Adapting Together

Carmen Loke, Gan Xin Yi and Kevin Neoh

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Adapting Together is a Malaysian podcast dedicated to raising awareness about autism and supporting families on this journey. It’s designed for parents, caregivers, educators, and the broader community to access reliable, local, and compassionate information about autism.

5d ago

EP 39: 当孩子可能同时患自闭症+注意力不足过动症ASD+ADHD When a Child May Have Both Autism and ADHD (ASD + ADHD)

This episode is conducted in Mandarin. What happens when a child has both Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)? In this episode, we welcome back paediatrician Dr Annie Liau to help us understand how ASD and ADHD can co-exist, how they may affect a child’s learning, emotions and daily life, and what parents can do to support them. We also discuss practical strategies such as building routines, breaking tasks into smaller steps, allowing movement breaks, using specific praise, and helping a child regulate during a meltdown. Most importantly, there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Every child and every family is different, and support should be adapted to their individual needs. 这一集，我们再次以华语 / Mandarin进行。如果孩子已经被诊断为自闭症（ASD），后来又发现有注意力不足过动症（ADHD）的特征，家长可能会疑惑：为什么两个情况会同时出现？这又会怎样影响孩子的学习、情绪和日常生活？这一集，我们再次邀请儿科医生 Dr Annie Liau 廖慧汶医生，一起谈谈 ASD 与 ADHD 的分别、两者同时出现时可能面对的挑战，以及家长可以怎样在日常生活中给予更适合的支持。我们也聊到一些实际方法，包括建立规律、把任务拆小、安排适当的休息和运动、具体地称赞孩子，以及在孩子情绪崩溃时，如何减少刺激、先帮助他们平静下来。最重要的是，没有一种方法适合所有孩子。理解孩子真正的需要，才能找到适合他们和整个家庭的方式。 Resource: 联络Dr Annie's Facebook Book by Dr. Khurram Sadiq on AuDHD 王意中心理师关于AuDHD书籍
Sep 5

EP38: Understanding Hippotherapy

🐴 Understanding Hippotherapy In this episode of Adapting Together Podcast, we visit Happy Farms and sit down with Dr. Dev, co-founder of Happy Farm Psychotherapy Malaysia, to explore the world of hippotherapy. Hippotherapy is much more than simply riding a horse. Dr. Dev shares how the movement of a horse can be incorporated into therapy to provide postural and sensory-motor challenges, and explains how sessions are adapted according to each individual’s needs. We also talk about:🐎 What hippotherapy actually looks like🧠 The connection between movement, body awareness and development👧 Who may benefit—and when hippotherapy may not be suitable❤️ Helping children who are initially afraid of horses👨‍👩‍👧 Why parents continue to play an important role outside therapy🌱 The importance of keeping an open mind when exploring support for your child One message from this conversation particularly stands out: therapy is only one part of a child’s life. Meaningful time, interaction and connection with parents are things that cannot simply be outsourced. 🎧 Tune in to learn more about hippotherapy and hear Dr. Dev’s experiences working with children and families at Happy Farms. If you find this episode helpful, share it with another parent, caregiver or professional who may benefit from the conversation.
Aug 22

EP 37: The Parents Guilt Trap - How to Support Every Child Fairly

This conversation explores the often overlooked experience of siblings growing up alongside a neurodivergent child. Join Co-host Carmen, Kevin, and guest Ms. Raynette Soon, a Registered Play Therapist-Supervisor TM, as they discuss on the emotional impact on siblings, the signs parents may miss, and practical ways to respond with more connection and less guilt. Raynette shares how a systemic family lens helps parents see that every child in the household needs support, even when one child requires more care. This episode offers clear language, simple frameworks, and examples parents can use right away. Resource: ⁠Connect with Raynette⁠
Aug 8 · Bonus

EP36: How United Voice Empower Neurodivergent Adults

In this first episode of our NGO Series, we sit down with Wan Ching, Head of Social Enterprise, Training & Job Coaching at Malaysia United Voice (UV)—Malaysia's first self-advocacy society led by adults with learning disabilities. Together, we explore what adulthood can look like for neurodivergent individuals and why preparing for adulthood starts much earlier than many families realize. In this episode, we discuss: 🎙️ What Malaysia United Voice does and its mission 💼 Employment opportunities and job coaching for adults with learning disabilities 🗣️ The importance of self-advocacy and independent living 🤝 Challenges families, employers, and communities face during the transition to adulthood 🌱 Practical advice for parents to prepare their children from a young age ✨ Inspiring stories of adults with learning disabilities speaking up, finding employment, and creating meaningful change If you'd like to support Malaysia United Voice through volunteering, donations, employment opportunities, or other contributions, please visit:🌐 Website: https://www.unitedvoice.com.my✉️ Email: unitedvoiceinfo@gmail.com📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unitedvoicemalaysiaEvery contribution helps create a more inclusive community for adults with learning disabilities.
Jul 25

EP 35: Understanding Educational Psychology Assessments

Explore the importance of psychoeducational assessments in supporting children with learning and behavioral challenges. In this episode, Carmen and Kevin speaks with a School Psychologist, Joanne Goh to clarify common questions about the assessment process, what these evaluations reveal, and how they can positively shape a child’s educational journey. Educational psychology assessments are valuable tools for understanding a child’s learning profile and needs. When done well, they help families and educators move from uncertainty to clarity, and from concern to practical support. If you found this episode helpful, please follow or subscribe to Adapting Together so you won’t miss future conversations. If you know a parent, caregiver, teacher, or family member who may benefit from this episode, please share it with them. LinkedIn
Jul 11

EP 34: The Science Behind Everyday Behaviour

Why does a child hit, scream, refuse an instruction, or suddenly melt down? Many of us instinctively focus on stopping the behaviour. But what if behaviour is actually communication? In this episode, Kevin speaks with Board Certified Behaviour Analyst (BCBA) Xin Yi to unpack the science behind everyday behaviour. Together, they explore why behaviour happens, how children learn from their environment, and why understanding the "why" behind a behaviour is often more important than simply trying to stop it. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, or simply curious about Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA), this conversation offers practical insights that can help you respond with greater understanding, curiosity, and confidence. In this episode, we discuss: Why behaviour is more than just "good" or "bad."The hidden reasons behind behaviours like hitting, tantrums, and meltdowns.How understanding the function of behaviour leads to better support and skill-building.The role of motivation, reinforcement, and teaching replacement behaviours.Common misconceptions about ABA and behaviour management. Every behaviour tells a story. When we learn to understand the message, we can better support the child behind it. If you found this episode helpful, we'd love your support. Follow or subscribe to Adapting Together so you won't miss future conversations. If you know another parent, caregiver, teacher, or family member who may benefit from this episode, please share it with them. We'd also love to hear from you. What topics would you like us to cover? What questions are you navigating in your autism journey? Leave us a comment, share your feedback, or email us at adaptingtogetherpodcast@gmail.com Your ideas and experiences help shape future episodes and support our growing community.
Jun 27

EP 33: Autism and Medication

💊 Should my child take medication for ADHD or autism?It's one of the most common and most emotional questions parents ask.In this episode, we sit down with Developmental Paediatrician Dr. Ragini to discuss the facts behind ADHD medication, including:• When should medication be considered?• How do stimulant and non-stimulant medications work?• What are the common side effects?• Is medication a lifelong commitment?• How can parents make an informed decision with their doctor?We also share real clinical experiences, common misconceptions, and practical guidance to help families weigh the benefits and risks with confidence.🎧 Listen now and empower yourself with evidence-based knowledge to make the best decision for your child.
Jun 13

EP 32: Autism and ADHD

In this episode, Kevin and Carmen are joined in Dr. Rajini's consultation room at ParkCity Medical Centre to explore two of the most commonly misunderstood areas in child development: Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). Together with Dr. Rajini, we explore how ASD and ADHD can co-exist in children, how common this overlap is, and why it is often missed or misunderstood in early years. The discussion unpacks the similarities and differences between ASD and ADHD, and also touches on how diagnosis is not always a one-time label but an evolving understanding of a child’s developmental profile. The episode highlights practical considerations for parents and caregivers—especially around sleep, routine, nutrition, outdoor play, and behavioural strategies. 👩‍⚕️ Dr. Rajini's Profile and Appointment Page Got a question or topic you’d like us to cover? 📩 Drop us a message at ⁠adaptingtogetherpodcast@gmail.com ⁠. We'd love to hear from you.

Adapting Together is a Malaysian podcast dedicated to raising awareness about autism and supporting families on this journey. It’s designed for parents, caregivers, educators, and the broader community to access reliable, local, and compassionate information about autism.

Creator

Carmen Loke, Gan Xin Yi and Kevin Neoh
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

39
Rating

Explicit
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© Carmen Loke, Gan Xin Yi and Kevin Neoh
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