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Welcome to A Student of Leadership, the podcast for leaders who believe growth is never finished. I'm Robert Adams. Behavioral leadership coach. Marshall Goldsmith Stakeholder Centered Coach. Thirty years in food distribution, multi-unit operations, and leadership development. Ranked #16 in the United States for Management and Leadership on LinkedIn by Favikon. Each episode delivers one idea, one story, and one question worth sitting with. Built for leaders who are actually in the work. Not theorizing about it. The food industry is where leadership gets tested every single day. On the floor. In the kitchen. At the table. In the boardroom. Fast-paced environments, tight margins, diverse teams, constant pressure. Labor shortages, turnover, supply chain disruptions. These are not buzzwords. They are our daily reality. This podcast is built for that reality. The foundation of everything here is the Place Setting Framework, seven dimensions of leadership using a formal table setting as metaphor. The Plate. The Knife. The Fork. The Spoon. The Glass. The Napkin. The Table. Each week maps to one element. Each episode connects to The Leadership Table newsletter on Substack, arriving every Monday at 6:00 AM. Leadership excellence is not built on charisma or natural talent. It is built on intentional behaviors that anyone can learn, practice, and master. Small shifts in how we communicate, recognize effort, handle conflict, build accountability, and show up for our teams create lasting impact. Practical. Proven. Implementable immediately. I am not here pretending to have all the answers. I am here as a fellow student. Someone who believes the moment we stop learning is the moment we stop leading effectively. New episodes every Tuesday at 6:00 AM EST. Listen and subscribe: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ The Leadership Table on Substack: https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table.

  1. 4d ago

    Episode 67: Leading When Your Team Is Beat Down

    This week's Play: Name the three things that will not move. Your team does not have change fatigue. They have leadership fatigue. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams returns to The Plate, the second element of the Place Setting Framework, with a harder question. What does a leader serve their team in an extended hard season, when the change is relentless and everyone is tired? People can absorb almost anything if they trust the person asking them to do it. What they cannot absorb is leadership that disappears in the middle of the change. In this episode: - Why teams reporting the highest fatigue are not the ones experiencing the most change - Damola Adamolekun and the Red Lobster turnaround: walking into bankruptcy, low morale, and a "beat down" team, and starting with what he himself was going to put in front of them - "Leadership is self-improvement": Adamolekun's documented principle and what it means in practice - The McKinsey 2025 change fatigue research and what it reveals about anchoring vs. accelerating - Three behaviors that distinguish leaders who lead through extended turbulence well - Why the leader who runs themselves empty cannot serve a steady plate - Where AI is accelerating change and where the leader still has to make the call The three behaviors: 01. Name what is not changing. Operationally specific. 02. Show up where the work happens. The dock. The route. The line. 03. Protect your own plate. Empty leaders cannot serve steady ones. Referenced this week: Damola Adamolekun: CEO of Red Lobster, appointed August 2024 after the chain's Chapter 11 bankruptcy. Documented via Fortune, CNN, and multiple business publications. The 40% sales surge in 2025 and the leadership philosophy of "self-improvement" are both publicly documented in his interviews from late 2025. McKinsey 2025 change fatigue research. Documented in multiple workforce reports. Episode 66: We Have Set the Full Table (May Close). Available now in your podcast feed. CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free) A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST. https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ Share this episode with a leader who is running their team through extended change right now. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    14 min

  2. May 26

    Episode 66: Leading Across Generations

    The conversation about leading across generations is mostly a distraction. Not because the generations are the same. But because the answer is not in the generational profiles. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams makes the case that every generation at your table wants the same things: to be seen, to do work that matters, and to know the person leading them is worth following. What differs is what they have been taught to expect. In this episode: - Why most generational profiling in leadership misses the actual problem - What Gen Z is actually asking for in the workplace, and why it is not a character flaw - What experienced professionals need to see acknowledged, and why the friction between generations is usually practical rather than philosophical - Three things a leader does to build a table where every generation feels like their seat was set with intention - The May close: what The Spoon, The Glass, The Napkin, and The Table add up to as a leadership foundation - June preview: The Plate returning, leading through change when everyone is exhausted The three things a leader does to build a table across generations: 01. Name what you value from each person. Individually. Visibly. 02. Build consistency without eliminating individuality. Same standard, different support. 03. Make the table visibly worth building toward. Evidence in the ordinary moments, not just the policy. Referenced this week: Gen Z workplace research: multiple sources including Deloitte Global Millennial and Gen Z surveys, Gallup State of the American Workplace reports. Episode 65: The Leader Who Sees the Whole Person. Available now in your podcast feed. CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free) A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST. https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ Share this with one leader navigating a multigenerational team who is not sure where to start. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    16 min

  3. May 19

    Episode 65: The Leader Who Sees the Whole Person

    Mental health is a leadership issue. Not a benefit program. Not a wellness initiative. A leadership issue that lives in the ordinary moments between a leader and the people they lead every day. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams explores The Napkin, the sixth piece of the Place Setting Framework, and what it actually looks like when a leader sees their team as whole people rather than functions on a schedule. In this episode: - The data that should change how every leader in food service thinks about their role: Deloitte's finding that managers have more impact on employee mental health than therapists or doctors - The culture in food service and hospitality that has historically treated acknowledging struggle as weakness, and what that culture is costing the industry - Three specific things a leader does consistently when they see the whole person: noticing, asking, and responding without fixing - Tim Etherington-Judge and Healthy Hospo: the movement built on the truth that people who pour care into guests every shift deserve to have care poured back into them - Why a leader cannot create safety for their team if they do not have it for themselves - Where AI is genuinely useful in this space and where the human act of presence remains irreplaceable The three things a leader does when they actually see their team: 01. Noticing. Paying attention to what is different. Not diagnosing. Observing. 02. Asking. The human question, not the performance question. And meaning it. 03. Responding without fixing. Hearing before advising. Acknowledging before solving. Referenced this week: Deloitte Global Mental Health survey: findings on manager impact on employee mental health. Cited across multiple annual reports. National Restaurant Association: workforce mental health and burnout data in food service and hospitality. Tim Etherington-Judge: founder of Healthy Hospo. Verified via multiple hospitality publications. Episode 64: The Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior. Available now in your podcast feed. CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free) A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST. https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ Share this with one leader in food service or hospitality who is carrying more than they have been allowed to say out loud. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    16 min

  4. May 12

    Episode 64: The Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior

    Most feedback creates defensiveness. Feedforward creates development. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams shares the concept that changed how he leads and coaches: feedforward. The shift from looking in the rearview mirror to looking through the windshield. And the stakeholder approach to leadership development that removes the distortion of self-assessment. In this episode: - Robert's personal story: why the feedback conversations he was having were not changing behavior, and what shifted when the language changed - The rearview mirror versus the windshield: a visual that reframes how development conversations land - Why backward-facing information produces defense, and how forward-facing information produces development - The exact language shift that keeps the wall from going up in your next development conversation - The stakeholder piece: why the people you impact and influence every day hold the most accurate picture of your actual leadership behavior - How to use a two-part stakeholder question to ground your development in reality rather than self-perception - Where AI genuinely helps in the feedback and development space and where the relational work belongs to the leader The core language shift: Instead of: "Here is what happened and what you did wrong." Try: "The next time this situation comes up, I would like to see more of this and less of that." The stakeholder two-part question: Looking back 30 days: what behavior did you actually observe from this leader? Looking forward 30 days: what is one thing this leader could do that would have positive impact on you and the team? Referenced this week: Feedforward approach: developed and championed by Marshall Goldsmith, executive coach and leadership thinker. Robert Adams is a Marshall Goldsmith Stakeholder Centered Coach. Episode 63: Developing People in a Time-Starved Environment. Available now in your podcast feed. CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free) A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST. https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ Share this with a leader who is having the same feedback conversation and not seeing behavior change. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    14 min

  5. May 5

    Episode 63: Developing People in a Time-Starved Environment

    The leader who says they do not have time to develop people has already decided who leaves next. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams explores The Spoon, the fifth piece of the Place Setting Framework, and what it actually means to pour into the people around you without keeping score. Development is not a luxury. It is the leadership act that determines whether you have a team worth leading in twelve months. In this episode: - Why the most impactful leadership act is also the most consistently neglected - Tim Etherington-Judge and the story of Healthy Hospo: what happens when a leader decides to pour into an entire industry - Monica Rothgery: from mopping floors at KFC at fifteen to COO of KFC US, and the development culture that made it possible - Three development conversations every leader needs to have monthly, and why ten minutes each is enough - The hardest version of The Spoon: developing someone who eventually surpasses you - Where AI genuinely helps with development and where the human act remains irreplaceable The three development conversations: 01. The direction conversation. Where is this person headed, and is the work moving them toward it? 02. The obstacle conversation. What is actually in the way right now, from their perspective? 03. The recognition conversation. Specific. Observed. What it says about who they are becoming. Referenced this week: Tim Etherington-Judge: founder of Healthy Hospo, a movement built around genuine investment in the wellbeing of hospitality workers. Verified via multiple hospitality publications. Monica Rothgery: started at KFC at fifteen, rose to COO of KFC US. Development philosophy documented via Nation's Restaurant News and multiple leadership publications. Episode 62: The Daily Act Is the Leadership Act. Available now in your podcast feed. CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free) A weekly leadership playbook. Every Monday at 6:00 AM EST. https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 6:45 AM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ Share this episode with one leader who is sitting on a development conversation they have been putting off. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    14 min

  6. Apr 28

    Episode 62 - The Daily Act Is the Leadership Act

    Leadership is not the speech at the all-hands meeting. It is what happens on an ordinary Tuesday. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams explores The Fork, the fourth piece of the Place Setting Framework, and what it means to lead through the daily act rather than the grand gesture. The fork is the most used piece at the table. Not the most impressive. The most necessary. And the leaders worth following are not famous for their big moments. They are trusted for the ordinary ones. In this episode: - Why the leaders people remember most are almost never the ones who made the biggest speeches - The F.O.R.K. framework: four disciplines of intentional intake that separate leaders who are growing from leaders who are managing - Five daily acts that compound into something your team will carry long after the quarterly results are forgotten - The April close: what The Table, The Plate, The Knife, and The Fork add up to as a foundation - May preview: The Spoon, what you pour into others without keeping score The F.O.R.K. Framework: F: Feedback. Read the data available every day, not just at the annual review. O: Observation. The pause before the action. Precision over speed. R: Reflection. What turns repetition into learning. K: Knowledge Intake. The leaders still growing at thirty years in never stopped being students. The five daily acts: 01. The two-minute check-in. Not a status update. A genuine question. 02. The thoughtful response. The breath before the answer. 03. Using someone's name in the hallway when nothing is required. 04. Credit given before anyone asks. In the room, not in a private message. 05. The standard held quietly. On the hard Thursday when nobody is watching. Referenced this week: Episode 61: Why Great Leaders Step Toward Conflict. Available now in your podcast feed. The Place Setting Framework: Robert Adams's original leadership framework using formal table setting as metaphor for seven dimensions of leadership. CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: The Leadership Table, weekly newsletter on Substack (free) In-depth leadership frameworks every Monday at 6:00 AM EST https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter, punchier version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 12:45 PM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy If this episode was useful, share it with a leader on your team who is already doing the daily work but has never heard it named. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    15 min

  7. Apr 21

    Episode 61 - Why Great Leaders Step Toward Conflict

    The conversation you keep avoiding is already having itself. Just without you in the room. In this episode of A Student of Leadership, Robert Adams explores The Knife, the third piece of the Place Setting Framework, and what it means to navigate conflict with precision instead of avoidance or aggression. Most leaders default to one of two extremes: they avoid hard conversations entirely, or they react with too much force and call it honesty. Neither works. The leaders who build teams worth being on know which edge to use, and when. In this episode: Why conflict avoidance isn't kindness, it's comfort at the team's expense The three mistakes most leaders make when tension shows up The four-step precision approach to having the hard conversation well Why closing with belief is the step most leaders skip, and why it changes everything The Knife reframed: precision, not aggression. The blade faces inward, toward the work. The framework this week: Step 1, Step toward it. Don't wait for the right moment. The team is already drawing conclusions from your silence. Step 2, Name it clearly. Specific. Behavioral. No ambiguity. Ambiguity is not kindness. Step 3, Separate person from pattern. You are addressing what happened, not who they are. Step 4, Close with belief. If you didn't believe in them, you wouldn't be having the conversation. Referenced this week: Emtrain 2025 Workplace Culture Report, workplace conflict increased 10% in the last year. The Place Setting Framework, Robert Adams's original leadership framework using formal table setting as metaphor for seven dimensions of leadership. : CONNECT WITH ROBERT ADAMS: 📬 The Leadership Table, Weekly newsletter on Substack (free) In-depth leadership frameworks every Monday at 6:00 AM EST https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ 🍞 Breaking Bread, LinkedIn Newsletter (free) The shorter, punchier version of the week's idea. Every Friday at 12:45 PM EST. https://www.linkedin.com/newsletters/7316826823063920641/ 🎙 Subscribe to A Student of Leadership: Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website → https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ : If this episode gave you something, share it with someone on your team who is sitting on a conversation they haven't had yet. Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table. Robert Adams | A Student of Leadership

    16 min

  8. Apr 14

    Episode 60 - The leader who broke down so you don't have to

    The conversation delves into the crisis of leadership capacity in the hospitality industry, highlighting the unsustainable demands on leaders and the paradox of leadership capacity. It emphasizes the importance of protecting personal capacity with boundaries and discusses the impact of operating at capacity, the role of AI in capacity management, and the process of establishing boundaries for sustainable leadership. Takeaways Leadership capacity is a critical issue in the hospitality industryEstablishing boundaries is essential for sustainable leadership Chapters 00:00 Establishing Boundaries for Sustainable Leadership

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Welcome to A Student of Leadership, the podcast for leaders who believe growth is never finished. I'm Robert Adams. Behavioral leadership coach. Marshall Goldsmith Stakeholder Centered Coach. Thirty years in food distribution, multi-unit operations, and leadership development. Ranked #16 in the United States for Management and Leadership on LinkedIn by Favikon. Each episode delivers one idea, one story, and one question worth sitting with. Built for leaders who are actually in the work. Not theorizing about it. The food industry is where leadership gets tested every single day. On the floor. In the kitchen. At the table. In the boardroom. Fast-paced environments, tight margins, diverse teams, constant pressure. Labor shortages, turnover, supply chain disruptions. These are not buzzwords. They are our daily reality. This podcast is built for that reality. The foundation of everything here is the Place Setting Framework, seven dimensions of leadership using a formal table setting as metaphor. The Plate. The Knife. The Fork. The Spoon. The Glass. The Napkin. The Table. Each week maps to one element. Each episode connects to The Leadership Table newsletter on Substack, arriving every Monday at 6:00 AM. Leadership excellence is not built on charisma or natural talent. It is built on intentional behaviors that anyone can learn, practice, and master. Small shifts in how we communicate, recognize effort, handle conflict, build accountability, and show up for our teams create lasting impact. Practical. Proven. Implementable immediately. I am not here pretending to have all the answers. I am here as a fellow student. Someone who believes the moment we stop learning is the moment we stop leading effectively. New episodes every Tuesday at 6:00 AM EST. Listen and subscribe: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-student-of-leadership-real-leaders-real-growth-one-table/id1788679511 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6KdlbKAVbF118b2Khfcpqy Website: https://astudentofleadership.riverside.com/ The Leadership Table on Substack: https://robertadamsleader.substack.com/ Real Leaders. Real Growth. One Table.

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