The Cordial Co-Parent

Brandi Garner
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The Cordial Co-Parent: Uniting Two Homes for One Mission- Happy Kids!

Episodes

  1. You Don't Have to Be BFFs to Be Great Co-Parents

    04/10/2025

    You Don't Have to Be BFFs to Be Great Co-Parents

    In this episode of The Cordial Co-Parent, I'm clearing up one of the biggest myths out there—that in order to co-parent well, you've gotta be best friends with your ex. Let me go ahead and say it: you don't need to be texting your ex's new partner memes or sending out matching Christmas cards to do this right. You just need peace, respect, and a plan that works for your child. That's it. I share a little bit about my own story. Yes, I've got pictures out there with me, my ex, and his wife all hugged up at a basketball game, but don't let that fool you. We're more the exception than the rule, and it took time, effort, and healing to get there. You do not need that kind of closeness to be successful. We talk about how social media can make you feel like you're falling short, but the truth is: most good co-parents aren't super close—they're just consistent. In this episode, I break down what "cordial" really means (hint: it's not about being friends- it's about being functional), and I share three quick, real-life tips from my Cordial Compass to help you stay grounded, gracious, and focused on your kids. If you've ever felt like you're not doing enough because your co-parenting situation doesn't look picture-perfect, this one's for you.

    9 min
  2. Facilitative Gatekeeping: The One Co-Parenting Skill That Changes Everything

    03/20/2025

    Facilitative Gatekeeping: The One Co-Parenting Skill That Changes Everything

    Have you ever met someone who keeps all the good things to themselves? Like that woman in a stunning dress who suddenly "forgets" where she bought it? Yeah, we all hate a gatekeeper! But what if I told you that you might be gatekeeping too—not with a dress, but with your child? In this episode of The Cordial Co-Parent, we're diving into something called facilitative gatekeeping—a term that might sound technical, but trust me, it's so important. This is all about whether you're making it easier or harder for your child to have a relationship with their other parent. And here's the thing—most parents who struggle with this don't even realize they're doing it. So, are you holding the gate open? Or are you unintentionally making it harder for your child to connect with their other parent? Tune in to find out...

    14 min
  3. Stay in Your Lane: How Co-Parents Can Complement, Not Compete

    03/06/2025

    Stay in Your Lane: How Co-Parents Can Complement, Not Compete

    Stay in Your Lane: How Co-Parents Can Complement, Not Compete Co-parenting is not about outdoing each other—it's about working together. But let's be real, too many parents get stuck in the competition trap. Who's the better parent? Who's doing more? Who's getting credit? And in the middle of that tug-of-war? Your kids. But here's the truth: You don't have to do it all. In fact, trying to be everything for your kids will only leave you frustrated, exhausted, and resentful. And when you're operating from that place, guess what? You're not showing up as the best version of yourself. The key to less chaos, fewer fights, and a smoother co-parenting experience? Learning how to stay in your lane. When both parents focus on their strengths instead of trying to micromanage or one-up each other, everyone wins—especially the kids. In this episode, we're breaking down: Why trying to be everything for your child isn't helping—it's hurting. The biggest reasons co-parents struggle to stay in their lane (and how to fix it). How my ex, his wife, and I lean into our strengths, trust each other's roles, and actually make co-parenting work. The real reason control issues cause more conflict—and what to do instead. How to stop competing, start complementing, and finally co-parent with less stress and more peace. Listen, not every child has the blessing of two involved parents. If yours does, that's not something to take for granted—it's something to nurture. But that can only happen if you're willing to let go of the competition and embrace a better way. So ask yourself—do you want peace, or do you want control? Do you want what's best for your child, or just what feels best to you? If you're ready to stop the power struggles and actually start co-parenting in a way that works, this episode is for you. And if you need more personalized guidance, I got you—message me on Instagram @BrandiGarner_ or head to thecordialcoparent.com to get the support you need. Hit play, because trust me—you don't want to miss this one.

    15 min

  4. 02/27/2025

    The Cordial Effect: How Co-Parenting Shapes Kids' Emotional Health

    We've all heard the phrase "divorce destroys kids," but what if I told you that's not the whole truth? The science says otherwise. It's not the divorce itself that harms children—it's how their parents handle it. In this episode of The Cordial Co-Parent, we're breaking down the real impact of co-parenting on a child's emotional well-being and why the way you navigate this journey matters more than you think. I'll be sharing how science backs up what I've seen firsthand—when parents work together, kids thrive. But when conflict, inconsistency, and tension take over, the effects can be long-lasting. I'll also open up about my own co-parenting journey and how choosing peace over pettiness has made all the difference for my kids. And because knowing better is one thing, but doing better… baby, that's a whole nother story, I'm introducing The Cordial Compass™, your navigation system for co-parenting success. Each week, I'll give you directions—practical, real-life steps to help you stay on course and co-parent with intention. If you're ready to stop just getting through it and start co-parenting with confidence, this episode is for you. Hit that follow button so you never miss an episode of The Cordial Co-Parent! Because co-parenting doesn't have to be a battle. It's time to shift the energy, show up different, and keep it cool, keep it kind, and always keep it cordial.

    11 min

  5. 02/27/2025

    Started from the Bottom, Now We're Here

    In this first episode of The Cordial Co-Parent, I'm taking you back to where it all began. From tension-filled exchanges and family traditions that felt more like battlegrounds than celebrations to where we are now—celebrating milestones together, co-parenting as a true team, and even hanging out like family. But let's be real: not every co-parenting story has a happy ending. Too many kids grow up caught in the middle, tiptoeing around eggshells, carrying the weight of their parents' resentment. And that pain doesn't just disappear when they grow up—it lingers. That's why I'm here. If you've ever wondered if co-parenting can be peaceful—or if you're ready to start making changes for the sake of your kids—this episode is for you. Hit play and let's talk about how to rewrite the co-parenting narrative, one step at a time.

    9 min

  6. 02/04/2025

    The Cordial Co-Parent Trailer

    Welcome! I'm Brandi Garner, and you're listening to The Cordial Co-Parent, your go-to guide for keeping co-parenting fun, friendly, and totally focused on the kids! Don't believe that's possible? Tune in each week for tips, tools, and the juicy tails of how my ex-husband, his wife, and I navigated our bumpy beginnings and paved a path to a partnership that feels more like family than foes. Grab a seat at our table, and let me show you how we keep it cordial!

    6 min

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    Brandi Garner
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