What Worked For Us : Conversations with Mothers and Rita Kara Robinson

Rita Kara Robinson

Stories, advice and support from mothers who have children on the spectrum who are making leaps forward. Find ways for your to double down on your healing journey and work out if these ideas are for you.  This podcast is aimed at mothers with children on the spectrum who are looking for ideas and advice to help their children if they have global delays, are non-verbal and or have some symptoms they wish to heal.

Episodes

  1. Oct 13

    7. Audrey and Jenny's Story

    This is the most important conversation I have recorded in the 12 years of working with non verbal and autistic children. It's not clickbait. This has impacted my work enormously in the last 2 years. If you have a child whose speech regressed I implore you to listen to this. It is going to change some children’s lives. Maybe yours? If this happens to your child , please do circle back to let me know - partly because this conversation is unedited and completely raw, I am nervous to publish it, and I want to know if my time spent on these things is having any impact at all? The reason I stopped recording the chats with my mothers is because editing and publishing took so long I could not find the extra time to do this. So please make allowances because this is real, messy, live, and uncut. There are three mothers in my community that I have been especially yearning to record a conversation with. They are all clients of mine, and every time we speak - I hear so many valuable stories which I know can impact more families. This is one of those mothers.  We both happen to be ex-teachers, therefore, we see children in an extra dimension when observing them - we see them as patients with symptoms to heal but also as pupils, and we have a lot to discuss and problem solve together. This is a live discussion about how I have been observing a little girl who would lie on her bed and blow the hairdryer on herself for sensory comfort each homeopathic appointment. Since her mother started focussing hard on pointing, using a yes/no board and then spelling using a specific method - she is now talking to me during our consultations in detail. She tells me where her pain is and how she feels about school. Her mothers sends me videos of her doing maths questions, yet her school teachers think she in incapable of any of these things and treat her as an incapable infant. Jenny is one of the few children who have turned my working life upside down. She has taught me that language is in inside ( most, or nearly all? How will we know? I will say nearly all for now) non-verbal children who have regressed. The problem is not language. The problem is the mechanism of speech. They are hearing and understanding everything that is said. Jenny has told me herself via spelling that she feels a “disconnection” between the brain and body. When she tried to talk, she feels “apraxia“ and “scrambled” and “stuck”. I asked her what does she want us all to know? “Believe”. Barely anyone I work with is using Audrey’s methods. WHY? I don’t understand why??? It’s not discussed in schools, in fact it has been discouraged in some cases to my astonishment. I can’t fathom it. It’s accessible, its cheap and it just takes time and dedication and its going to be all on the parent to unlock this form of communication. I have only seen positivity, improvement in frustration, behaviour and connection. You are all capable. They are all capable given time and patience. Feel free to get in touch via my website if this affects you in a positive way www.rita-kara-robinson.com R Here are the links from Audrey that accompany this conversation. Spellers MovieSpelling Providers RPMSpelling Providers : S2CSpelling Providers : SpellersUk Spelling organisationAmerican Spelling organisationSpelling it out PodcastThere will be a live discussion with Audrey about this conversation in my closed patient group soon.

    7. Audrey and Jenny's Story

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Stories, advice and support from mothers who have children on the spectrum who are making leaps forward. Find ways for your to double down on your healing journey and work out if these ideas are for you.  This podcast is aimed at mothers with children on the spectrum who are looking for ideas and advice to help their children if they have global delays, are non-verbal and or have some symptoms they wish to heal.