Christ after difficult seasons Discerning what is truly aligned with God's calling Why entrepreneurship starts with mindset and growth The story behind BabaLid and solving problems through creativity Motherhood as expansion instead of limitation Learning patience, obedience, and trust in the process Why "before the fruit, there are roots" Connect with Sandy: www.momhoodshop.com www.babalid.com If this episode encouraged you, please share it with a friend and leave a review. Your support helps more resilient ones find the show.

    33 min

  4. Apr 15

    The Truth About Gentleness with Christie Thomas

    Gentleness doesn't mean being passive, weak, or getting walked all over. In this episode, I sit down with author and family ministry leader Christie Thomas to reframe what gentleness actually is: strength under control. We talk about why gentleness is one of the most misunderstood fruits of the Spirit—and why it's often hardest to practice in the moments we need it most. From conflict and parenting to divorce and online interactions, this conversation gets practical about what it looks like to pause, respond with intention, and trust God in the process. If you've ever thought, "I can't be gentle in this situation," this episode is for you. You'll walk away with a new perspective on gentleness—and a few simple ways to start practicing it today. Connect with Christie Thomas Website Book: Everyday Prayers for Gentleness  Mentioned in This Episode No More Cheeks to Turn Share the Episode If this episode encouraged you, send it to someone who might need it too. Chances are, they're walking through something hard—and this might be exactly what they need to hear.

    38 min

  5. Apr 1

    Emotional Healing after Divorce with Karen Conlon

    Guest: Karen Conlon, LCSW | Transformational Coach | Author | Podcast Host Healing after divorce isn't a checklist… and it definitely isn't a straight line. In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, I'm joined by therapist and Emotionally Wealthy podcast host Karen Conlon to talk about emotional healing after divorce, relationship patterns, and how to move forward in a healthy way. We unpack the parts of divorce recovery that don't get talked about enough—like why you might still miss your ex years later, how grief shows up even when you chose to leave, and the subtle patterns that can follow you into future relationships. Karen shares what it really means to build emotional awareness, how to take ownership without falling into shame, and how to recognize whether you're truly ready for dating after divorce—or just feeling burned out from the process. We also talk about: What "healthy healing" after divorce actually looks like Why you might keep choosing the same type of partner How to tell if your "picker is off" Signs you're ready (or not ready) for a new relationship The difference between emotional independence and avoidance If you've ever wondered: Why do I still miss my ex? Am I healing the right way after divorce? Why do I keep ending up in the same relationship patterns? This conversation will meet you right where you are. Because healing isn't about getting it perfect… it's about becoming more aware, more grounded, and a little more honest with yourself along the way. 🔗 Connect with Karen Conlon 🎙️ Podcast: Emotionally Wealthy https://open.spotify.com/show/1BxaZasAk68BD5mRkD59cI 🌐 Website: https://karenconlon.com/ 💬 If This Episode Resonated… If this episode helped you feel a little less alone in your divorce recovery or healing journey, share it with someone who might need it too.

    49 min

  6. Mar 18

    Singleness, Longing, and Learning to Trust God w/Hope Johnson

    In this episode of Diamonds in Dumpster Fires, I'm joined by author and podcast host Hope Johnson for an honest, faith-filled conversation about extended singleness, unmet expectations, and trusting God in the waiting. We talk about the tension between longing for something deeply and learning to live fully in the life you have right now. Hope shares wisdom on filtering out unhelpful voices, being honest with God about your struggles, and replacing cultural lies with biblical truth. If you've ever felt forgotten, behind, or unsure of what God is doing in your life—this episode is for you. You are not forgotten. And your story is not finished. 🔗 Connect with Hope Johnson 📖 Book: 99 Life-Giving Bible Verses for Women https://www.whitakerhouse.com/product/99-life-giving-bible-verses-for-women/ 🌐 Website / About https://www.hopeunyielding.com/about 💌 Newsletter (get notified about her upcoming devotional for single women) https://www.hopeunyielding.com/newsletter 🎧 Podcast: Hope Unyielding https://hopeunyielding.buzzsprout.com/ 📸 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hopeunyielding/ 👍 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hopeunyielding ✨ Favorite Quote from This Episode "God has not forgotten you."

    45 min

  7. Mar 4

    Red Flags, Green Flags & Learning to Trust Yourself Again with Justin Smith

    Guest: Justin Smith, Founder of the Cray App After a long-term relationship ends, getting back out there isn't just about meeting someone new — it's about learning to trust yourself again. This week, Melie sits down with Justin Smith, the creator of the Cray app, who built it after the end of his own relationship. Instead of just moving on, Justin wanted to understand why we miss the warning signs while we're still inside a relationship, and how to help others recognize them earlier. This conversation is full of honest, practical wisdom for anyone navigating the dating world after heartbreak. 🔗 Links & Resources Download the Cray App: https://cray.app/ In This Episode, We Talk About: Justin's personal story: what led him to ultimately build the Cray app How the Cray app works Why love bombing is so hard to resist — especially when you're freshly heartbroken The question everyone should ask before jumping back into dating: Am I actually ready? Why your "picker" might feel broken — and how trauma, past relationships, and attachment patterns can quietly shape who we're drawn to The red flag hiding in plain sight: how someone handles conflict tells you everything Stonewalling, validation, and what healthy communication actually looks like How to protect your personal information (location, phone number, social media) when getting to know someone new The difference between a red flag and a green flag — and why some people mix them up Justin's upcoming Bae Score feature: the six qualities that make a genuinely healthy partner Why going into new social situations with the sole goal of finding a partner can backfire The underrated value of hobbies for rebuilding your life and your social world after a breakup   About Justin Smith Justin Smith is the founder of the Cray app, a relationship safety tool designed to help people identify red flags, verify potential partners, and protect themselves while dating. After navigating the end of a significant relationship, Justin channeled his experience into building tools that help others avoid the patterns he missed. Download the Cray App: https://cray.app/ If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend who's navigating the dating world after a breakup or divorce. And don't forget to leave a review — it helps more resilient ones find us! 💎

    39 min

  8. Feb 18

    Ambition Isn't the Enemy: Redefining Hustle with Erin Harrigan

    Show Notes If you've ever wondered whether wanting more automatically makes you less spiritual… this conversation is for you. Today I'm joined by Christian business coach and author Erin Harrigan, and we're talking about the tension a lot of women quietly live in: loving Jesus and also being ambitious. Because somewhere along the way, many of us were taught we had to pick one. We talk about why burnout isn't always caused by doing too much — sometimes it's caused by chasing the wrong definition of success. We unpack what it actually looks like to work hard with God instead of for approval, how to tell when your drive has drifted into anxiety, and why rest is often the most obedient thing you can do. Also… we may gently dismantle imposter syndrome along the way. This one isn't about quitting your goals. It's about surrendering the pressure attached to them. If you've been tired, striving, overthinking, or quietly wondering why success still feels heavy — pull up a chair. In this episode we touch on: The difference between godly ambition and anxious striving Why burnout can happen even in ministry spaces A simple way to check your motives when anxiety shows up Joy vs happiness (and why confusing them exhausts us) A perspective on imposter syndrome that might change everything 📚 Erin's book Redefining Hustle is available now as an ebook and you can preorder the print book here. You can connect with Erin here. If this episode encouraged you, send it to the friend who's holding everything together… and secretly exhausted doing it.

    41 min
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Diamonds in Dumpster Fires is a faith-meets-neuroscience podcast for anyone determined to rise from the rubble. From divorce and dating disasters to burnout and betrayal, we talk about life's messiest moments with honesty, humor, and zero toxic positivity. Just real tools, raw faith, and the reminder that healing is still possible—even here.

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