Follow this podcast - teacher and pupil resource coming out soon for every episode Helping children understand that anger is a normal emotion, and developing the awareness, self-regulation and responsibility to notice it, understand what may be underneath it, pause before acting, express it safely and repair things when anger leads to a poor choice. In Series 16 of Mindful Moments with Miss Harrison, children explore what it really means to understand anger. Across six practical and reassuring episodes, Miss Harrison moves away from the idea that anger is simply a “bad” feeling that children should get rid of. Instead, children learn that anger is a normal human emotion that can carry useful information. The important skill is not avoiding anger altogether, but learning to recognise it, understand it and make thoughtful choices about what happens next. The series begins with Getting to Know Anger, where children learn an important distinction: feeling angry and acting angrily are not the same thing. Through Leo's carefully built tower being accidentally knocked over, they discover that anger can make sense when something important to us is damaged or feels unfair. Leo learns that his anger is real, but it does not get to decide what his feet or words do next. Children begin practising curiosity by asking, “I wonder why my anger is here?” In What Happens When I Get Angry?, children become anger detectives and explore the physical clues that can tell them anger is beginning to grow. Through Isaac's football game, they notice how a hot face, tight fists, a thumping heart or a louder voice can act like an early warning system. The Anger Thermometer helps children understand that noticing anger while it is still rising gives them more time to make a thoughtful choice before they reach boiling point. What Is My Anger Telling Me? takes the learning deeper. Through Layla discovering that she has not been invited to a birthday party, children learn that anger can sometimes sit on top of other feelings such as hurt, disappointment, embarrassment, worry or feeling left out. The Anger Iceberg helps them explore three important questions: “What happened?” “What else am I feeling?” and “What might I need?” Children discover that understanding what lies underneath anger can help them identify what would actually help. In The Pause Before We Act, children learn one of the most practical strategies in the series: Stop. Breathe. Choose.Through Ben's painting being accidentally soaked with water, they see how anger can create an immediate urge to react. A short pause does not make the anger disappear, but it gives the thinking brain time to catch up. Children learn that even a few seconds can create space between the feeling and the action, giving them more choice about what to do next. Expressing Anger Safely explores what children can actually do with strong angry feelings. Through Maya discovering her younger sister wearing a bracelet she made, children see that anger does not need to be hidden or allowed to explode. They learn three safe options: use words, help the body release energy safely, and get support. The Safe Anger Menugives children something concrete to prepare in advance: something they can say, something safe they can do, and someone they can talk to. Finally, Making Things Right recognises an important reality: even when children understand anger and know useful strategies, they will still sometimes make mistakes. Through Ayaan tearing Leo's picture, children learn that anger can explain why something happened without making a hurtful action acceptable. They are introduced to three restorative steps: Recognise. Repair. Learn. Children discover that a real apology involves taking responsibility, thinking about what can be repaired and considering what they could do differently next time. Together, the six episodes develop a thoughtful and realistic understanding of anger: Anger is not something to fear or feel ashamed of. We can notice it. We can listen to it. We can recognise its warning signs. We can look underneath it. We can pause before reacting. We can express it safely. And when things go wrong, we can take responsibility, repair what we can and learn for next time. Episodes in this series: S16 E1 Understanding Anger - Getting to Know Anger Learning that anger is a normal emotion, understanding that it often has a reason and recognising that feelings and actions are different. S16 E2 Understanding Anger - What Happens When I Get Angry? Recognising physical and behavioural anger signals and using an Anger Thermometer to notice when feelings are beginning to rise. S16 E3 Understanding Anger - What Is My Anger Telling Me? Looking beneath anger to explore other possible feelings and identifying what we might need in that moment. S16 E4 Understanding Anger - The Pause Before We Act Learning how a short pause can create space between feeling angry and choosing what to do through Stop, Breathe, Choose. S16 E5 Understanding Anger - Expressing Anger Safely Finding safe ways to use words, release physical energy and seek support without hurting ourselves, other people or the things around us. S16 E6 Understanding Anger - Making Things Right Taking responsibility after an angry choice, repairing what we can and learning what we could do differently next time. What children will explore across the series: Why anger is a normal emotion rather than a “bad” feelingHow anger can give us useful information about something that mattersThe difference between feeling angry and choosing a hurtful actionWhy everybody experiences anger slightly differentlyHow to notice body signals such as a hot face, tight fists, tense muscles or a faster heartbeatHow an Anger Thermometer can help children notice escalation earlyWhy recognising anger sooner gives us more time to choose what happens nextHow anger can sometimes sit alongside hurt, worry, embarrassment, disappointment or feeling left outHow to ask “What happened?” “What else am I feeling?” and “What might I need?”Why understanding what lies beneath anger can help us respond more effectivelyHow a brief pause can give the thinking brain time to catch upHow to use Stop, Breathe, ChooseWhy a pause does not need to remove anger in order to be usefulSafe ways to express anger using words, movement and supportHow to create a personal Safe Anger MenuWhy asking a trusted adult for help is a strong and sensible choiceHow anger can explain a poor choice without excusing itWhy apologising does not mean another person has to stop feeling hurt immediatelyHow to Recognise, Repair and Learn after things go wrongEmotional Skills from Miss Harrison: Notice your anger Instead of immediately judging the feeling, pause and recognise: “I'm feeling angry.” Listen to your body Notice the early clues that your anger thermometer is rising. A hot face, tight hands, tense muscles or a louder voice can all be useful signals. Look underneath Ask: “What happened?” “What else am I feeling?” and “What might I need?” Anger can sometimes point towards something deeper. Create the pause When anger makes you want to react immediately, remember: Stop. Breathe. Choose. Express it safely Use your Safe Anger Menu. Think about something you can say, something safe you can do, and someone you can talk to. Repair and learn If anger leads to a poor choice, don't hide from it. Recognise what happened, repair what you can and learn what you might do differently next time. Together, these skills help children develop emotional literacy, self-awareness, self-regulation, impulse control, communication, empathy, responsibility, restorative thinking and healthier ways of responding to strong emotions. Perfect for: Primary school-aged children learning to understand and manage angerChildren who become overwhelmed by strong emotionsChildren who find it difficult to recognise when anger is beginning to growFamilies developing a calmer and more constructive language around angerClassrooms exploring emotional literacy and self-regulationTeachers and pastoral teams supporting children with emotional regulationSchools using restorative approaches to behaviour and relationshipsChildren learning how to pause, express feelings safely and repair things when mistakes happenSeries Message: Anger is a normal feeling, but it does not have to choose what happens next. 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