She's Iconic with Renee Marie

Renee Marie
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She’s Iconic is the podcast for high-achieving visionaries, coaches, and creatives ready to lead from identity, embodiment, and energetic truth—so your business feels as good as it looks. Hosted by mentor and speaker Renee Marie, these raw riffs and iconic conversations guide you through your 10x evolution into your most expressed, magnetic, iconic leader self. Because in this world, the strategy is you.

  1. May 30

    EP 41: Why You Don't Actually Want What You Say You Want with Christine Banno

    What if the thing standing between you and your next level isn't a lack of strategy, discipline, confidence, or talent? What if it's the hidden pattern underneath the thing you think is the problem? In today's powerful conversation, I sit down with high-performance psychic, nervous system specialist, and bestselling author Christine Banno to unpack the hidden survival patterns that keep brilliant women circling the same level despite having the skills, desire, and ambition to create more. We dive into her new book, The Ferrari Frequency: What's Really Between You and Your Next Million, and explore why so many high-achieving women unknowingly have one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake. Inside this episode we discuss: ✨ Why success can feel unsafe to your nervous system ✨ The real reason high achievers procrastinate, overthink, and self-sabotage ✨ Why regulating your nervous system isn't the same as rewiring it ✨ How trauma and past experiences shape your current decisions ✨ The difference between building capacity and constantly managing overwhelm ✨ Why visibility, leadership, and success can trigger hidden resistance ✨ The powerful question that changed everything: "Why might you not want the thing you say you want?" ✨ How to identify the hidden pattern keeping you stuck ✨ Why you're not broken—and never were This conversation is honest, unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply transformative. If you've ever felt like you know you're capable of more but can't figure out what's holding you back, this episode is for you. CONNECT WITH CHRISTINE & RENEE MARIE Instagram: @christinebanno Million Dollar Nervous System Installation Get The Ferrari Frequency Book here Want support uncovering YOUR hidden pattern? Book a Clarity Call or Business & Money Leak Audit and let's identify what's really keeping you from your next level. Book your session with Renee Marie HERE or send me a DM @xoreneemarie Remember who the f**k you are, icon 🔥

    52 min

  2. May 20

    EP 40: You Are Not Meant for Everyone — And That’s the Point

    In this episode of She’s Iconic, Renee Marie dives into the hidden reason so many high-achieving women feel disconnected, exhausted, and uninspired in their businesses… they are building from self-protection instead of truth. This conversation explores how your nervous system naturally craves belonging, approval, and safety — which can lead to watering yourself down, hiding parts of your mission, softening your voice, and trying to be “for everyone” in order to be chosen. But the truth? The moment you stop abandoning yourself is the moment your business becomes magnetic. Renee shares a powerful story about navigating emotional suppression in a past narcissistic relationship — and how those experiences shaped the way she showed up online and in leadership. Inside this episode, we explore: Why high-achieving women dilute themselves onlineThe nervous system’s need for universal acceptanceHow self-protection disconnects you from your true magnetismWhy specificity creates powerful client attractionThe emotional exhaustion caused by shape-shifting in businessWhat happens when you finally root into your truth and convictions How to stop performing and start leading from full alignmentThis is your reminder that you are not here to be digestible to everyone. You are here to deeply resonate with the people meant for your work. If this episode speaks to you, DM Renee the word “AUDIT” on Instagram @xoreneemarie or book your Audit here: Business Uplevel & Money Leak Audit And for the month of May, if Renee determines during your audit that the Diamond Standard Room is an aligned next step for you, your first month inside the room will be included complimentary. Remember who the f**k you are, icon.

    12 min

  3. May 13

    EP 39: If Peace Were a Strategy with Berkley Sweet Apple

    What happens when the life that looks successful no longer feels aligned? In this episode of She's Iconic, I sit down with trademark attorney and entrepreneur Berkley Sweet Apple to talk about the messy middle of reinvention… the season where your nervous system is screaming, your identity is shifting, and your soul is asking you to trust yourself before you have proof. Berkley shares her journey from high-stress litigation attorney to building a legally empowered online business that actually supports her life, motherhood, peace, and nervous system — not just her bank account. We talk about: ✨ leaving behind identities that no longer fit ✨ learning the difference between fear and misalignment ✨ entrepreneurship and nervous system regulation ✨ visibility, self-trust, and becoming comfortable being uncomfortable ✨ raising your energetic standards and capacity ✨ trademarks, legal protection, and why protecting your business matters ✨ building a business that gives you freedom instead of burnout This conversation is for the woman who feels the pull toward something more aligned… but keeps questioning herself because the next version of her life hasn’t fully materialized yet. You are not crazy for wanting more peace. You are not behind for evolving. And you are not delusional for hearing the whisper that says: there is more for you than this. Connect with Berkley: Connect with Renee:Instagram: @xoreneemarie 🎧 If this episode resonated, share it on Instagram and tag us so we can connect with you! Or send us a DM to let us know what landed for you 💋

    32 min

  4. May 5

    EP 38: The Wealthiest Version of You Isn’t Hustling — She’s Aligned

    If you’ve been doing everything right—investing, growing, showing up—and yet something still feels heavy… This episode is going to shift everything for you. Because the truth is: 👉 You’re not lacking strategy. 👉 You’re not behind. 👉 You’re not doing it wrong. You’re just out of alignment with your unique blueprint. In this episode, I’m breaking down: How I used my Soul Contract + Human Design to finally understand myself on a deeper levelWhy hustle has never worked for me long-term (and probably not for you either)The hidden ways you may be leaking money through misalignmentWhat it actually means to become an embodied, iconic leaderAnd how to expand your income, visibility, and impact without forcing itI also share my personal Soul Contract codes—including: ✨ 12 → 3 (expression + voice) ✨ 7–7 (intuition + recalibration) ✨ 6–6 (leadership + holding space) ✨ 22 → 4 (sustainable wealth + legacy) And how these reflected everything I already knew… but hadn’t fully trusted. Because that’s the work: 👉 Not becoming someone new 👉 But remembering who you’ve always been Misalignment is expensive. It costs you: moneyenergyopportunitiesand trust in yourselfIf this episode activated something in you… I’ve created a space for this level of work: ✨ The Diamond Standard Room This is where I curate The Iconic Woman Collective—for women ready to refine their identity, expand their nervous system capacity, and build aligned wealth. 🔗 Apply here ✨ Want to go deeper, faster? You can also apply for a 1:1 Recalibration Week → A high-touch container where we identify your leaks, recalibrate your nervous system, and align your strategy with your unique design. 🔗 Apply here ✨ Curious about your own blueprint? Find your Soul Contract Here (Use it as a mirror—not a rulebook) The wealthiest version of you isn’t hustling. She’s not chasing. She’s not forcing. She’s aligned. It’s time to stop forcing your next level—and start becoming the woman who can actually hold it.

    18 min

  5. Apr 29

    EP 37: Frustration Is Your Next Breakthrough and the Messy Middle is Your Portal

    There’s a phase in every level-up where things don’t feel fully clear yet… and most women mistake that as something going wrong. In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about the messy middle—the part of growth where your identity is shifting, your voice is evolving, and your message hasn’t fully clicked into place yet… but something bigger is trying to come through you. We talk about why frustration is actually a powerful signal of expansion, how waiting for clarity slows your momentum, and what it really looks like to lead while you’re still becoming. This episode Jessica Uyeno, mentor to the most interesting women in the world, and host Renee Marie will shift how you see the in-between—and help you move through it faster, with more trust, power, and self-leadership. Why frustration is a sign of expansion—not misalignmentThe truth about the “messy middle” and identity evolutionHow waiting for clarity keeps you stuck longer than necessaryWhat it looks like to show up and lead before it all makes senseThe shift that allows your voice and message to land with powerIf you’re in a season where you feel like you’re evolving… but can’t fully articulate it yet… this episode will meet you exactly where you are—and move you forward. If you’re ready to be supported inside this level of growth in real time, the Diamond Standard Room is where we do this work at the highest level. Apply HERE or DM me ROOM to step inside. And as always…remember who the f**k you are, icon.

    46 min

  6. Apr 22

    EP 36: Stop Overexplaining: The Hidden Leak in High-Level Leadership

    There is a version of you who no longer feels the need to explain herself to feel safe. And when you tap into her… everything changes. In this episode of She’s Iconic, I’m taking you inside a real-time identity shift that happened this week — where I caught myself collapsing years of growth simply by noticing something subtle: Where I was still overexplaining. Not from insecurity…Not from lack…But from a nervous system that had learned to associate clarity with safety. And once I saw it? I couldn’t unsee it. You’ll hear how this showed up:• In my content• In a conversation with my husband• And in a room I realized I had outgrown Because overexplaining isn’t just a communication habit…It’s an authority leak. And if you’re a high-level woman leading in your life or business, there’s a good chance it’s happening in places you haven’t even noticed yet. We’re going deeper than surface-level “confidence” conversations and into what’s actually underneath:— The nervous system patterns driving your voice— The subtle ways you dilute your power— And how to recalibrate into clean, sovereign leadership This isn’t about saying less. It’s about saying exactly enough… and letting it land. Inside this episode:• Why overexplaining is a safety mechanism (not a flaw)• The difference between clarity and over-explaining• How I shifted this in my marriage in real time• The moment I realized I had outgrown a room• What it actually means to collapse your timeline as a leader If you’ve ever felt like:“I know I’m powerful… so why do I still feel like I need to explain myself?” This episode is going to hit. And if you’re ready for this level of refinement in your own leadership —I’ve opened up 2 private mentorship spaces for high-caliber women who are ready to lead with precision, not performance. Apply in the show notes. And next episode… we’re going even deeper:The Blind Spots of a Self-Aware Woman. Because awareness alone doesn’t mean you can see everything. Follow the show so you don’t miss what’s coming next.✨ WORK WITH ME: I’ve opened a limited number of 1:1 coaching spots for women ready to go deeper. → One-off recalibration sessions Apply here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... → 3–6 month private mentorship Apply here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... Speaking inquiries here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgN6DNIRLzw5pE5UwRkEJsaOm3nCUweozzdSrDXFh9XXpRHw/viewform?usp=header 🎧 LETS CONNECT: Substack: https://theiconicwoman.substack.com/ Instagram:  / xoreneemarie   If this landed for you, share it with someone who needs to hear it 💋 And as always— remember who the f*ck you are, icon 🔥

    11 min

  7. Apr 15

    EP 35: Be Your Own Damn Permission Slip: Raising Standards + Holding the Frequency with Dr. Courtney

    In this raw, high-frequency conversation, Renee sits down with Dr. Courtney, a psychologist who helps women rewire their nervous system so they can lead, love, and create from their highest frequency-a powerhouse when it comes to bridging science, soul, and leadership, to talk about what it really means to be your own permission slip. Together they dive into the edges of expansion—raising your standards, holding the frequency before the proof arrives, and breaking the habit of outsourcing your power to someone else’s strategy. This one’s for the woman who knows she’s ready for more but feels her body gripping for safety. You’ll learn how to become your own anchor, regulate through the wobble, and set new standards that your nervous system can actually hold. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep your energy steady while scaling, leading, or burning down what no longer fits—this episode will hit you right in the soul. ✨ Topics We Cover Why you’re your own best strategy Rewiring your nervous system to hold higher levels of success The illusion of “proof” and how to stay anchored before results appear The identity death that comes with evolution The power of raising your prices + owning your worth Listen now and write yourself the permission slip you’ve been waiting for. It's time to remember who tf you are Icon! Connect with us: Renee @xoreneemarie Courtney @drcourtney.spiteri

    53 min

  8. Apr 7

    EP 34: Why ‘Just Be More Audacious’ Isn’t Enough (Confidence Isn’t the Problem—Your Nervous System Is)

    You’ve been told to “just be more confident.”To speak up.To own your power. And maybe you’ve tried. You know you’re powerful.You have the results to prove it.You’ve done the mindset work. So why do you still hesitate?Why do you soften your truth?Why does part of you still pull back right before you fully land? In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth no one talks about: 👉 If you’re still shrinking, it’s not a confidence problem.👉 It’s a protection pattern. Your body is wired for safety—not visibility, not success, not scaling. And if being fully seen, fully expressed, fully in your authoritydoesn’t feel safe in your system… you will keep defaulting—no matter how much you know. We’re diving into: Why “just be more confident” only works temporarilyThe difference between hype-based confidence vs. embodied authorityWhy high-achieving women still over-explain, dilute, and hold backHow your nervous system is quietly running the showWhat actually creates deep, lasting transformation (not surface-level shifts)This is the work that changes everything. Not louder.Not more force.Not more proving. But recalibrating your baseline so boldness actually feels safe in your body. ✨ Ways to work with me: I’ve opened a limited number of 1:1 spaces for this work. You can either: Book a one-off recalibration session HERE (deep, targeted shift), orApply for a 3–6 month private container HERE (full identity + nervous system rewiring)This is where we stop the cycle of overriding and finally create change that lasts. If this episode landed for you, share it with someone who needs to hear this. And as always…Remember who the f*ck you are, icon 🔥

    16 min
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She’s Iconic is the podcast for high-achieving visionaries, coaches, and creatives ready to lead from identity, embodiment, and energetic truth—so your business feels as good as it looks. Hosted by mentor and speaker Renee Marie, these raw riffs and iconic conversations guide you through your 10x evolution into your most expressed, magnetic, iconic leader self. Because in this world, the strategy is you.

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