Her Seat At The Table

Sara Abernethy

A podcast that spotlights the women reshaping the hospitality industry, breaking barriers, and carving their paths in the ever-evolving world of restaurants, food, and community.

  1. 3d ago

    Dana Cowin on Progressive Hedonist & Community-Driven Food Initiatives

    Dana Cowin is an award-winning editor, author and convener who propels change through food and joy. Founder of Progressive Hedonist, Cowin has launched a national event series to build resilience, support local food, reduce food waste and deepen commitments to healing the planet through joyful gatherings. Since 2024, she's hosted dozens of events in 15 states, as well as produced a podcast that was a finalist for a James Beard Foundation award. This movement builds on Cowin’s experience creating Speaking Broadly, which featured events, a zine and podcast spotlighting visionary women at the intersection of creativity, sustainability and food. Cowin was Editor in Chief of Food & Wine Magazine for more than 20 years, leading all editorial aspects of the brand including print, digital and books. She has written extensively on food and culture, including a cookbook, "Mastering My Mistakes in the Kitchen: Learning to Cook with 65 Great Chefs and 100 Recipes." Cowin has been a judge on Top Chef and Beat Bobby Flay as well as a speaker at SXSW, the Welcome Conference, TEDx Manhattan, and many other events. She's on the Board of Food Education Fund and the Food Council of City Harvest. In this episode, Dana shares her journey from magazine editor to founder of Progressive Hedonist, emphasizing how small, intentional changes can foster joy, environmental stewardship, and deep human connections.  We explore the evolving relationship with food, sustainability, and the three principles of the Progressive Hedonist Movement:1) Source sustainably2) Reduce Copiously3) Live Abundantly 🥰JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY 🥰 to support this work and keep these conversations going for the women who need them.  ‼️ Main Topics Covered:   The origin and evolution of the concept of progressive hedonism and its core principlesPractical ways to reduce food waste and source sustainably while balancing local and global considerationsThe importance of community, shared experiences, and crafts in building a resilient and joyful lifeHow incremental habits at home can impact climate change and promote mindful consumptionDana’s innovative ideas for community-driven food initiatives, like neighborhood pizza parties and collective cookingThe role of joy as resistance in environmental activism and personal well-being  Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Dana Cowin and the concept of progressive hedonism 02:15 - Dana’s background in publishing and her journey to environmental activism 08:17 - The intersection of food, joy, and climate change 14:31 - Principles of progressive hedonism: source responsibly, reduce copiously, live abundantly 16:52 - The staggering impact of food waste and strategies to mitigate it 23:24 - Rethinking household shopping and family cooking practices 41:37 - The story behind Dana’s Pi Day pizza event and community cooking projects 47:19 - The innovative use of banana peels and food scraps in no-waste cooking 50:02 - The meaning of living abundantly through relationships and community 55:00 - The importance of simple joys, trash TV, and hobbies for mental health 58:11 - How joy fuels activism and personal resilience Resources & Links:   Progressive Hedonist - Dana Cowin’s platform and ethos Emma’s Torch - Culinary training for refugees and marginalized communitiesNature’s Path - Organic Farming - Example of sustainable sourcing  Connect with Dana Cowin:   Instagram: progressive_hedonistWebsite: danacowin.com  Join the conversation about transforming everyday habits into impactful, joyful actions—because how we live truly makes a difference.

    Dana Cowin on Progressive Hedonist & Community-Driven Food Initiatives
  2. Jun 29

    Anna Edwards: A Day In The Life of an Award-Winning Sommelier

    Sara hangs out with Anna Edwards, sommelier of the iconic, Michelin-starred Poole's Diner in Raleigh, NC.  In this conversation, they discuss imposter syndrome in wine, what it's like running an award-winning wine program, and looking toward the next chapter of their careers. Main topics include: The evolution of Poole’s Diner in Raleigh with its Michelin recognition and approachable fine diningAnna’s journey from corporate roots, to joining the team at Death & Taxes, to leading wine at Poole’s DinerHer unique approach to building an inclusive, playful wine program aligned with regional cuisineStrategies for expanding wine lists thoughtfully and engaging local producersThe balance between global exploration and local sourcing in wine selectionInsights into wine education: certifications, continuous learning, and demystifying wine for staff Overcoming imposter syndrome and embracing the joy of learning and sharing wine The importance of self-care, rest, and fostering authenticity in a demanding industry Goals for 2026: lifelong dreaming of study abroad, deepening wine knowledge, and building community 🥰JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY 🥰 to support this work and keep these conversations going for the women who need them.  ‼️ Timestamps:00:35 - Funny pet stories and family life 02:19 - Siblings, tattoos, and family traditions 04:04 - Navigating siblings' relationships across ages 07:38 - The story behind Poole’s reputation and Michelin recognition 08:49 - Approachability in fine dining and wine service 09:58 - Building a curated, playful wine list aligned with regional cuisine 11:24 - Greatest hits and local wine considerations 12:54 - Strategies for educating staff on wine basics and geography 14:20 - Collaboration and mutual admiration in the wine world 15:00 - Overcoming imposter syndrome in wine certifications 16:29 - The importance of continual learning and seeking mentorship 17:45 - Balancing technical expertise with creative expression in wine and life 19:21 - Personal background in opera and language skills 21:04 - Connecting musical passions with the hospitality industry 22:48 - Developing wine classes and community engagement 24:29 - Supporting staff through education and sneaky lessons 26:04 - Managing inventory, pricing, and profitability in wine programs 28:12 - The power of language skills in wine and opera 30:33 - Long-term dreams: studying abroad and study plans 33:15 - Breaking industry barriers around education and certification 36:38 - The road to expanding by building a strong team and curriculum 38:24 - Managing data and financial metrics in wine programs 40:49 - The art of pricing and accessibility in wine sales 43:50 - Engagement through guest interaction and wine recommendations 44:55 - Potential of wine clubs and event series for community building 48:19 - Creative ideas versus execution and the importance of timing 50:25 - Nurturing big ideas with the right team and patience 52:17 - Planning the year ahead and setting goals 54:12 - Dreaming of study opportunities in Paris and beyond 56:38 - Prioritizing ongoing learning and industry involvement 58:23 - Balancing personal growth, financial literacy, and community impact 60:03 - Advice for women entering the industry: ask questions and self-care 61:12 - Pride in the hospitality profession and creating memorable moments 62:37 - The importance of rest and personal joy amidst industry stresses 64:16 - Artistic pursuits outside of wine and hospitality 66:16 - Favorite wine questions, personal social media, and future ambitions Resources & Links: Poole's DinerWSET CertificationsVitis House RaleighFrench Wine Scholar Program - Wine Scholar GuildSupport the Podcast: Patreon - Her Seat at the Table  Connect with Anna: Instagram    This conversation exemplifies passion, curiosity, and resilience—valuable for anyone navigating the vibrant and challenging worlds of wine and hospitality. Cheers to growth and connection!

    Anna Edwards: A Day In The Life of an Award-Winning Sommelier
  3. Jun 15

    Anh Luu on Chef-ing On Your Own Terms

    You know her from Queer Eye in New Orleans, you know her from Chopped, OR you know her for her social media sensation, "The Pho-rrito" - meet Anh Luu! In this episode, Anh shares her story of navigating the restaurant industry, resilience after personal loss, and embracing a flexible, self-directed culinary career. We explore her experiences with restaurant ownership, the industry’s challenges, and how she crafted a life of creative independence through catering, pop-ups, and community-driven projects. 🥰JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY 🥰 to support this work and keep these conversations going for the women who need them.  ‼️ Main topics include:   Anh’s journey from a young chef in New Orleans to restaurant owner in Portland, now back to a successful free-lance chef in New OrleansThe emotional and financial struggles of restaurant ownership, especially post-KatrinaThe impact of industry burnout and the decision to step away from day-to-day operationsBuilding a community of support and relying on relationships in New Orleans’ tight-knit food sceneTransitioning to a flexible culinary career focused on private events, consulting, and product creationOvercoming fears of financial instability and shifting from scarcity to abundance mindsetResources & Links: Queer Eye on NetflixWye Hill Kitchen and BrewingGlass House Kitchen  Connect with Anh Luu InstagramLinkedIn  Support the Podcast: Patreon - Her Seat at the Table

    Anh Luu on Chef-ing On Your Own Terms
  4. Jun 1

    Randi Weinstein on 10 Years of the FAB Conference: The Power of Community with Restaurant Owners

    In this episode, Randi Weinstein shares her journey of founding and growing the FAB Conference—a vibrant space for women in the food, beverage, and hospitality industries. Listen to insights on event innovation, community building, balancing motherhood, and embracing bold ideas. Key topics:   The origins and evolution of FAB Conference over its 10-year historyRandi's transition from hospitality roles to community entrepreneurship The importance of authentic community and intact event space principlesChallenges of scaling events while maintaining intimacy and missionThe power of scholarships and giving back to underrepresented groupsThe significance of face-to-face connection in fostering community  Timestamps:   (00:35) - Introduction to Randi Weinstein and FAB Conference(01:00) - Randi’s background in hospitality and event roles (01:49) - Celebrating FAB’s 10th anniversary and upcoming events(02:30) - Randi’s entrepreneurial ventures: Winky Winky Food & Beverage, Bad Bitches(03:13) - Launching the THC line, Tree Time, and product inspiration(04:07) - Balancing travel and motherhood in today’s climate(05:03) - The challenges (and fears) of flying and travel anxiety(05:43) - FAB’s origin from a dinner series for women in food industry(08:40) - How industry events like FAB evolve from smaller beginnings(11:08) - Randi’s journey moving to Charleston and finding her community (12:46) - Navigating motherhood, career shifts, and identity(15:19) - The importance of self-care for women in hospitality(16:15) - The impact of full-time care and balancing creative pursuits(18:37) - Significance of community and connection at FAB(19:37) - Scholarship programs and inclusivity in industry events(20:55) - The value of authentic, genuine community(22:22) - Protecting the sanctity and mission of FAB from media influence (23:55) - FAB's unique approach: equal footing for speakers and attendees(25:44) - Creating a safe space for emotional vulnerability(26:19) - Supporting women through scholarships and community(27:22) - The humble beginnings of FAB as a women’s industry dinner (30:08) - Building industry-focused educational programs and scholarships (32:07) - Scaling FAB while maintaining intimacy and connection (35:28) - Randi’s event planning instincts and risk-taking approach(40:07) - Ideas for extending FAB to other cities and regions(44:29) - Potential for smaller community dinners and collaborations(45:51) - Envisioning future innovations: educational experiences, food activities(47:30) - Balancing practicality with creativity in event execution(50:41) - Reflection on FAB’s 10th anniversary vision and mission focus(52:20) - The impact of scholarships and community contribution(54:09) - Final thoughts and upcoming FAB details  Resources & Links: FAB ConferenceTree Time THC Line Connect with Randi Weinstein: LinkedInTwitter  Support the Podcast: Join the Her Seat at the Table Patreon for exclusive perks and community access: Patreon

    Randi Weinstein on 10 Years of the FAB Conference: The Power of Community with Restaurant Owners
  5. May 18

    Anne McBride Ph.D. on Supporting Restaurants through the James Beard Foundation

    Explore how the James Beard Foundation is driving impact through innovative programs, advocacy, and educational resources in the food industry. Sara Abernethy interviews Dr. Anne McBride, Vice President of Impact, to uncover insights on leadership, mentorship, and fostering resilience in hospitality professionals. Main Topics Covered:   The role of the James Beard Foundation in industry advocacy and educationHow cooking, publishing, and food policy intersectPrograms supporting women entrepreneurs and food professionalsStrategic approaches to food book publishing and self-publishingThe importance of community, mentorship, and continuous learningImpact of advocacy and policy engagement for restaurant sustainability Future initiatives and resources for industry resilience  Timestamps: 00:36 - Introduction to Dr. Anne McBride and her work at the James Beard Foundation 01:01 - Impact of the Women's Entrepreneurial Leadership Program (WEL) 01:20 - Resources available on jamesbeard.org for food industry professionals 02:37 - Personal experiences with winter weather and its effects on restaurants 03:05 - Navigating Valentine’s Day and restaurant reservations 04:38 - The benefits of letting partners take the lead in dinner plans 05:12 - How Anne met her husband and her move from Switzerland to Louisiana 06:06 - Transition from Swiss village life to Louisiana college experience 07:01 - Moving to New York and career shifts from publishing to food media 09:32 - Starting at Hippocrates Books and the value of book proposals 11:23 - Insights on writing and marketing cookbooks, and self-publishing nuances 12:56 - The importance of strong proposals for book success 15:47 - Planning a cookbook as a regional or community-focused project 16:17 - From publishing to advocacy and impact at James Beard Foundation 17:03 - Life in early 2000s NYC with small publishing house experience 19:11 - How food programs like the Experimental Cuisine Collective shaped her career 20:05 - The importance of work-life integration and passion projects 22:38 - Comparing roles at the Culinary Institute of America and James Beard Foundation 24:19 - Overview of programming like WEL and other leadership initiatives 25:47 - Supporting women in food through financial literacy and mentorship 29:58 - The power of confidence-building workshops and small wins 34:40 - Advocacy against restrictive policies affecting restaurants and immigrant labor 39:12 - The significance of grassroots, consistent advocacy actions 41:31 - The impact of sharing case studies and testimonies 42:07 - Reflecting on nearly five years of impact work and future goals 43:16 - Resources, upcoming reports, and how to stay connected with jamesbeard.org 45:42 - Closing remarks and how to follow Anne McBride’s work Resources & Links:   James Beard Foundation Annual Industry Report Women's Entrepreneurial Leadership Program Climate Solutions for Restaurant Survival Follow Anne McBride on LinkedIn Follow James Beard Foundation on Instagram  Connect with Anne McBride: LinkedInInstagram‼️JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY 🥰 to support this work and keep these conversations going for the women who need them.  ‼️

    Anne McBride Ph.D. on Supporting Restaurants through the James Beard Foundation
  6. May 11

    Inez Ribustello on the Sweet Life of Retiring From Business Ownership

    Discover the inspiring journey of Inie Ribustello, a Tarboro-based restaurateur, author, and hospitality leader, as she navigates career transitions, personal growth, and community impact. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone contemplating change, overcoming burnout, or seeking purpose beyond entrepreneurship. Key Topics:  Inie's transition from restaurant owner to W2 employee and director of hospitalityOvercoming the shame and fear associated with stepping back from ownershipThe emotional labor of running a community-centric business like a brewery or restaurantHow writing and journaling serve as emotional outlets for deep feelers and empathsThe power of community events like Triangle Wine and Food Experience and Piggy FestivalBalancing the demands of leadership with personal well-being and mental healthThe significance of legacy, purpose, and redefining success after major life shift Inie's reflections on motherhood, aging, and the imminent 'empty nest' chapterHer experience as a Beverage Director at Windows on the World pre-9/11 Upcoming writing projects inspired by her evolving family and personal journey  Resources & Links: Tickets - Gettin' Piggy With It - May 17, 2026Life After Windows - Inie Ribustello (Memoir) (search for her book on Amazon)Frankie Lemmon FoundationTriangle Wine & Food ExperienceMis En Place Publishing  Connect with Inie:   LinkedIn InstagramFacebook  ‼️JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY 🥰 to support this work and keep these conversations going for the women who need them.  ‼️

    Inez Ribustello on the Sweet Life of Retiring From Business Ownership
  7. May 4

    LIVE from The Durham Hotel - Molly Irani on "Service Ready"

    Most entrepreneurs never reveal the messy, real behind-the-scenes stories that shape their success. Molly Irani — founder of the James Beard Award-winning Chai Pani restaurant group — exposes the grit, chaos, and heart of building a meaningful culture in hospitality in her newly released memoir, "Service Ready".  Imagine maxing out personal credit cards, navigating midlife pivots, and managing high-volume chaos—all while keeping your vision alive. Her story will inspire you to rethink what it really takes to create a thriving business you love. In this episode, Molly shares her innovative concept of "mind-blasting hospitality," a sensory experience that turns ordinary service into memorable magic, even in the busiest kitchens. We break down how she designed a culture rooted in care, authenticity, and fun, turning chaos into community. Molly also reveals how her personal story—her love for her husband, her background, and her relentless resilience—informed her leadership and vision. We delve into  the real challenges of working with your partnerclaiming your identity as a leaderfinding balance when your role shifts from front-line to strategic visionaryMolly's honesty about depleting herself, navigating disagreements, and building trust offers practical lessons for couples in business and anyone striving for alignment. Plus, hear her powerful perspective on community resilience—how the restaurant industry models humanity during crises, from hurricanes to pandemics—showing us that hospitality is about more than just food; it’s about touching lives. This episode is perfect for restaurant owners, entrepreneurs, and leaders seeking authentic tools to build resilient, thriving cultures. If you’re tired of glossy success stories and crave the truth behind lasting impact, Molly’s raw, inspiring insights will challenge and embolden you. Prepare to be inspired by her daring to share her vulnerabilities—and her unwavering belief in the power of hospitality to transform lives. Order your copy of "Service Ready" and check out more of Molly's work at www.mollyirani.com, and drop her a follow on Instagram at @chaipanimom ‼️JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY 🥰 to support this work and keep these conversations going for the women who need them.  ‼️

    LIVE from The Durham Hotel - Molly Irani on "Service Ready"

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A podcast that spotlights the women reshaping the hospitality industry, breaking barriers, and carving their paths in the ever-evolving world of restaurants, food, and community.