Bantering across Borders

Tony and Sarah

Part travel-guide, part friendship diary, this podcast series is your passport to adventure and connection. Two best friends with over 100 countries between them share hilarious stories, practical tips and the moments that brought them closer through their journeys.  Designed for those who dream of exploring the world but prefer to start off their journeys from the sofa, this podcast encourages you to do your research, take the leap, embrace the unexpected and go out and see the world. Whether you’re planning your next trip, or missing your best friend, this show is for anyone who loves travel and values the power of shared experiences. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders #BanteringAcrossBorders #RoadTrip #Travel #Banter #Friendship #NewExperiences #newpodcast #friendship goals #Travelstories #travelling #traveltipsandtricks #conversationstarters #dubaiblogger #saudivlog #middleeasttravel #africatravel #asiatravel #europetravel #hiddengems

  1. Oct 15

    Palestine: A journey that changed us

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when a trip changes not just how you see the world — but how you see yourself?  In the first episode of Series 3, we reflect on a journey we took through Palestine in December 2018 — a trip to the Holy Land that became something far more profound than either of us expected. Now, in December 2025, we look back on that experience and explore how it changed our perspectives, challenged our assumptions, and continues to stay with us years later.  From the stark realities of life in Hebron to the spiritual intensity of Bethlehem and Jerusalem, we revisit the moments that left the deepest impact — emotionally, culturally and spiritually.  We talk candidly about what it was really like travelling through Palestine as tourists, witnessing everyday Palestinian life, and experiencing places of huge historical and spiritual significance — including walking the Via Dolorosa and visiting the traditional site of Jesus’ birth at the Church of the Nativity.  More than a travel story, this episode explores how travel can reshape the way we see the world — and ourselves. As always, expect honesty, humour, unexpected moments, and plenty of banter along the way.  In this episode:  00:00 – Coming up 00:57 – Introduction to the new series 02:10 – Palestine: Why did we decide to visit the Holy Land? 05:05 – An overview of Palestine 06:56 – Getting there: travelling to Palestine in 2018 09:57 – Visiting Hebron and witnessing everyday Palestinian life 21:35 – Exploring Bethlehem and the traditional birthplace of Jesus 32:00 – Visiting Jerusalem, walking the Via Dolorosa, and experiencing the Holy City 41:22 – Onwards to Jordan 43:40 – How did this trip change us? Reflections on worldview, faith and spirituality 48:15 – Next episode preview  A note on timing: This episode reflects on a trip taken in December 2018, recorded as part of our retrospective conversations in December 2025. The places, practicalities and political context may have changed since our visit, but the impact of the experience remains.  Follow Bantering Across Borders for funny, honest travel stories from two British expats exploring the world — often heading far beyond the obvious tourist trail.    If you enjoy the episode, please hit like, subscribe, and join us for future adventures   Listen now and banter with us across the world!  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss the next stop on our bantering journey!  Follow us here:  📸 Instagram: instagram.com/banteringacrossborders  ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders  Listen on Apple  podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bantering-across-borders/id1801127870  Listen on Spotify  open.spotify.com/show/37QWZkt5yhXFMA7K5N5otC  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Palestine: A journey that changed us
  2. 11/27/2025

    Iraqi Kurdistan – Beyond The Headlines.

    Send us Fan Mail In the final episode of Series 2, we head to one of the most surprising, humbling, and fascinating destinations we've ever visited: Iraqi Kurdistan.  Growing up during the Gulf War, “Iraq” was a word that came wrapped in fear and conflict on the news, so stepping foot there as two middle-aged expats armed with just a couple of curious minds, felt surreal. And magical. And completely unexpected.  Join us as we wander through ancient monasteries, share dinners with locals, and walk barefoot through the sacred Yazidi village of Lalish — one of the most moving travel experiences we've ever had. We also climb up to the atmospheric Citadel of Erbil, reflect on the kindness of everyone we met, and marvel at how different reality is from the headlines we grew up hearing.  Stay with us till the end as answer our season-ending question: What do we wish for each other as life takes us on different paths?  This is an episode about challenging assumptions, embracing curiosity, and discovering the humanity and beauty of a place too often misunderstood.  If you enjoy the episode, please hit like, subscribe, and join us for future adventures in Series 3!   Our guides  Here are the two companies we used for our trip to Kurdistan - escape travels who organised everything and then our tour guide Haval who runs many trips across the country.  Escape Travels   https://www.escape-travels.com/  https://www.instagram.com/escape_travels?igsh=MXNycDZzaTgzbGR0Mw==  Haval - tour guide Kurdistan.   https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g659505-d14863085-Reviews-Iraqi_Kurdistan_Guide-Erbil_Erbil_Province.html  https://iraqikurdistanguide.com/  https://www.instagram.com/iraqi_kurdistan_guide?igsh=NmZpcmJpZ3kxd3k1&utm_source=qr    Why this episode matters  Kurdistan challenged every preconception we had. It reminded us why we travel: to replace headlines with human stories, to be humbled by unexpected beauty, and to meet people who open their homes, their holy sites, and their hearts.    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Iraqi Kurdistan – Beyond The Headlines.
  3. 11/13/2025

    Building a life abroad – lessons learned

    Send us Fan Mail Thinking about moving overseas or already living the expat life? In this episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony share their personal journeys of building a life abroad—the highs, the lows, and everything in between. From making friends and handling culture shock to the practical realities of expat living, they explore the benefits, disadvantages, and lessons learned along the way.  Episode notes  Bantering Across Borders – Episode: Building a Life Abroad  In this special episode of Bantering Across Borders, Sarah and Tony step away from their usual trip-by-trip storytelling to reflect on what it really means to build a life abroad. From the funny to the frustrating, they share their personal journeys, lessons learned, and the realities of life as British expats.  Expect honest banter, practical advice, and a peek behind the curtain of expat life—everything from making friends in new places, to battling culture shock, to redefining what “home” actually means. Whether you’re already an expat, considering a move, or just curious about life overseas, this episode has something for you.  Join us as we swap stories, laugh at our misadventures, and share what we’ve learned along the way.  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Building a life abroad – lessons learned
  4. 04/22/2025

    Sudan’s Hidden Gems – From Khartoum to the Pyramids

    Send us Fan Mail Ready to hear about ancient pyramids, and unexpected sandstorms? In this episode, we take you deep into Sudan, as we road trip from Khartoum to the pyramids in Meroe.    Expect history, humour, and a bit of mayhem. This is not a travel guide—it’s a real-life travel tale packed with laughs, surprises, and heartfelt moments    In this episode, we cover:   The real story behind Sudan’s pyramids  What’s inside the National Museum of Sudan  Surviving a sandstorm while camping in the desert   What it’s really like to travel in Sudan as a foreigner If you’re curious about off-the-beaten-path travel, and love a good laugh, this episode is for you.     Perfect for listeners who love:    Travel podcasts with personality   African travel stories   Underrated destinations   Funny and authentic storytelling   British humour and expat adventures   Real travel, not Instagram gloss Mentioned in this episode:  Escape Travels – Get your exclusive discount on your next adventure. Visit https://www.escape-travels.com and listen in for the promo code!     Don’t forget to listen to the rest of the series and join us as we share our travel tales from Saudi, South Korea, Azerbaijan, and Kuwait.  🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe to stay updated with more content!  Follow us:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders

    Sudan’s Hidden Gems – From Khartoum to the Pyramids

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Part travel-guide, part friendship diary, this podcast series is your passport to adventure and connection. Two best friends with over 100 countries between them share hilarious stories, practical tips and the moments that brought them closer through their journeys.  Designed for those who dream of exploring the world but prefer to start off their journeys from the sofa, this podcast encourages you to do your research, take the leap, embrace the unexpected and go out and see the world. Whether you’re planning your next trip, or missing your best friend, this show is for anyone who loves travel and values the power of shared experiences. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/banteringacrossborders/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@banteringborders #BanteringAcrossBorders #RoadTrip #Travel #Banter #Friendship #NewExperiences #newpodcast #friendship goals #Travelstories #travelling #traveltipsandtricks #conversationstarters #dubaiblogger #saudivlog #middleeasttravel #africatravel #asiatravel #europetravel #hiddengems