SaaSy Moms

SaaSy Moms

Welcome to SaaSy Moms, the podcast where tech-savvy moms navigate the intersections of SaaS, technology, career and motherhood. Hosted by two leaders in SaaS and moms, we tackle the challenges of balancing life’s biggest priorities: building and marketing exceptional products and raising exceptional humans. Whether you're solving product challenges or sleepless nights, SaaSy Moms is here to provide relatable stories, practical advice, and the occasional laugh. Join us weekly to empower your career and motherhood journey, one episode at a time.

  1. Apr 24

    Emotional Regulation in Moms: The Truth No One Talks About | E33

    Motherhood can be beautiful, but it can also feel overwhelming, overstimulating, and emotionally intense in ways no one prepares you for. In this episode of SaaSy Moms, we talk honestly about emotional regulation in moms — from postpartum overwhelm and mom rage to guilt, overstimulation, mental load, and the pressure of trying to stay calm while raising kids and managing work. We share real experiences of what it feels like when small triggers become too much, why so many moms feel alone in this, and what can actually help when emotional regulation gets harder after becoming a parent. In this episode: emotional regulation after becoming a mompostpartum overwhelm, postpartum depression, and postpartum aggressionmom rage and overstimulationguilt, shame, and feeling out of controlhow birth trauma and mental load can affect motherspractical ways to recognize triggers earlierwhy working can sometimes feel easier than parentingIf you are a working mom, a new mom, or a parent struggling with emotional overload, this episode is for you. Chapters (00:00:50) Intro(00:01:40) “I feel like I have tantrums too”(00:02:31) Why motherhood can make emotions feel bigger(00:03:41) The pressure of carrying everything as a mom(00:05:00) What being emotionally out of control actually feels like(00:08:31) Physical signs of dysregulation before the breaking point(00:10:34) Anna shares the scariest moment: losing control while holding her baby(00:11:57) The guilt, shame, and silence moms carry(00:13:25) Why other moms can make you feel less alone(00:14:46) Postpartum blues, postpartum depression, and looking back differently(00:16:35) What helped Anna to get out of depression(00:18:31) Travel, exhaustion, and why routine disruption hits so hard(00:21:20) How Wendy tries to de-escalate in the moment(00:24:52) How partner support can look like in real life(00:26:43) The challenge of regulating yourself while raising dysregulated kids(00:27:29) The “cup is already full” theory of emotional overload(00:30:37) Anna opens up about her traumatic birth experience(00:32:08) Control, parenting, and why kids trigger deeper emotional patterns(00:32:57) Postpartum rage vs. postpartum anxiety(00:36:39) Green, yellow, red: noticing your warning zones sooner(00:37:52) Decision overload and why future planning can feel too heavy(00:39:10) Mental load, delegation, and what moms take on silently(00:40:50) What can be offloaded to your partner(00:41:30) This episode is about making moms feel less alone(00:44:29) “Work is my break” About SaaSy Moms:A podcast about motherhood, work, ambition, product leadership, and the real emotional realities behind modern life. #EmotionalRegulation #MomRage #Motherhood #WorkingMoms #Postpartum #MentalLoad #ParentingPodcast #SaaSyMoms

    41 min
  2. Apr 10

    High-Conflict Co-Parenting Is Chaos — Can AI Fix It? | E32

    Co-parenting is hard.Co-parenting in high-conflict situations? That’s a completely different game. In this episode of SaaSy Moms, we sit down with the founder of a co-parenting app built for real-life chaos — where communication breaks down, emotions run high, and kids are caught in the middle. We talk about: What high-conflict co-parenting actually looks like (beyond theory)Why logic doesn’t work in emotional conflictThe hidden psychological toll on parentsHow AI is being used to reduce conflict and improve communicationWhat actually helps (and what makes things worse)This is not a “perfect parenting” conversation.It’s raw, honest, and grounded in reality. If you're navigating divorce, separation, or just trying to protect your peace as a parent — this episode will hit home. Chapters: (00:00:00) What is this episode about? (00:01:33) Why Co-Parenting Can Become So Difficult (00:03:10) From Tech Career to Divorce Reality (00:05:45) The Emotional Shock of High-Conflict Co-Parenting (00:09:20) Why Communication Breaks Down (And Gets Worse) (00:13:40) The Core Problem: You Can’t Change the Other Parent (00:18:05) How Conflict Impacts Children (The Part No One Talks About) (00:22:30) What Actually Helps in High-Conflict Situations (00:27:10) Where AI Enters Co-Parenting (00:31:45) Turning Chaos into Structured Communication (00:36:20) Real Examples of Conflict De-Escalation (00:41:00) The Biggest Mistakes Parents Make (00:45:10) What “Healthy” Co-Parenting Actually Looks Like (00:48:20) Final Advice for Parents Navigating Conflict #ai #parenting #workingmoms #parents #work #conflict #coparents #coparenting

    46 min
  3. Mar 27

    The Secret Behind High-Performing Teams. Honest Struggles with Emotional Regulation in Kids & Moms | E31

    This is not just an episode about “team performance.” High-performing teams are built through intentional people leadership, not control. In this episode of SaaSy Moms, we share the 6 most important tools for building high-performing teams — and the leadership mistakes many managers unknowingly make. But leadership doesn’t stop at work. As working moms, we also talk honestly about something many parents struggle with: emotional regulation in kids and adults. From managing strong emotions in toddlers to navigating our own reactions as leaders, we explore how the same principles apply both at home and at work. If you are a working mom balancing leadership, career growth, and parenting, this episode will give you practical insights on building strong teams while also raising emotionally resilient kids. In this episode we discuss: • The #1 mindset shift managers need to build high-performing teams• Why hiring people exactly like you can hurt team performance• The leadership mistake that turns managers into bottlenecks• Why high-performing teams need trust instead of control• The honest reality of emotional regulation in kids and moms• Why naming emotions doesn't always work for children between 1 and 5 y.o.• Practical strategies we use to help children (and ourselves) calm down This episode blends leadership lessons, motherhood experiences, and honest conversations about managing emotions — something every working parent in leadership eventually faces. Whether you’re a manager, founder, product leader, marketer, or working mom, these lessons apply both to your team and your family. Subscribe to our youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SaaSyMoms Chapters: (00:00:50) What this episode is about. (00:01:30) Tip #1: Understand your team’s ambition(00:02:05) Tip #2: #1 mistake managers make during hiring(00:04:45) Tip #3: Challenge the status quo in your team(00:06:17) Tip #4: Let your team fail (in safe environments)(00:08:30) Parenting parallel: letting kids "figure it out yourself" builds resilience(00:10:05) Tip #5: Delegate outcomes, not just tasks(00:12:50) Tip #6: Give immediate, on-the-spot feedback(00:14:16) SaaSy Struggles: emotional regulation in kids(00:15:37) #1 Tip that actually helps to calm a 4 y.o. down(00:18:20) Demystifying the "naming of emotions" advice(00:21:44) Emotional regulation advice for moms that works(00:24:08) Redirecting anger safely (for kids)(00:25:17) Fear about the future. How is it related to anger?(00:26:30) Final thoughts: Subscribe to your outube channel! 🎙️ SaaSy Moms is a podcast about careers in tech, leadership, and the real challenges of balancing ambitious careers with motherhood. Follow us for conversations about: • product management • marketing leadership • startup careers • working motherhood • emotional resilience in leadership • building successful teams #leadership #tip #advice #emotionalregulation #mom #workingmom #highperformance #management

    26 min
  4. Mar 13

    How to Succeed as the First Marketer (and a Mom): A 30-60-90 Day Plan | E30

    Being the first marketer at a company sounds exciting… until the founder expects leads in week two. In this episode of SaaSy Moms, we talk with onboarding and marketing hiring expert Annique Tate, the founder of Tate Digital Consulting agency, about what it really takes to succeed as the first marketing hire at a startup. Many companies hire their first marketer expecting immediate revenue — but the real job of a first marketer is much deeper: building marketing foundations, defining ICP, aligning sales and product, and setting up the growth engine. In this conversation we break down: the real challenges of the first marketer role why founders often misunderstand marketing the skills that predict success the questions every marketer should ask before joining a startup and how a 30-60-90 day plan can help you succeed. And because this is SaaSy Moms, we also talk about the realities of balancing career ambition with motherhood, including parenting strategies, setting boundaries, and raising bilingual children. If you're navigating a career in tech, marketing, or leadership while raising a family, this episode will resonate. 🎧 Listen to SaaSy Moms on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4aP2kVYLIzI6GzyTZ71AAh?si=onUCsLuPTLa9z1t8mTiKjQ Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@SaaSyMoms Follow Anna: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anna-perelyhina/ Follow Wendy: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendyhar/ Follow Annique: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anniquetate/ Chapters: (00:00:50) Intro – The challenge of being the first marketer (00:01:40) Meet Annique – marketing hire & onboarding expert (00:03:30) What companies expect from their first marketer (00:07:10) Why founders expect leads too early (00:12:40) The real job of a first marketing hire (00:18:20) What to do if business is not yet ready to produce leads (00:21:50) When founders and marketing expectations clash (00:29:00) Who actually succeeds as the first marketer (00:31:00) The traits every first marketing hire needs (00:34:30) Questions to ask before joining a startup (00:38:20) How to evaluate if a company is ready for marketing (00:42:00) SaaSy Moms segment – career and motherhood (00:43:00) Navigating work after having a baby (00:46:00) Parenting strategies and setting boundaries (00:49:00) How to stay calm during tantrums: Strategies that actually work (00:50:30) Raising bilingual children (00:55:30) Final advice for first marketing hires

    52 min
  5. Feb 27

    How to Win at Corporate Politics. A Guide for Working Moms | E29

    Corporate politics will impact your career — whether you understand it or not. In this episode, we break down exactly how to navigate corporate politics strategically without losing your integrity and we explain why corporate not inherently evil. If you’ve ever felt that performance alone should be enough… this conversation will shift your perspective. We discuss: • What corporate politics really means (it’s not manipulation)• Why high performers still get overlooked• Influence without authority — is it politics?• How to handle strong personalities at work• Why your boss is your biggest promoter• When to choose your fights• How to build allies strategically• Real corporate stories that led to promotion Corporate politics isn’t about scheming.It’s about understanding people, power, perception, and timing. Whether you're in product, marketing, leadership, or growing your career in tech — this episode will help you stop reacting emotionally and start navigating strategically. Because in corporate environments, you’re playing the game — even if you don’t realize it. 🎧 Listen if you care about:corporate politics, career growth, influence without authority, women in tech leadership, working moms in corporate, product management careers, navigating difficult coworkers, and building professional influence. Chapters: (00:00:00) Intro - What this episode is about (00:00:45) What Corporate Politics Really Is (And Why It’s Not Evil) (00:04:15) Corporate Politics Rule #1: Play the game (00:05:00) Corporate Politics Rule #2: Understand People — And Their “Why” (00:07:00) Corporate Politics Rule #3: Observe Before You Act (00:09:40) Corporate Politics Rule #4: Recognize Toxic Patterns (00:10:00) Wendy and Anna's debate: Are “Toxic People” Actually Toxic? (00:13:15) Real Corporate Politics Story: “Just Sue Them” (00:15:45) Corporate Politics Rule #5: Boss is your biggest promoter (00:19:30) Is "Influence without authority" a skill of Politics? (00:22:30) How to navigate strong personalities? (00:25:30) Why the Word “Politics” Still Feels Uncomfortable for Wendy (00:26:00) Corporate Politics rule #6: Choose your fights (00:27:00) Corporate Politics rule #7: Build allies (00:27:45) Real Story: The Politics That Led to a Promotion (00:29:50) Corporate Politics rule #8: Promote yourself (strategically) (00:33:10) Final Takeaway: Play the Game or Get Played #CorporatePolitics #WomenInTech #WorkingMoms #CareerGrowth #LeadershipSkills #InfluenceWithoutAuthority #ProductManagement #SaaSMoms #saasymoms

    37 min
  6. Feb 13

    PM or PMM? Which Career Should You Choose (Product Management vs Product Marketing Management)

    Working moms in tech: trying to decide between Product Manager (PM) and Product Marketing Manager (PMM)? In this episode of SaaSy Moms, we break down PM vs PMM responsibilities, where they overlap, what each role owns (roadmap vs go-to-market), and how to choose based on your strengths, personality, and the kind of day-to-day work you want — especially while balancing family life. Keywords: product manager vs product marketing manager, PM vs PMM, working moms in tech, product management career, product marketing career, go-to-market, sales enablement, roadmap, tech career pivot. Chapters (00:00:00) What is this episode about? (00:01:00) PM vs PMM: What’s the difference (and why people confuse them) (00:06:00) What PMs own: painful problems, time-to-value, onboarding outcomes (00:11:00) The overlap: customer understanding + buying decisions + insights (00:16:00) What PMMs own: positioning, GTM story, and sales enablement (00:21:00) PM vs PMM KPIs: How to Set Goals and Measure Performance (00:26:00) “Which role fits me?” How to evaluate a PM vs PMM career match (00:30:23) PM vs PMM: How Each Role Evaluates a Feature (00:31:20) PM vs PMM: How Each Role Approaches a Product Launch (00:32:28) PM vs PMM: Product Category vs Market Category Thinking (00:36:00) Category & positioning mistakes: why sales struggles when it’s wrong (00:38:10) If you hate these things, don't be a Product Manager (00:40:52) If You Hate These Things, Don’t Be a Product Marketing Manager (00:46:00) Final advice: structure vs ambiguity + what kind of work you’ll thrive in #pm #pmm #careerswitch #career #workingmom #momintech #careertransition

    50 min
  7. Jan 30

    AI & Product Marketing in 2026: How to level up your PMM skills in the AI era | E27

    AI is transforming product marketing management. In this episode, we get real about what PMMs actually need to stay relevant in 2026: - how to really use AI (not just talk about it) - how to scale campaigns without burning out - how to use AI as your first reviewer - how to stay responsible when your messaging can be amplified at AI speed. Then we shift into something deeper: motherhood, daycare, nannies, guilt, and the emotional load of being a mom in tech. We talk about trusting others with your child, why it’s so hard to let go of control, and how to share the load with your partner without sacrificing your career or your sanity. If you’re a PMM, PM, or tech mom trying to grow your career in an AI world while raising a tiny human—this one will hit close to home. Chapters: (00:00:00) Intro – What This Episode Is Really About (00:00:42) “Is My Career Safe?” PMMs, AI & Job Anxiety (00:01:42) Why you actually need to use AI as a PMM (00:04:59) How to turn messy inputs Into clear Messaging With AI (00:07:42) Briefing AI like a pro: From “Meh” Outputs to Quality (00:11:44) How to use AI to Multiply Your Content (00:15:50) Strategic Templates: Turning Your PMM execution Into Repeatable Systems (00:19:43) AI for managers: “Review This as If You Were Me” (00:27:46) Reality Checks: When Not to Trust AI’s Answers (00:31:50) The Future of PMM (00:35:42) Responsible AI Messaging: overselling or honesty (00:39:40) Motherhood Confession: Why It’s So Hard to Trust Help With Your Child (00:43:41) The Invisible Emotional Load of Tech Moms (00:47:43) Inability to let go and trust others (00:51:40) Letting Go of Control: Sharing the Load With Your Partner & Playing the Long Game #ProductMarketing #PMM #AIandPMM #MomsInTech #WorkingMoms #WomenInProduct #SaaSyMoms #TechMoms #advice #tip

    56 min

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Welcome to SaaSy Moms, the podcast where tech-savvy moms navigate the intersections of SaaS, technology, career and motherhood. Hosted by two leaders in SaaS and moms, we tackle the challenges of balancing life’s biggest priorities: building and marketing exceptional products and raising exceptional humans. Whether you're solving product challenges or sleepless nights, SaaSy Moms is here to provide relatable stories, practical advice, and the occasional laugh. Join us weekly to empower your career and motherhood journey, one episode at a time.