Nafs and Therapy

Noura Amkieh

This podcast is where therapy meets faith and tradition. Too often, we search for therapists who share our beliefs, hoping for a space that truly understands us. As a Muslim and practicing therapist, I felt the need to explore this intersection—to have real conversations about where faith and psychology align, how we can grow, and how healing can be both spiritual and psychological. Most importantly, mental health doesn’t discriminate—believer or not, we all face struggles. Join me in reflecting, questioning, and making space for a something that is dear to our heart, mind, and soul.

  1. S3 E4: The ancient dilemma: knowing the right way but choosing otherwise

    Apr 14

    S3 E4: The ancient dilemma: knowing the right way but choosing otherwise

    Unlock the profound connections between Islamic ethics, moral reasoning, and human development in this in-depth discussion with Dr. Mutaz Al-Khatib. We explore how knowledge and character intertwine, the role of desires, and practical steps toward moral excellence within Islamic tradition. Main Topics: The relationship between theoretical and applied knowledge in Islamic ethicsHow desires (Shahwa vs. Hawwa) influence moral decision-makingThe role of character formation and habituation in moral developmentThe concept of the soul as the real doer in human actionsNavigating ethical dilemmas, biases, and diversity of opinions in Islamic lawThe importance of self-awareness and continuous striving for humanityDr. Mutaz shares his personal journey of building a library lost to war, emphasizing the value of purposeful knowledgeThe distinction between theoretical (knowing) and practical (acting) wisdom rooted in Greek and Islamic philosophyHow Islamic ethics does not aim to eradicate desires but to purify and regulate them through moderationThe significance of intentions, motivations, and inner states (Baath, Dafa'a) in moral actionsThe process of habit formation in character, highlighting the importance of repetition and consistencyPractical advice on evaluating one's qualifications for responsibility and moral effortThe concept of continuity in actions leading to stable change and character transformationAligning intentions, emotions, and rationality to foster genuine virtue over superficial complianceHamad bin Khalifa UniversityImam Ghazali’s writings on Nafs and moralityClassical Islamic Ethics LiteratureYou can find Dr Mutaz on: https://www.hbku.edu.qa/en/staff/mutaz-alkhatib You can find me on: Website: https://nouraamkieh.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nafsandtherapy

    56 min
  2. S3 E3: Why focusing on holy texts in context can transforms how you connect with Allah

    Mar 29

    S3 E3: Why focusing on holy texts in context can transforms how you connect with Allah

    In this episode, we explore the profound ways in which Quranic stories and verses shape our understanding of ethics, emotions, and personal interpretation. Dr. Samer Rashwani shares insights on how to approach challenging passages, the relevance of prophetic models, and the importance of context in understanding Allah's disclosed words, highlighting how timeless divine wisdom remains relevant today. Key Topics The contrast between pre-modern and modern interest in Quranic narratives and their ethical implicationsHow Quranic stories serve as models for moral resilience and emotional engagementStrategies for lay Muslims to interpret Quranic verses responsibly and meaningfullyThe significance of context and comprehensive reading over isolated versesThe prophetic approach to tough verses, emphasizing compassion, patience, and understandingAddressing verses about gender roles and the importance of holistic interpretationHow Quranic stories function as moral typologies rather than strict historical accountsThe role of divine love, fear, and hope in understanding Allah's interaction with prophetsPractical guidance for engaging with the Quran—consulting translations, tafsir, and embracing multiple interpretationsEmphasizing that the Quran addresses timeless human experiences, fostering self-identification and ethical growthBehind the Story Essentials: Ethical Readings of Quranic Narratives⁠Tafsir al-Jalalayn⁠ — A classical tafsir exploring thematic interpretations⁠Sahih al-Bukhari⁠ — Authentic Prophetic sayings relevant to ethical behavior⁠The Relevance of Prophetic Models⁠ — An article discussing how prophets serve as ethical exemplarsYou can find Dr Samer on: https://www.hbku.edu.qa/en/staff/dr-samer-rashwani You can find me on: Website: https://nouraamkieh.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nafsandtherapy

    40 min
  3. S3 E1: Beyond the Checklist: Islamic Law, Moral Responsibility, and Mental Wellbeing.

    Feb 17

    S3 E1: Beyond the Checklist: Islamic Law, Moral Responsibility, and Mental Wellbeing.

    What happens when “doing religion right” starts to feel like anxiety, guilt, or a constant inner audit? In this conversation, Dr. Adnan A. Zulfiqar explores the meeting point between Islamic law, ethics, and mental health—and offers a more grounded, spacious way to think about moral responsibility, shame, and returning to faith. Dr. Zulfiqar shares his personal path into Islamic studies, and why Islamic tradition can’t be reduced to a rigid checklist. We talk about how guilt and shame shape the inner life, how people get distanced from Allah through fear-based religious experiences, and what it means to create compassionate “pathways back” for those who feel overwhelmed. Throughout, he invites listeners to approach sacred knowledge with humility, nuance, and the willingness to learn from diverse teachers and perspectives. In this episode, we explore: Why Islamic tradition is deeper than rules—and how ethics sits at its heart Moral responsibility, uncertainty, and what we do with our imperfections The psychological weight of guilt and shame—and how it can distort faith How people become spiritually distant (and what helps them return) What a flexible, honest relationship with Islamic law can look like The value of seeking teachers who widen the heart, not tighten it If this episode resonatedShare it with someone who feels exhausted by “religion as pressure,” and take one gentle step: seek a teacher, a community, or a reading that brings you back to mercy. You can find Dr Adnan on: https://www.bc.edu/bc-web/schools/law/academics-faculty/faculty-directory/adnan-zulfiqar.html You can find me on: Website: https://nouraamkieh.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nafsandtherapy

    1h 4m

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This podcast is where therapy meets faith and tradition. Too often, we search for therapists who share our beliefs, hoping for a space that truly understands us. As a Muslim and practicing therapist, I felt the need to explore this intersection—to have real conversations about where faith and psychology align, how we can grow, and how healing can be both spiritual and psychological. Most importantly, mental health doesn’t discriminate—believer or not, we all face struggles. Join me in reflecting, questioning, and making space for a something that is dear to our heart, mind, and soul.