No, You're Not Dying

Beth & Joyce
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Mother-daughter duo Beth (a PhD clinical psychologist) and Joyce (a chronic over-thinking millennial) love to sit and chat about finding balance in the never-ending ups and downs of life - so much so, that they turned it into a podcast. Join them every week for a candid conversation about the many ways in which life impacts our mental health, how psychology can shift your perspective, and why even if you feel like you’re dying, you’re probably not. Kinda funny, never scripted, always honest - so join the conversation!  To share topics and stay up to date on the show, you can follow them on Instagram @noyourenotdyingpodcast.  **Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help.**

  1. 4d ago

    Beetlejuice, Haunted Houses, & Why We Love to be Scared

    The Candy Corn Queens have spoken: the best time of year is upon us! Today, we're getting into the Halloween spirit - not to be confused with Spirit Halloween - as we share the best spooky movies (and immediately forget the names of the greats), party songs (there is an objectively right answer and Joyce *does* perform karaoke thrice), and the nostalgic items we still crave now (read: pumpkin bucket). Then, we're building our own haunted houses: 6 rooms, no rules. And trust us, it got frightening. We also attempt to answer the question of the season: why do we seek out opportunities to be scared? We chat about real fear vs. entertainment, the role of adrenaline & the element of surprise, why it matters what you can control, and the bonding experience of being terrified together. (00:00) Highs & Lows of the Week (10:10) Best Halloween Movies (14:10) Silence of the Lambs & Scary Sounds (17:00) The Exorcist Ruined One of Us (18:55) Favorite Halloween Songs (22:19) Building Our Own Haunted Houses (36:18) Why Do We Like to Be Scared?  (38:35) Real Fear Vs. Entertainment (39:17) Being Scared Together (41:43) Adrenaline Junkies (46:17) You’re In Control (48:17) The Fascination with True Crime (52:34) Haunting Memories About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  2. Oct 22

    "If I Won the Lottery..."

    This episode has everything: Raspy voices. Judging a book by its cover. Accidental miscommunications. Conspiracy theories & giant meat-eating crabs. Then, we're diving into a question everyone loves to think about even though it will probably never come true: "What would I do if I won the lottery?" And there's more psychology behind it than you might think. We talk about how the fantasy drives our wishful thinking more than the money does, what you can learn about a person based on how they say they'd spend their winnings, why immediately retiring may not be the best move, and how your self-esteem may play into how you'd use your newfound wealth. And of course, we share what we'd do if we ever got the winning ticket - from the basics to the ultimate luxuries.  About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  3. Oct 14

    The Unconventional Paths to Parenthood (Navigating the Pressure to Have Kids Pt. 3)

    *TW: This episode discusses infertility, pregnancy loss, and grief.* A lot of us have grown up watching movies and shows that told us that creating a family would be easy, magical, and wonderful. And we believe it, because we like to think that things are going to go the way we hope (and think) they will. But when they don't, it's devastating, and can leave you feeling like, "where do we even go from here?" In today's final episode of our parenthood series, we're talking about what to do when your journey to being a parent becomes more unconventional than you thought it would be. We discuss the importance of communication with your partner and why people seek out alternative support, feeling let down by your body, what it's like to grieve potential, and how to be there for someone when you don't have any answers. We also talk about needing to find camaraderie, how gratitude and disappointment can coexist, why "different" doesn't mean "second-best", and why you sometimes just have to put your phone away.  (00:47) Complaints of the Week (07:15) Trigger Warning (08:00) Highs & Lows (20:40) Paths to Parenthood About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  4. Oct 7

    Father Time, In-Laws, & Mini-Mes (Navigating the Pressure to Have Kids Pt. 2)

    Today we're picking up where we left off last week, with Part 2 of our parenthood series! Our inner voice can have a lot to say when it comes to the pressures around having kids. But so can the voices of our parents/in-laws, friends, and society at large - and it can be a lot harder to quiet them. This week, we're diving into how to do just that, and navigate the external noise that can make this big decision feel even heavier. We chat about how the fight against time can lead people to settle, the "pregnancy club" and why it's not just about having kids the same age, and how to set boundaries with parents & in-laws when their first question to you is, "so when are you having kids?" (even if their intentions are good). We also talk about the misplaced judgement that people who are child-free face, the importance of discussing your parental goals with your partner, what it's like to see people with kids when you're struggling to have them, and why being a good parent means controlling your narcissism. (01:44) Episode Format and Follow-Up from Last Week (02:24) Highs & Lows (23:34) External Pressures About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  5. Sep 30

    Navigating the Pressure to Have Kids (Pt. 1)

    There are moments in life when you may hear the chatter around having kids get louder: if you're recently married, if you see your friends or peers starting families, if you're single in your thirties, etc. They make you realize that the decision to have kids is not like what you thought it would be: it's far more complicated, with a lot more noise. Today, we're talking about how to handle the internal pressure around having kids when you know it's something you want to do, but just not right now. We talk about coming to terms with the realization that your timeline might not be what you had envisioned for yourself, what being a young parent really means, and why you might never feel 100% "ready". We also discuss why women can't really have it all (despite what we're told), wanting to wait but not feeling like you have the luxury to do so, how to reframe pressures as questions, and why being an adult isn't about what you have, but who you are. About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  6. Sep 23

    More Things That Just Don't Make Sense

    Do you ever look at something and think to yourself, "what the heck is happening here?" Turns out we feel that way...about a lot. And we're not ashamed to admit it.  Today, we're back with a Part 2 to an episode we did last year sharing the many things that simply just do not make sense to us. In talking about everything from DVDs and the internet, to family ancestry, underwater tunnels, and black holes, we realize that we have way more questions than we do answers. About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  7. Sep 16

    Lessons We Wish We Learned Earlier

    Sometimes around birthdays people do lists like "20 lessons I learned at 20" and things of that nature. But that felt like a lot and also we didn't want to, so this episode isn't that. Instead, this week we're sharing lessons we wish we learned earlier in life. Some are about our own psychology, some are about the world in general, but all of them could have saved us some trouble (and stress, heartache, regret, etc., etc.) We talk about the importance of speaking kindly to yourself, why you can be bad at something and still enjoy it, how having a laugh can change your mindset, and why you can't avoid the hard stuff forever. We also chat about abandoning perfection, why spontaneity is good for the soul, the insignificance of (almost) everything, and how there's more to the world than your nearest big city. Plus, a series of unfortunate events with construction, a bog hike, rancid butter, and an exploding water heater (truly a story for the ages). About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

  8. Sep 9

    Back to School, Back to Reality

    Does anyone else feel like the back-to-school season is more like the beginning of the year than January 1st is?  Today, we're chatting about the anticipation of heading back to the classroom - whether you're a student, a parent, or even a teacher - and why you never really outgrow that feeling (no matter how old you are). We talk about the pressure of starting a routine & and the importance of practicing it, how "new-ness" effects everyone differently, and why you're not a bad parent if you forget a permission slip.  We also discuss why back-to-school shopping is about more than just folders and notebooks, how to manage separation anxiety, the benefits of encouraging kids to step out of their comfort zones, and how joyful memories can be made even in a time of stress. About Your Hosts:  Beth is a licensed, Ph.D. clinical psychologist with 40+ years of experience treating patients of all ages.  Joyce is a millennial just trying to figure it all out. Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help. Other Stuff: Follow us on Instagram: @noyourenotdyingpodcast Submit your topic ideas and questions here.

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Mother-daughter duo Beth (a PhD clinical psychologist) and Joyce (a chronic over-thinking millennial) love to sit and chat about finding balance in the never-ending ups and downs of life - so much so, that they turned it into a podcast. Join them every week for a candid conversation about the many ways in which life impacts our mental health, how psychology can shift your perspective, and why even if you feel like you’re dying, you’re probably not. Kinda funny, never scripted, always honest - so join the conversation!  To share topics and stay up to date on the show, you can follow them on Instagram @noyourenotdyingpodcast.  **Note: Advice and opinions on this show should not be considered as treatment. Please contact your healthcare provider if you are in need of individualized help.**

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  • Creator
    Beth & Joyce
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    91
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 No, You're Not Dying
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