The Martyrs Church Podcast

The Martyrs Church

Preparing God’s end-time army, even making ready the glorious bride of Christ.

  1. Mar 14

    Ruth and Boaz – Episode 6: Discernment and Defense In Building Healthy Relationships

    How do you know if your relationship is under a spiritual attack or if you are simply with the wrong person? Why do so many men retreat into silence just when they should be stepping into leadership? In this sixth instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm exposes the subtle signs of attack that drain the life out of a godly courtship. He addresses the crisis of the indecisive man—the one who keeps a woman in a loop of uncertainty—and explains why a man who isn’t concrete in his decision isn’t ready for marriage. From the sudden loss of spiritual fervor to the paralyzing grip of Gamophobia, this session provides the discernment needed to fight for your peace. Rev. Sir Elorm also dives into the practical gray areas of modern relationships: Should you have a joint bank account? How do you handle marital prophecies? And does a woman have to take her husband’s surname? What to Expect: ​Intentional protection of personal peace​Prayerful confrontation of attacks in relationships Why believers must marry believers​Criteria for evaluating attraction​Vital role of premarital counselling​Perspectives on assuming a husband’s surname​The right approach to marital prophecies​Mandate to prioritise the holy over the commonThe place of wisdom in navigating relationships ​Dynamics of age disparities in relationships​Guidelines for managing joint accounts​Strategies for overcoming gamophobia (commitment fears)- ​Establishment of healthy relationship boundaries Prepare for a session that combines high spiritual warfare with grounded, practical wisdom. It is time to stop being anxious and start being intentional about the boundaries of your covenant. Shalom! Maranatha!

    2h 10m
  2. Mar 8

    Ruth and Boaz – Episode 5: Covenant Over Convenience

    Does marriage cure unfaithfulness, or does it merely expose a lack of character? At what point does the bill of divorcement become a necessity, and when is it a sign of a hardened heart? In this fifth instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm brings a sobering perspective to the permanence of covenant. He moves from the beauty of humble submission—where a woman’s exploits never become a weapon against her husband—to the raw realities of attraction. This session provides a masterclass on the protocols of betrothal, dowry, and honoring authority. He explains that fornication extends beyond premarital relations into broader sexual immorality and even spiritual idolatry. If covenant is broken through unfaithfulness, what freedom remains for the injured party? What are the boundaries of authority in vows? And why must no one speak or vow themselves into rebellion against God? From the biblical qualifications of bishops and deacons as husbands of one wife, to the deeper question of polygamy and God’s original design, this episode restores marriage to its sacred seriousness. What to Expect: The power of humble submission in a wifeThe treasure in earthen vesselsHaving a standard as a womanThe importance of attraction in marriageThe difference between a wife and a concubine The difference between betrothal and dowryIssues around fornication, forgiveness and divorceThe domain of authority in vowsThe importance of sex in marriage The mind of God on polygamy Brace yourself for a session that strips away the fluff of modern dating and reinstates the weight of covenant. It is time to move from convenience to a commitment that reflects the faithfulness of God. Shalom! Maranatha!

    2h 20m
  3. Mar 6

    Ruth and Boaz – Episode 4: The Architecture of a Responsible Man

    Did Eve meet Adam in idleness or did she find him already at work? Is a man’s readiness for marriage measured by his age, or by the laws he establishes for his household? In this fourth instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm explores the essential markers of a man prepared for covenant. He teaches that a woman should never be brought into a “poor home” — not merely in financial terms, but in the poverty of vision, discipline, and character. Responsibility, he explains, is revealed in details. He draws women into sober reflection by raising necessary questions: Can he account for what has been placed in his hands? Can he steward vision before he stewards a wife? Does he shift blame when pressure comes or does he stand as a pillar of ownership? Rev. Sir Elorm delves into the priesthood of the man, explaining that a husband must be a teacher who works life into his woman — nurturing her through encouragement, instruction, and example until she flourishes in the strength of shared vision. If submission feels like a burden, could it be because leadership has not made it natural and safe? What to Expect: The man as vision bearer, provider, and protectorThe man’s role in building and nurturing the womanThe priesthood of the man The man as a teacher and example of the WordThe man’s independence and responsibilityThe man’s role in making submission natural and easyAsking the right questions during courtshipPrepare for a sobering and transformative session that calls men to maturity and women to discernment. It’s time to ask the right questions before entering the sacred bond of covenant. Shalom! Maranatha!

    2h 18m
  4. Mar 5

    Ruth and Boaz – Episode 3: The Architecture of Order

    Can a woman have a voice in a marriage built on submission? Is a man’s leadership a license for isolation, or a mandate for investment? In this third instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm addresses the identity crises that often plague modern unions. He challenges the man not to be intimidated by his wife’s exploits, explaining that true leadership is not about silencing a woman’s voice, but about providing the covering where her opinions can flourish into shared decisions. Rev. Sir Elorm introduces three critical plumb lines for order: Apostolic Administration, Customs and Traditions, and Scriptural Doctrine. Through these, he explains how to navigate cultural traditions without compromising divine truth. From the controversial context of women keeping silent to the significance of symbolic adornments like the nose ring, this session brings historical clarity to modern confusion. What to Expect: The demands of the man in a relationship The link between mission and submissionThe frailties of humanityThe expressions of lovePractising shared decision makingBeing considerate in relationships Apostolic administration, customs and traditions, and the doctrine of scripture Dealing with the issue of marriage The authority of the man over the wifeGod, the husband and the wifeThe significance of a nose ringUnderstanding submission in marriage Prepare for a session that moves beyond the surface of “rules” and into the heart of divine intelligence, fostering homes where both mission and submission thrive in harmony. Shalom! Maranatha!

    2h 2m
  5. Mar 4

    Ruth and Boaz - Episode 2: Submission, Authority and the Power Of Alignment

    How should a woman handle issues in her home in light of her submission to the Lord and to her husband? Is the “chase” a romantic necessity or a dangerous game that defies spiritual law? In this second instalment of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm brings vital clarity to the protocols of the Kingdom. He dismantles the modern “hard-to-get” philosophy, revealing that while a man should entice and engage, a woman is called to a Sub-Mission—a mission that exists under the primary vision she has chosen to run with. Rev. Sir Elorm journeys through the Torah to explain the shift of authority from a father to a husband. He explores the weight of a man’s “super-authority,” not as a tool for lordship, but as a spiritual law of protection and provision. Does a woman lose her power in submission, or is submission actually the ultimate declaration of her power? From the mystery of the Proverbs 31 woman to the significance of betrothal, this episode challenges women to build such immense value that they become a prize to be discerned, and men to become leaders so submitted to Christ that their wives find it easy to trust their direction. What to Expect: Embracing God’s standardUnderstanding the true concept of submissionThe distinction between a wife and a virginThe Authority of a father and the authority of a husband over a womanMarriage as a vision, and an IdentitySubmission as a declaration of a woman’s powerAn analysis of the proverbs 31 womanWhy a woman must build value Prepare for a session that bridges the gap between ancient Torah principles and modern relational wisdom. It is time to align with the ordinances of God to experience the peace of God. Shalom! Maranatha!

    1h 51m
  6. Mar 2

    Ruth and Boaz - Episode 1: Divine Principles Of Partnership

    What is the defining quality of a man truly ready for covenant? When God declared it was not good for man to be alone, was He speaking of mere company, or the necessity of a shared mission? In this opening episode of the Ruth and Boaz series, Rev. Sir Elorm strips away modern sentiment to reveal the raw architecture of divine partnership. He explores the masculine principle of authority and vision versus the feminine principle of servanthood and submission. In a generation that resists these distinctions, have we unknowingly rebelled against the very order that sustains us? Is every female a wife, or is a "wife" a specific stature a woman is built into? If a man is defined not by biological fatherhood but by the weight of his vision, can a woman truly submit where she cannot follow? If the relationship between a husband and wife mirrors that of Christ and the Church, what does a woman’s resistance reveal about her trust in God? What to Expect: A Help Meet The feminine and masculine principles Finding contentment with just being a woman: a help meetDefining men by their visionsSubmitting under a man’s vision as unto The LordLoyalty as a distinctive quality of a wifeEssential demands to see in a woman Prepare for a bold, scripture-grounded, and deeply revelatory session that restores marriage to its original design. It is time to determine if you are prepared for covenant or merely craving companionship. Shalom! Maranatha!

    1h 53m

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Preparing God’s end-time army, even making ready the glorious bride of Christ.