Good Men Podcast

Goodlife Church

With hosts Ps Dave Connett and Jack O'Brien. Exploring biblical manhood and growing as a Godly husband, father and Kingdom man.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Overcoming church hurts and the role of responsibility in manhood

    In this episode, Jack and Dave explore the importance of commitment, discipline, and rootedness in church life and manhood. They discuss how to overcome past hurts, test preconceived notions, and embrace responsibility joyfully as part of spiritual growth and family leadership.  key  topics The importance of church attendance as non-negotiable Overcoming past church hurts and preconceived notions The role of discipline and responsibility in manhood The significance of planting roots in church and family Balancing recreation and responsibility in life The impact of leadership and trust in church community The biblical foundation for consistent church involvement Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene 00:07 Where in the World Are You? 01:11 Getting Steps in and Physical Well-being 02:15 Feedback on Church Shopping and Past Experiences 03:09 Timely Challenges in Church and Faith 04:14 Starting a Discipleship Group: Rooted 05:05 Why Some Men Struggle to Plant Roots in Church 06:12 Leadership, Confidence, and Responsibility 07:11 Overcoming Apathy and Despair in Men 08:11 The Joyful Pursuit of Sacrificial Responsibility 09:44 Discipline, Fun, and Life Purpose 10:36 The Journey of Overcoming and Building in Faith 11:25 Distorted Views of Responsibility and Recreation 12:45 The Balance of Recreation and Discipline 13:29 Why Men Fear Commitment in Church 14:02 Overcoming Past Hurts and Preconceived Notions 15:55 The Power of Walking in Faith and Consistency 16:27 Testing and Trust in Church Relationships 17:52 Man Up and Take Responsibility 18:51 Church Attendance as a Non-Negotiable 20:55 Training Up Children in the House of the Lord 21:31 Deciding to Follow Christ and Staying Committed 22:20 The Importance of Consistency in Faith 23:46 Dealing with Church Failures and Personal Failures 24:15 Offering Sacrifice in Worship Regardless of Feelings 25:25 The Example of Jesus and Regular Worship 26:20 Closing Remarks and Next Steps

  2. Apr 30

    Building Family Values Through Meals + Dinner Tables

    summary In this episode of the Good Men Podcast, Jack O'Brien and Dave Connett explore the profound significance of the dinner table in fostering relationships, community, and faith. They discuss practical strategies for creating meaningful family meals, the importance of minimizing distractions from screens, and how to include others in these vital gatherings. The conversation emphasizes the dinner table as a space for connection, growth, and shared experiences, highlighting its role in shaping family values and community ties. takeaways The dinner table is a foundational space for learning and growth.Faith is personal but not private; it thrives in community.Regular family meals help solidify values and relationships.Minimizing screen time at the table fosters better communication.Creating a distraction-free environment enhances family connection.Involving children in meal preparation builds teamwork and responsibility.Changing family habits around screens requires intentionality and strategy.Meals can serve as a focal point for building relationships.Including others at the table enriches community and connection.The act of sharing meals is a powerful expression of love and support. Chapters 00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:59 The Significance of the Dinner Table 05:51 Practical Family Dinner Dynamics 11:47 Navigating Screen Distractions 18:00 Changing Family Habits Around Screens 23:42 Including Others at the Table

  3. 05/14/2025

    002 The Journey of a Godly Man

    In this conversation, the speakers explore the journey of faith, the essence of masculinity, and the importance of leadership within the family. They discuss the changing landscape of Christianity and how to navigate life's choices while remaining true to one's faith. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of Christlikeness in defining manhood and the necessity of fighting spiritual battles to lead effectively. The speakers also share practical insights on daily practices that foster spiritual growth and the importance of continual self-awareness and improvement in one's walk with God. Takeaways The journey of faith involves making choices that lead to opportunities. Walking in obedience with Christ opens doors to blessings. Manhood is synonymous with Christlikeness and involves selfless service. Leadership in the home is a shared responsibility, not a solo endeavor. Men often struggle with being passive or overly dominant in relationships. Fighting spiritual battles is essential for effective leadership. Daily prayer and submission to God are crucial for spiritual growth. Self-awareness and accountability are key to overcoming personal struggles. The steps of the righteous lead upward, emphasizing gradual growth. Continual nurturing of faith is necessary for a strong spiritual foundation. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Faith 02:12 Navigating Life's Choices and Opportunities 06:49 The Changing Landscape of Christianity 08:34 Defining Healthy Masculinity 09:03 The Essence of Manhood and Christlikeness 11:55 Leadership in the Home 19:10 The Struggles of Masculinity 24:17 Fighting Battles in the Spirit 28:16 Daily Practices of a Godly Man 35:05 Continual Growth and Steps Forward

  4. 05/02/2025

    001 - Navigating Faith as a Godly Man

    In this conversation, the speakers explore the journey of faith, the essence of masculinity, and the importance of leadership within the family. They discuss the changing landscape of Christianity and how to navigate life's choices while remaining obedient to God. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of Christlikeness in defining manhood and the daily practices that contribute to spiritual growth and effective leadership. Takeaways The journey of faith involves making choices that impact our future. Walking in obedience to God leads to a fulfilling life. Manhood is synonymous with Christlikeness, emphasizing selflessness and loyalty. Leadership in the home is a shared responsibility, not a solo endeavor. Men often struggle with being passive or overly dominant in relationships. Fighting spiritual battles is essential for effective leadership. Daily prayer and submission to God are crucial for spiritual growth. Understanding emotions and logic is key to healthy communication. The steps of the righteous lead upward, emphasizing gradual growth. Continuous self-awareness and accountability are vital for personal development. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Faith 02:12 Navigating Life's Choices and Opportunities 06:49 The Changing Landscape of Christianity 08:34 Defining Healthy Masculinity 09:03 The Essence of Manhood and Christlikeness 11:55 Leadership in the Home 19:10 The Struggles of Masculinity 24:17 Fighting Battles in the Spirit 28:16 Daily Practices of a Godly Man

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With hosts Ps Dave Connett and Jack O'Brien. Exploring biblical manhood and growing as a Godly husband, father and Kingdom man.