Bearly Gays

Logan & Shadow
  • 4.8 (4)
  • Relationships
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Two Bearly Gay, Bearly Gays talking about Bearly Gay things.  Join us as we navigate where we all fit - or don't - in this gay world as Bearly Gay men. From relationships and current events to food, culture, and more, no topic is off-limits. Tune in for real talk, laughs, and insights that celebrate the diverse experiences of our community.Subscribe on your favorite platform: YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more! Check out our Social Media profiles and more at www.BearlyGays.com

  1. 2d ago

    Bearly Consensual - Ep. 77

    Bearly Consensual | Understanding Consent in BDSM, Kink & Healthy Relationships What does real consent actually look like? Is saying "maybe" the same as saying "yes?" Can you change your mind after you've already agreed? And how does consensual non-consent (CNC) work while still being... consensual? In this episode of Bearly Gay, we're diving into one of the most important topics in every relationship—consent. Whether you're completely vanilla, curious about kink, or active in the BDSM community, understanding consent is essential for building trust, communication, and healthy relationships. Join us as we break down what consent is, what it isn't, the four pillars of consent, the seven types of consent, how to negotiate boundaries, the importance of communication before, during, and after a scene, and how anyone can withdraw consent at any time. We also explore one of the most misunderstood dynamics in BDSM: Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) and why it's built on more communication—not less. Of course, it wouldn't be Bearly Gay without plenty of laughs! We put each other through a rapid-fire game of "Consent or Not?" with real-life scenarios, share some hilariously terrible consent-themed dad jokes, and mix humor with honest conversations about trust, respect, and relationships. Whether you're new to BDSM, exploring kink, or simply looking to strengthen communication with your partner, this episode offers practical advice, relatable stories, and plenty of bear-sized banter. 🐻 In this episode, we cover: • What consent really means • What is NOT consent • The Four Pillars of Consent • The Seven Types of Consent • Negotiating boundaries and expectations • Hard limits, soft limits, and safewords • Why communication is the foundation of healthy relationships • How to withdraw consent • Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) explained • Rapid Fire: "Consent or Not?" • 10 terrible (but hilarious) consent dad jokes 💬 We'd love to hear from you! What's one thing you think everyone should know about consent? Leave a comment below and join the conversation. 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and Ring the Bell so you never miss a new episode of Bearly Gay! #BearlyGay #Consent #BDSM #KinkEducation #HealthyRelationships #Communication #BDSMCommunity #Kink #LGBTQ #GayPodcast #BearCommunity #CNC #Relationships #Podcast #SexEducation Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly Consensual - Ep. 77

  2. Jul 5

    Bearly a Lifestyle - Ep. 76

    Is BDSM a lifestyle, or is it something that only belongs in the bedroom? In this episode of Bearly Gays, we're diving into one of the biggest questions in the kink community: the difference between BDSM as a lifestyle and BDSM as part of your sex life. We explore what it means to live a Dom/sub or power exchange dynamic outside of the bedroom, why many people choose to keep their kink and BDSM experiences limited to scenes or intimacy, and how others find a healthy balance between the two. We also discuss how relationship dynamics can change from partner to partner, how communication, consent, trust, and personal values shape every BDSM relationship, and why there is no single "right" way to explore kink. Whether you're new to BDSM, curious about the kink lifestyle, actively exploring your interests, or simply looking to learn more about BDSM relationships, this episode offers an honest, humorous, and judgment-free conversation about finding what works best for you. As always, we keep things light with our Lifestyle, Sex Only, or Mix? rapid-fire game, where we decide whether different kinks belong in everyday life, stay in the bedroom, or work best somewhere in between. And because it wouldn't be Bearly Gays without some groan-worthy humor, we're also sharing a collection of hilariously bad BDSM dad jokes. Grab your favorite snack, get comfortable, and join two married gay bears as we explore the many ways people experience BDSM, kink, and power exchange—with plenty of laughs along the way. 👍 If you enjoy the episode, don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and leave a comment letting us know: Are you more of a Lifestyle, Sex Only, or Mix of Both kind of person? Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly a Lifestyle - Ep. 76

  3. Jun 28

    Bearly Kink Trekking - Ep. 75

    You've listened to podcasts, watched videos, read articles, and maybe fantasized about trying something new. But how do you actually take the next step? In this episode, we're building a practical roadmap for exploring the kink world safely, intentionally, and at your own pace.  Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly Kink Trekking - Ep. 75

  4. Jun 21

    Bearly a Kinkstarter - Ep. 74

    Everybody starts somewhere. Whether you've been kink-curious for years or recently discovered that being called "good boy" unlocked a new achievement, this episode is your beginner's guide to entering the world of kink safely, responsibly, and without accidentally buying a dungeon on Amazon.  We'll discuss how to discover your interests, communicate with partners, explore safely as a single person, avoid rookie mistakes, and why aftercare might be the most important thing nobody talks about.  Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly a Kinkstarter - Ep. 74

  5. Jun 14

    Bearly Kink 101 - Ep. 73

    Join Logan & Shadow in this weeks episode  as we talk about Kink basics. A beginner-friendly guide to the wild, weird, and surprisingly wholesome world of kink. What is kink? Why do people enjoy it? Is it always sexual? What's the difference between a Dom, a Sub, and a Switch? And why does everyone seem to own rope suddenly?  Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly Kink 101 - Ep. 73

  6. Jun 7

    Bearly A Power Dynamic - Ep. 72

    Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss power dynamics and how they play into every relationship but explicitly into a BDSM relationship. Find out where each of them stand on the importance of having a level playing field when starting out, especially when eventually the scales are going to be tilted. Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly A Power Dynamic - Ep. 72

  7. May 31

    Bearly Foundational - Ep. 71

    Join Logan & Shadow as we discuss building a solid foundation in your relationship before embarking on any advance kink journey. Find out what each of us brought to the table and what we feel made us the success so far. A solid foundation makes fore a more stable long term relationship.  Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly Foundational - Ep. 71

  8. May 24

    Bearly Confessions - Ep. 70

    Join Logan & Shadow as they discuss Confessions and discussing your true feelings and sexual desires with your partner. We discuss taking things slowly and approaching the kink topics in ways that foster grown and exploring together. How can kink make you stronger? How can kink cause cracks in your relationship? Find out this and more on this episode of the Bearly Gays Podcast.  Check out our socials at www.BearlyGays.com. Follow/subscribe on your favorite podcast platform or YouTube.

    Bearly Confessions - Ep. 70
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Two Bearly Gay, Bearly Gays talking about Bearly Gay things.  Join us as we navigate where we all fit - or don't - in this gay world as Bearly Gay men. From relationships and current events to food, culture, and more, no topic is off-limits. Tune in for real talk, laughs, and insights that celebrate the diverse experiences of our community.Subscribe on your favorite platform: YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and more! Check out our Social Media profiles and more at www.BearlyGays.com

Information

  • Creator
    Logan & Shadow
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    77
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Bearly Gays
  • Show Website
    Bearly Gays

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