Summary Welcome to another guest episode! In this episode of the Mom Mentality podcast, Natalia speaks with Megan McKeon, devoted mother and school principal. Megan shares her deeply personal journey through secondary infertility, miscarriage, and the challenges of IVF. As an elementary school principal and devoted mother, Megan discusses the emotional toll of her experiences, the lessons learned about her body, and the importance of support from family and friends. She reflects on the complexities of navigating motherhood while facing fertility challenges, the impact of pregnancy loss, and the ongoing struggle for hope and control in her journey to expand her family. In this conversation, Megan and Natalia explore the emotional complexities of infertility, motherhood, and the pressure of societal expectations. They discuss the challenges of navigating grief while raising a child, the impact of secondary infertility, and the importance of community and support. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-compassion, the significance of sharing experiences, and the empowerment that comes from connecting with others who understand similar struggles. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Journey 02:11 Navigating Infertility Challenges 03:13 First Pregnancy and Miscarriage 06:39 The Decision to Seek Help 07:48 The IVF Experience 10:41 The Birth of Evy and New Hope 11:06 The Emotional Toll of Infertility 12:45 The Struggles of Control in IVF 14:30 The Rollercoaster of Pregnancy Tests 17:53 The Heartbreak of Loss 19:40 Navigating Grief and Loss 21:22 Expectations vs. Reality in Parenthood 23:27 The Emotional Toll of Pregnancy Loss 25:32 Testing and Uncertainty in IVF 26:42 Finding Freedom in Acceptance 28:10 The Burden of Infertility 29:29 Understanding Endometriosis 31:13 The Weight of Comparisons 32:57 The Pressure of Motherhood 35:00 Reliving Trauma in Secondary Infertility 37:22 Balancing Joy and Grief 38:42 Milestones and Memories of Loss 42:04 Navigating Fertility Challenges 45:25 The Emotional Toll of Secondary Infertility 49:02 Finding Joy Amidst Struggles 52:40 The Importance of Self-Care 55:11 Building Community and Advocacy 01:01:09 Embracing Your Feelings 01:03:53 Setting Boundaries for Well-Being About our Guest Megan McKeon is a devoted mother, wife, and Elementary School Principal who leads with resilience, heart, and unwavering optimism. She stepped into her principal role in September 2020—amid uncertainty and challenge—all while working to build her family. Megan has navigated both infertility and secondary infertility, experiences that have strengthened her empathy, deepened her gratitude, and shaped the way she supports others. At school, she strives to create a warm, inclusive community where students and teachers feel seen and encouraged. Outside of work, Megan cherishes time with her family and loves spending meaningful moments with friends. She recently also started her own podcast to share her story and support other women called Fertility Friends Forever available on Apple and Spotify. I look forward to seeing you back here next week for another episode! Until then, be gentle with yourself! About the Host Dr. Natalia Rappa is a holistic psychologist. Her private practice focuses on working with adolescents and adults in transitional life phases dealing with anxiety, depression, and trauma. She holds a doctoral degree in school/clinical psychology from Hofstra University. She has specialized training in Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction and CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). In addition, she pursued further training in EMDR, an evidenced based treatment for trauma. She integrates these different approaches to meet the unique needs of each of her clients. The belief at the core of her work is that our mind and bodies want to heal and have an innate wisdom to do so. With a non-judgmental environment, strong therapeutic rapport, and supportive coping techniques, clients are able to access this wisdom within them. Connect on Instagram: @drnataliarappa Check out my website: https://www.drnataliarappa.com Email: drnataliarappa@gmail.com