Conversations Beyond Borders

Laura Weyl & Susan Poulter
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Welcome to "A Conversation Beyond Borders" - a podcast hosted by two women who have raised their children and are now navigating their way through midlife. Join us as we explore life, family, and self-help-related topics through lively discussions and book reviews. We believe that midlife is a time for reflection, growth, and learning. We also know it can be a challenging time, full of transitions and changes. That’s why we created this podcast – to share our experiences, insights, and wisdom with others who are also going through this phase of life. Each episode, we tackle a different topic – from relationships to career to health and wellness – and share our own experiences and perspectives. We’ll also discuss books that have inspired us or helped us in some way, offering our thoughts and insights on the ideas they present. Our goal is to create a supportive, informative, and engaging space for those in midlife to connect with each other and explore new ideas. We hope our discussions and book reviews will inspire you to try new things, challenge your assumptions, and deepen your understanding of yourself and the world around you. So whether you’re a fellow empty nester, in midlife, or simply someone who loves a good book discussion, we invite you to join us on "A Conversation Beyond Borders" and share in our journey of discovery and growth. Connect with us on all the socials @ConversationsBeyondBorders, and visit our website at www.ConversationsBeyondBorders.com. We’d love to hear from you and have you be part of the conversation!

  1. 5h ago

    The Part of Menopause We Never Expected

    Send us Fan Mail When most of us imagined menopause, we pictured hot flashes, night sweats, and changing hormones. What many of us weren't prepared for were the emotional shifts—the unexpected grief, the changes in confidence, the moments of wondering who we are becoming, and the quiet realization that this season is about far more than our bodies. In this episode, Laura and Susan have an honest conversation about the side of menopause that often goes unspoken. They explore the losses that can accompany this transition, the surprising ways hormones influence our emotional experience, and why so many women feel like they're navigating these changes alone. More importantly, they discuss the freedom that can emerge in midlife—the growing confidence to live more authentically, care less about outside expectations, and embrace the next chapter with greater self-compassion. If you've ever wondered whether what you're feeling is "normal," this conversation is for you. Because menopause isn't just a physical transition—it's an emotional one, too. And understanding that can change everything. Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  2. Jul 24

    What If Your Choices Don't Need a Full Explanation?

    Send us Fan Mail How much of your life is spent explaining yourself? "I'm tired." "I've changed my mind." "I'm staying home tonight." Why do so many of us feel like those simple statements need a supporting presentation? In this episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, Laura and Susan explore the quiet habit of over-explaining—especially for women who have spent years trying to be dependable, accommodating, and understood. They unpack why saying "no" can feel so uncomfortable, how people-pleasing often disguises itself as kindness, and why midlife offers a unique opportunity to trust ourselves without seeking permission. This isn't a conversation about setting boundaries. It's about believing your decisions are valid even when they're not fully understood. In this episode, we discuss: Why so many women feel the need to justify their choices.The hidden emotional cost of over-explaining.How people-pleasing often begins with the desire to avoid disappointing others.Why conflict doesn't always have to be negative.The difference between being kind and feeling responsible for everyone else's reactions.Learning to say "No," "I'm not available," or "I've changed my mind" without guilt.Why changing your mind isn't inconsistency—it's growth.How trusting yourself becomes one of the greatest freedoms of midlife.Memorable Takeaways "A choice can simply be a choice.""You don't have to earn the right to make a decision that works for you.""Your explanation doesn't make your decision more valid.""One of the greatest freedoms of midlife is realizing that other people's understanding isn't required."Reflection Question The next time you catch yourself rehearsing a long explanation, pause and ask: Am I sharing because I want to...or because I think I have to earn the right to make this choice? Join the Conversation If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to hear your thoughts. Follow Conversations Beyond Borders on your favorite podcast platform, leave us a review, and join our private Facebook community where the conversations continue between episodes. Until next time… Take good care of yourself—and each other.  Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  3. Jul 9

    When Did My Own Voice Become the Quietest One in the Room?

    Send us Fan Mail  Long before we knew who we were, we were shaped by the voices around us. Parents. Teachers. Family expectations. Society. Over time, those messages become the stories we tell ourselves about who we should be, what we should want, and how we're supposed to live. In this episode, Susan and Laura take a thoughtful walk through the different seasons of a woman's life—from childhood and young adulthood to marriage, motherhood, and midlife—to explore how our inner voice evolves along the way. Together, they discuss: The childhood messages that quietly shape our beliefsHow comparison and expectations influence our decisionsWhy many women stop trusting their own instinctsWhat happens when life finally gets quiet enough to hear ourselves againHow choosing intention over expectation can help us reconnect with the voice that has been there all alongThis isn't an episode about finding your voice. It's about becoming curious about the one that's been with you all along—and asking whether it's finally time to let it lead. If you've ever wondered whose expectations you've been living by, or what you truly want in this season of life, this conversation is for you.  Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  4. Jun 25

    Why Does Everyone Think I'm Fine?

    Send us Fan Mail How many times have you answered the question "How are you?" with "I'm fine"—even when you weren't? In this episode, Susan and Laura explore the surprising reasons so many women default to "I'm fine," even when they're exhausted, overwhelmed, grieving, struggling, or simply carrying more than anyone realizes. Together, they unpack the expectations placed on women to be strong, capable, and endlessly resilient, and how those expectations may have shaped an entire generation's relationship with vulnerability. From protecting our children and parents from worry to avoiding uncomfortable conversations, they explore the hidden reasons we often keep our struggles to ourselves. This conversation also dives into the emotional weight many midlife women carry, the habit of minimizing our own needs, and what we lose when we stop checking in with ourselves. What if the question isn't whether we're fine? What if the real question is whether we've become so used to saying it that we've stopped noticing what we're actually carrying? Join us for an honest conversation about strength, connection, compassion, and learning to tell the truth about how we're really doing. Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  5. Jun 11

    The Wake-Up Call I Didn't Want

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome to Season 2 of Conversations Beyond Borders. This week, Laura and Susan kick off the new season with a candid conversation about something many midlife women experience but rarely talk about openly: the moment you realize your body isn't responding the way it used to. After a stressful move, a new job, and a full emotional overload, Laura found herself completely depleted and wondering why she couldn't simply "push through" the way she once could. What followed was a deep dive into energy levels, protein intake, stress, recovery, sleep, movement, and the surprising insights that came from paying closer attention to what her body was trying to tell her. Together, Laura and Susan explore: • Why so many women live in a constant state of stress and overwhelm • The difference between being lazy and being genuinely exhausted • How midlife changes affect energy, recovery, and overall well-being • Why women often minimize their own needs and keep pushing through • The importance of listening to your body before it forces you to stop • Finding practical solutions without shame or judgment This isn't a conversation about having all the answers. It's about asking better questions, sharing real experiences, and creating space for honest conversations about what it means to navigate midlife with curiosity, compassion, and a little humor. If you've ever wondered why your body suddenly feels different, why you're tired all the time, or why nobody warned you about these changes, this conversation is for you. Join us as we begin a new season of real talk, shared experiences, and the reminder that you don't have to figure it all out alone. Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  6. Season 2 Trailer

    Season 2 Trailer

    Send us Fan Mail Season 2 of Conversations Beyond Borders is coming—and this time, we’re showing up differently.  In this trailer, Laura and Susan share what they learned from Season 1 and why this next chapter will feel more honest, more relaxed, and a lot more real. Expect less fixing, less pressure, and fewer “five steps to becoming your best self” conversations. Instead, we’re creating space for the kind of talks women actually need in midlife: honest conversations about menopause, changing bodies, shifting identities, exhaustion, expectations, laughter, vulnerability, and everything in between.  This season, we’re asking bigger questions about the roles women have been handed, the pressure to always improve, and what it means to simply be enough as you are. Some episodes will be thoughtful, some messy, some funny—but all of them will be real.  If you’ve ever felt alone in this stage of life, overwhelmed by change, or tired of pretending you have it all together, this season is for you.  Subscribe now so you’ll be notified the moment Season 2 drops.  Because this is just one of those conversations… and we’re glad you’re here for it.  Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  7. 12/16/2025 ·  Bonus

    Mini Episode #6 - Staying Steady When The Chaos Arrives

    Send us Fan Mail December has a way of turning up the volume — on the house, the schedule, the opinions, and the emotions. In this warm, grounded episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, Susan and Laura speak directly to midlife women who love the season… and also feel completely overstimulated by it. With gentle humor, compassion, and deeply practical tools, this conversation explores why holiday chaos hits midlife nervous systems differently — and how to stay centered without shutting down, snapping, or taking on everyone else’s emotional load. You’ll hear: Why holiday chaos isn’t personal — it’s seasonalHow sensory overload shows up in midlife (and why nothing is “wrong” with you)Simple grounding tools you can use in the middle of real-life noise and interruptionsKind, doable ways to handle other people’s tension without absorbing itPermission to stop fixing the chaos — and simply be present inside itThis episode is a steady hand on your back during crowded gatherings, noisy kitchens, unpredictable relatives, and emotionally charged moments. It’s not about controlling the room — it’s about staying connected to yourself while life swirls around you. If December feels loud, this episode is your quiet place to land. Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

  8. 12/10/2025 ·  Bonus

    Mini Episode #5 You Don’t Have to Do Everything Just Because You Can

    Send us Fan Mail In this validating and gently humorous December mini-series episode, Susan and Laura explore a familiar truth for midlife women: being incredibly capable can quietly turn into being responsible for… well, everything. Together, they unpack the “competence trap,” the habit of doing things simply because it’s faster, and the hidden emotional cost of carrying so much during an already full season. With relatable stories, soft laughter, and zero judgment, they offer practical ways to step back, simplify, and let others help — even if the help is imperfect. From micro-delegation to “good enough” holiday standards, Susan and Laura share kind scripts and gentle strategies that bring more ease, connection, and joy back into the season. If you’ve ever been the woman who anticipates everyone’s needs while quietly juggling eight things at once, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to do everything just because you can. Breathe, soften your shoulders, and give yourself permission to enjoy the holidays, not just manage them. Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music.  You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorluca Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider. If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support. This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.

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Welcome to "A Conversation Beyond Borders" - a podcast hosted by two women who have raised their children and are now navigating their way through midlife. Join us as we explore life, family, and self-help-related topics through lively discussions and book reviews. We believe that midlife is a time for reflection, growth, and learning. We also know it can be a challenging time, full of transitions and changes. That’s why we created this podcast – to share our experiences, insights, and wisdom with others who are also going through this phase of life. Each episode, we tackle a different topic – from relationships to career to health and wellness – and share our own experiences and perspectives. We’ll also discuss books that have inspired us or helped us in some way, offering our thoughts and insights on the ideas they present. Our goal is to create a supportive, informative, and engaging space for those in midlife to connect with each other and explore new ideas. We hope our discussions and book reviews will inspire you to try new things, challenge your assumptions, and deepen your understanding of yourself and the world around you. So whether you’re a fellow empty nester, in midlife, or simply someone who loves a good book discussion, we invite you to join us on "A Conversation Beyond Borders" and share in our journey of discovery and growth. Connect with us on all the socials @ConversationsBeyondBorders, and visit our website at www.ConversationsBeyondBorders.com. We’d love to hear from you and have you be part of the conversation!

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  • Creator
    Laura Weyl & Susan Poulter
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    23
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Conversations Beyond Borders
  • Show Website
    Conversations Beyond Borders