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The Power Within. A podcast about the questions we all face as we navigate life, love, work, purpose, and the absurdity of middle life. Together, we’ll laugh, learn, and dig deep into what it means to face this season with courage, grace, and authenticity. Let’s unlock the power that’s already within us.

  1. 3d ago

    STOP BEING SO NICE

    What People-Pleasing Is Really Costing You with Alicia Pieterse What if being “nice” isn't always kindness? What if sometimes it's fear? The fear of disappointing people. Of not being liked. Of not being needed. Of discovering what might happen if you finally put yourself first. In the first episode of Season 2 of Amandla: The Power Within, Mpeo Nkosi reconnects with Alicia Pieterse — executive coach, author, and the resident coach from Season 1 — for a conversation about people-pleasing, self-abandonment, self-worth, boundaries, purpose, and freedom. A lot has changed since they last spoke. Alicia has written Patches: Coaching Stories of Overcoming and Possibility. Mpeo has moved through grief and a period of creative disconnection. And their reunion opens up a much bigger conversation about what it means to come back to yourself. Alicia explores the childhood strategies many of us develop to get our needs met — and how those strategies can follow us into adulthood, often without us even recognising them. Together, Mpeo and Alicia ask: When does kindness become people-pleasing? What are you giving up to be liked? What relationships require you to abandon yourself to keep them alive? And what happens when you become still enough to hear what is really going on underneath the performance? The conversation moves from people-pleasing into innate freedom, Alicia's exploration of Sankalpa — a commitment to living from your highest purpose — and the difference between achieving what you want and becoming who you want to be. This isn't about becoming less caring. It's about learning that you can care for other people without abandoning yourself. A conversation about the courage to notice, the freedom to choose differently, and the ongoing work of becoming. Welcome back to Amandla. The power is already within you. Purchase a copy of Patches

  2. 08/17/2025

    COMPETENT & CONFIDENT

    Why your Workplace May be Trying to Silence You (Part 2) Are you a strong, capable leader who's faced pushback and undermining in the workplace? Do you feel like your competence is seen as a threat rather than an asset? In Part 2 of this empowering conversation with Executive Coach Alicia Pieterse, we expose the hidden dynamics that can sabotage your confidence and competence. Discover how to navigate cultural nuances, address conflict with grace, and reclaim your power in any professional setting. Alicia and Mpeo dive into: • The "Strong Black Woman" Paradox: Unpack the frustrating reality that competent, confident Black women often face in the workplace, where their strengths are both sought after and rejected. • Navigating Cultural Minefields: Learn how cultural practices (like familial terms of address) can create unhealthy power dynamics • Decoding Power Trips: Recognise the signs of stonewalling, gaslighting, and undermining from those in positions of authority • Owning Your Worth: Discover how to establish yourself as an adult, rather than approaching leadership with fear • Breaking the "Yes Men" Cycle: Understand how a lack of honest feedback and political savviness can lead to organisational dysfunction. • Setting Boundaries with Cultural Respect: Find the balance between honouring cultural norms and maintaining professional boundaries • Conflict Resolution as a Superpower: Discover why conflict management is a crucial skill for thriving in any workplace • The Art of Active Listening: Master the underrated skill of truly listening to others, suspending your own opinions, and creating a safe space for open dialogue. • Turning Wounds into Wisdom: Process your emotions, find support, and transform toxic workplace experiences into opportunities for growth • Taking Action and Mobilising Change: Move beyond complaining and trauma bonding

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The Power Within. A podcast about the questions we all face as we navigate life, love, work, purpose, and the absurdity of middle life. Together, we’ll laugh, learn, and dig deep into what it means to face this season with courage, grace, and authenticity. Let’s unlock the power that’s already within us.