Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool

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Welcome to the Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool Podcast, hosted by three trailblazing women who are pillars of the ballroom community—Tabytha, Asia, and Tempress (aka Chasity). Known for their powerful activism, leadership, and unapologetic approach to life, these queens bring you fresh, fun, and fierce conversations every week. As outspoken advocates for the rights and empowerment of the LGBTQ+ and ballroom communities, the ladies of Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool dive deep into everything from personal growth and mental health to pop culture, relationships, and social justice. 

  1. Jan 15

    S5 FINALE | He Built this House: Father Al Allure Breaks His Silence! | Meet Our Production Team

    In this explosive episode, Father Al Allure finally tells his side of the story after Ricky’s live and interview shook the ballroom world. He opens up about the creation of the legendary House of Allure, sharing the vision, struggles, and the leadership that made it an iconic ballroom family. Father Al doesn’t hold back as he weighs in on controversial topics, including why he believes butch queens aren't his first choice for the role of mother in the ballroom hierarchy, and what it truly means to nurture, lead, and protect a house. From legacy, power, and politics to personal reflections on loyalty, love, and community, Father Al Allure delivers truth straight from experience and authority. This is more than a response — it’s a masterclass in ballroom history, house leadership, and the code of Fem Queens versus Butch queens, told by one of the culture’s most influential voices. Stay to the end to get a peak behind the scenes and meet our incredible production team! The Season 5 Finale concludes now! Hosted by: Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, & Tempress  New Episodes Weekly Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a moment of the Crazy, Sexy & Cool energy! Follow Asia Snowden https://www.instagram.com/born_blondi3 Follow Tabytha Gonzalez https://www.instagram.com/tabythagonzalez Follow Tempress https://www.instagram.com/i_am_tempress Follow Black Trans Femmes in the Arts https://www.instagram.com/btfacollective PRODUCTION TEAM Set Design/Production/Editing by: Gatekeeper Adrian https://www.instagram.com/gatekeeper90 Michael Dajour https://www.instagram.com/michaeldajour Sound Mixing By: Jackie M https://www.instagram.com/wavy_bagels Production Assistant: Kneaku https://www.instagram.com/kneaku Makeup by: Symone https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.effect Hair by: Charmaine https://www.instagram.com/styledbycharmaine Powered by Black Trans Femmes in the Arts https://www.btfacollective.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 36m

  2. 12/19/2025

    S5 EP14 | Fem Queen Supremacy: ICON Mother Angel Revlon on Ballroom, Power & Being THAT Girl

    Ballroom doesn’t move without Fem Queens — and Mother Angel Revlon is proof. This episode is not for the comfortable. Overall Supreme Icon Mother Angel Revlon steps into the room and delivers real Fem Queen authority, speaking openly about the state of ballroom, the erosion of standards, and the urgent need for leadership accountability. With decades of lived experience, she breaks down what it actually means to be a Fem Queen, why the category is not a costume or a trend, and how power, politics, and proximity have shifted the culture. From her dominatrix days and survival hustle to love, boundaries, and softness, Mother Angel Revlon reminds everyone that Fem Queens didn’t just participate in ballroom — they built it. This conversation is part masterclass, part read, and part preservation of truth, straight from someone who earned every title, every flower, and every ounce of respect. The FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast is hosted by Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, and Tempress. Subscribe and turn on notifications for new WEEKLY episodes! Follow Asia Snowden   / born_blondi3   Follow Tabytha Gonzalez   / tabythagonzalez   Follow Tempress   / i_am_tempress   Follow ICON Angel Revlon   / touchedbytoi   Follow Black Trans Femmes in the Arts   / btfacollective   PRODUCTION TEAM Set Design/Production/Editing by: Gatekeeper Adrian   / gatekeeper90   Michael Dajour   / michaeldajour   Sound Mixing By: Jackie M   / wavy_bagels   Production Assistant: Kneaku Ashae   / kneakuashae   Makeup by: Symone   / thebarbe.effect   Hair by: Charmaine   / styledbycharmaine   Powered by Black Trans Femmes in the Arts https://www.btfacollective.org/ RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY GLAAD: https://glaad.org The Center: https://gaycenter.org National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org Sylvia Rivera Law Project: https://srlp.org A4TE: https://transequality.org/ Association of Transgender Professionals: https://transgenderprofessionals.org Ackerman Institute for the Family: https://ackerman.org New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP): https://avp.org InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth: https://interactavocates.org Lambda Legal: https://lambdalegal.org Transgender Law Center: https://transgenderlawcenter.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 6m

  3. 12/12/2025

    S5 EP13 | Carmen Carrera BREAKS IT ALL DOWN: Hollywood Return, RHOM Secrets & What’s new in Her Dating Life

    Supermodel, actress, and trans icon Carmen Carrera joins the show for an intimate and unfiltered conversation you won’t want to miss. From her highly anticipated new film, to her buzz-worthy guest appearance on Real Housewives of Miami, Carmen is spilling tea, dropping gems, and opening up about what life looks like for her right now—on and off camera. This powerful episode spotlights Carmen’s evolution navigating fame as a trans pioneer, her impact on pop culture, and her relationship with a Republican??? If you love Carmen Carrera, reality TV, pop culture, LGBTQ+ storytelling, or Black trans women–led media, this is the episode for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 59m

  4. 12/05/2025

    S5 EP12 | ICON Ricky ‘Kashmere’ Allure EXPOSES It All: Viral Video & The Reason He Left The House of Allure

    Guest: Ricky “Kashmere” Allure — Iconic vogue-fem legend, former House of Allure stalwart Get ready. In this episode, vogue-fem icon Ricky “Kashmere” Allure sits down for a rare, no-holds-barred conversationabout the shocking decision to leave the House of Allure after 22 years. What happens when loyalty, legacy, and heartbreak collide? We unpack it all. The real story behind his departure — the pain, betrayal, and wild emotions that had the ballroom world talking. A raw recount of the viral live that sent shockwaves through the community and ignited conversations about loyalty, leadership, and chosen family. Reflections on two decades of shaping generations of vogue-fem performers, mentoring and inspiring young talent, and building a house that felt like home. The complicated truth of house culture: what it means to invest your life in a “family,” when it’s built on love, performance, and community — and what it does when that house no longer holds you. We also dive into what “walking away” means — and what comes next. What exactly is “The Agency”? What legacy is Kashmere building now, and how will his departure shape the next chapter of his influence on ballroom culture and vogue-fem? Listeners will get firsthand what the future may hold. This isn’t just ballroom gossip — this is a historic reckoning. A chance to understand the emotional labor, the sacrifices, and the contradictions inherent in building something beautiful that eventually breaks you. Whether you know ballroom inside out — or are hearing about it for the first time — this episode will challenge, inspire, and move you. The FQ Crazy, Sexy, & Cool Podcast is hosted by Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, and Tempress. Subscribe and turn on notifications for new WEEKLY episodes! Follow Asia Snowden   / born_blondi3   Follow Tabytha Gonzalez   / tabythagonzalez   Follow Tempress   / i_am_tempress   Follow Ricky Allure   / mrdresskode   Follow Black Trans Femmes in the Arts   / btfacollective   PRODUCTION TEAM Set Design/Production/Editing by: Gatekeeper Adrian   / gatekeeper90   Michael Dajour   / michaeldajour   Sound Mixing By: Jackie M   / wavy_bagels   Production Assistant: Kneaku   / kneaku   Makeup by: Symone   / thebarbe.effect   Hair by: Charmaine   / styledbycharmaine   Powered by Black Trans Femmes in the Arts https://www.btfacollective.org/ RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY GLAAD: https://glaad.org The Center: https://gaycenter.org National Center for Transgender Equality: https://transequality.org Sylvia Rivera Law Project: https://srlp.org A4TE: https://transequality.org/ Association of Transgender Professionals: https://transgenderprofessionals.org Ackerman Institute for the Family: https://ackerman.org New York City Anti-Violence Project (AVP): https://avp.org InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth: https://interactavocates.org Lambda Legal: https://lambdalegal.org Transgender Law Center: https://transgenderlawcenter.org DestinationTomorrow: https://destinationtomorrow.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 4m

  5. 11/24/2025

    S5 E11 | ICON Toya Ebony Unfiltered: Realness, House Loyalty & How to Hold Ballroom Accountable

    Step into the world of ballroom with ICON Overall Mother Toya Ebony as she sits down with us for a brutally honest, no-holds-barred conversation. From breaking down what realness truly requires, to the unspoken rules of staying loyal to a house, to navigating love and relationships while living in your truth—Toya gives it all to us raw, reflective, and unapologetically real. Whether you’re ballroom fam, a student of the culture, or just here for the tea, this episode dives deep into identity, community, discipline, and the kind of loyalty you can’t fake. Get ready for wisdom, laughs, truth bombs, and the motherly gems only Toya Ebony can deliver. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 45m

  6. 11/13/2025

    S5 EP10| Miss International Queen Midori Monet Breaks Her Silence! Talks competition, controversy & ballroom

    FQ Crazy, Sexy & Cool – Episode: “The Reign of Midori Monét In this powerful episode, Miss International Queen 2025 Midori Monét joins the girls to spill the truth behind her historic win, the viral moment when contestants embraced the runner-up instead of her, and how she continues to reign with grace and grit. From the ballroom floor to the global pageant stage, Midori opens up about identity, resilience, and what it really means to wear the crown when the world’s watching. The conversation goes beyond the crown — touching on confidence, community, and the power of trans visibility in international spaces. This is an intimate, unfiltered, and inspiring sit-down you don’t want to miss.  Hosted by: Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, & Tempress New Episodes Weekly Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a moment of the Crazy, Sexy & Cool energy! Follow Asia Snowden https://www.instagram.com/born_blondi3 Follow Tabytha Gonzalez https://www.instagram.com/tabythagonzalez Follow Tempress https://www.instagram.com/i_am_tempress Follow Midori Monet https://www.instagram.com/midorimonet Follow Black Trans Femmes in the Arts https://www.instagram.com/btfacollective PRODUCTION TEAM Set Design/Production/Editing by: Gatekeeper Adrian https://www.instagram.com/gatekeeper90 Michael Dajour https://www.instagram.com/michaeldajour Sound Mixing By: Jackie M https://www.instagram.com/wavy_bagels Production Assistant: Kneaku https://www.instagram.com/kneaku Makeup by: Symone https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.effect Hair by: Charmaine https://www.instagram.com/styledbycharmaine Powered by Black Trans Femmes in the Arts https://www.btfacollective.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 3m

  7. 11/07/2025

    S5 EP9 | Icon Eyricka Lanvin EXPOSES the Truth About HBO’s Legendary, #JusticeForEyricka & Ballroom Politics

    In this explosive episode of FQ Crazy, Sexy & Cool, Ballroom icon Eyricka Lanvin holds NOTHING back. From the truth behind her rise on Legendary to the real story of #JusticeForEyricka and her time behind bars, she’s reclaiming her narrative and spilling the tea they didn’t want you to hear. We dig into the inner workings of ballroom categories, survival in spaces stacked against you, and how self-power looks when you’re both seen and underestimated. Raw. Real. Revolutionary. Eyricka Lanvin is a longstanding legend in the Ballroom scene — recognized as an “Icon” and Mother of the House of Xclusive Lanvin. Her journey includes groundbreaking walks in Femme Queen Face and Realness categories, leadership roles in one of the community’s most respected houses, and a notable presence on the competition series Legendary.Her struggle and survival also became viral under the movement #JusticeForEyricka: she endured incarceration in a male-dominated facility and experienced abuse simply for existing authentically as a trans woman. Now, she stands as a voice of resilience and transformation — offering a look behind the scenes of ballroom politics, fame, incarceration, and reclamation. The full story behind her appearance on HBO’s Legendary — what they didn't show, how she led her house, and how she walked away. Her account of incarceration: the system that failed her, the community that saved her, and the fight she still carries. Deep conversation about ballroom categories: what they mean, how they sustain culture, and how the politics of show vs. substance play out under award lights. Reflections on identity, transformation, and what it takes to thrive when history wants to put you in a box or erase you entirely. Wisdom for the listeners: whether you’re in ballroom, creative, LGBTQ+, survivor, or simply seeking power through truth. Asia Snowden • Tabytha Gonzalez • Tempress New episodes drop weekly — subscribe now and turn on notifications so you don’t miss a beat. Follow the guest: Follow Eyricka   / eyricka_flawless   Follow Asia Snowden ⁠https://www.instagram.com/born_blondi3⁠ Follow Tabytha Gonzalez https://www.instagram.com/tabythagonzalez Follow Tempress ⁠https://www.instagram.com/i_am_tempress⁠ Follow Black Trans Femmes in the Arts ⁠https://www.instagram.com/btfacollective⁠ PRODUCTION TEAM Set Design/Production/Editing by: Gatekeeper Adrian ⁠https://www.instagram.com/gatekeeper90⁠ Michael Dajour ⁠https://www.instagram.com/michaeldajour⁠ Sound Mixing By: Jackie M ⁠https://www.instagram.com/wavy_bagels⁠ Production Assistant: Kneaku ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kneaku⁠ Makeup by: Symone https://www.instagram.com/thebarbe.effect Hair by: Charmaine https://www.instagram.com/styledbycharmaine Powered by Black Trans Femmes in the Arts ⁠https://www.btfacollective.org/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 9m

  8. 11/04/2025

    S5 EP 8 | Truth, Dares & Ghostly Secrets | Our Chaotic Halloween Special!

    The veil is thin and the vibes are thicker than ever! 👻 Join your favorite spooky sisters for a Halloween special full of taboo topics, unfiltered truths, and dares summoned straight from the ghostly gold bowl. Costumes? On. Shots? Poured. Secrets? …Accidentally revealed 😭 FQCRAZYSEXYCOOL where the culture gets real, and the conversation stays legendary. Hosted by Asia Snowden, Tabytha Gonzalez, and Tempress. Subscribe and turn on notifications for new WEEKLY episodes! Stream Now: ⁠YouTube⁠ ⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ HOSTS ⁠Asia Snowden⁠⁠ Tabytha Gonzalez⁠⁠ Tempress⁠ PRODUCTION TEAM ⁠Black Trans Femmes in the Arts⁠⁠ Set Design / Production / Editing: ⁠Gatekeeper Adrian⁠ & ⁠Michael Dajour⁠ Sound Mixing: ⁠Jackie M⁠ Production Assistant: ⁠Kneaku ⁠Makeup: ⁠Symone⁠ Hair: ⁠Charmaine⁠ Powered by ⁠Black Trans Femmes in the Arts (BTFA)⁠ RESOURCES FOR COMMUNITY SUPPORT ⁠GLAAD⁠ ⁠The Center⁠ ⁠National Center for Transgender Equality⁠ ⁠Sylvia Rivera Law Project⁠ ⁠Association of Transgender Professionals⁠ ⁠Ackerman Institute for the Family⁠ ⁠NYC Anti-Violence Project (AVP)⁠ ⁠InterACT Advocates for Intersex Youth⁠ ⁠Lambda Legal⁠ ⁠Transgender Law Center⁠ ⁠Destination Tomorrow⁠ For more information on Melanated Movement: https://aidsunited.org/action/melanated-movement/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    2h 9m
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Welcome to the Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool Podcast, hosted by three trailblazing women who are pillars of the ballroom community—Tabytha, Asia, and Tempress (aka Chasity). Known for their powerful activism, leadership, and unapologetic approach to life, these queens bring you fresh, fun, and fierce conversations every week. As outspoken advocates for the rights and empowerment of the LGBTQ+ and ballroom communities, the ladies of Fem Queen Crazy Sexy Cool dive deep into everything from personal growth and mental health to pop culture, relationships, and social justice. 

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  • Channel
    REVOLT
  • Creator
    REVOLT
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    38
  • Rating
    Explicit

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