In Laws We Trust Podcast

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Welcome fam! This is the In Laws We Trust Podcast. We are your hosts Ash, Chei, and B who, are in fact, in laws to the same family. If you've ever asked yourself questions like, "How can I navigate my trauma to be a better partner/spouse?" or " What do I do when meeting my partner's family for the first time?" then join us as we have these conversations together. Our conversations also explore the dynamics of long-term relationships, marriage, parenthood, self identity, mental health, and self-growth. We invite you to ride along with us as we begin a new chapter of growth and progress. Cheers!

Episodes

  1. Jan 10

    Episode 10: We’re Not Really Strangers! Season 1 Finale

    Thanks for tuning in for this concluding episode of In Laws We Trust, season one! We truly appreciate all your support, feedback, and just hanging out with us as we explore and grow our relationships and ourselves! In this episode we play the popular purpose-driven card game, We’re Not Really Strangers, to celebrate the end of our first season of our first ever podcast together. This exciting episode is our authentic selves answering questions like “How would you title this chapter of your life?” and “Can we be in a band together?” We share nuggets of wisdom, love, realizations, and lots and lots of laughs. You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/gUTHowgM_Bg FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 3m

  2. 12/06/2025

    Episode 9: In Her Healing Era

    Thanks for tuning into Cheili’s special episode on healing and growing from her experiences.  Change means putting in the hard work: reflecting, processing, holding ourselves accountable, and moving with intention. And doing it again and again. In this episode, Cheili gets into her healing journey while reading books, such as The Body Keeps the Score, and reflecting on who she was and who she wants to be. We also get into morning mindsets, being honest with ourselves, and of course, how our self-growth affects our relationships. Thank you also for listening to our mini series, Seasons of Change. Last episode of the season coming soon! You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/5V6PqJ1u7Cs FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 9m

  3. 09/28/2025

    Episode 8: Peas in a Pod(cast)

    Thanks for tuning into Ashley’s special episode on friendships. Changes in friendships—and other interpersonal relationships—can change us in ways we didn’t even realize. Special shoutout to our homies, our day one’s, our chosen families.  In this episode we also get into our value systems, the ways we’ve been inspired by the people in our lives, and what adds spice to our lives (and food).  You can WATCH the episode: [YT LINK] FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 1m

  4. 09/04/2025

    Episode 7: Seasons of Change - Parenthood and Beyond

    The first big change we’re diving into? Parenthood. In this episode, Kuya Brian shares how he is navigating change when he became a dad to two beautiful daughters—the challenges, the joys, and the growth along the way. It’s the start of our mini-series on change, where each of us opens up about navigating life’s turning points. And of course, a special shoutout to the parents, grandparents, guardians, and big siblings who show us unconditional love every day. This one’s for you. 💛 You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/kjz_R8-o8oQ FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    56 min

  5. 08/14/2025

    Episode 6: Seasons of Change

    Thanks for listening to our episode on change! We at ILWT Pod are pretty adverse to change, but we know it’s the only constant thing in life. In this episode, we commiserate in our shared feelings surrounding transitions and introduce the next THREE episodes of the pod for our upcoming mini-series “Seasons of Change.” We’re excited to go even deeper in each episode, focusing on each member’s experience with these mini-evolutions. See you on the next episode :)  You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/GCwZ1Ghj5jE FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    39 min

  6. 04/24/2025

    Episode 5: Opening Up About…Opening Up

    Thanks for letting us open up in this episode of the In-Laws We Trust Podcast. In this episode, we get vulnerable about opening up: to our partners, ourselves—and even to you—our audience. Vulnerability as a medium for human connection, so we encourage you to start opening up to the people around you. And if you’re doing it already, great! Make sure to do so with care and intention. We’re rooting for ya! You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/5hDf65KD9ak FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    54 min

  7. 04/03/2025

    Episode 4: Are You As "Advertised"?

    Thanks for listening to another episode of In Laws We Trust Podcast :)  In this episode, we examined the different stages of a relationship and identified where we were with our partners. We especially take a deep dive into the “comfortable” stage of relationships and ask ourselves: are we “as advertised” to our partners? You can WATCH the episode: [YT LINK] FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 1m

  8. 02/27/2025

    Episode 3: Navigating and Setting Boundaries

    Thanks for listening to this episode on boundaries! We know it’s a heavy topic, so we’re with you on taking some time and space for yourself :)  In this episode, we define boundaries in our relationships– not just romantic ones. We explore why we need them and what healthy boundaries look like.  We also explore codependency and ask ourselves: are we codependent? Co-dependents Anonymous (CoDA) resource: https://coda.org/meeting-materials/patterns-and-characteristics-2011/ You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/MCNbZC0xfRI FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 9m

  9. 01/30/2025

    Episode 2: Therapy, Trauma, and Togetherness

    Thanks for being vulnerable with us. We know this episode was heavy (it was a lot for us, too), but we sincerely hope you learned something from our experiences and how we tried to learn and grow from them.  In this episode, we talk about some of our traumas and how they differ from our significant others’ experiences, our experience with marriage counseling and inner child healing, and answer some questions set out by Dr. Gottmann that help foster closeness in relationships.  Here’s a sample of Dr. Gottmann’s questions that you can use: https://www.growingedgesnm.com/uploads/9/7/5/0/97506900/gottman_open_ended_questions.pdf You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/-8-b_dWe2K0 FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @inlawswetrustpodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cheilikawaii @cptn_bee And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 27m

  10. 01/11/2025

    Who and Why: Welcome to the In Laws We Trust Podcast

    Thanks for tuning in to the first episode of In Laws We Trust Podcast— a new series where three in-laws examine what growth looks like in the context of a committed relationship. In this episode, Ash, B, and Chei talk about who they are, how ILWT came about, and how they navigate their relationships as parents, newlyweds, and long-term S.O.s. Keep riding with us in the new episode where we talk about marriage counseling, therapy and processing trauma in relation to our partners. It’s a good one.  You can WATCH the episode: https://youtu.be/G7kvqW9JJLg FOLLOW us on IG and TikTok: @InLawsWeTrustPodcast And our solos: @lookingforashley_ @cptn_bee @cheilikawaii And don’t forget to FOLLOW our show to get notified each time we drop an episode. Intro/Outro beat produced by: INTHEFLOWERS Spotify: INTHEFLOWERS IG: @inthe__flowers See you on the next one, fam!

    1h 13m
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Welcome fam! This is the In Laws We Trust Podcast. We are your hosts Ash, Chei, and B who, are in fact, in laws to the same family. If you've ever asked yourself questions like, "How can I navigate my trauma to be a better partner/spouse?" or " What do I do when meeting my partner's family for the first time?" then join us as we have these conversations together. Our conversations also explore the dynamics of long-term relationships, marriage, parenthood, self identity, mental health, and self-growth. We invite you to ride along with us as we begin a new chapter of growth and progress. Cheers!

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  • Creator
    InLawsWeTrust
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Explicit
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