R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast

Shane Kilby and Duane Murphy
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🎙️ Welcome to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast, hosted by Shane Kilby & Duane Murphy ! Each week, we bring you actionable tips, expert insights, and inspiring stories to help real estate professionals thrive. From lead generation and marketing to negotiation and mindset, we cover it all. Perfect for agents looking to grow, learn, and succeed. New episodes drop every week —don’t miss out! Subscribe, share, and join the conversation. Let’s elevate your real estate game!

  1. 4d ago

    You Can Build A Scalable Team By Fixing Mindset First

    Send us Fan Mail Your next breakthrough in real estate might not be a new script or a new lead source, it might be the operating system you run every day.  We sit down with Kyle Chernetsky, a California broker who started by buying mobile homes with almost no capital, then built a property management company that became an unfair advantage for real estate sales, investor relationships, and long-term client trust.  The result is a business that does not depend on hype, it compounds through service, database depth, and repeatable habits. We talk through the exact turning points: why property management creates a built-in pipeline of homeowners and investors, how that pipeline naturally leads to listings and 1031 exchange opportunities, and what changed when the market flipped and team growth suddenly got hard.  Kyle breaks down the “investment partner” model, the discipline of agent activation, and the real reason many experienced agents stall out: they believe they already know the work, but they have not rebuilt the habits that produce results. Then we get tactical about recruiting and marketing.  Kyle shares how simple, consistent email marketing to an agent database can replace chasing with attraction, shortening the time from first conversation to commitment because people experience your coaching before they ever join.  We also go deeper on leadership, stress, and the personal growth required to raise the ceiling of the organisation. If you’re serious about real estate team building, recruiting, mindset, email marketing, and building a scalable real estate business, listen through to the end.  Subscribe, share this with an agent who needs momentum, and leave a five-star review so more people can find the show. 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

  2. 6d ago

    Stop Waiting For A Crash And Start Building Equity

    Send us Fan Mail Rates are in the sixes, buyers feel payment shock, and the internet keeps promising a market collapse that never seems to arrive.  Shane Kilby and Duane Murphy sit down for a straight, practical talk about what’s actually happening on the ground and how to make smart moves even when the headlines feel chaotic.  We dig into the mindset shift that changes everything: most people don’t buy the price, they buy the payment and the plan behind it. We walk through a real example of what waiting can cost when home price appreciation runs 30% to 40% over just a few years.  Even if mortgage rates eventually soften, a higher purchase price can erase the “win” and knock buyers out of qualification altogether.  That leads into the part agents and consumers often miss: real estate is hyperlocal. National stories about a “buyer’s market” don’t mean much if your area is sitting on 30 to 60 days of inventory and listings rack up 16 offers in two days. From there, we get tactical about decision-making in tight markets: needs versus wants, why the first home is rarely the forever home, and how elite problem solvers help clients buy the asset first and upgrade later.  We also cover a common roadblock, the buyer who signs a new lease and feels stuck, including relationship follow-up, realistic timelines, and the possibility of negotiating a lease buyout with a landlord. If you want grounded real estate advice on mortgage rates 2026, housing affordability, inventory, and buyer strategy, hit play, then subscribe, share the show, and leave us a five-star review.  What’s the biggest obstacle you’re facing in your local market right now? 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

  3. Aug 23

    How Shilo AI Turns Sales Calls Into Better Closings

    Send us Fan Mail Most real estate teams track calls, texts, and appointments, but the real make-or-break factor stays hidden: how your conversations actually land. We’re joined by Justin Benson, founder of Shiloh AI and the mind behind BARA Agency, to talk about what happens when you turn sales calls into coachable data without turning agents into robots. If you’ve ever hung up and thought “I wish I could run that back,” Justin explains how AI can do exactly that through transcription, grading, and role play built from your real conversations.  We dig into the practical side of AI in real estate sales training: why raw activity doesn’t equal results, how Shiloh surfaces early warning signals long before lagging indicators show up, and what “good” sounds like across three categories: building trust, handling objections cleanly, and keeping momentum with a defined next step. Justin also shares why scripts don’t have to feel scripted, and how personalized coaching based on DISC-style tendencies can help new agents ramp faster while giving experienced agents sharper feedback on the small habits that cost deals.  We also zoom out to the bigger picture of real estate technology: the importance of workflows people actually use, why clean CRM data matters more than flashy dashboards, and where AI is likely headed next. Justin’s take is clear: great agents don’t get replaced, they get augmented, and the agents who stay curious will compound their edge as the market shifts.  If you want a smarter way to improve conversion, tighten your talk tracks, and coach at scale, hit play. Then subscribe, share this with an agent who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

  4. Jul 18

    From Marine Discipline To Real Estate Mastery

    Send us Fan Mail He started with a dead-end factory job, grabbed a phone book at lunch, and called the Marine Corps. Years later, he’s sleeping outside a developer’s office to secure lots, flipping an option with relentless builder calls, and discovering the kind of opportunity that hooks you for life. We talk with Mike Coke, founder of Terra Firma and a former Marine, about what it really takes to build a durable real estate career when the market is moving and your confidence is not. Mike walks us through the full arc: early land sales, scaling into leadership, then the gut punch of the 2008 housing and mortgage crisis when banks stop renewing development notes and a booming business gets forced to shut down. Instead of quitting, he pivots into managing and liquidating distressed developments, running HOAs, and rebuilding into a brokerage that he runs like a “teamridge” to keep leverage high and liability low. He also shares why he ultimately aligned with EXP to create a bigger world for his people and reclaim time from compliance. We go deep on the fundamentals that still win: discipline, consistent prospecting, and measuring the right leading indicator: real conversations. Mike breaks down the trap of “flexibility” without structure, why hiring and culture are often the hardest lessons, and why splits are a distraction if you cannot point to real receipts like training, support, and proven agent growth. If you want more closings, more freedom, and a stronger pipeline, press play, then subscribe, share this with an agent who needs it, and leave us a five-star review. 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

  5. Jun 6

    Rookie To 52 Closings

    Send us Fan Mail 52 closings in your first year sounds like a highlight reel, but the real story is what happens after the adrenaline fades.  We sit down with Andrea Kugler, a Cincinnati and Hamilton, Ohio real estate agent who’s now a brokerage co-owner and newly building a team, to talk about what it really takes to grow a sustainable real estate career from the ground up.  Her journey starts nowhere near real estate: nutrition school, personal training, multiple jobs, and a moment of honesty where she admits there’s no longevity in what she’s doing. Andrea shares how a mentor (who later becomes her father-in-law) kept pushing her to give real estate a shot, why she finally went all-in, and how she handled the steep learning curve that comes with high volume production.  We dig into the difference between hustle and structure, including the turning point many agents hit: business dips, follow-up gets messy, and you realise “work harder” is not a system.  We talk CRMs, lead nurture, relationship building, and why you can’t live on 16-hour days forever. We also go deeper than transactions.  Andrea opens up about loss, taking time away when her mom battled breast cancer, and returning to a pipeline that felt like starting over.  The conversation lands on grit, rejection, social media criticism, and a wild metaphor for business growth: training for a triathlon even though she can’t swim yet.  If you’re a new real estate agent, a solo agent trying to scale, or someone thinking about building a real estate team, there’s a lot here to steal. Subscribe, share this with an agent who needs a push, and leave a five-star review so more people can find the show. 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

  6. Apr 24

    What If Real Estate Is Your Ministry

    Send us Fan Mail A single home search can change the way you see the world. When Martha Melendez tried to buy a house as a young woman, she wasn’t met with guidance or respect, she was pushed toward where someone else thought she “fit.” That moment didn’t just sting, it became the reason she got her real estate license and built a service-first career in Orlando, Florida focused on protecting clients, explaining the process, and treating people like family. We dig into Martha’s backstory as an immigrant from Colombia who had to learn English fast and grow up even faster to help her mother navigate life in the US. That foundation shows up in her business today: she listens harder, teaches more clearly, and stays calm when buyers and sellers feel overwhelmed. If you care about client experience, referral-based real estate, and building trust that lasts beyond the closing table, you’ll hear exactly how she does it and why it works. We also get real about leadership and systems. Martha shares a recent mistake she owned as a team leader, what it taught her about leading from the front, and why modern distractions demand more repetition and clarity than ever. Her most practical advice is simple and painful if you’ve learned it late: use a CRM now, because the best CRM is the one you actually use. If you got value from this, subscribe, share it with an agent who needs a reset, and leave a five-star review so more people can find the show. What part of Martha’s story hit you most? 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

  7. Apr 21

    From Accidental Agent To Lean Team Leader

    Send us Fan Mail Some people enter real estate with a five-year plan.  Kathleen Borella entered because her brother was fed up with agents who would not answer the phone, and that one standard kicked off a career built on trust, speed, and doing what you say you’ll do. We talk with Kathleen in Savannah Georgia about the early years of production, how she reverse engineers goals into daily behaviors, and why she built a lean real estate team only when her capacity started to fail clients.  She breaks down what leverage really looks like, why admin support can matter more than adding another agent, and how staying profitable can beat chasing flashy growth.  We also get real about leadership: the cost of keeping the wrong people too long, setting standards, confronting issues with love, and protecting your business from chaos. Then the conversation goes deeper.  Kathleen shares how faith, spirituality, and nervous system awareness shape her approach to authenticity and personal branding, including the decision to speak more openly about the hard parts of her story.  We unpack the power of getting in the right rooms, learning from mentors, and returning to simple routines when business feels off track.  If you’re an agent trying to build a sustainable real estate business, lead a team with clarity, and define success on your terms, this one will stick with you. If you got value here, subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation, share this with a friend who needs Kathleen’s message, and leave us a five-star review to help more agents find the show. 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

    From Accidental Agent To Lean Team Leader

  8. Apr 6

    From Rookie To Rainmaker With 35,000 Hours Of Calls

    Send us Fan Mail Some people talk about “making calls.”  Andrea Daniels has lived them, more than 35,000 hours worth and she’s turned that obsession into a repeatable system for real estate lead conversion, prospecting, and sales confidence.  We bring her on to unpack what actually creates results when scripts, hype, and perfect market conditions disappear, and why the best agents aren’t born fearless, they get their reps until fear stops driving the car.  Andrea shares her path from early competitive wins at Enterprise Rent-A-Car to high-level financial sales, Keller Williams recruiting, and then betting on herself.  The moment that changes everything is surprisingly unsexy: simple math.  She explains how setting appointments for agents on a referral basis can scale fast, how one client’s GCI jumped from $134,000 to $845,000, and why most professionals leak money by “winging” conversations instead of practicing.  We also dig into Script Free Sales, ISA training, DISC styles, and the hard truth that databases and marketing don’t matter if you can’t earn trust on the phone.  One of the wildest stories is Andrea’s cold call to Phil Jones, which leads to collaboration, certification, and a speaking career that goes from free workshops to five-digit fees through relentless repetition.  She also gets real about her biggest regret in business: ego and delaying partnerships, plus the mindset shift she wishes she learned sooner: you don’t need permission.  If you want a practical, high-integrity approach to selling that works in real estate and beyond, you’ll want to take notes.  Subscribe for more conversations like this, leave a five-star review to help others find the show, and share this with a friend who keeps saying they’ll practice “when things slow down.”  What’s one sales rep you’re committing to this week? 🎙 Thank You for Tuning in to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast! We appreciate you joining us for another powerful episode where we dive deep into the world of real estate, mindset, and business growth. If you found value in this conversation, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your network! 👉 Never Miss an Episode! 🎧 Listen on your favorite platform: 📍 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/r-e-a-l-real-estate-agent-life-podcast/id1790088933 📍 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LAAYbtPUqYJdTVl83hZXS?si=bf6691d7eccf4688 📍 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@R.E.A.L.RealEstateAgentLif-l6z 📲 Stay Connected & Join the Conversation! 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shane.kilby 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanekilby/ 🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanekilby/ 💡 Want to be a guest on the show? If y...

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🎙️ Welcome to the R.E.A.L. Real Estate Agent Life Podcast, hosted by Shane Kilby & Duane Murphy ! Each week, we bring you actionable tips, expert insights, and inspiring stories to help real estate professionals thrive. From lead generation and marketing to negotiation and mindset, we cover it all. Perfect for agents looking to grow, learn, and succeed. New episodes drop every week —don’t miss out! Subscribe, share, and join the conversation. Let’s elevate your real estate game!

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