Talking with Tanya

Tanya Villalobos
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Talking with Tanya is where depth meets discernment. Here we explore relationships, personal evolution, shadow work, and the uncomfortable conversations most people avoid. This is a space for introspection, growth, and choosing wisely without losing your warmth. Real thoughts. Real processing. Real evolution. If you’re ready to think deeper and live intentionally — welcome

  1. May 24

    #37 - Learning to Lead Without Losing Myself

    In this episode of Talking with Tanya, I open up about my experience stepping into leadership and how much it challenged me emotionally, mentally, and personally. I talk about the discomfort of asserting myself into other people’s spaces, navigating conflict in real time, learning to trust myself under pressure, and realizing that being a good leader doesn’t mean everyone will like or understand you. Leadership became the ultimate people pleaser test for me. I’ve had to learn how to hold boundaries, stay grounded in my values, and stop seeking validation from how others perceive me. At the same time, I’ve also experienced the rewarding side of leadership, seeing people feel motivated, supported, and genuinely cared for under my guidance. I also share updates about life outside of work, including getting back into dating, personal growth, and the unexpected lessons this season of life has been teaching me. This episode is for anyone learning how to take up space without abandoning themselves in the process. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya

    23 min

  2. Apr 19

    #36 - 1 Year of Podcasting: A Timeline of Who I’ve Become

    One year ago, I started this podcast with no plan—just a desire to grow, understand myself, and share what I was learning along the way. 36 episodes later… I’m not the same person. In this episode, I’m taking you through a timeline of my journey—not just the episodes I’ve recorded, but the versions of myself that existed within them. From wanting to help others, to learning how to use my voice, to setting boundaries, to finally choosing myself… this past year has changed me in ways I didn’t expect. This isn’t just a recap.It’s a reflection on growth, self-awareness, and becoming. To be loved is to be seen… and this year, I finally started seeing myself. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    32 min

  3. Mar 31

    #35 - Enjoying My Own Company

    There’s a version of me that used to feel like I needed connection to feel complete…and this version of me?I actually enjoy my own company.In this episode, I talk about what it’s been like outgrowing people, redefining connection, and realizing that emotional fulfillment starts within. I’ve been learning that I don’t need everyone to meet me—I just need the right people to meet me where I am.I also share a moment that made me question myself—when I didn’t feel someone else’s emotions the way I used to—and what that taught me about empathy, boundaries, and not losing myself in other people.Lately, I’ve been noticing how many people struggle with setting boundaries… and how easy it is to overgive when you don’t realize you’re allowed to choose differently.This episode is about:- enjoying your own company- emotional depth and what it actually means- why some connections stop feeling fulfilling- learning to be seen without performing- choosing people who are emotionally available- and trusting that what you’re building will reach who it’s meant toI’m not speaking from a place of needing validation anymore… I’m speaking from a place of understanding. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    32 min

  4. Mar 21

    #34 - Attention vs Alignment: Learning to Live With Intention

    In this episode, I talk about what it really means to start living with intention. Recently, I had a moment that made me realize how much I’ve changed—how I move differently, how I see people differently, and how I choose what aligns with me instead of just accepting attention. We get into: the difference between attention and alignment learning from past mistakes without staying stuck in shame how self-worth changes your standards why you can’t always save people from their own lessons and what it feels like to grow into a new version of yourself that doesn’t always feel “natural” at first I also open up about times where I’ve led people on, avoided honesty, and had to take accountability for my actions—and how those experiences shaped the way I move today. This episode is for anyone who feels like they’re outgrowing old patterns, questioning their choices, or learning how to trust themselves more. You’re not behind. You’re becoming. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    41 min

  5. Mar 6

    #33 - Do People Like Me... or Just How I Make Them Feel?

    In this episode of Talking with Tanya, I reflect on something that’s been on my mind lately: Do people actually like me for who I am, or just for how I make them feel?I talk about learning to match people’s energy, the exhaustion that can come from overgiving in relationships, and what happens when you start going through an identity shift. As I continue growing and becoming more aware of my patterns, I’m realizing how important balance and reciprocity are in all kinds of relationships.This episode is a real-time reflection on growth, boundaries, and what it means to truly be seen. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    15 min

  6. Feb 26

    #32 - Building Without A Blueprint

    Sometimes the hardest part of growth isn’t the breakthrough, it’s the uncertainty in between. In this episode, I open up about financial insecurity, wondering if I should change career paths, health worries, emotional detachment, and the pressure I put on myself to always be “profound.” I talk about vulnerability hangovers, trauma minimization, and what it means to trust yourself while you’re still figuring things out. This is about becoming, not arriving. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    43 min

  7. Feb 20

    #31 - Growing Up & Growing Through

    Growing up isn’t just about getting older, it’s about understanding. We share personal stories from our childhoods, reflect on the hardships our parents faced, and unpack how those experiences formed who we are today. We talk about fear, resilience, independence, chosen family, and learning to see our parents as human. You can’t truly appreciate the good without experiencing the hard. And sometimes, growth means revisiting the version of you that didn’t have the words yet. This one is honest, reflective, and deeply human. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    2h 10m

  8. Feb 13

    #30 - Spur of Moment - I See You. I’m Still Choosing Me.

    This maybe a new series. I came home after a long day not expecting to create this episode but here it is. Have you ever realized you understand people deeply… but they don’t always meet you there? In this episode, my friend and I talk about: – Not over-giving anymore – Being the “mirror” in friendships – Why discernment matters more than availability – The struggle of always being the spontaneous one – And how to articulate your truth without trying to offend anyone. We even explore uncomfortable hypotheticals about leadership and loyalty and what it really means to choose wisely when stakes are high. This episode is about boundaries, growth, and finally standing steady in your own energy. I see you. I’m still choosing me. Follow Me On 👇: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tan.gaaa?_t=zt-8zsmpjzylgn&_r=1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tanya.villalobos YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tanya.Villalobos Email: talkingwithtanya719@gmail.com 💖 Support the Channel:If you enjoyed this episode and would like to support my work, you can do so here: Venmo: @TV0719 CashApp: $TVill719 Kofi: ko-fi.com/talkingwithtanya APPLY HERE FOR INTERNSHIP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScvOqwOofnDUaotWPGnl_Z66BkuMYGwhkFgGJDJUxDtacx7_Q/viewform

    1h 2m
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Talking with Tanya is where depth meets discernment. Here we explore relationships, personal evolution, shadow work, and the uncomfortable conversations most people avoid. This is a space for introspection, growth, and choosing wisely without losing your warmth. Real thoughts. Real processing. Real evolution. If you’re ready to think deeper and live intentionally — welcome

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  • Creator
    Tanya Villalobos
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Tanya Villalobos
  • Show Website
    Talking with Tanya