Pearls of Motherhood

Pearls of Motherhood

Welcome to Pearls of Motherhood—a community for all moms! Whether you’re a new mom, seasoned parent, or grandma, we’ve got you covered. Each episode brings real, relatable conversations about the highs and lows of motherhood, filled with laughter, tips, and support. We’re here to remind you that you’re not alone, no matter where you are in your journey. Tune in every Friday for new Pearls and feel empowered, understood, and celebrated in the beautiful mess of motherhood.

  1. May 8

    S4 Finale: This Isn't How We Planned It (But We're Here Anyway)

    What happens when you can’t hold everything together anymore? In this deeply personal Season 4 finale of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana opens up about postpartum anxiety after her C-section, the pressure moms feel to “do it all,” and the hidden emotional toll of constantly trying to stay in control during uncertain seasons of motherhood. From obsessing over laundry and routines while recovering postpartum to the guilt, overstimulation, and emotional exhaustion so many moms silently carry, this episode explores the psychology behind why mothers over-function when life feels overwhelming—and why struggling does not mean you’re failing. Plus, a heartfelt listener mail from a mom of two toddlers sparks an honest conversation about mom guilt, emotional regulation, mental overload, self-criticism, and the impossible expectations modern mothers place on themselves. If you’ve ever: felt emotionally exhausted in motherhoodstruggled with postpartum anxiety or overwhelmwondered why you can’t “just handle it better”felt guilty for not enjoying every momentfelt like you were barely holding it together…this episode is for you. Because motherhood isn’t about holding everything together perfectly. Sometimes the bravest thing a mom can do… is stay. ✨ Topics discussed: Postpartum recovery, maternal mental health, emotional overload, mom guilt, overstimulation, perfectionism, intolerance of uncertainty, emotional regulation, identity shifts in motherhood, self-compassion, and parenting through hard seasons. Follow us on Instagram, Threads, and Facebook: @pomcasts 💛 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    10 min

  2. Apr 17

    S4E9: Some Kids Just Don't Care, Yet

    Ever looked at your child in a moment and thought… “why don’t they care?” When your kid ignores someone crying, grabs a toy without a second thought, or says “I don’t care” with full eye contact—it can feel personal. Like you’re failing. Like something’s off. But what if the truth is simpler… and a whole lot more relieving? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re saying something out loud that most moms think but don’t say: 👉 some kids just don’t care… yet. We break down what empathy actually looks like in child development (hint: it’s not automatic), why your child’s brain might not be there yet, and how to stop feeling like a broken record repeating “be kind” all day long. You’ll learn: Why empathy is a capacity issue, not a character flawThe 3 layers of empathy (and why most of us jump straight to the last one)How to teach empathy in real life—without losing your mindWhy connection works better than correctionWhat to do instead of forcing apologiesA simple, in-the-moment formula: notice it, name it, guide itWe also talk about the emotional side of this—those moments that make you question everything—and how to reframe them with a little more compassion (for your child and yourself). Because empathy isn’t something you can force. It’s something you grow—slowly, imperfectly, and over time. 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    48 min

  3. Apr 10

    S4E8: You're Not Getting An Apology: How to find peace without closure

    You’re not getting an apology. And waiting for one is keeping you stuck. They moved on. They’re not thinking about it. And you’re still carrying the weight. That’s the part no one says out loud. In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we talk about the kind of forgiveness that feels unfair— the kind where they never say sorry. Because forgiveness isn’t about them. It doesn’t mean – it was okay – you forget – you let them back in It means you stop letting it control you. You may never get the apology… but you don’t need it to move forward. 🎧 You’re Not Getting an Apology: How to Find Peace Without Closure Listen now! 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    38 min

  4. Apr 3

    S4E7: You're Not A Bad Mom...You're Just Comparing: How mom comparison quietly steals your joy (and how to stop)

    Ever feel like you're losing at motherhood… just by being around other moms? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we’re unpacking the silent competition no one talks about—mom comparison—and how it quietly steals your joy. That thought—“Why can’t I do it like she does?”— It’s not truth. It’s pressure. Because here’s what no one tells you: Most moms aren’t judging you… they’re questioning themselves too. ✨ The competition isn’t real ✨ The standard isn’t fair ✨ And your motherhood was never meant to look like hers If you’ve ever walked away from a playdate, scroll session, or school pickup feeling “less than”… this episode is your reset. 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and iHeartRadio. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    50 min

  5. Mar 27

    S4E6: The Mom Feeling Nobody Talks About: Loving Your Kid But Not Liking the Moment

    Ever felt like you love your kid… but don’t actually like them right now? That feeling almost no mom talks about? We're talking about it today. It’s one of the most taboo feelings in motherhood—and one almost no one talks about out loud. In this honest and compassionate episode of Pearls of Motherhood, we break the silence around those moments when your child pushes every button you have. The truth is, loving your child and enjoying every moment with them are not the same thing—and that doesn’t make you a bad mom. It makes you human. We explore why these feelings happen more often than moms admit. Sometimes it’s a mismatch in temperament. Sometimes it’s sensory overload, exhaustion, or constant power struggles. And sometimes it’s simply the weight of parenting without enough support. Instead of shame, we offer understanding—and practical ways to reset when you feel overwhelmed. In this episode, we talk about: Why loving your child and liking their behavior are two different thingsHow burnout, sensory overload, and power struggles affect your reactionsSimple ways to regulate your nervous system before respondingHow connection can soften difficult momentsWhy repair and honest conversations strengthen your relationship with your childIf you’ve ever thought, “I love my child, but right now I don’t like this moment,” this conversation is for you. Because motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about honesty, growth, and learning how to come back to connection. You’re not alone in this. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    46 min

  6. Mar 20

    S4E5: The Secret to Staying You While Raising Everyone Else

    Somewhere between raising kids, supporting our parents, and holding everything together, many moms start asking the same question: where did I go? In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Diana and Tessie explore one of the biggest emotional shifts of motherhood: how to stay connected to yourself while caring for everyone else. We talk about matrescence, the developmental transition into motherhood that explains why becoming a parent can feel so disorienting—even when it’s deeply joyful. We also dive into the reality of being the “bridge generation”, balancing the needs of our children while also supporting aging parents. Through personal stories and thoughtful reflection, we explore how modern motherhood can stretch women in every direction—and why protecting your identity isn’t selfish, it’s essential. In this episode, we discuss: • What matrescence is and why every mother should know about it • Why so many moms feel like they’ve lost themselves after having kids • The pressure of caring for both children and aging parents • How boundaries and intentional living help moms stay grounded • Small ways to reconnect with yourself while raising a family Motherhood transforms you—but it doesn’t have to erase you. This conversation is a reminder that you are still allowed to be a whole person while raising your children. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    37 min

  7. Mar 13

    S4E4: Mom Rage: Why Good Moms Lose Their Temper

    Why do moms experience rage? And why does no one talk about it? If you’ve ever snapped at your kids and immediately felt crushing guilt… this episode is for you. In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Tessie and Diana unpack the very real (and very common) experience of mom rage—those moments when the overwhelm, exhaustion, and constant demands of motherhood boil over. Instead of shaming the anger, we ask a deeper question: What if mom rage isn’t a failure… but a signal? We talk about the real pressures behind it, including: • chronic overstimulation • the invisible labor and mental load of motherhood • lack of support many moms quietly carry • why guilt keeps us stuck in the cycle We also share practical ways to pause, regulate, and repair when those big emotions hit. This conversation is honest, compassionate, and deeply validating for any mom who has ever wondered, “Why do I feel like this?” Because the truth is: you’re not a bad mom. You’re a human being doing one of the hardest jobs in the world. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    33 min

  8. Mar 6

    S4E3: Your Kids Aren't Broken- Your Routine Might Be (Fix Toddler Tantrums & Daily Meltdowns)

    Unpopular truth: your kid might not be the problem. Your routine might be. If mornings feel chaotic, transitions trigger meltdowns, and bedtime turns into a long negotiation, the issue may not be your child’s behavior — it might be the rhythm of the day. In this episode of Pearls of Motherhood, Tessie and Diana break down the science behind why kids thrive on predictable routines and how small shifts can dramatically reduce tantrums, sibling fights, and daily power struggles. You’ll learn: • Why rushed mornings raise kids’ stress levels • The hidden reason transitions trigger meltdowns • 5 routine red flags most parents miss • Simple ways to reset your day without rigid schedules Because when kids know what’s coming next, their nervous systems calm down — and behavior often improves. ✨ Pearl of the episode: When you regulate the rhythm of your home, your kids regulate too. If you’re navigating toddler chaos, bedtime battles, or daily meltdowns, this episode will help you rethink routines and bring more calm to your home. Your kids aren’t broken. Your routine might just need a tune-up. 💌 Got something to say? We’d love to hear it! Drop us some Fan Mail here—tell us what you’re loving, share a mama moment, or just say hi! 🎧 Your words might just make it into a future episode! 💕 — Tessie & Diana 💖 Support the show Got ideas, questions, or stories to share? We’d love to hear from you! Email us at ideas@pearlsofmotherhood.com or connect with us on Instagram @PoMCasts. Also follow our blog at www.pearlsofmotherhood.com. Stay tuned for more fun and more Pearls!

    42 min
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Welcome to Pearls of Motherhood—a community for all moms! Whether you’re a new mom, seasoned parent, or grandma, we’ve got you covered. Each episode brings real, relatable conversations about the highs and lows of motherhood, filled with laughter, tips, and support. We’re here to remind you that you’re not alone, no matter where you are in your journey. Tune in every Friday for new Pearls and feel empowered, understood, and celebrated in the beautiful mess of motherhood.

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  • Creator
    Pearls of Motherhood
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    42
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Pearls of Motherhood
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