Messy on Purpose

Fylisha Kruse
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Messy on Purpose is where we talk about the parts no one posts—the real, uncomfortable moments that actually shape who we are. Hosted by Fylisha, with Lee joining as producer and co-host, Messy on Purpose is a mix of raw co-host conversations, guest interviews, and global perspectives. This podcast is about ownership, awareness, and choosing growth without pretending life is perfect. We all have a mess. What matters is how we face it. Let’s be messy. Let’s be real. Let’s grow—on purpose.

  1. 5D AGO

    #81: 📆 Busy Isn’t the Same as Productive

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into a truth that hits hard: 👉 just because you’re busy doesn’t mean you’re productive. A full calendar, nonstop tasks, and constantly being “on” can feel like progress… but is it actually moving you forward? They break down the difference between being busy and being intentional, and why so many people mistake constant motion for real productivity. Inside this conversation: Why busyness can feel productive even when it’s notThe difference between movement and meaningful progressHow busy work keeps you from focusing on what actually mattersWhy productivity should be measured by results, not effortThis episode is a reminder that doing more isn’t always the answer. Sometimes real growth comes from doing less, but better.

    40 min

  2. MAY 4

    #80: 🌎 The World Doesn’t Owe You Anything

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee get real about a hard truth that many people avoid: 👉 no one owes you anything. It doesn’t matter what you’ve been through.It doesn’t matter how hard you’ve worked.It doesn’t matter how unfair life has felt. The world is not going to hand you what you want just because you want it. This conversation dives into: The difference between expectation and actionWhy entitlement keeps people stuckTaking responsibility for the life you wantWhy waiting for opportunities can hold you backThe mindset shift from “why me?” to “what now?”This isn’t about dismissing struggle — it’s about recognizing that growth starts when you stop waiting and start moving. Because if you want something, sometimes the only option is to go make it happen.

    31 min

  3. APR 27

    #79: 🙊 Closure Doesn’t Always Come with a Conversation

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the idea of closure — what it really means, what it doesn’t, and why it looks different for every person and every situation. Sometimes people think closure has to be a long conversation, an apology, or a perfectly tied-up ending. But does it? This conversation explores: Why closure means something different to everyoneHow relationships, friendships, and life changes all require different kinds of endingsWhy sometimes closure is simply deciding to move onThe power of quietly closing the door without needing moreThis episode is a reminder that healing doesn’t always come from answers. Sometimes closure is not getting the conversation.Sometimes it’s accepting what is.Sometimes it’s choosing peace over explanation. And sometimes… closing the door is enough.

    29 min

  4. APR 20

    #78: 🏋 Fitness Isn’t Complicated — We Just Made It That Way

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee break down one of the biggest problems in fitness: 👉 people overcomplicate it. From endless workout splits to “secret” formulas, trendy diets, and complicated routines, the fitness world often makes simple things feel impossible. But the truth? Fitness does not need to be complicated. They dive into: Why some people intentionally make fitness seem more complexThe illusion of a “secret sauce”Why simple routines usually work bestHow consistency beats perfection every timeThe mindset shifts that actually create long-term resultsThis conversation is for anyone who feels overwhelmed by fitness advice and just wants something sustainable that works. Because real progress usually comes from doing the basics well. Not from making it harder than it needs to be.

    53 min

  5. APR 13

    #77: 📲 WHY ARE WE IN THIS MEETING?!

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into the tiny everyday annoyances that somehow send us over the edge. What starts as a conversation around everyday business annoyances quickly turns into a deeper discussion about communication, efficiency, and the messy reality of running and working in business. You know exactly what we mean: 📅 meetings that should’ve been emails📞 phone calls that definitely could’ve been texts📱 unnecessary back-and-forth that wastes everyone’s time This episode is funny, relatable, and packed with those “THANK YOU, I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME” moments. As always with Messy on Purpose, one topic opens the door to a much bigger conversation about how we work, communicate, and build better systems in business and everyday life. Because sometimes the little annoyances reveal the bigger issues. Because honestly…why are we in this meeting? 😅

    50 min

  6. APR 8

    #73: ⚙️ Your Life Needs Systems (Not More Hustle) with Michelle MacNeil

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down again with Michelle MacNeil to talk about something that can completely transform your life—systems. Not just in business… but in your everyday life. Michelle shares how she built her business around helping others become more efficient, less overwhelmed, and more in control by implementing systems that actually work. This isn’t about being perfect or rigid—it’s about creating structure that supports your life instead of constantly reacting to it. They dive into: Why most people feel overwhelmed (and how systems fix it) The difference between working harder vs working smarter How systems create freedom, not restriction Simple ways to start organizing your business and daily life Why consistency becomes easier when you have structure If you’ve ever felt like you’re juggling too much, constantly behind, or just “figuring it out as you go,” this episode will shift how you think about productivity. Because the goal isn’t to do more… it’s to create a life that runs better.

    1h 29m

  7. APR 6

    #76: 😅 The Awkwardness We Never Talk About

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha and Lee dive into one of those weirdly universal things we all experience but rarely talk about: 👉 why does it feel so awkward to just… stand there? Whether it’s being in an elevator, standing in a group of people, waiting in line, or sitting in silence, there’s this almost automatic urge to grab your phone, look busy, or avoid eye contact just so it doesn’t feel uncomfortable. But why? They unpack the social pressure behind awkward silence, the unspoken rules of public spaces, and why being still can sometimes feel harder than it should. From phone habits to body language to the strange ways humans cope with discomfort, this episode is funny, relatable, and a little too real. Because sometimes the messiest conversations are about the little everyday things we all silently experience.

    21 min

  8. APR 6

    #75: 👌 Credibility Isn’t Perfection — It’s Honesty w/ Mitchell Levy

    In this episode of Messy on Purpose, Fylisha sits down with Mitchell Levy — Global Credibility Expert, 2x TEDx speaker, bestselling author of over 60 books, executive coach, and one of the world’s top leadership voices. After interviewing more than 500 leaders worldwide and building 20 businesses in Silicon Valley, Mitchell shares one powerful truth: 👉 credibility is not built on perfection — it’s built on honesty. This conversation dives into why the moments we often want to hide are sometimes the exact moments that make people trust us the most. Together, they explore: Why authenticity creates real influenceHow owning your story builds trustThe power of honesty in leadership, business, and lifeGrowing out loud instead of pretending to have it all figured outWhy vulnerability is often the birthplace of credibilityMitchell also shares insights from decades of coaching executives and entrepreneurs, helping them become stronger leaders by holding up the mirror and creating space for real change. This episode is a reminder that people don’t connect to perfection… they connect to truth. Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is simply show up as who you really are.

    1h 14m
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Messy on Purpose is where we talk about the parts no one posts—the real, uncomfortable moments that actually shape who we are. Hosted by Fylisha, with Lee joining as producer and co-host, Messy on Purpose is a mix of raw co-host conversations, guest interviews, and global perspectives. This podcast is about ownership, awareness, and choosing growth without pretending life is perfect. We all have a mess. What matters is how we face it. Let’s be messy. Let’s be real. Let’s grow—on purpose.

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  • Creator
    Fylisha Kruse
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    81
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Fylisha Kruse
  • Show Website
    Messy on Purpose