Who We Are | a Mental Health Podcast with Zach Molock

Zach Molock

Welcome to "Who We Are" – a podcast dedicated to sharing personal stories of mental health struggles and triumphs. Join me, Zach Molock, as we delve into the complexities of mental health and explore practical ways to navigate them in our daily lives. Having battled mental health challenges for nearly 20 years, I've become a passionate advocate for mental well-being. This podcast aims to bring us together, fostering conversations that break the stigma and promote a supportive community. Let's embark on this journey to improve our mental health and quality of life together!

  1. 3d ago

    Learning to Live Again: Life After Suicide Loss with Guest Laura Morris-Stucki

    This episode discusses suicide loss, grief, and the emotional challenges experienced by surviving family members. Please listen at your own pace and take care of yourself if these topics feel difficult. Life After Suicide Loss: Laura Morris-Stucki’s Journey Through Grief, Healing, and Hope What happens when the person you planned to spend your life with is suddenly gone? How do you wake up the next morning, take care of your children, navigate everyday life, and begin to find a way forward when your world has been shattered? In this deeply personal and emotional episode of Who We Are, Zach Molock sits down with Laura Morris-Stucki, who is navigating life just 11 months after her husband died by suicide. Laura opens up about the painful reality of life after loss, the challenges of adjusting to a world that looks completely different, and the daily transitions that come with learning how to live without the person who was once part of everything. This conversation goes beyond grief. It's about the courage it takes to keep showing up when you're hurting, the importance of having people who will walk beside you through the darkest seasons, and the resilience of children who are learning to navigate their own lives after an unimaginable loss. Because grief doesn't follow a timeline. Healing isn't a straight line. And moving forward doesn't mean leaving the person you lost behind. Laura's story is a reminder that even when life changes in ways we never imagined, we don't have to navigate the journey alone. Life After Suicide Loss: The reality of navigating life just 11 months after losing a spouse. The Daily Battle of Grief: Adjusting to everyday responsibilities, routines, and transitions when life no longer looks the way it once did. The Healing Process: Understanding that grief takes time and that healing doesn't mean forgetting. The Importance of Community: Why support, connection, and people willing to walk alongside us matter so much during life's hardest seasons. Children and Resilience: The strength children demonstrate as they navigate loss and adjust to a new reality. Moving Forward Through the Pain: Finding ways to keep living, parenting, and taking the next step while carrying grief. Hope After Heartbreak: Recognizing that even in the aftermath of devastating loss, there can still be moments of connection, healing, and hope. Suicide doesn't just affect the person who dies. It leaves family members, children, friends, and entire communities trying to make sense of what happened and figure out how to move forward. For those left behind, the questions can feel endless. The loneliness can be overwhelming. And sometimes, the hardest part is figuring out how to keep living when the life you knew no longer exists. Laura's willingness to share her story gives us an opportunity to listen, learn, and better understand the experiences of those navigating suicide loss. If you've lost someone you love, know someone who has, or simply want to better understand how to support people who are grieving, this episode is for you. You don't have to have the right words. Sometimes, the most meaningful thing you can do is show up and listen. Who We Are exists to break the stigma surrounding mental health, create space for honest conversations, and remind people that their struggles don't define their worth. If this episode resonates with you, please consider sharing it with someone who might need to hear Laura's story. Like, subscribe, and leave a review to help us reach more people who need the reminder that they are not alone. Thank you to Laura Morris-Stucki for her courage, vulnerability, and willingness to share such a personal part of her life with us. Let's keep having the conversations that matter. Because nobody should have to suffer in silence. — Zach MolockHost of Who We Are

  2. Jun 28

    Leading through the Fire: Jimmy Johnston's Story of Mental from the Perspective of a First Responder

    Jimmy Johnston on First Responder Mental Health. In this episode of Who We Are Podcast, The Mental Health Podcast, Zach Molock sits down with fire captain and paramedic Jimmy Johnston for a candid conversation about the realities of first responder life, mental health, leadership, family, and faith. Jimmy shares how he was drawn to the fire service by a desire for hands-on work, physical activity, and a career that was different every day. He explains how 9/11 reinforced his decision, but that his path was also shaped by his blue-collar upbringing and his father’s example as a self-made contractor. Over the course of more than 20 years in the fire service, Jimmy has seen both the operational side and the human side of the job. A major theme of the conversation is the difference between public perception and reality. Jimmy talks about how TV and social media often dramatize the fire service, while the real work is far more disciplined, technical, and mentally demanding. He breaks down the difference between engines and trucks, explains why firefighters spend so much time training and maintaining equipment, and describes how much of the job is actually medical response rather than firefighting. The heart of the episode is mental health. Jimmy opens up about burnout, compassion fatigue, imposter syndrome, emotional weight, and the importance of noticing when a firefighter is acting out of character. He explains how first responders often carry invisible stress, and how sounds, smells, or unexpected triggers can affect them just as much as major incidents. He also walks through the peer support and critical incident stress management process used by his department, including immediate defusing after an incident and follow-up debriefing within 48 to 72 hours. Jimmy emphasizes that mental health support must be confidential, proactive, and normalized. He shares that “a normal response to an abnormal situation” is a phrase that helps first responders feel seen and understood. He also discusses how stigma has changed over the years, why specialized counseling for first responders matters, and why no one should see seeking help as weakness. The episode also explores Jimmy’s family life, marriage, and parenting. He reflects on how shift work has actually helped him stay more present at home, giving him time to be with his wife and kids in meaningful ways. He shares how his wife has been a steady support system and how spouses of first responders can help by being patient, listening, and not taking withdrawal personally after a difficult shift. Toward the end of the conversation, Jimmy encourages struggling first responders to remember they are not alone and that help exists. He closes by sharing that his hope comes from faith in Christ and from believing that no one should make a permanent decision based on a temporary situation. Key Topics Covered Why Jimmy chose the fire serviceThe effect of 9/11 on firefighting recruitmentFirefighter vs. paramedic responsibilitiesPublic misconceptions about the fire serviceEmotional strain and compassion fatigueImposter syndrome and resiliencyHow leadership shapes mental health culturePeer support and critical incident debriefingFamily life, marriage, and first responder schedulesFaith, hope, and staying grounded“I wanted a job that kept me physically active, mentally challenging, and different every day.”“A normal response to an abnormal situation.”“We don’t want to create a permanent solution to a temporary problem.”“You’re loved, you’re seen.”“Mental health needs to be treated like any other aspect of our health." First responders are not immune to stress, burnout, or trauma—and the strongest systems are the ones that normalize support, encourage vulnerability, and remind people they are not alone. If you or anyone you know is in a mental health crisis and needs to talk with someone now, please call or text 988 or visit 988lifeline.org You are loved and you are not alone.

  3. May 10

    Healing After Church Hurt: Finding Hope with Amanda Cunningham

    Discover the complex layers of spiritual abuse, church dysfunction, and leadership misconduct through Amanda Cunningham’s powerful story. This episode sheds light on how hidden systemic issues in churches can deeply affect mental health, faith, and community. In this episode: ​Amanda shares her journey at Lake Pointe Church and the disillusionment with leadership shifts after 2019.​The gradual erosion of women’s ministries, transparency, and biblical integrity.​Controversies including plagiarized sermons, inappropriate jokes, and manipulative tactics.​Patterns of spiritual abuse, narcissistic leadership, and how accountability is often avoided.​Practical advice for churches and parishioners facing similar red flags, including recognizing signs of escalation.​Emphasis on prayer, finding safe connections, and the importance of holding leadership accountable.​The impact of social culture, celebrity ties, and the need to disconnect from spiritually harmful environments.​Amanda’s experience with backlash and her role as a voice for the voiceless among church members.The Rise and Fall of Mars Hillhttps://open.spotify.com/show/5rJtwcRM7WNYs0LNTrlP5N?si=2bfdbe4c4d664907Support & Further Help:◦Email: info@zachmolock.com for questions, stories, or resources. ◦Find a safe church community: Seek local churches with transparent leadership and biblical accountability. ◦Recognize red flags: Isolation, spiritual manipulation, dishonesty, and marginalization of mental health. ​988 LIFELINEIf you need to talk, the 988 Lifeline is here. At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be difficult. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone. https://988lifeline.org/

  4. May 5

    Alicia in the Wild: Alicia's Story

    Join Alicia White as she shares her inspiring journey through mental health struggles, the transformative power of nature, and her mission to empower others to find healing and purpose. Discover actionable insights on mindfulness, community, and self-worth. Main topics: ​Personal mental health journey and recovery​Power of nature and outdoor activities for mental well-being​Building community and overcoming imposter syndrome​Alicia's personal mental health journey, including struggles with depression, anxiety, and perfectionism​How therapy, group support, and authentic connections helped her realize she's not broken​The significance of Yellowstone and nature in resetting her mental state and gaining clarity​Practical grounding exercises using senses to stay present and reduce stress​The importance of reconnecting with childhood love for nature and how it sustained her through life's challenges​Overcoming imposter syndrome by recognizing personal value and the power of shared experiences​The role of community in mental health recovery, breaking the stigma, and supporting others​How Alicia transitioned from her career in healthcare and marketing to motivational speaking and photography​Lessons learned from her trips to Yellowstone and the lessons of prioritizing self-care and presence​Advice for aspiring speakers and those hesitant about their voice, emphasizing authenticity and purpose​⁠Alicia in the Wild⁠​⁠Yellowstone National Park⁠​⁠Grounding exercises for mindfulness⁠​⁠Zig Ziglar's inspiration⁠​⁠Imposter Syndrome Articles⁠​⁠Public Speaking Tips⁠​⁠Mindfulness Exercises⁠​Suicide Hotline: ⁠https://988lifeline.org/

  5. Apr 22

    Strong, but Struggling: What Ruth Teaches Women Today with Jamie Kelly

    This episode explores the powerful story of Ruth from the Bible and its profound implications for women's mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health today. Our discussion emphasizes how resilience, support, and faith can help women navigate loss and mental health challenges.Key Topics: The societal expectations placed on women and the silent struggles they faceHow Ruth’s story of losing everything yet persevering offers lessons in resilienceThe importance of support systems and community in mental health recoveryMicro-steps and purpose as tools for managing depression and griefAddressing hormonal health, body image, and self-care in womenThe need to break the stigma around mental health, especially for menPractical ways women can create space for their mental health dailyThe significance of seeing intrinsic value in every woman, regardless of circumstancesRuth’s story as a biblical blueprint for navigating loss, grief, and hopeThe Bible Project: RuthManaging Depression: Practical StrategiesSupport Resources - The Lifeline Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: Ruth's story and women’s health02:24 - Personal reflections on grief and legacy04:12 - The societal pedestal of strong women and its hidden costs09:14 - Micro-steps and purpose in managing depression11:03 - The link between physical health and mental health: addressing eating disorders12:37 - Silent struggles women face around weight and body image14:33 - Women’s tendency to silently carry burdens and neglect self-care16:02 - The importance of community and support networks for women20:46 - Ruth’s significance in biblical and modern women’s stories21:46 - The strength found in Ruth’s resilience and endurance through loss Connect with Zach: info@zachmolock.com or molockzach@gmail.com Connect with Jamie: jamie.kelly16@icloud.com Additional Notes: This episode underscores that strength often looks like continued hope and small steps forward. Women are encouraged to prioritize their well-being and recognize their intrinsic worth beyond societal expectations. Ruth’s story serves as a biblical testimony to resilience, faith, and renewal amidst loss.

  6. 05/30/2025

    Kirsten's Journey: Navigating Autism

    Summary In this episode of the Who We Are podcast, host Zach Molock speaks with Kirsten Osborne, a young adult navigating her journey with autism and ADHD. Kirsten shares her experiences with mental health, the challenges of masking, and the importance of self-acceptance. She discusses her creative pursuits in writing and acting, and how her neurodivergence influences her perspective on the world. The conversation also touches on misconceptions about autism, the role of faith, and the power of humor in coping with life's challenges. Kirsten emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself and reaching out for help, encouraging others to embrace their unique journeys. Takeaways Kirsten has a background in theater and is passionate about acting and writing.Early experiences with autism were misread as being overly dramatic.Masking is a common behavior in autistic individuals, leading to anxiety and depression.Kirsten's turning point was receiving her autism diagnosis at age 23.Faith plays a significant role in Kirsten's journey and self-acceptance.ADHD influences Kirsten's creative work and how she experiences the world.Healing is nonlinear, with ups and downs in the process.Misconceptions about autism often prevent proper understanding and diagnosis.Humor helps Kirsten cope and connect with others who share similar experiences.Kirsten encourages others to trust themselves and seek help when needed. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Kirsten's Journey 01:30 Navigating Autism and Mental Health 04:32 Understanding Masking and Its Impact 06:26 Self-Discovery and Trusting One's Journey 08:54 Faith and Its Role in Mental Health 13:58 The Intersection of ADHD and Autism 20:30 Creative Expression Through Challenges 25:26 Chaos and Clarity in Healing 29:15 The Importance of Self-Advocacy 33:06 Therapeutic Approaches and Personal Growth 34:43 The Power of Journaling 35:28 Understanding Stimming and Autism 36:34 Misconceptions About Autism 39:19 Reframing Autism: Support Needs vs. Functioning Labels 41:54 Empathy and Connection in Autism 45:05 The Unique Bonds of Non-Verbal Communication 48:26 The Role of Humor in Coping 51:50 The Journey of Healing: Action vs. Reflection 53:51 Messages of Self-Acceptance and Seeking Help 57:17 Final Thoughts and Resources for Understanding Autism Resources from Kirsten: Unmasking Autism by Devon Price: https://a.co/d/gHN4K7w It's written by a late-in-life diagnosed autistic and explores how social and structural changes like accessibility measures would improve the lives of both allistic and autistic people + provides a more in-depth exploration of what masking is, what unmasking looks like, and other terminology used in the community to explain and communicate our experiences.  This website has several resources ranging from fictionalized media that accurately portrays autism as well as some of the history of autism + online resources covering accessibility and adult diagnosis. ⁠https://thinkingautismguide.com/resources⁠ This is a good resource for up-to-date information on what autism is as well as relevant language/terminology used by and within members of the community. ⁠https://aane.org/autism-info-faqs/autism-basics/what-is-autism/⁠Here's another link from the above website that will take you to the FAQ directory in which the above article is located; they have several subsections of information on autism such as diagnosis, disclosing one's diagnosis, government support, education, mental health services, and more. ⁠https://aane.org/autism-info-faqs/⁠This is a resource for sensory processing difficulties and covers all different kinds of over/under-stimulation as well as copying skills/strategies to meet those challenges in a supportive, safe way. ⁠https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/sensory-differences/sensory-differences/all-audiences⁠If you need to talk, the 988 Lifeline is here.: https://988lifeline.org/

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Welcome to "Who We Are" – a podcast dedicated to sharing personal stories of mental health struggles and triumphs. Join me, Zach Molock, as we delve into the complexities of mental health and explore practical ways to navigate them in our daily lives. Having battled mental health challenges for nearly 20 years, I've become a passionate advocate for mental well-being. This podcast aims to bring us together, fostering conversations that break the stigma and promote a supportive community. Let's embark on this journey to improve our mental health and quality of life together!