The Hot Mess Podcast

J.L. Polanco

Hey, Bestie! Chill with me as we bond over the hot mess that is life, love, career, and bonchinché. We will explore and learn how to make the most of the mess, no matter the subject, and be able to conquer it and make it our b**ch! We are in this together! Life is a hot mess, Why not talk about it?!

  1. May 24

    The Hot Mess Of…AI written books

    JUNE 20th J.L. IS HAVING A BOOK SIGNING @ 1pm @ B&N CANTON 110 ALBANY TURNPIKE CANTON, CT 06019 She will have copies of LOVE ME AGAIN available for purchase. Please come and bring your friends, it’s going to be a time. She can’t wait to see you there!!! Hello Besties! It’s been a while but we are finally back with an all new episode! In this episode, J.L. Discusses her first every B&N book signing and how that opened the door for her next signing! We’re manifesting! Later in the episode, J.L. Discusses the possibility of B&N selling AI generated books. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below! LOVE ME AGAIN, is a second chance romance between a husband and a wife. Jovi finds some questionable text messages on her husbands, Scott, phone. Since their marriage was already struggling, this was the straw that broke the camels back. But Scott isn’t ready to give up. In his desperation he refuses Jovi’s demand for a divorce and he demands they attempt marriage counseling. Through a series of flashbacks, We are taken through their up’s and down, giving us an inside view of a twenty year relationship. Through family gatherings, their attempts to reconnect with each other and rediscovering themselves, we are taken on their journey of loving each other again. Love Me again is available on bookshop.org, amazon, and barnesandnoble.com.

    25 min

  2. Apr 13

    The Hot Mess Of…Being A BookToker

    Hello Besties! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST! April 25, 2026 J.L. will have her first Barnes & Noble book signing at the Cheshire, CT location from 12pm-2pm. She will have LOVE ME AGAIN, available for purchase. Please come support! Let’s have a time! Thank you & we can’t wait to see you there! B&N Cheshire 1991 Highland Ave Cheshire, CT 06410 In this episode, J.L. is joined by Kat from @_kathyeria📚🇵🇷_ on TikTok! The ladies discuss Kats path into Booktok, the importance of highlighting BIPOC & Latinee authors, rapid fire questions, advice for aspiring book creators, and so much more!! For more info on Kat, her book hauls, and author lives, please follow her on: IG @_Kathyria_ TikTok @_Kathyria📚🇵🇷_ For updates on the podcast, new book releases, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on TikTok @jlpolanco Or visit the website jlpolanco.com Enjoy this episode and have a great week! LOVE ME AGAIN is available on bookshop.org, Amazon, and Barnesandnoble.com THE LAWYER AND THE HITMAN coming in 2026

    1h 25m

  3. Apr 6

    The Hot Mess Of…Staying True To Yourself

    Hello Besties! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST! April 25, 2026 J.L. will have her first Barnes & Noble book signing at the Cheshire, CT location from 12pm-2pm. She will have LOVE ME AGAIN, available for purchase. Please come support! Let’s have a time! Thank you & we can’t wait to see you there! B&N Cheshire 1991 Highland Ave Cheshire, CT 06410 In this episode, J.L. Fills us in on her busy weekend. From updates on her writing, to watching the Mario new movie, to how a comedy show inspired her! For updates on the podcast, new book releases, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on Tik Tok @jlpolanco Or visit the website jlpolanco.com Enjoy this episode and have a great week! LOVE ME AGAIN is available on bookshop.org, Amazon, and Barnesandnoble.com THE LAWYER AND THE HITMAN coming in 2026

    30 min

  4. Mar 24

    The Hot Mess Of…Living In The Manosphere

    Hello Besties! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST! April 25, 2026 J.L. will have her first Barnes & Noble book signing at the Cheshire, CT location from 12pm-2pm. She will have LOVE ME AGAIN, available for purchase. Please come support! Let’s have a time! Thank you & we can’t wait to see you there! B&N Cheshire 1991 Highland Ave Cheshire, CT 06410 In this episode, J.L. shares 2 of her near death experiences that happened this week. Also, she has a guest! Jason “J.P.” Polanco (J.L.’s hubby) is back and discussing Netflix’s new documentary, INSIDE THE MANOSPHERE. For updates on the podcast, new book releases, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on Tik Tok @jlpolanco Or visit the website jlpolanco.com Enjoy this episode and have a great week! THE LAWYER & THE THIEF, and THE LAWYER & THE STALKER are both available on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited. THE LAWYER AND THE HITMAN coming in 2026

    48 min

  5. Mar 14

    The Hot Mess Of…Mourning Adult Friendships

    Hello Besties! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST! In this episode, J.L. is giving an update about her spiritual journey. She gives her views on the alarming trend of pastors making people feel guilty for the amounts they are donating instead of giving 10% to church when you’re living paycheck to paycheck. What are your thoughts? The main topic: mourning and healing from the death of an adult friendship. J.L. gets personal and shares steps to healing from the demise of a friendship. If you need additional support please visit https://share.google/fXfA8MnR9gQ5YEKiR For updates on the podcast, new book, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on Tik Tok @jlpolanco Or visit the website jlpolanco.com Enjoy this episode and have a great week! THE LAWYER & THE THIEF, and THE LAWYER & THE STALKER are both available on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited. THE LAWYER AND THE HITMAN coming in 2026

    40 min

  6. Mar 11

    The Hot Mess Of…Being A Hot Mess PT2

    Hello Besties!!! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST. In this episode, J.L. says no to an outline and bounces from thought to thought. She reflects on the seasons changing, her fitness journey, Bridgerton and the annoying 2 year wait for the next season. Damn you Shonda Rhimes!!! APRIL 25th 2026 J.L. WILL BE BARNES AND NOBLE IN CHESHIRE, CT FROM 12p-2p SIGNING BOOKS!!!! THIS IS NOT A DRILL!! IF YOU ARE ABLE TO, PLEASE STOP BY TO SHOW YOUR SUPPORT!!! THANK YOU!!! Visit jlpolanco.com for updates on the podcast, new book releases, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on Tik Tok @jlpolanco Enjoy this episode and have a great week!

    33 min

  7. Feb 28

    The Hot Mess Of…Filming in PR, and ANTM

    Hello Besties! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST! In this episode, J.L. Is joined by her husband, Jay! They are picking up where they left off in the last episode and go on to discuss Bad Bunny’s first leading film role in the historical drama, Porto Rico and the corrupt Governor of PR who refused to let the movie be shot on the island. J.L. And Jay also discuss the hot mess express that is Tyra Banks and the ANTM doc on Netflix. Visit jlpolanco.com for updates on the podcast, new book releases, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on Tik Tok @jlpolanco Enjoy this episode and have a great week! To purchase LOVE ME AGAIN, please visit https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-me-again-j-l-polanco/f43bdf13ee3adda9?ean=9798985771701&next=t THE LAWYER AND THE HITMAN coming in 2026

    52 min

  8. Feb 25

    The Hot Mess Of…A Family Vacation

    Hello Besties! Welcome back to another episode of THE HOT MESS PODCAST! In this episode, J.L. Is joined by the man, the myth, the legend…her husband, Jay. They are hunkered down after the recent blizzard and recap Benito Bowl (yes, it’s a month later and we’re still talking about it), and the cultural significance and personal connections they felt. They discuss their desires to learn about their culture and J.L. is starting Spanish lessons. J.L. And Jay go on to discuss their family trip to Puerto Rico. Visit jlpolanco.com for updates on the podcast, new book releases, and appearances. Follow on Instagram @j.l.polanco Follow on Tik Tok @jlpolanco Enjoy this episode and have a great week! To purchase LOVE ME AGAIN, please visit https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-me-again-j-l-polanco/f43bdf13ee3adda9?ean=9798985771701&next=t THE LAWYER AND THE HITMAN coming in 2026

    1h 3m
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Hey, Bestie! Chill with me as we bond over the hot mess that is life, love, career, and bonchinché. We will explore and learn how to make the most of the mess, no matter the subject, and be able to conquer it and make it our b**ch! We are in this together! Life is a hot mess, Why not talk about it?!

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  • Creator
    J.L. Polanco
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © J.L. Polanco
  • Show Website
    The Hot Mess Podcast

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