The YOU Not Me Podcast

Chris Behrmann
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YOU Not Me transforms people, organizations, and teams by teaching one simple truth. People and relationships matter most. When you put others first, trust deepens, communication strengthens, and cultures are unlocked to achieve greater growth, stronger performance, and impact beyond what was ever imagined. Shift your mindset. Be the change. Live YOU, Not Me.

  1. Sep 4

    Knowing More Isn't Enough (Become Invaluable) | The YOU Not Me Podcast with Chris Behrmann

    SummaryIn the first episode of this new season on Becoming Invaluable, we explore the art of judgment, how AI impacts decision-making, and the importance of self-awareness and humility in making wise choices. Chris and Andrew share insights on discernment, context, consequences, and wisdom, emphasizing the value of putting others before ourselves.Key Topics- The role of AI in decision-making and its limitations- Four components of judgment: discernment, context, consequences, wisdom- The importance of humility and self-awareness in making decisions- How to evaluate the impact of decisions on others- The shift from information to judgment as a key skillTakeaways- AI cannot decide who you become, only how you use it- Good judgment involves discernment, understanding context, and considering consequences- Humility and self-awareness are crucial for wise decisions- Decisions should be made with others' best interests in mind- Cultivating judgment is more important than acquiring more informationChapters00:00 Introduction to the importance of judgment and AI01:53 AI's role and its limitations in decision-making03:54 The components of good judgment: discernment, context, consequences, wisdom10:02 The importance of humility and self-awareness in judgment20:10 How to evaluate the impact of decisions on others27:49 The five-question filter for better judgment32:46 The future of AI and the importance of human judgment33:54 Closing thoughts: living out 'You Not Me' in decisionsKeywordsjudgment, decision-making, AI, discernment, wisdom, self-awareness, leadership, relationships, humility

  2. Aug 21

    Direction Over Destination: Maximize the Present and Plan for the Future | The YOU Not Me Podcast

    In this episode, Chris and Andrew explore the importance of focusing on who you're becoming rather than just reaching specific destinations. They discuss how shifting the focus from goals to direction can lead to more meaningful growth, relationships, and fulfillment in life. Key Topics The difference between focusing on destination versus directionThe importance of patience and trust in life's timingHow relationships and community impact personal growthThe role of self-awareness and reflection in successThe danger of chasing finish lines that keep moving Takeaways Focusing on who you're becoming is more important than reaching a specific goal.Success is a journey, not a destination, and the path shapes us.Slowing down and building relationships enriches life and happiness.Trust in God's timing and embrace detours as part of growth.The most meaningful impact is often made through small, consistent actions. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Rethinking Success and Life's Purpose 01:54 The Shift from Destination to Direction 03:48 The Illusion of Final Goals and the Hamster Wheel 06:00 Lessons from Personal Stories and Failures 08:01 The Role of Patience and Trust in Life 10:13 Building Relationships and Community 12:11 The Power of Slowing Down 13:59 Living for Others and Impacting Lives 16:12 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Course Correction 18:04 Trusting God's Timing and Embracing Detours 20:10 Practical Steps for Living with Purpose 21:50 The Role of Wise Counsel and Community 23:54 Living Out the 'You Not Me' Mindset 26:14 The Impact of Living for Others on Health and Happiness 28:07 Encouragement for All Life Stages 30:01 Final Thoughts: Focus on Who You're Becoming

  3. Aug 7

    Leaving a Lasting Legacy (Launch Well into Adulthood) | The YOU Not Me Podcast

    In this episode, we explore the true meaning of leadership and legacy, emphasizing the importance of leading oneself first, taking initiative, resilience, faith, and purpose. Discover inspiring stories from sports, business, and history that illustrate how lasting impact is built through character and service. Key Topics The difference between building a resume and a legacyThe story of Bill Campbell and his impact on tech leadersThe importance of leading oneself firstThe example of Olympic swimmer Katie Ladecki and self-motivationThe story of Steph Curry's early challenges and perseveranceThe significance of faith and purpose in resilienceThe legacy of Mr. Rogers and his impact on childrenThe importance of planting seeds of influence in othersPractical steps to lead with character and integrity Takeaways Leadership is a responsibility you take, not a title you holdSelf-discipline and initiative are key to personal growthResilience is about showing up and pushing through adversityFaith and purpose provide a foundation that withstands stormsLegacy is what you leave inside others, not what you leave behind Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Leadership and Legacy 00:24 Living for Something Bigger Than Yourself 00:58 The Impact of Coach Bill Campbell 02:24 Leadership Is About Responsibility, Not Titles 04:21 Leading Yourself First: Self-Discipline and Motivation 08:03 Taking Initiative and Solving Needs 12:57 Resilience in the Face of Hardship 19:33 Faith, Purpose, and Building a Foundation 25:06 The Power of Leaving a Lasting Impact 28:38 Planting Seeds of Influence 29:37 Final Thoughts on Character and Legacy

  4. Jun 26

    Finding Purpose In Your Work (Launch Well into Adulthood) | The YOU Not Me Podcast

    SummaryIn this episode, we explore how young people can launch well into adulthood by focusing on work ethic, growth, communication, financial management, and purpose. These pillars help build character, develop discipline, and find meaningful impact in work and life.Key TopicsThe importance of work ethic and reliabilityThe role of growth and humility in personal developmentEffective communication as a career skillManaging money wisely to reduce stressFinding purpose by serving others in your workChapters00:00 Launching into Adulthood: Finding Purpose in Work07:47 The Pillars of Work Ethic and Growth16:03 The Art of Communication in the Workplace21:57 Managing Money Wisely: A Tool for Freedom29:39 Finding Purpose: Serving Others Through WorkKeywordswork ethic, growth, communication, money management, purpose, career development, leadership, personal growth

  5. Jun 12

    The Life Skills Nobody Taught You (Launch Well into Adulthood) | YOU Not Me Podcast

    Most people graduate high school — or even college — without the basics. Chris and Andrew break down the five life skills that actually determine whether you thrive or just survive as an adult: self-sufficiency, health, stress management, practical competence, and staying calm when everything goes sideways. This isn't motivational fluff. It's the stuff nobody taught you — and the stuff that makes people genuinely dependable.Chapters00:00 – Launching Into Adulthood: Essential Life Skills 13:56 – Health as the Foundation for Everything 26:53 – Managing Stress Without Falling Apart 45:03 – Practical Competence: Dependability in Real Life 59:29 – Calm in Chaos: How You Respond When It Gets HardKey TakeawaysOwning your space and habits is where dependability startsThe health habits you build in your 20s compound — for better or worseStress is inevitable; what separates people is how prepared they are to respondDependability isn't just a skill — it's a form of love and trustCalmness in chaos is rooted in preparation and trust in something bigger than the moment

  6. May 29

    Launch Well: 5 Foundations Every Young Adult Needs Before Adulthood (Relationships) | The YOU Not Me Podcast

    SummaryIn the second episode from this five-part series on launching well, Chris and Andrew explore the vital role of relationships in launching into adulthood successfully. They emphasize that true happiness and health are rooted in the quality of our connections, presence, and character, and offer practical insights on building meaningful relationships. Key Topics Harvard Study of Adult Development and relationshipsThe importance of presence and respect in relationshipsInfluence of friendships on personal growthEffective communication and hard conversationsDating, boundaries, and long-term commitmentFamily, service, and character developmentChapters 00:00 The Importance of Relationships in Adulthood 05:26 Intentionality in Relationships 11:05 Presence and Respect 16:53 Friendships and Influence 20:47 Communication and Confrontation 25:07 Role Modeling Hard Conversations 29:16 Navigating Dating and Boundaries 39:19 Family Dynamics and Service

  7. May 15

    Launch Well: 5 Foundations Every Young Adult Needs Before Adulthood (Character) | The YOU Not Me Podcast

    Summary In the first episode of this five-part series on launching well, Chris and Andrew discuss the principles of character that are essential for transitioning into adulthood. Ownership, integrity, discipline, emotional strength, and identity beyond performance serve as five pillars that provide practical insight for personal growth. Key Topics Ownership changes everything Choosing integrity over image Discipline over motivation Emotional strength and stability Identity beyond performance Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Launching Well 01:43 The Role of Character in Launching 04:10 Core Themes of Character 11:36 Ownership Changes Everything 17:41 Integrity Over Image 26:20 Discipline Over Motivation 34:08 Emotional Strength and Stability 40:19 Identity Beyond Performance Keywords character, personal development, leadership, discipline, integrity, emotional strength, ownership, growth mindset, college success

  8. May 1

    Curate Consistent Character: The Hidden Driver of Career Growth | The YOU Not Me Podcast

    Summary This episode explores the vital role of character in career growth, trust, and resilience through life's challenges. Chris and Andrew discuss how consistency, integrity, and faith serve as anchors during hard times, shaping true leadership and personal development. Takeaways Character is built one choice at a time, like a muscle.Trust is developed through consistent actions, not just big moments.Hard times reveal and strengthen true character.Faith and a strong anchor help navigate life's storms.Leadership is rooted in character, especially in adversity. Chapters 00:00 The Hidden Driver of Career Growth 10:43 Building Trust Through Character 18:30 The Role of Suffering in Personal Growth 31:08 Navigating Career Challenges with Character

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YOU Not Me transforms people, organizations, and teams by teaching one simple truth. People and relationships matter most. When you put others first, trust deepens, communication strengthens, and cultures are unlocked to achieve greater growth, stronger performance, and impact beyond what was ever imagined. Shift your mindset. Be the change. Live YOU, Not Me.

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  • Creator
    Chris Behrmann
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Chris Behrmann
  • Show Website
    The YOU Not Me Podcast