The Third Degree Podcast

Mandy Petry and Brian J. Hatcher
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The Third Degree Podcast, hosted by Mandy Petry and Brian J. Hatcher, is a journey of discovery, inviting the listener to live their best square-pegged life in a world of round holes. Living a unique life doesn't mean you can't live your best life. Let Mandy and Brian show you some new angles.

Episodes

  1. Mar 15

    Episode 7: The Lost Art of Intimacy

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy delve into the intriguing topic of declining sexual activity among younger generations and its implications. They explore potential reasons, such as financial concerns and changing social dynamics. The discussion also covers the implications of digital relationships, AI companionships, the historical context of women's autonomy related to birth control, and the impact of COVID-19 on social interactions. They emphasize the importance of maintaining real-world, analog relationships for mental well-being and provide thought-provoking insights into the complexities of modern human connections. 00:00 Welcome to the Third Degree Podcast 00:50 The Decline in Sexual Activity Among Younger Generations 04:21 The Impact of Birth Control on Women's Autonomy 04:50 Cultural Expectations and Gender Roles 12:14 The Loneliness Epidemic and Its Consequences 14:09 Real Dolls and Virtual Boyfriends 14:53 The Rise of Dating Sims 15:56 Digital Relationships: Pros and Cons 20:12 The Impact of COVID on Relationships 21:04 The Dunbar Number and Human Connections 24:45 The Dangers of AI in Relationships 26:49 The Importance of Analog Friendships 30:50 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    32 min

  2. Mar 15

    Episode 6: A Third Place of One's Own

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy begin with the concept of October resolutions as a more effective alternative to New Year's resolutions, discussing why starting fresh in October offers a sense of urgency and better follow-through. They then shift to exploring the idea of 'third places'—social environments beyond home and work where people gather to socialize and build community. From Highlander festivals to libraries and community theaters, the hosts highlight the significance of these spaces in fostering social connections, especially post-pandemic. They share personal anecdotes and discuss how these third spaces have positively impacted their lives. 00:00 Welcome to the Third Degree Podcast 00:30 October Resolutions: A Better Alternative 02:54 The Concept of Third Places 05:14 Characteristics of a Good Third Place 08:34 Personal Third Place Experiences 13:58 The Importance of Third Places Post-COVID 18:02 Rediscovering the Joy of Reading 21:09 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    22 min

  3. Mar 15

    Episode 9: The Next Question

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy explore the power and danger of questions, inspired by author Ted Sturgeon’s “ask the next question” glyph and Brian’s relationship-building “and cards” that prompt vulnerable conversations. They discuss how questions can feel like hooks, how school trains people to seek one “right” answer, and how interpretation can change over time. Brian shares personal experiences with life-or-death questions about chest pain, including his uncle’s fatal heart attack and his own heart attack that required stents, to illustrate why some questions must be answered. They contrast facts and truth, warn that some answers (like DNA tests) can cause harm, argue that some truths require support such as therapy, and emphasize that truth should be useful and not forced on others. 00:00 Welcome and Setup 00:58 Ted Sturgeon's Q Glyph 01:55 Relationship Question Cards 03:58 Art and Freedom Debate 08:54 Metaphysics of Asking 11:10 Heart Attack Wake Up Call 13:32 When Not to Ask 15:03 Truth Versus Facts 16:13 DNA Tests and Painful Truths 18:40 Therapy and Hard Questions 20:41 Useful Truth and Restitution 22:19 Masking and Authenticity 23:31 Vulnerability and Boundaries 25:39 When To Ask the Next Question 25:46 Closing and Disclaimer

    27 min

  4. Feb 27

    Episode 8: Fearing Failure

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy discuss how “never quit” culture—often tied to sports metaphors and toxic masculinity—can be both motivating and harmful. They share personal stories of being pushed out of childhood sports, explore how identity and rejection sensitivity can amplify those experiences, and how talent and hard work can’t guarantee success. Using a game theory auction where a $1 bill sells for $329, they explore loss aversion and the sunk-cost trap in gambling and toxic relationships. Drawing on Annie Duke’s "Quit", poker, and an Everest near-summit turnaround that saved one climber, they emphasize learning to choose what to pursue, when to walk away, and accepting that no one can have everything. 00:00 Welcome to the Third Degree Podcast 00:32 Why People Quit 01:21 Never Quit Culture 02:45 Olympics and Toxic Grit 04:37 Brian Cut From Team 08:45 Mandy's Participation Trophy 10:43 Who Had It Better 13:10 Finding Your Genius 14:01 Talent Versus Security 14:47 Dreams vs Luck 15:33 Talent Isn’t a Guaranty of Success 17:01 The Regret Myth 18:22 When Quitting Helps 19:15 Dollar Auction Trap 22:20 Sunk Costs in Life 23:21 Knowing When to Fold 26:29 You Can’t Have It All 29:42 Choose the Journey 30:55 Closing Thoughts

    32 min

  5. 09/13/2025

    Episode 5: The Value of Value

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy delve into how fundamental human needs are influenced by late-stage capitalism, with money often being proposed as the universal solution. They explore the commercialization of self-actualization, the societal value judgments ingrained in our psyche, and the challenges of stepping outside societal norms. The hosts also touch on the psychological and cultural impacts of value assessment, examining whether and how we can move beyond these entrenched systems. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:41 Exploring Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs 03:35 Capitalism and the Pursuit of Needs 04:42 The Illusion of Self-Actualization for Sale 06:06 Personal Anecdotes and Sales Culture 07:15 Value and Worth in Relationships 12:06 Gender Roles and Economic Pressures 14:14 Societal Expectations and Conformity 16:03 The Concept of Value and Its Implications 18:05 Concluding Thoughts

    26 min

  6. 06/28/2025

    Episode 4: The Bespoke Path of Grief

    TW: Discussions of death and grief On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy delve into a deeply personal and emotional topic—grief and loss. Mandy shares the recent passing of her mother and the impact it has had on her. Both hosts discuss their own experiences with losing loved ones and reflect on how grief affects everyone differently. They explore the stages of grief, the personal nature of the grieving process, and the importance of having support during such times. Through their conversation, they aim to offer comfort and understanding to listeners who may be experiencing similar losses. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:31 Personal Losses and Grieving 05:21 Philosophical Perspectives on Death 10:21 Coping Mechanisms and Support 16:51 Reflections and Closing Thoughts 20:18 Podcast Sign-off and Disclaimer

    21 min

  7. 04/14/2025

    Episode 3: Connecting The DOTS: Understanding Ourselves Through Stories

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy delve into the concept of 'connecting the D.O.T.S.', a writing concept Brian learned from author Gary Braunbeck, and consider it's use in character creation as well as its real-life implications. They discuss how stories shape our self-perception and understanding of the world, the psychological importance of stories, the impact of language on cognition, and how our deeply held stories influence our behaviors and beliefs. They also explore the challenges of questioning and rewriting personal narratives for therapeutic growth and self-improvement, highlighting the power of emotional connections in transforming our internal dialogues. 00:00 Introduction to the Third Degree Podcast 00:15 Connecting the Dots: A Writing Lesson 02:28 The Power of Story in Human Experience 03:23 Language, Control, and Understanding 04:44 Managing Anger Through Storytelling 06:44 Self-Talk and Imposter Syndrome 09:48 Therapy and Personal Stories 15:06 The Emotional Component of Stories 20:25 Questioning Personal Beliefs 31:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    33 min

  8. 03/23/2025

    Episode 2: Losing Weight In The Real World

    On today's podcast, Brian and Mandy discuss the complexities of weight loss, sharing their personal experiences with various medical programs, diets, and the impact of societal attitudes. They emphasize the role of mental health in weight loss, the internal and external struggles faced, the shortcomings of simple advice like 'calories in, calories out,' and address the biases in medical treatment. They also announce the launch of their Discord server to foster broader discussions. The conversation continues on The Third Degree Podcast Discord Server: https://discord.gg/aVPU54Zc 00:00 Welcome to Episode Two 00:58 Weight Loss Journeys 01:52 Challenges with Weight Loss Programs 02:45 Struggles and Setbacks 12:06 The Mental Side of Weight Loss 19:54 Coping Mechanisms and Food 20:56 Social Interactions and Food 22:11 Weight Loss and Social Dynamics 24:27 Medical Professionals and Weight Bias 26:19 Body Positivity and Self-Worth 29:51 Mental Health and Weight Loss 33:41 Challenges and Encouragement 40:17 Final Thoughts and Community Support

    42 min
  9. Episode 1: What's This Podcast About?

    03/08/2025

    Episode 1: What's This Podcast About?

    On the premiere episode of this new podcast, Brian and Mandy introduce the Third Degree Podcast, discuss their previous work on the Geek Watch Podcast, and share the background story of how their new podcast came about. They explain the meaning behind the name 'Third Degree' and delve into how small, consistent changes can lead to significant results, inspired by the book 'Atomic Habits' by James Clear. Both hosts open up about their personal experiences living with ADHD, the challenges they faced, and the coping mechanisms they developed as adults. They address the inadequacies of traditional schooling for neurodiverse individuals and emphasize the importance of creating a customized approach to self-help and personal development. 00:00 Welcome to the Third Degree Podcast 01:14 The Origin of the Third Degree Podcast 01:46 Understanding the Name 03:23 Brian's Journey with ADHD 07:22 Mandy's Experience with ADHD 13:57 Challenges in the Education System 22:33 Creating a Bespoke Life 24:28 Wrapping Up and Looking Ahead

    26 min
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The Third Degree Podcast, hosted by Mandy Petry and Brian J. Hatcher, is a journey of discovery, inviting the listener to live their best square-pegged life in a world of round holes. Living a unique life doesn't mean you can't live your best life. Let Mandy and Brian show you some new angles.

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  • Creator
    Mandy Petry and Brian J. Hatcher
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Clean
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