Conversations That Heal

Dr. Stephanie D. Jeffreys
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Conversations That Heal is a powerful podcast dedicated to breaking generational cycles, embracing healing, and reclaiming the life you deserve. Hosted by Dr. Stephanie Jeffreys, trauma coach, author, and world traveler. This podcast is a safe space for deep, transformative conversations about trauma, resilience, and personal growth. Through raw storytelling, expert insights, and real-life experiences, Conversations That Heal explores the emotional wounds that shape us and the steps we can take to heal from them. Whether you’re on a journey of self-discovery, breaking free from past pain, or simply seeking inspiration, each episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools to help you move forward. Healing is possible. Transformation is real. And it all begins with a conversation. Listen, heal, and thrive with Conversations That Heal Healing Happens One Conversation at A Time

  1. Stop Self-Abandonment

    MAY 11

    Stop Self-Abandonment

    Stop Self-Abandonment: How I Learned to Set Boundaries, Trust Myself, and Say No | Dr. Stephanie Jeffreys In this episode, I talk about self-abandonment as a coping mechanism I learned from being taught to play small and believe that my voice didn’t matter. I walk through what that has looked like in my own life, saying yes when I really wanted to say no, staying in draining relationships, prioritizing everyone else’s needs, and consistently showing up for people who didn’t reciprocate. Somewhere along the way, I lost trust in myself. I share how my experiences are valid, but they don’t have to define my entire story. I’ve learned to start paying attention to my body, what it’s telling me when something doesn’t feel right, and to get honest about why I say yes when I really want to say no. I’m learning to honor my preferences without feeling the need to justify them. I also walk through practical steps that have helped me rebuild trust with myself: following through on what matters to me, setting small boundaries, and beginning to say no to anything that doesn’t value or honor me. Because I’ve realized that self-abandonment doesn’t just go away, it turns into resentment and leaves me feeling taken for granted. I invite you into a seven-day exercise I’ve practiced, where you begin to track the “yeses” you want to change and slowly start choosing yourself. And as always, I close with a prayer—for healing, for growth, and for the courage to finally stop abandoning yourself.

    7 min
  2. Healing From Invisible Abuse

    MAY 4

    Healing From Invisible Abuse

    On this episode of Conversations That Heal, I sit down with JaHana Holloway to have a powerful and honest conversation about abuse that goes beyond physical signs, emotional, psychological, verbal, and financial abuse. JaHana shares her story with deep vulnerability, taking us back to her childhood, where she ran away at just 14 and was coerced by an adult. She opens up about how those early experiences shaped her sense of self, leading to boundarylessness, low self-esteem, promiscuity, early motherhood, and a pattern of toxic relationships and trauma bonds. She walks us through the abrupt ending of her marriage in 2020, which became the catalyst for her healing journey. She speaks candidly about the gaslighting, hidden debt, and manipulation she endured forms of abuse that are often invisible to others. Her breaking point came through infidelity and financial deception, forcing her to confront the truth and choose herself. JaHana reminds us that healing is ongoing. She emphasizes the importance of trusting your intuition and listening to your body, setting firm boundaries, and doing the deeper work, inner child and shadow work, alongside therapy. She also shares about her poetry and journaling book, Metamorphosis, and her Hikari Healing Space, where she creates safe environments for healing through yoga, sound bowl therapy, and intentional circles for both women and men. This conversation is a reminder that not all wounds are visible, but they are real, and healing is possible. Connect with JaHana Facebook: JaHana Holloway | Facebook Instagram: JaHana Holloway (@vibewithjahana) TikTok: JaHana Holloway (@taurusgoddess333) | TikTok https://linktr.ee/jahanaholloway

    26 min
  3. Survival Mode

    APR 13

    Survival Mode

    In this episode of Conversations That Heal, I talk about survival mode, the way many of us learned to function just to make it through life. For me, survival started early. I didn’t have the option to fall apart. I had to be strong, responsible, and aware of everything around me. But what helped me survive then, followed me into adulthood. I share how survival mode can show up as overachieving, overextending, and always feeling the need to be in control, while quietly feeling exhausted and empty. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything but still don’t feel at peace, this episode is for you. This is your invitation to slow down, choose yourself, and begin the journey of coming back home to who you truly are. You deserve more than survival. You deserve peace.

    7 min
  4. Choosing You: Healing, Grief, Self-Dating & Rediscovering Yourself | Q&A

    APR 6

    Choosing You: Healing, Grief, Self-Dating & Rediscovering Yourself | Q&A

    In this Q&A episode of Conversations That Heal, I open the door for real, honest conversation by answering questions submitted by listeners at info@sdjeffreys.com I share what “choosing you” truly looks like in everyday life, through small, intentional decisions, learning to say no, and finally prioritizing yourself after realizing what it feels like to be poured out and depleted from putting everyone else first. I walk through how I process hurt, by acknowledging it, taking accountability for my part, and getting honest about what caused the pain. I also speak openly about my ongoing healing journey from molestation, and how forgiveness, self-forgiveness, and learning my triggers have been a part of that process. I even reflect on a difficult but necessary conversation with my mother. This episode also dives into grief, grieving the loss of my best friend and grieving the life I once imagined. I share how I’ve learned to allow myself to feel grief fully, without allowing it to keep me stuck. Travel has played a major role in my healing, and I talk about how experiences in places like Pretoria and Bali helped me reconnect with myself and cultivate a deeper sense of gratitude. I also offer practical ways to rediscover who you are, starting with reconnecting to the dreams you had as a child, and I break down what it really means to date yourself. From solo coffee dates and meals to traveling alone and journaling, I share how spending intentional time with yourself can be one of the most powerful forms of healing. If you’re learning how to choose yourself, this episode is for you. Join I Choose Me: A Year of Self-Care A 52-week journey to help you rebuild, reconnect, and choose yourself again, one week at a time. 🔗 Start here: https://prodigious-builder-5258.kit.com/products/choosing-me-a-year-of-self-care-

    16 min
  5. Letter To My Younger Self

    MAR 30

    Letter To My Younger Self

    I wrote a letter to my younger self, and it changed something in me. Not the strong version of me you see today. But the little girl who felt unseen, unloved, and unprotected. I spoke to Diane. I apologized. I affirmed. I released. And for the first time, I made her a promise, I will never abandon you again. This episode is deeply personal, but it’s also an invitation. If you’ve ever carried shame from your past If parts of your story still hurt I want you to try this. Write the letter. Not for anyone else, but for you. Healing begins when we finally tell the truth to ourselves with love. If this speaks to you, watch the full episode and let me know how it resonates. 📧 info@sdjeffreys.com Because healing happens one conversation at a time.

    9 min
  6. Grief Is Not Only About Death

    MAR 14

    Grief Is Not Only About Death

    When people think about grief, they often think about death. But grief can come from many different experiences in life. We can grieve lost opportunities. We can grieve relationships that ended. We can grieve the version of ourselves that existed before trauma. And sometimes we grieve the life we thought we would have. In this episode of Conversations That Heal, Dr. Stephanie Jeffreys explores the many forms of grief that people carry silently. She reminds listeners that grief is not limited to losing someone physically, it can also come from losing dreams, connections, and chapters of our lives that we can never return to. Healing begins when we give ourselves permission to acknowledge those losses and move forward with compassion for ourselves.

    10 min
  7. Healing Happens in Silence

    MAR 13

    Healing Happens in Silence

    Some of the most powerful healing in our lives happens quietly. It happens in the moments when we are alone with our thoughts, processing pain, setting boundaries, and making the difficult decision to grow. In this episode of Conversations That Heal, Dr. Stephanie Jeffreys explores why real healing often happens in silence and how private transformation can lead to powerful change in our lives. If you feel like you're doing the work but no one sees it, this episode will remind you that your healing still matters. If today’s episode resonated with you and you are ready to begin or deepen your healing journey, I invite you to schedule a healing conversation with me. Sometimes one conversation can begin the transformation your heart has been waiting for.

    7 min
  8. You Deserve More Than the Bare Minimum

    MAR 12

    You Deserve More Than the Bare Minimum

    Many people spend years accepting the bare minimum in relationships, friendships, and even in the way they treat themselves. Sometimes it comes from past trauma. Sometimes it comes from believing we have to earn love, attention, or respect. In this episode of Conversations That Heal, Dr. Stephanie Jeffreys explores what it means to recognize your worth and stop settling for less than you deserve. She discusses how healing helps us identify unhealthy patterns, set stronger boundaries, and choose relationships and environments that reflect our true value. When you begin to understand your worth, the bare minimum is no longer enough. If you are ready to begin your healing journey and learn how to set healthier boundaries in your life and relationships, I invite you to schedule a healing conversation with me. Your healing matters

    9 min
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Conversations That Heal is a powerful podcast dedicated to breaking generational cycles, embracing healing, and reclaiming the life you deserve. Hosted by Dr. Stephanie Jeffreys, trauma coach, author, and world traveler. This podcast is a safe space for deep, transformative conversations about trauma, resilience, and personal growth. Through raw storytelling, expert insights, and real-life experiences, Conversations That Heal explores the emotional wounds that shape us and the steps we can take to heal from them. Whether you’re on a journey of self-discovery, breaking free from past pain, or simply seeking inspiration, each episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools to help you move forward. Healing is possible. Transformation is real. And it all begins with a conversation. Listen, heal, and thrive with Conversations That Heal Healing Happens One Conversation at A Time

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  • Creator
    Dr. Stephanie D. Jeffreys
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
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