No BS Bishop

Bishop Randy Dean

Alive to love. All lesser values are BS.

  1. Sep 30

    Love in the Day of Insults and Slander

    Hey, hey, hey, all you beautiful people. Today I wanna talk to you about love in a day of name-calling, insults, labels, and slander. We're in a day and time when our political climate has escalated into exactly that, and there's no sweet way to put it. You can put ice cream on top of a manure pile, but it does the manure no good and it sure ruins the ice cream. Jesus promised his disciples one big challenge in life: love your enemies. Three words. Those words are offered to us to change us, not our enemies. Søren Kierkegaard said, "Once you label me, you negate me." And I wanna talk about being shadow-locked—when we look away from the human and look at the shadow, when we see a shadow and not a person. We're created for eye contact. Slow yourself down and look into the reality of what's casting the shadow. I learned as a father that as we speak, our children will speak. As leaders lead, followers follow. And right now we've got powerful people calling other people sleazebags and dirtbags in Senate hearings. Leaders, love people or get out of the way so some kind of lover can lead without insulting and slandering people. Lovers lead, leaders love. Love is the heavy lifting of the human condition. It's not perfection—you're not gonna do it in perfect ways every time—but you can progress and make a process of loving as you go forward. So come join me in a love revolution. To love our enemies, to love our neighbors, to love the least of these. Walk away from being shadow-locked. Look into the countenance, the eyes of somebody who is starving for love, and say those three magical, holy, marvelous, startling, unsettling words: "I love you." It's really, really hard to label somebody who just looked you in the eyes with sincerity and authenticity and said, "I love you." Oh, come on, people. Let's do something beautiful. Ugly is being done to death. Let's be the movement and the revolution of love. Hear me when I say to you, whoever you are, whatever you're doing while you're listening: Oh, baby girl, baby boy, I love you.

  2. Sep 23

    Love is Moral Courage

    Today we are cutting straight to the heart of what real integrity looks like: love is moral courage, and moral courage is love. In modern culture and fundamentalist religion, moral courage is too often twisted into an excuse for self righteous bullying. People climb up on existential pulpits to tell everyone else how to live just so they can feel comfortable. That is not courage; it is cowardice. True moral courage does not police other people. It has the strength to stand down from judgment, step away from codependency, and simply love. Jesus simplified the entire biblical narrative into one law: love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength, and love your neighbor as yourself. When you actually take that command seriously, it forces you to look under your own hood instead of tinkering with everyone else’s mechanics. Real courage requires an honest inner inventory that roots out personal insecurities, judgments, and the selfish urge to control. It means tending to your own porch, letting your neighbors live their lives, and meeting them with generous grace and deep mercy. Churches across America are losing people rapidly because institutions have traded unselfish love for self righteous arrogance. In an era dominated by political sides, tribal division, and demonizing the other, choosing unconditional love is the ultimate act of defiance. It is a steep mountain climb and a lifelong pilgrimage, but it is the only path that brings genuine spiritual life. True strength is found when we stop weaponizing faith and start seeing the face of Jesus in the least among us. In this episode, we recite Love’s Creed, meditate on the Lord’s Prayer, and practice a grounding breathwork exercise to settle into authentic presence. I also challenge all of us to practice the awkward, powerful discipline of looking someone in the eye and intentionally telling them, "I love you." The biggest mistake we make is thinking we have time. Let us stop giving energy to division and go into the world to do something beautiful, because ugly has been done to death.

  3. Sep 3

    Experience Love

    In this episode, I talk about how love is the most human thing we can explore, expect, and experience. Anne Lamott said you can either practice being right or practice being kind. I say you can practice being right or practice being a lover. That's the choice in front of us, and I believe we're born from love, to love, and for love. Nothing else meets our deepest yearning like love does. I tell you about meeting my grandmother Minnie B. Starnes as a seven year old boy. She wrapped me up and gave me an experience of love I've never forgotten. We're all crying out for that, whether we know it or not. Love has been vastly undervalued by religious clichés that say "we love everybody, but..." That "but" gets in the way. We're like thirsty elephants in a drought, sniffing the air for water. When love shows up, nothing stops us. I'm deeply suspicious of "tough love." It's often a bully's masquerade to harm and call it love. Real love is tough all by itself, tender and strong at the same time. And the opposite of love isn't hate, it's fear. Perfect love casts out fear, and when fear goes, hate has nowhere to stand. I'm here to be one voice calling us back to love's truest beauty. Today is the day to explore, expect, and experience love. We have no promise of tomorrow. I invite you to practice saying the three most magical words: I love you. It's awkward and life changing. Throw your trunk up in the air and find those cool waters of love. Love now. Love more. That's what we're here for.

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Alive to love. All lesser values are BS.