The Rewired Collective

Dr. David A Palmer
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The Rewired Collective brings parents, teachers, and school leaders together to build a unified approach to supporting emotional regulation in neurodivergent kids. Through trauma-informed insight and nervous system awareness, we help you shift from reactive cycles to resilient, connected relationships. rewiredcollective.substack.com

  1. Ep. 20. Why We Freeze When They Melt Down

    MAR 8

    Ep. 20. Why We Freeze When They Melt Down

    EPISODE 20: Why We Freeze When They Melt Down (And How to Rewire It) In this episode, we dive into the biology of parenting meltdowns, explaining why your first instinct is often to freeze, fix, or control. Learn how your child's dysregulation activates your own nervous system, and why your reaction is a pattern, not a failing. We break down the 6 E's Framework—Embrace, Engage, Enhance, Equip, Empower, Embody—to help you rewire your response and become the anchor your child needs. Masterclass & Resources: Rewire the Response Masterclass: Go deep into the science and strategy of breaking your default response cycle. Live training on March 21st for $9. Sign up here: https://www.drdavidapalmer.com/rewirewebinar Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    24 min

  2. FEB 22

    Ep. 18. Understanding Child Behavior Through Brain Science

    Rewire the Response: Understanding Child Behavior Through Brain Science In this episode, Dr. David dives into the neuroscience of children's behavior, explaining why traditional punishment-based approaches often fail, especially when kids are in survival mode. Learn how to better support children by understanding their brain states and adjusting your response accordingly. Key Topics: Challenging the conventional model of behavior as a choice and punishment as a solution The three parts of the brain: thinking, emotional, and survival (bottom-up model) How stress and threat levels influence a child's ability to regulate behavior The importance of regulation and connection before correction Practical steps for parents, teachers, and caregivers: assess brain state before responding The sequence: regulate, connect, then correct for lasting behavior change Upcoming workshop on survival mode and brain-based strategies Resources & Links: Dr. David A. Palmer - Follow on social media Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    9 min

  3. JAN 29

    Ep. 17. The Truth Behind Children's Lies

    In this episode, Dr. David Palmer discusses the detrimental effects of the interrogation method on trust between parents and children. He emphasizes that when children are cornered, they often resort to lying as a survival mechanism. Dr. Palmer introduces the C-A-L-M approach to create a safe environment for children to tell the truth, emphasizing empathy and understanding rather than punishment. He advocates for building a path to truth through co-regulation and emotional safety, ultimately aiming to foster honesty in the parent-child relationship. Make sure you secure your spot for the upcoming webinar mentioned in the podcast, Feb. 3rd, at 6:30 pm here: https://drdavidapalmer.com/truth-protocol Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    18 min

  4. JAN 23

    Ep. 16. The Truth About Neurodivergent Children's Lies

    Summary In this conversation, Dr. David discusses the complexities of children's lying behavior, particularly in neurodivergent children. He emphasizes that lying is not a moral failing but a safety response rooted in their nervous system's reaction to perceived threats. Dr. David advocates creating a safe environment where children feel secure enough to tell the truth rather than resort to deception. He introduces practical strategies for parents to foster honesty and connection, ultimately transforming the home's culture of trust. Secure your sanity at the Truth Protocol Webinar: https://drdavidapalmer.com/truth-protocol Follow Dr. David on Instagram: https://instagram.com/drdavidapalmer Subscribe to the Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@rewiretheresponsetv Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    14 min
  5. Ep. 15. The Shift: Understanding Innovation and Fortitude

    JAN 15

    Ep. 15. The Shift: Understanding Innovation and Fortitude

    In this conversation, the speakers delve into the themes of parenting, mental toughness, and the significance of innovation and fortitude in personal growth. They discuss the significance of celebrating small wins, the process of repairing relationships, and the value of vulnerability in parenting. The conversation emphasizes the need for community support and resources to facilitate transformation, highlighting the Shift Live Lab as a valuable tool for parents seeking to enhance their skills and understanding. Visit Davina's Website Here Join the Rewire Live Lab Here Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    25 min

  6. JAN 7

    Ep. 14. Transform Your Parenting with Anger Intelligence: Insights from Davina Hehn (part 1)

    In this episode of The Rewired Parent, the host welcomes Davina Hehn, a trained therapist turned mental health coach, to discuss the concept of anger intelligence and how parents can break cycles of behavior ingrained from their upbringing. They explore the importance of understanding anger as a signal rather than a problem, and how to use it as a catalyst for change and self-awareness. The conversation delves into the SHIFT framework, which stands for Self-awareness, Healing, Innovation, Fortitude, and Transformation, providing practical insights for parents to manage their emotions and improve their relationships with their children. Discover more about Davina: https://www.asteadyspace.com/Join Dr. David's upcoming Rewire Live Lab: https://drdavidapalmer.substack.com/subscribe Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    26 min
  7. Ep.13. The Audience Effect: Why You Can't Parent for Relatives

    12/18/2025

    Ep.13. The Audience Effect: Why You Can't Parent for Relatives

    Summary In this conversation, Dr. David discusses the challenges parents face when navigating the pressures of parenting in front of an audience, particularly during the holiday season. He introduces the concept of the 'audience effect' and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing child safety and emotional connection over external approval. Dr. David provides practical strategies for parents to manage their responses and support their neurodivergent children effectively, encouraging a shift in focus from audience judgment to understanding and empathy. Find the Trigger Decoder Checklist at https://drdavidapalmer.com/trigger Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    12 min

  8. 12/11/2025

    Ep.12. I Want It NOW!!!!

    Summary In this episode, Dr. David explores the behavior of whining in children, particularly during the holiday season. He discusses the underlying emotional and neurological factors that contribute to this behavior, emphasizing the importance of understanding and compassion in parenting. Dr. A provides insights on how to respond to whining with empathy while maintaining boundaries, and he encourages parents to view these moments as opportunities for growth and connection rather than as sources of frustration. Get full access to The Rewired Collective at rewiredcollective.substack.com/subscribe

    17 min
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The Rewired Collective brings parents, teachers, and school leaders together to build a unified approach to supporting emotional regulation in neurodivergent kids. Through trauma-informed insight and nervous system awareness, we help you shift from reactive cycles to resilient, connected relationships. rewiredcollective.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Dr. David A Palmer
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    19
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Dr. David A Palmer
  • Show Website
    The Rewired Collective