Rising From The Rubble

Maria Newman

So, here you are, about to press play, wondering if this podcast is for you. Let me save you the suspense—if life has ever thrown you a curveball, you’re in the right place. Rising from the Rubble is all about bouncing back when things don’t go to plan.

  1. 1d ago

    I Thought Closing My Business Meant I'd Failed

    For Lee Midlane, closing her business IT Central after more than 11 years was something she never imagined she'd have to do. Having invested so much time, energy and money into making it work, she initially struggled with the shame of feeling that she'd failed. In this episode, Lee shares what it was like to reach the point where she had to let go, while also dealing with her husband's traumatic brain injury just five months earlier. She opens up about the challenges of juggling family life, caring for her husband and running two businesses, the emotional impact of closing IT Central, and how finding the right business community helped her see new possibilities. Her story is a reminder that closing a business doesn't mean you've failed, that sometimes letting go is the best decision you can make, and that there can be life, opportunity and freedom on the other side. Now, grab a cuppa, relax and press play. About Lee Lee Midlane is the co-founder of Box Brand, a Scottish business creating thoughtful branded experiences that help organisations build lasting relationships. A former teacher and qualified trainer, Lee brings curiosity, empathy and a practical approach to every project. Her entrepreneurial journey has included building a business, making difficult decisions and discovering that closing a chapter is not the same as failing. She believes business owners often carry responsibilities that others cannot see, and that walking away after giving something everything you have can be an act of wisdom rather than defeat. Today, Lee works with businesses to move beyond disposable promotional merchandise and create gifts and experiences that people genuinely value. She is active in Circle Networks and passionate about the power of connection, honest conversations and supportive communities. Her message is simple: success is not always about holding on; sometimes it begins when you let go. To find out more, go to: Connect with Lee: www.linkedin.com/in/lee-midlane-29110024/ Website: www.boxbrand.co.uk/⁠ If you enjoyed this podcast then please like, share and subscribe. Link to get your free Personal Life Assessment download ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/LAPDFLA22⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you want to find out more about how I can help you then check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    I Thought Closing My Business Meant I'd Failed
  2. Oct 13

    I Didn’t Know How to Explain What Was Going On

    From the outside, Elliot Kay had a lot to be grateful for. He had a successful business an amazing family and on paper, life looked good. Yet inside, he was struggling with depression, constantly feeling that he wasn’t good enough. In this episode, Elliot shares what it was like to struggle with his mental health while finding it difficult to understand, let alone explain, what he was experiencing. He opens up about reaching a point where he had thoughts of suicide, the moment he realised he needed help, and how talking to someone helped him begin to see things differently. His story is a reminder that you don't have to wait until you reach breaking point to ask for help, and that struggling doesn't mean you've failed. Sometimes, the hardest part is admitting that something isn't right and finding the words to tell someone. In this episode, we talk about: - What depression can look like when, from the outside, everything seems to be going well. - The pressure of feeling that you're never doing enough or achieving enough. - How difficult it can be to explain what you're experiencing, even to the people closest to you. - The importance of asking for help and recognising when you need support. - Letting go of other people's expectations and finding your own sense of purpose. - Learning to accept where you are and recognising that you don't have to have everything figured out. If you've ever felt that you should be happier, more successful or further ahead than you are, Elliot's story may help you recognise that you're not alone. Now, grab a cuppa, relax and press play. About Elliot Elliot Kay is a keynote speaker, entrepreneur, seven-time author and speaker coach who believes we don’t always need clarity before we act — sometimes clarity is something we create through action. Over more than two decades in business, Elliot has built companies, experienced failure and bankruptcy, reinvented himself and learned what it means to keep moving when the outcome isn’t guaranteed. Despite being dyslexic, he has become a seven-time author and experienced keynote speaker, helping entrepreneurs, leaders and professional speakers communicate powerfully, grow their businesses and step onto bigger stages. His Watch Me Go philosophy explores what happens when we stop waiting to feel ready and instead take intelligent action, create evidence and discover what we’re capable of. Warm, funny and refreshingly open about success and failure, Elliot speaks about entrepreneurship, confidence, identity, influence and taking action without certainty. To find out more, go to: Connect with Elliot: ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/elliot-kay/ Website: ⁠www.elliotkay.com Website: www.elliotkay.me If you enjoyed this podcast then please like, share and subscribe. Link to get your free Personal Life Assessment download ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/LAPDFLA22⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you want to find out more about how I can help you then check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    I Didn’t Know How to Explain What Was Going On
  3. Sep 25

    I Was Told What My Future Would Look Like. I Decided Otherwise.

    What do you do when you’ve spent years being told what is going to happen to your body, your health and your future? In this episode, I’m joined by Sue Woodriffe who has spent much of her life dealing with pain, injury, trauma and some pretty frightening predictions about what her future might look like. At just 12 years old, Sue injured her knee in a trampoline accident. What followed was years of operations, chronic pain and decisions being made for her. At one point, she was even told she could be in a wheelchair by the age of 40. Sue talks openly about how those experiences affected her, from feeling that she had no choice and no voice, to becoming fiercely determined to maintain her independence and mobility. Sue shares what she has learned about trauma, resilience, taking responsibility for your wellbeing and why she believes that, whatever happens to you, you can still have a good life. Because sometimes the biggest thing you can find after everything you’ve been through is your voice. And with your voice comes a choice. Now, grab a cuppa, relax and press play. About Sue At the age of 12, a serious accident set in motion a succession of traumatic experiences, culminating in the death of her mother when she was 25. The accident and its aftermath resulted in a lifelong physical disability, introducing Sue to challenges that many people spend a lifetime trying to avoid, including pain, loss, uncertainty and the need to adapt to circumstances beyond her control. Later experiences of grief, chronic pain and significant life transitions deepened her understanding of how trauma can affect both mind and body. Alongside these challenges, Sue has built a full and rewarding life. She married, raised two wonderful sons, ran a successful business with her husband for many years and now enjoys being grandmother to two grandsons. These experiences inspired Sue to support others who are struggling in life, particularly when trauma underlies the emotions and beliefs that shape their lives. To find out more, go to: Connect with Sue: www.linkedin.com/in/sue-woodriffe/ Website: www.suewoodriffe.co.uk/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/@suewoodriffe If you enjoyed this podcast then please like, share and subscribe. Link to get your free Personal Life Assessment download ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/LAPDFLA22 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you want to find out more about how I can help you then check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    I Was Told What My Future Would Look Like. I Decided Otherwise.
  4. Sep 10

    I Didn’t Choose My Struggles. I Chose What I Did With Them

    What do you do when the struggles you’ve carried for years start to feel like they’re becoming who you are? In this episode of Rising From The Rubble, I’m joined by Nick Elston, an inspirational speaker who shares his lived experience of OCD, anxiety, burnout and the journey that ultimately led him to build a career around helping others. Nick talks openly about what it was like to spend years being labelled a “worrier” and “sensitive”, while carrying far more than the people around him realised. He shares the moment in 2012 when he finally stopped pretending he was fine and told people what was really going on. We talk about the masks we wear, the stories we tell ourselves, the thoughts we believe, and why we can’t always control what happens to us, yet we do have a choice about what we do next. Nick also shares how he learned to challenge his anxiety, why he tells people to “fact check” their thoughts, and how the experiences that once felt like they might break him ultimately helped forge the person he is today. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck, defined by your past, or unsure whether you have a choice, this conversation is for you. Because you may not have chosen your struggles. You can choose what you do with them. Now, grab a cuppa, relax and press play. About Nick Nick Elston is an award-winning mental health and keynote speaker, speaking coach, and the founder of Forging People. After years of living with anxiety and being an introvert himself, Nick built a career speaking to audiences of thousands around the world, turning what once held him back into the very thing that now drives his impact. With twelve years of experience as a speaker rooted in lived experience, Nick helps people find their voice, own their story, and communicate with genuine confidence, clarity and impact, whether that is on a stage, in a boardroom, or in a conversation that matters. His work is built around one simple belief: people already have the answers they need, they just need better questions to access them. Nick works across corporates, education, frontline services and beyond, and hosts his own weekly country music show, Nick Elston Country, on Mixx Radio. To find out more, go to: Connect with Nick: www.linkedin.com/in/nickelston/ Website: www.nickelston.com YouTube: www.youtube.com/c/NickElston Nick Elston Country (Mixx Radio): www.mixxradio.co.uk/shows/nick-elston-country/ If you enjoyed this podcast then please like, share and subscribe. Link to get your free Personal Life Assessment download ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/LAPDFLA22 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you want to find out more about how I can help you then check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    I Didn’t Choose My Struggles. I Chose What I Did With Them
  5. Jul 17

    Sometimes You Have To Lose Everything To Find Yourself

    In this episode, I’m joined by Anna, who shares her honest story of reaching a point where she realised she had been sleepwalking through life. From the outside, everything looked good. She had a successful business, a beautiful home and a relationship that seemed to be everything she should have wanted. Yet deep down, something didn’t feel right. Anna shares what happened when she finally faced that truth, the emotions that followed, and how she rebuilt her life. This is a conversation about courage, self-awareness and what can happen when you stop ignoring the signs and start listening to yourself. Because sometimes losing the life you thought you wanted is the first step towards creating one you truly love. Now, grab a cuppa, relax and press play. About Anna Anna Woolliscroft is a journalling coach, writer and wellbeing advocate. She’s the founder of Writing with Purpose, a company that combines expressive writing with nature connection for personal growth. At 40, Anna's 13-year relationship ended unexpectedly, leaving her lost and disconnected. Through consistent journalling and honest self-reflection, she rebuilt her confidence, restarted her life and stepped away from a two-decade career in copywriting and marketing to follow her passion. Today, she lives a life she chose, filled with adventure and happiness. Through her work, she guides others to do the same. A certified Journal to the Self Instructor with a Master's in Creative Writing and Wellbeing, Anna hosts the Writing with Purpose podcast and runs journalling circles, nature journalling walks and one-to-one sessions. To find out more, go to: Connect with Anna: www.writingwithpurpose.co.uk/pages/connect Free PDF Journal Planner: www.writingwithpurposetsg.myshopify.com/pages/free-journal-planner Join an Online Journalling Circle: www.writingwithpurpose.co.uk/collections/online-circle If you enjoyed this podcast then please like, share and subscribe. Link to get your free Personal Life Assessment download ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/LAPDFLA22 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠If you want to find out more about how I can help you then check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Sometimes You Have To Lose Everything To Find Yourself
  6. Jul 3

    Your mind is Lying to You

    And the scary part is, most of the time, you believe it. In this episode, I talk about the stories we tell ourselves when things don’t go to plan, and how quickly those stories can shape what happens next. Because it’s rarely the situation itself that keeps you stuck. It’s the meaning you attach to it. A missed opportunity, a rejection or a delay, on their own, they mean nothing. Yet the way you interpret them can change how you feel, how you respond, and the direction you take from there. If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking, doubting yourself, or convincing yourself something isn’t possible, this episode will make you look at that differently. Because the thoughts in your head are not always telling you the truth. Now, grab a cuppa, relax and press play. Apply for your FREE Ignite Your Life Coaching Call – 30 minutes on Zoom, apply now⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://wp.me/PaEzld-25X⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Link to get your free Personal Life Assessment download⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/LAPDFLA22⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If you enjoyed this podcast then please like, share and subscribe.  If you want to find out more about how I can help you then check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linkedin⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Your mind is Lying to You

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So, here you are, about to press play, wondering if this podcast is for you. Let me save you the suspense—if life has ever thrown you a curveball, you’re in the right place. Rising from the Rubble is all about bouncing back when things don’t go to plan.