Empowered & Out

Jonathan Barbe

Empowered & Out is the podcast for anyone who wants a career that feels aligned, meaningful, and authentic. Hosted by career purpose and confidence coach Jonathan Barbe, each episode explores confidence, identity, and self-worth at work through coaching insights and candid conversations with leaders and change-makers redefining success. Rooted in LGBTQ+ lived experience and open to everyone, this podcast supports listeners navigating burnout, career transitions, toxic workplaces, and the pressure to mask who they are. Whether you’re rebuilding confidence, seeking clarity, or ready to show up more fully at work, Empowered & Out is here to help — without apology.

  1. 3D AGO

    When Workplace Language Becomes an Identity Threat

    In this episode of Empowered & Out, Coach Jon sits down with Greg Mazzeo, a leadership psychologist, HR practitioner, consultant, and human-centered performance advocate, for a deep and timely conversation about what it really means to lead people well. Together, Jon and Greg explore the tension between performance and humanity at work — especially when identity, safety, language, and leadership all collide. Greg shares how his background in food service leadership, psychology, HR, and consulting shaped the way he thinks about performance, not as a simple metric, but as a human story with systems, barriers, relationships, and lived experiences behind it. This conversation digs into inclusive language, identity threats, psychological safety, difficult performance conversations, toxic leadership, and what organizations often miss when they focus only on intention while ignoring impact. Greg also shares powerful insight into how workplace language, symbols, representation, and leadership behavior can either pull employees into belonging or push them into self-protection. If you have ever worked under a leader who made you question yourself, sat through a performance conversation that felt more threatening than supportive, or wondered whether organizations truly understand the human impact of their decisions, this episode is for you. This is a conversation about leadership that does not require self-abandonment, performance that does not ignore wellbeing, and workplaces where people are allowed to be human. Podcast Chapters 00:00 — Welcome to Empowered & Out 01:24 — Introducing Greg Mazzeo and today’s conversation 02:52 — Energy check-in: community, rest, and starting the week grounded 04:36 — Greg’s journey into leadership psychology, HR, and human-centered performance 07:03 — Why Greg started Nourishment Consulting 08:11 — What human-centered performance looks like in real workplaces 11:30 — Collaboration, employee voice, and making space for quieter team members 13:15 — What organizations still get wrong about performance 15:30 — Where metrics help and where they start to hurt 18:57 — Inclusive language and identity threat experiences at work 22:47 — How wording, symbols, and representation impact employee safety 26:20 — Why intent is not enough when impact is ignored 30:00 — Performance conversations, coaching, and the danger of dismissiveness 32:42 — How leaders can prepare for difficult conversations with more awareness 34:25 — How employees can protect themselves and advocate for themselves 40:03 — Why organizations protect technically strong but harmful leaders 45:01 — Leadership vs. management, team building, and collaboration 53:26 — DEI shifts, political pressure, and how companies signal their values 58:34 — What happens when representation disappears 01:00:48 — Why DEI impacts everyone 01:06:32 — Rapid fire: Baltimore, New York bagels, pizza, and food identity 01:10:25 — Greg’s actionable advice: listen to what your body is telling you 01:13:57 — Final reflections and closing CTA If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend, coworker, or leader who needs to hear this conversation. And if you are in a season of rebuilding your confidence, recovering from a difficult workplace experience, or trying to figure out what kind of work actually fits who you are now, connect with Coach Jon through the link here: linktr.ee/empoweredandout  You deserve a career that supports your success without costing you your wellbeing.

    1h 8m
  2. MAY 6

    Grief Doesn’t End You — It Reveals You

    In this heartfelt episode of Empowered & Out, Coach Jon sits down with Kara Zajac, freelance writer, chiropractor, entrepreneur, musician, and author of The Significance of Curly Hair: A Loving Memoir of Life and Loss. Kara’s memoir takes place during the emotionally loaded week of her grandmother’s funeral — a week that cracked open grief, memory, identity, family history, and the truths we sometimes do not understand until much later in life. Together, Jon and Kara explore what grief teaches us, how family stories shape who we become, and why healing often begins when we let ourselves feel instead of forcing ourselves to “move on.” This conversation also opens up powerful reflections on queer identity, motherhood, chosen family, authenticity, and the realization that there is no single “right” way to build a life. Kara shares how losing her grandmother helped her challenge old beliefs about family, marriage, motherhood, and what it means to live honestly. If you have ever carried grief, questioned the life you are “supposed” to live, or wondered how to honor someone you miss without losing yourself, this episode will meet you with tenderness, humor, and truth. Chapters 00:00 — Welcome to Empowered & Out 02:22 — Meet Kara Zajac 02:25 — Energy check-in 04:29 — Why Kara’s memoir takes place during the week of her grandmother’s funeral 06:02 — The moment grief began changing her 08:40 — What Kara wishes more people understood about grief 09:37 — Coach Jon reflects on grief and losing his father 11:34 — Seeing family members as whole people 13:17 — Learning new stories after loss 15:03 — Understanding her grandmother beyond the role of “grandmother” 16:09 — Being gay, married, a mother, and fully yourself 17:45 — Letting go of the belief that there is only one way to live 21:41 — What to say to someone who feels forced to choose one version of life 23:36 — Staying authentic when life gets loud 24:54 — Being out in a small rural community 27:44 — How authenticity builds trust 30:53 — A powerful neighborhood moment about queer family and visibility 32:38 — How grief shifted Kara’s view of motherhood 34:30 — What motherhood taught Kara about love 37:11 — Releasing the belief that children “need” one specific family structure 40:21 — Raising children with openness and love 43:17 — How Kara wants her daughter to define family 46:24 — Inclusive churches, Pride, and belonging 49:09 — The dollhouse story 51:14 — The “dollhouse moments” we miss in our own lives 52:45 — Truth, memory, and family stories 55:49 — Giving grace to complicated family histories 57:25 — What Kara hopes readers take away about grief 58:06 — Rapid fire questions 1:00:01 — Kara’s actionable tip for listeners 1:00:37 — Closing reflections and CTA If this episode stirred something in you — maybe around grief, family, identity, confidence, or the version of your life you are ready to stop hiding — I invite you to book a free discovery call with me. At Empowered & Out Coaching, I help professionals rebuild confidence, reconnect with purpose, and make career and life choices that support both success and wellbeing. Book your free call here:  linktr.ee/empoweredandout  And if this conversation moved you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that grief does not have to be fixed all at once — and that there is more than one way to build a beautiful life.

    52 min
  3. APR 28

    Healing Burnout, Building Belonging & Leading Authentically with Rhodes Perry

    What does it really mean to belong at work? In this powerful episode of Empowered & Out, Coach Jon sits down with award-winning author, leadership strategist, and founder of Rhodes Perry Consulting, Rhodes Perry, to unpack leadership, burnout, workplace belonging, and why authenticity is more than just a buzzword—it’s survival. From working inside the White House and the Department of Justice to helping organizations create cultures of belonging, Rhodes shares how his lived experience as an openly trans man shaped his mission to challenge workplace loneliness and exclusion. We dive deep into DEI, “DEI hushing,” somatic leadership, burnout recovery, and what companies still get wrong about belonging at work. This conversation is honest, timely, and deeply needed—especially for LGBTQ+ professionals navigating today’s workplace climate. If you’ve ever felt like you had to leave parts of yourself behind just to succeed… this episode is for you. Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to Empowered & Out 02:30 – Meet Rhodes Perry 03:00 – Energy Check-In: Burnout + Recovery 05:15 – The Workplace Loneliness Epidemic 08:10 – Why Exclusion Is a Leadership Problem 12:00 – Starting Rhodes Perry Consulting 14:30 – Career Lessons from the White House + DOJ 17:00 – Being an Open Trans Man in Corporate Spaces 20:00 – Why Trans Professionals Are a Massive Workplace Asset 26:00 – Why Belonging Matters More Than DEI Buzzwords 31:00 – What True Workplace Safety Looks Like 45:00 – Can Everyone Belong? Setting Boundaries 50:00 – The Future of DEI in 2026 and Beyond 54:00 – Burnout Recovery + Somatic Leadership 57:30 – One Action to Reconnect With Yourself If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to rebuild confidence, rediscover your purpose, and create a career where you can fully show up as yourself—I’d love to support you. Book your FREE coaching discovery call with me here: https://linktr.ee/empoweredandout Let’s help you get back to you. 🎙️ Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who needs it.

    52 min
  4. APR 21

    Why Success Shouldn’t Cost You Your Peace

    What happens when the job that looks impressive on paper is quietly draining the life out of you? In this episode of Empowered & Out, Coach Jon sits down with returning guest Dani Brunetto, a career navigation coach based in Brussels, to talk about burnout in a way that goes far beyond “just being tired.”  Together, they unpack how burnout actually starts, why so many high-performing people miss the signs, how toxic workplace systems fuel it, and what real recovery and prevention can look like. Dani also shares parts of his own burnout story, what it taught him, and how he now helps people find work that fits them instead of forcing themselves into jobs that were never built with their wellbeing in mind. This is a grounded, honest conversation for anyone who’s been questioning their job, their energy, their boundaries, or whether success is really supposed to feel this exhausting. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome back + why this conversation matters 02:44 Dani’s energy check-in 03:56 What burnout really is 06:25 Stress vs. burnout 08:04 Why high performers miss the signs 10:24 Prestigious but toxic jobs 14:05 The stories people tell themselves to stay 18:28 Prestige vs. true alignment 21:25 Workplace systems that fuel burnout 25:20 Vague roles, poor boundaries, unrealistic expectations 38:15 Dani’s personal burnout story 47:12 What real burnout recovery looks like 53:08 Preventing burnout before the breaking point 58:18 Researching companies and spotting red flags 01:06:29 Rapid fire: Brussels edition 01:09:44 Dani’s advice for anyone feeling stuck 01:10:28 Final reflections + where to get support If this episode hit home for you, share it with someone who needs this reminder: burnout is not a badge of honor. Be sure to follow, leave a review, and send this episode to a friend, coworker, or high achiever who may be carrying too much in silence. If you’re ready for support, you can book a free call with me, Coach Jon, and you can also connect with Dani using the links below. Connect with Dani: Website: harbourchange.com LinkedIN: linkedin.com/in/daniele-brunetto Connect with Coach Jon: https://linktr.ee/empoweredandout

    1h 2m
  5. APR 14

    Confidence, Visibility, and the Fear of Being Seen

    In this powerful episode of Empowered & Out, Coach Jon sits down with returning guest Joseph Federico for a real, honest conversation about visibility, confidence, queer identity, entrepreneurship, and what it actually takes to build a life and career without shrinking yourself to fit in. Together, they unpack how fear, shame, burnout, masking, and old survival patterns keep so many LGBTQ+ professionals — especially gay men — stuck, overthinking, and playing small. They also dig into the realities of social media, the evolution of LinkedIn and Instagram, the loss of authentic connection online, and how AI can either support your creativity or strip away your humanity if you rely on it too heavily. This episode is honest, blunt, thoughtful, and deeply relevant for anyone trying to rebuild confidence, show up more authentically, and stop dimming themselves just to survive. If you’ve been feeling unseen, stuck, discouraged, or like you’ve been overthinking your next move into exhaustion, this conversation is your reminder that your voice matters, your perspective matters, and the world does not need a smaller version of you. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome back + season focus on healing and resilience 02:00 Meet returning guest Joseph Federico 02:50 Energy check-in and global connection through LinkedIn 10:15 Visibility, authenticity, and being fully seen 13:00 Why bold content gets attention 17:00 Confidence vs. purpose in career growth 20:00 Fear, entrepreneurship, and why people stay stuck 24:00 LGBTQ+ community, division, and representation 34:30 Why gay men quietly give up on themselves 39:15 Potential, voice, and why new perspectives matter 43:40 Why interested clients don’t always follow through 52:00 Social media, LinkedIn, Instagram, and authenticity 01:05:00 AI, technology, and keeping your humanity 01:28:00 Final advice: stop overthinking and just do it If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you’re in a season where you’re ready to rebuild your confidence, reconnect with your purpose, or stop dimming yourself just to survive at work and in life, book a free discovery call with me through the link in the show notes.  Connect with Coach Jon here: https://linktr.ee/empoweredandout   Connect with Joseph here: https://mysticalmarketingmaven.com/

    1h 18m
  6. APR 7

    Religious Harm, Queer Identity, and the Long Road Back to Yourself

    In this deeply important and at times heavy conversation, Coach Jon sits down with Lucas Wilson — researcher, writer, and editor of Shame, Sex, Attraction: Survivor Stories of Conversion Therapy — to talk about the lasting impact of conversion therapy, evangelicalism, white Christian nationalism, and the long road back to self-trust. Luke shares his lived experience growing up in a conservative religious environment, attending Liberty University, and spending four years in its conversion therapy program. Together, Jon and Luke unpack what it means to survive high-control religion, how shame gets embedded into identity, and what healing, resistance, and reclamation can actually look like on the other side. This episode is honest, thoughtful, and powerful. It’s a conversation about religious harm, queer identity, survival, and the courage it takes to rebuild your life when the systems that shaped you also wounded you. Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of conversion therapy, religious harm, shame, identity-based trauma, and mental health. Please listen with care and pause if needed. Chapters 00:00 Welcome + season theme: healing and resistance 01:42 Meet Lucas Wilson 04:43 Luke’s research, writing, and public-facing work 08:59 Why these conversations matter 11:03 Growing up in Toronto, family, and religion 18:11 Realizing his identity didn’t fit the framework around him 24:52 Arriving at Liberty University 27:37 Surveillance, control, and fear on campus 36:57 The culture of punishment and institutional pressure 1:00:22 Shame, survivor stories, and what healing can look like 1:05:07 Christianity, colonization, and naming harm 1:11:32 What Luke hopes students and educators hear 1:14:10 Rapid fire questions If this conversation resonated with you and you’re ready to rebuild confidence, reconnect with yourself, and make career choices that support your wellbeing, book a free discovery call with Coach Jon through the link in the show notes. Connect with Luke Instagram: @lukeslamdunkwilson Threads: @lukeslamdunkwilson Bluesky: @lukeslamdunkwilson.bsky.social Twitter/X: @wilson_fw LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lucas-wilson-2a0753b1/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/luke.wilson.96 Connect with Coach Jon: https://linktr.ee/empoweredandout

    1h 18m
  7. MAR 31

    The Cost of Hiding: A Black Gay Engineer’s Path Back to Himself

    In this episode of Empowered and Out, Coach Jon sits down with Phillip Hargrove, instructor of mechanical and aerospace engineering at the University of Central Florida and former NASA Kennedy Space Center engineer, for a deeply honest conversation about authenticity, identity, and what it means to return to yourself. Phillip shares his journey from working at NASA to making a bold career pivot into education, and how that transition helped him recognize what true alignment really feels like. Together, Jon and Phillip explore the difference between authenticity and oversharing, the cost of shape-shifting to fit into different spaces, and the ongoing practice of choosing yourself again and again. They also talk about coming out later, navigating visibility as a Black gay man, trusting your intuition, finding supportive people, and how coaching, therapy, and mindfulness can help you stop abandoning yourself in the name of survival. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt like they had to edit themselves to belong. If you’ve been shrinking at work, questioning your next step, or trying to figure out how to show up more fully in your life, this conversation will meet you with honesty, warmth, and real encouragement. Chapters 00:00 Intro and welcome 00:45 Meet Phillip Hargrove 02:39 Energy check-in 07:45 What authenticity means in real life 08:43 Authenticity vs. oversharing 12:36 The pattern of changing yourself to fit 18:04 What shape-shifting looked like 21:40 Coming out and feeling ready 26:07 Fear, faith, and internalized messages 32:15 What Phillip wishes he knew earlier 37:01 Safety, visibility, and trusting intuition 42:40 Leaving NASA and choosing alignment 45:00 Engineering vs. teaching authenticity 49:00 How coaching, mentors, and therapy helped 53:28 What real support looks like 56:50 Support alternatives when coaching or therapy isn’t accessible 01:03:06 Skills to build authenticity over time 01:07:23 Rapid fire questions 01:14:33 Final takeaway and closing If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who’s been shrinking to survive. And if you’re ready to rediscover your purpose, rebuild your confidence, and show up more fully at work and in life, book your free 30-minute discovery call through the link in the show notes. https://linktr.ee/empoweredandout

    1h 6m
  8. MAR 24

    Too Much, Too Femme, Too Loud? Why Authentic Leadership Still Wins with Aaron Roberts

    What happens when your style, voice, or presence gets judged before your leadership ever does? In this episode of Empowered and Out, Coach Jon sits down with Aaron Roberts, an operations director at a leading fertility hospital in central London, to talk about leadership, identity, performance, and what it means to succeed without shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s version of professionalism. Aaron shares his journey from being bullied as a young queer person, to navigating corporate healthcare without the traditional credentials people expect, to becoming a leader who believes the results speak louder than stereotypes. Together, Jon and Aaron unpack what authenticity actually looks like at work, why some people still confuse it with being unprofessional, and how leaders can better protect and promote diverse talent without making it awkward or performative. This conversation is for anyone who has ever been told they were too much, too visible, too different, or not the “right fit” — and needed the reminder that your identity is not the problem. In this episode, we talk about: • What being authentic really looks like in leadership • The pressure to tone yourself down at work • How Aaron built a serious career without traditional credentials • Why open-door leadership matters • What inclusion looks like when it’s done well • How to stop negotiating your identity just to make others comfortable • One actionable step to advocate for yourself while protecting your peace Chapters: 00:00 Intro + season theme 02:04 Meet Aaron Roberts 02:28 Energy check-in 03:50 Who Aaron was before the title 08:21 Why reception work is never “just” reception 12:27 What authenticity looks like as a leader 15:24 Why authenticity gets mistaken for unprofessionalism 20:51 “The face doesn’t fit” and workplace bias 25:58 What it took to stop negotiating identity 35:22 Progress and gaps in healthcare leadership 39:41 What inclusion done well really looks like 44:09 One norm Aaron wants to see everywhere 51:10 What supportive leaders do differently 54:59 What managers can do this week 57:13 What Aaron wants people to unlearn 01:01:14 Rapid fire questions 01:05:03 One actionable step for self-advocacy 01:07:08 Closing thoughts + CTA If this episode hit home and you’re ready to rebuild confidence, get clear on your next move, and lead without self-editing, book a free discovery call with Coach Jon through the link below. https://linktr.ee/empoweredandout And if this conversation resonated with you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that authenticity isn’t a liability — it’s leadership.

    1h 3m

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Empowered & Out is the podcast for anyone who wants a career that feels aligned, meaningful, and authentic. Hosted by career purpose and confidence coach Jonathan Barbe, each episode explores confidence, identity, and self-worth at work through coaching insights and candid conversations with leaders and change-makers redefining success. Rooted in LGBTQ+ lived experience and open to everyone, this podcast supports listeners navigating burnout, career transitions, toxic workplaces, and the pressure to mask who they are. Whether you’re rebuilding confidence, seeking clarity, or ready to show up more fully at work, Empowered & Out is here to help — without apology.