Meant 2 Be

Marvin and Rachael Williams

What happens when a girl from Ohio and a guy from Florida match on Hinge and end up married? Welcome to Meant 2 Be, the podcast where love, relationships, dating, and pop culture collide. Hosts Marvin and Rachael Williams bring their real-life experiences as an interracial couple to the mic—sharing personal stories, giving unfiltered relationship advice, and breaking down the highs and lows of marriage in today’s world. Ready for laughs, insight, and a fresh take on love? Keep it real and keep it kind.

  1. Jun 1

    #28 - How to Stop Being Jealous (Dating Advice)

    In this Meant 2 Be Podcast episode, Marvin & Rachael break down how to stay secure when you’re dating someone attractive—without spiraling, checking phones, or embarrassing yourself. We give you dating advice you can actually use, including a simple 4-question filter to tell the difference between insecurity and real red flags, plus scripts for reassurance and boundaries in relationships (online and in person).Here’s what we cover: What “dating a baddie” really means (hint: it’s not about them—it’s about your security + boundaries) Why jealousy often comes from unhealed trauma and trust issues in relationships The 4 questions to check yourself: pattern vs feeling, evidence vs fear, boundary clarity, and whether your partner is responsive or defensive How to ask for reassurance without accusing (verbatim scripts included) How attachment styles can make attention feel like a threat (and how to not let it run your relationship)👇 Question for the comments: What’s the healthiest reassurance you’ve ever received?Thank you to our friends at Pop Snax for sponsoring the podcast!Pop Snax is a monthly mystery snack box that lets you discover treats from different countries without leaving home (international chips, candies, cookies, sweets, and even rare drinks). Get 40% off your first Pop Snax box 🎁 - https://popsnaxworld.com/rachaelw40 Subscribe now to the Meant 2 Be Podcast and join Marvin (⁠@marvin_martian10⁠) and Rachael (⁠@rosegold_rae⁠) as they explore the highs and lows of love, dating, and marriage. Follow Meant 2 Be on Instagram & TikTok (@meant2bepod).Support our IVF/surrogacy journey 💕 - https://gofund.me/d40385123#HowToStopBeingJealous #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #BoundariesInRelationships #AttachmentStyles #JealousyInRelationships #TrustIssues #Confidence #CouplesPodcast #Meant2BePodChapters00:00 Intro01:51 What is a “Baddie”?03:43 Jealousy vs. Intuition 08:42 How to Test Intuition (Proof vs. Paranoia)10:16 The Hidden Cost of Dating a Baddie17:45 Secure Partner Toolkit22:02 Outro

    24 min
  2. Apr 27

    #27 - Did Drag Race Season 18 Get It Wrong?

    Get 40% off your first Pop Snax box 🎁 - https://popsnaxworld.com/rachaelw40  In this Meant 2 Be Podcast episode, Marvin & Rachael react to the RuPaul Drag Race finale, break down the season’s biggest highs and frustrations, and answer the question everyone starts with: did the right queen win? (We’re saying Myki Meeks earned that crown—period.) We talk: Our “Meet the Queens” prediction receipts (Kenya Pleaser, Vita VonTesse Starr, Mia Starr, DD Fuego, and more)  The judging frustrations (yes, Marvin said Michelle Visage has gone soft 😭)And who we think is BUILT for All Stars (and we’re already counting down to Drag Race All Stars 11) Subscribe now to the Meant 2 Be Podcast and join Marvin (⁠@marvin_martian10⁠) and Rachael (⁠@rosegold_rae⁠) as they explore the highs and lows of love, dating, and marriage. Follow Meant 2 Be on Instagram & TikTok (@meant2bepod). 👇 Question for the comments: Who were you rooting for on drag race season 18—and which queen needs an All Stars comeback? Support our IVF/surrogacy journey 💕 - https://gofund.me/d40385123 #DragRaceSeason18 #RuPaulsDragRace #DragRaceFinale #MykiMeeks #NiniCoco #RPDR #DragRaceRecap #AllStars11 #DragRaceFans #CouplesPodcast #Meant2BePod Chapters 00:00 Intro 02:30 Did the Right Drag Queen Win? 12:00 Overall Season Impressions 19:07 Was Jane Don’t Sabotaged? 22:41 Reflection of Meet the Queens Predictions  27:13 All Stars Predictions 30:17 Favorite Episodes & Challenges  35:54 Outro

    42 min
  3. Mar 23

    #25 - Rihanna’s Greatest Hits (March Madness 2026)

    Support our IVF/surrogacy journey 💕 - https://gofund.me/d40385123 In this Meant 2 Be Podcast episode, Marvin & Rachael run a March Madness-style bracket to crown the #1 Rihanna song—32 matchups, four regions, one veto each, and rock-paper-scissors when we deadlock.   We argue like it’s life or death over Umbrella Rihanna vs Shut Up and Drive, We Found Love vs Pon de Replay, and a bunch of “how are these in the same round?!” matchups. After all the chaos, we land on a winner… and it’s the kind of pick that’ll have the comments in a chokehold.  Also—sending love to Rihanna & A$AP Rocky after the scary incident at their home. We’re grateful they’re safe. Subscribe now to the Meant 2 Be Podcast and join Marvin (⁠@marvin_martian10⁠) and Rachael (⁠@rosegold_rae⁠) as they explore the highs and lows of love, dating, and marriage. Follow Meant 2 Be on Instagram & TikTok (@meant2bepod). 👇 Question for the comments: Drop your Final Four + your winner. And be honest: did you use AI to “help” your bracket? 👀 (Apparently a LOT of people are.) #Rihanna #RihannaSongs #BestRihannaSongs #RihannaTopSongs #RihannaDiscography #WeFoundLove #Umbrella #MarchMadness #Podcast #meant2bepodcast  Chapters 00:00 Intro & March Madness Rules 06:53 Iconic Anthems Round 1 12:31 Pop Perfection Round 1 16:32 Edge & Attitude Round 1 21:13 Deep Cuts & Fan Favorites Round 1 27:29 Iconic Anthems Round 2 28:56 Pop Perfection Round 2 32:14 Edge & Attitude Round 2 32:39 Deep Cuts & Fan Favorites Round 2 34:30 Championship Quarter-Finals 37:54 Championship Semi-Finals 39:02 Championship Finals 44:23 Outro

    47 min
  4. Feb 23

    #23 - How to Keep Love Alive

    Support our IVF/surrogacy journey 💕 - https://gofund.me/d40385123 In this Meant 2 Be Podcast anniversary episode, we rewind to our wedding day (yes, the Andre 3000 aisle moment made the family think Marvin “wrote the song” 😭), relive the funniest + most emotional memories, and then get tactical about what actually keeps a marriage strong—when money’s tight, stress is loud, and real life hits. We talk about the hardest season of our marriage (job loss, grief, couch-surfing, and rebuilding), the best season (peace, stability, and finally exhaling), and the habits that helped us stay connected: communication, budgeting, intimacy, and boundaries. Subscribe now to the Meant 2 Be Podcast and join Marvin (⁠@marvin_martian10⁠) and Rachael (⁠@rosegold_rae⁠) as they explore the highs and lows of love, dating, and marriage. Follow Meant 2 Be on Instagram & TikTok (@meant2bepod). 👇 What’s the BEST marriage advice you’ve ever heard… and what’s your #1 anniversary tradition? #Marriage #WeddingAnniversary #RelationshipAdvice #CouplePodcast #MarriageTips #CommunicationInMarriage #CoupleGoals #HealthyRelationships #LoveStory #Meant2BePodcast Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:17 Funniest Wedding Moments 06:13 Most Emotional Wedding Moments  14:43 Transition to Married Life 17:56 The Hardest Year of Marriage 22:40 The Best Year of Marriage (So Far) 25:33 Wedding Vows Re-Read 33:36 Tips for a Healthy Relationship  40:42 Relationship Hacks 41:54 Year 4: What We’re Looking Forward To  43:30 Outro

    46 min
  5. Jan 26

    #21 - Why Pregnancy Isn’t Safe For Us (Our Surrogacy Journey)

    Support our IVF/surrogacy journey 💕 - https://gofund.me/d40385123 We’re sharing the most vulnerable chapter of the Meant 2 Be Podcast so far: our real-life journey through IVF + surrogacy… and the moment we learned it could cost $130,000–$150,000. This episode is deeply personal, but we’re telling it because we know we’re not the only ones navigating health challenges, finances, and the pressure of “when are y’all having kids?” Key Takeaway: The price is emotional, not just financial. And progress can look like patience. Subscribe now to the Meant 2 Be Podcast and join Marvin (⁠@marvin_martian10⁠) and Rachael (⁠@rosegold_rae⁠) as they explore the highs and lows of love, dating, and marriage. Follow Meant 2 Be on Instagram & TikTok (@meant2bepod). 👇 If you’ve ever been on the fertility journey (TTC, IVF, IUI, surrogacy, adoption talks), we’d love to hear from you in the comments: What’s something you wish people understood about this process? #IVF #Surrogacy #InfertilityJourney #TryingToConceive #FertilityJourney #IVFCommunity #ParenthoodJourney #FamilyBuilding #Adoption #Podcast Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:48 Dreams of Parenthood 07:03 Rachael’s Health Issues 08:56 The IVF Process Begins 15:18 Marvin’s Physical + Sperm Freeze Experience 19:19 Pausing IVF Due to Finances 23:18 Societal Pressures on Women 28:40 Why not just adopt? 29:18 Surrogacy Process/Costs Explained 32:22 Exploring Alternative Options 34:02 What We Wish We Knew 34:45 Outro

    37 min

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What happens when a girl from Ohio and a guy from Florida match on Hinge and end up married? Welcome to Meant 2 Be, the podcast where love, relationships, dating, and pop culture collide. Hosts Marvin and Rachael Williams bring their real-life experiences as an interracial couple to the mic—sharing personal stories, giving unfiltered relationship advice, and breaking down the highs and lows of marriage in today’s world. Ready for laughs, insight, and a fresh take on love? Keep it real and keep it kind.