The Marriage Magnet Podcast

Nechama Phillips
  • 5.0 (12)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Biweekly

This show is your ultimate guide to becoming and attracting the love you deserve. Hosted by Nechama, a life and relationship coach for women, this show empowers growth-minded, high value women to elevate their dating journey, attract the right one, create a thriving marriage and become the best version of themselves along the way. Through practical advice, inspiring client success stories and thoughtful conversations in each episode, Nechama unpacks the mindset shifts and actionable strategies that transform the self & relationships: leading to effective dating and happy, healthy marriages.

  1. 6d ago

    32. Can A Baby Ruin Your Marriage? Surviving the Transition to New Parenthood with Therapist Eli Weinstein

    Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband?My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!!https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCASTLearn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78bAbout this episode:Host Nechama Phillips interviews therapist, coach, and author Eli Weinstein about preparing for marriage and parenthood by focusing on “green flags” and practical relationship skills. They discuss how the transition from partners to parents can overwhelm identity, attention, and connection, leading to resentment unless couples learn to pivot, clarify shared direction, and put fears on the table. Eli emphasizes “treasure hunting” for positives, using gratitude and frequent “thank you” to reduce negativity and help partners feel seen, and avoiding scorekeeping or expecting to return to how things were pre-kids. For dating and marriage, they highlight green flags like listening, willingness to grow, intentional effort, healthy conflict, showing up in hard times, and direct “full communication” about needs. They also share small daily connection habits and love-language-based gestures.//CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillipsThis podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms.//Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off// SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    47 min

  2. May 18

    31. Unlock the Secret To Drama-Free Dating Decisions So You Can Stop Overthinking and Second-Guessing Yourself

    Nechama tackles one of the most draining parts of dating: the exhausting decision-making after dates that leads to spiraling, overthinking, and relying too heavily on others’ opinions. She explains how women often get stuck in “premature certainty,” trying to decide their future based on too little information, which can lead to either saying yes out of anxiety or saying no too quickly using logic alone. Nechama emphasizes that the solution is building a foundation of clarity—self-knowledge, values, needs, desires, and realistic high standards—so decisions become easier and more aligned. She introduces her Ultimate Clarity Quiz, a quick after-date decision tool (for dates 1–3) that scores practical, emotional, and intuitive factors to help you reflect with confidence and stop wasting time. Download it here: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband?My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCASTLearn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    16 min

  3. May 4

    30. Our Favorite & Least Favorite Parts of Marriage (Do We Miss Being Single?) Featuring my husband Yehuda

    Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband? My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!!https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:Nechama is joined by her husband Yehuda, and they get into their favorite aspects of marriage as well as what they miss about single life. They share the beauty in the containment of a committed relationship and how the fear of being tied down can hold so many back from actualizing their true potential. This episode will give you some great insights and good laughs on the transition from single to married life from the perspective of both man and woman that will impact those married, and those still dating. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsyn Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9 Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off

    25 min

  4. Apr 20

    29. How To Stop Doubting Your Dating Decisions & Trust Yourself More

    Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband? My 'Aligned Attraction' Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!!https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Single and want to join the life changing MMM program? Do so here: https://realization.thrivecart.com/mmm-program/ Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:Nechama unpacks a powerful idea for dating with clarity and ease... once you’ve made a clear, intuitive decision, much of the second-guessing that follows is fear trying to renegotiate your standards. In this episode, she explores why dating can feel so exhausting when you keep re-deciding what you already know, how that pattern erodes self-trust, and what it looks like to stay grounded in your values without becoming rigid or “too picky.” You’ll leave with a clearer way to recognize when you’re spiraling, return to your inner clarity, and make choices with more confidence and ease—so dating feels less draining and more intentional. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsyn Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9 Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    15 min

  5. Mar 25

    28. We Recently Started Ballroom Dancing Lessons and It Changed Our Marriage DRASTICALLY Ft. My Husband Yehuda Phillips

    Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband? My Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: What if a ballroom dance lesson could reveal the exact patterns that make marriage feel effortless—or tense? In this conversation, Nechama and Yehuda share how learning to dance together became a real-time metaphor for partnership: why “helpful” corrections can create more friction, how leadership has to be felt (not just intended), and what it actually takes to relax into being led without secretly controlling the outcome. They unpack the push-pull dynamic that keeps couples stuck, the role of trust and clear cues in staying connected, and why doing something imperfectly together can build confidence, closeness, and a more playful, resilient relationship. If you want practical relationship takeaways wrapped in a fun, surprising lens, this episode will resonate deeply if you're married as well as give you great perspective if you're single. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    28 min

  6. Mar 9

    27. Why Dating Advice Is Keeping You Single and What To Do Instead To Find Right One ASAP!

    Want the spark AND values alignment in your future husband?Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:When smart, self-aware women feel stuck or exhausted in dating despite trying advice and courses, the issue is rarely practical strategy and more often deeper emotional and relational patterns. Nechama describes common defenses—fear of vulnerability, conflict tension, grief about unmet timelines, avoidance of rejection by keeping the upper hand, long-term family emotional responsibility, and confusion between healthy flexibility and self-protection—that shape attraction, availability, and commitment. Surface advice like “be more open” or “stop overthinking” can backfire because it asks women to override protective systems rather than understand them. Her Marriage Magnet Method Program focuses on inside-out change—self-acceptance, intuition, worthiness, authenticity, communication, and building safety—so patterns transform, dating feels calmer and clearer, and women make aligned choices toward the marriage they want. //CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    9 min

  7. Feb 16

    26. Lyric Breakdown of "Someone You Loved" by Lewis Capaldi: What Codependency Looks Like In Relationships, Marriages and Breakups

    Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: This lyrics breakdown takes a closer look at “Someone You Loved” by Louis Capaldi—and what sounds like a simple breakup song starts to reveal something much deeper. What if the real pain isn’t just missing a person… but losing the version of you that existed inside their love? What if “I need somebody to heal” isn’t romantic at all—what if it’s a red flag? We unpack the subtle line between support and dependence, why certain connections feel like oxygen, and how this same dynamic can quietly show up in dating and even long-term marriages. You’ll leave with powerful questions to reflect on—about chemistry, identity, vulnerability, and what it really means to feel secure in love—plus a quick invitation to learn more about the Marriage Magnet Method program and the Aligned Attraction course by Nechama."Gray" Divorce article: https://ifstudies.org/blog/divorce-in-decline-about-40-of-todays-marriages-will-end-in-divorce Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    20 min

  8. Feb 2

    25. Marriage Expectations vs. Reality: Debunking Myths on Intimacy and Communication with Orthodox Therapist Lauren Hofstatter

    Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:Nechama interviews Lauren Hofstatter (@theorthodoxtherapist on IG) Orthodox Jewish therapist and she shares crucial insights into marriage within the Orthodox community. We discuss common misconceptions about dating and marriage, the ongoing effort required for a successful relationship, and how women can prepare themselves before marriage to build healthy, happy, lasting relationships. This episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, communication, and proper education on one's biology, challenging the fairy tale narrative many have about marriage. Listen until the end for valuable advice directed towards single women, highlighting the benefits of premarital counseling and continuous self-work for the life and love you deserve. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off/ // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    42 min
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This show is your ultimate guide to becoming and attracting the love you deserve. Hosted by Nechama, a life and relationship coach for women, this show empowers growth-minded, high value women to elevate their dating journey, attract the right one, create a thriving marriage and become the best version of themselves along the way. Through practical advice, inspiring client success stories and thoughtful conversations in each episode, Nechama unpacks the mindset shifts and actionable strategies that transform the self & relationships: leading to effective dating and happy, healthy marriages.

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  • Creator
    Nechama Phillips
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Nechama Phillips
  • Show Website
    The Marriage Magnet Podcast

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