Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.

Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy
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Finding love after 50 isn't just possible—it can be the most exciting chapter of your life. Hosted by Dr. Lisa and her husband Tony, Saying Yes Again shares real conversations, personal stories, and practical advice for navigating dating, relationships, and self-discovery after divorce. From rebuilding confidence and embracing vulnerability to trying dating apps for the first time and blending families, we explore what it means to love—and live—fearlessly in midlife. Whether you're reentering the dating world, searching for companionship, or redefining what you want from love, this show gives you the insight, encouragement, and inspiration you need. Get ready for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and a few laughs along the way. Because saying "yes" again isn't just about finding the right partner—it's about saying yes to yourself, your joy, and your second chance at love.

  1. 2d ago

    Empowering Women to Trust Their Intuition After Divorce with Dr. Nicole Rochester

    In this episode, Dr. Nicole Rochester shares her transformational journey through divorce, healing, and rediscovering herself. She offers powerful insights on recognizing red flags, trusting intuition, and embracing second chances in love. Dr. Nicole Rochester is a mom, pediatrician, business owner, TEDx speaker, and the host of the Your nEXt Chapter Podcast. She ended a 28-year marriage and had to navigate heartbreak, betrayal, grief and loss. A recovering perfectionist and the proverbial "strong friend", Dr. Nicole experienced a transformational journey of healing by embracing vulnerability and discovering the power of her community. Rooted in her faith, Dr. Nicole is committed to creating safe spaces where high-achieving women who have experienced "divine disruptions" can heal, recover, and THRIVE as they write the next chapter of their lives!  key  topics Recognizing subtle signs of emotional abuse The importance of self-worth and self-love Trusting intuition and recognizing red flags The role of faith and community in healing Letting go of control and embracing divine timing The significance of unlearning limiting beliefs Steps to rebuild trust in oneself and others The impact of personal boundaries and honesty Navigating dating after divorce with intention The importance of self-care and joy in recovery Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nicole Rochester 01:43 Signs of a Troubled Marriage 05:32 Recognizing Emotional Abuse 09:31 Advice for Those Experiencing Betrayal 12:28 The Internal Struggle of Professional Women 15:43 The Turning Point in Dr. Nicole's Journey 19:58 God's Preparation for Change 22:43 Empowering Women Post-Betrayal 25:10 Breaking the Superwoman Myth 26:18 The Importance of Asking for Help 27:51 Trusting Yourself and Your Intuition 29:13 Dating with Intention 35:34 Embracing New Beginnings 36:06 Future Aspirations and Community Engagement Links and resources Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud - https://www.amazon.com/Necessary-Endings-Dr-Henry-Cloud/dp/1591457684 Your Next Chapter Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/your-next-chapter/id1471234567 Dr. Nicole Rochester - Social Media - https://www.instagram.com/yournextchapter_co/ Dr. Nicole Rochester - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/yournextchapter.co   Ready to start trusting yourself again and open your heart to love, live, and second chances, join our waitlist for the Love, Confidence and Connections 6-week coaching experience for the accomplished woman ready for the next chapter

    Empowering Women to Trust Their Intuition After Divorce with Dr. Nicole Rochester

  2. Jul 7

    Love, Luggage, and a Promise Ring: The Deltoro's Story of Second Chances

    Join us as Constance and William Del Toro share their incredible love story, which blossomed from a chance meeting at the airport into a thriving marriage. Discover how faith, timing, and boldness can create a fairy tale in midlife. Takeaways Be open to love at any age and trust divine timing Honest communication and setting clear intentions are key Self-healing and shadow work prepare you for love Support and partnership strengthen relationships Taking bold, intentional actions can change your life Sharing love stories can inspire others to believe in second chances Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a Magical Love Story 02:06 The Chance Meeting at the Airport 10:04 The First Date and Connection 14:26 The Bold Declaration of Love 19:33 The Proposal and Commitment 22:22 Overcoming Grief and Embracing New Love 23:24 Manifesting Love: The Power of Intentions 25:03 Embracing Authenticity in Relationships 26:32 Second Chances: Luck or Divine Intervention? 28:59 Recognizing the One: Moments of Connection 31:09 The Leap of Faith: Expressing True Feelings 32:35 Advice for Finding Love: Be Open and Engaging 34:05 Navigating Public Perception: Love in the Spotlight 37:49 Building Together: Love and Business Dynamics 40:31 Building a Trustworthy Team 41:12 Supporting a Partner's Ambitions 44:28 Finding Love Later in Life 47:55 Self-Reflection and Healing 48:54 Creating a Love Story: The Book 51:06 Future Plans and Expanding Horizons Del Toro Life - TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thedeltoro_life Del Toro Life - Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thedeltoro_life Del Toro Life Website - https://thedeltorolife.com Connect with Saying Yes Again: Get our newsletter packed with inspiration and tips on navigating your second chapter Watch our episodes on YouTube Subscribe to our podcast Follow us on Facebook SayingYesAgain TikTok

    Love, Luggage, and a Promise Ring: The Deltoro's Story of Second Chances

  3. Jul 1

    Embracing Love Again: Navigating Fear and Building Trust

    This episode dives deep into the reality of starting over in love after divorce, highlighting how fear, trust, and self-awareness play pivotal roles in second chances at love. Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy share their personal journey, insights on overcoming inner obstacles, and practical advice on saying yes to love again. 00:00 - Introduction: Love, fear, and second chances 02:23 - The concept of a 'life partner' versus marriage 03:49 - Overcoming fear to re-enter the dating scene 05:15 - Changing mindset about marriage and love 06:41 - Building trust and friendship after divorce 09:30 - Fear does not disappear with love 10:59 - Love doesn't heal all wounds but enhances the healing process 15:42 - The difference between loving and receiving love 16:12 - The challenge of accepting love from others 18:27 - Internal blocks to receiving love and vulnerability 20:48 - Letting go of the pursuit of certainty in relationships 22:13 - The importance of flexibility and realistic expectations 24:37 - The value of shared experiences and understanding surprises in relationship growth 26:57 - Overcoming fear with intentionality and openness 28:22 - How to connect with Dr. Lisa and Tony Goudy online 29:20 - Teasing upcoming episode: The viral love story of the Del Toro's 30:12 - Final thoughts: Love, life, and second chances Resources & Links: Saying Yes Again on Facebook Saying Yes Again on Instagram Saying Yes Again Website Watch on YouTube for the full video Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or iHeartRadio

    Embracing Love Again: Navigating Fear and Building Trust

  4. Jun 16

    Surviving Texting Drama: Stop Reading Between The Lines

    This episode explores how overanalyzing text messages can hinder dating, especially in midlife. Dr. Lisa and Tony share insights on overcoming fears, building trust, and embracing uncertainty to foster genuine connections. Chapters 00:00 The Texting Dilemma in Dating 02:57 Understanding Assumptions and Reactions 05:45 The Impact of Communication Styles 08:54 Overanalyzing Text Messages 11:43 The Role of Uncertainty in Relationships 15:02 Building Trust and Connection 17:50 Navigating Fear and Control in Dating 20:39 Practical Tips for Healthy Communication 23:56 The Journey to Trust and Certainty 26:46 Embracing Uncertainty in Relationships Saying Yes Again website Saying Yes Again FB Community  Watch the full video on YouTube

    Surviving Texting Drama: Stop Reading Between The Lines

  5. Jun 9

    The Truth About, 'I Don't Need Anybody'

    In this insightful conversation, Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the complex relationship between independence, vulnerability, and emotional connection post-divorce. They discuss how societal norms and personal fears influence our ability to form meaningful relationships and offers guidance on balancing independence with emotional openness. Takeaways Pretending not to need love can keep people stuck and numb. Many successful women are tired of disappointment and choose emotional self-protection. Men and women often develop emotional shells to avoid vulnerability. True independence is about freedom, not emotional detachment. Connection is vital for physical and mental health, especially in later life. Chapters 00:00 The Myth of Independence and Emotional Detachment 01:26 Why Successful Women Feel Tired of Trying 02:20 The Cost of Emotional Self-Protection 03:20 Men's Emotional Detachment Post-Divorce 04:20 The Danger of Emotional Shutdown 05:36 Sabotaging Healthy Love 06:36 The Difference Between Real and Fake Independence 08:03 Confusing Confidence with Emotional Detachment 09:34 Numbness vs. Peace 10:27 The Wall of Independence 12:17 Hyper Independence After Long-Term Relationships 14:20 Resisting Connection and Vulnerability 16:49 The Fear of Letting Love In 18:41 The Cost of Emotional Flatness 19:52 The Importance of Human Connection 20:59 Healing vs. Numbing 22:31 Join the Saying Yes Again Community   Saying Yes Again Community  Join our newsletter and visit our website

    The Truth About, 'I Don't Need Anybody'

  6. Jun 2

    When Dating Starts To Feel Like A Threat

    This episode explores the emotional challenges of dating after divorce, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, experience over performance, and reducing pressure to foster genuine connections. Dr. Lisa and Tony shares personal insights and practical advice for navigating modern dating with confidence and self-love. Key  topics The impact of social media on relationship expectations The importance of authenticity and being present during dates How to shift mindset from evaluation to experience Handling nervousness and guardedness in dating The significance of dating as an experience, not a test Chapters 00:00 The Illusion of Perfection in Dating 02:45 Navigating Emotional Barriers 05:57 Transforming Dates into Experiences 08:45 The Pressure of Expectations in Dating 11:56 Reframing Dating Mindsets 15:05 Finding Authentic Connections 17:45 Creating Opportunities for Genuine Interactions Saying Yes Again website to join our email list Watch the entire video on our YouTube channel  Join our Facebook Community

    When Dating Starts To Feel Like A Threat

  7. May 19

    Defensive Dating Is Destroying Your Love Life

    Dr. Lisa and Tony Exploring the emotional barriers and defensive dating habits of singles over 40 post-divorce, and how fear and trust impact new relationships. Takeaways Fear of vulnerability often drives emotional detachment in dating. Many singles over 40 wear armor to protect themselves from hurt. Healing involves trusting oneself and learning to manage fear. Defensive dating can prevent deep connections and true intimacy. Recognizing and addressing underlying fears is key to healthy relationships. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dating After Divorce 02:22 The Fear Behind Defensive Dating 03:44 Trusting Yourself Again 05:08 Cautious vs. Vulnerable Dating 06:28 The Impact of Fear on Dating Strategies Website - https://sayingyesagain.com

    Defensive Dating Is Destroying Your Love Life

  8. May 13

    Who Comes First- Your Spouse or Your Children?

    This episode tackles the emotionally charged topic of prioritizing your spouse versus your children in blended families and remarriages. Hosted by Dr. Lisa Herbert and Tony, it explores how to build a strong foundation, maintain healthy boundaries, and model love and respect for children and partners alike. Action  items: Prioritize your marriage to build a stable family foundation Create regular date nights to maintain connection Set healthy boundaries to protect your relationship Model love and respect for children through your actions Communicate openly with children about family dynamics Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Dilemma 01:26 The Emotional Complexity of Prioritizing Spouse vs. Children 03:58 Shifting Perspectives: From Children to Spouse 06:04 The Foundation of a Strong Marriage 09:21 Navigating Blended Families and Long-Term Partnerships 10:26 Common Pitfalls in Parenting Dynamics 12:31 Understanding Emotional Dependencies 17:23 The Importance of Inclusion in Blended Families 19:00 Challenges in Blended Family Dynamics 20:37 Strategies for Strengthening Marital Foundations 21:25 Practical Steps to Prioritize Marriage 24:15 The Balance of Parenting and Partnership 28:07 Conclusion: Modeling Healthy Relationships Saying Yes Again Website  Dr. Lisa's book Take Back Your Life: A Working Mom's Guide To Work-Life Balance  Order Here

    Who Comes First- Your Spouse or Your Children?
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Finding love after 50 isn't just possible—it can be the most exciting chapter of your life. Hosted by Dr. Lisa and her husband Tony, Saying Yes Again shares real conversations, personal stories, and practical advice for navigating dating, relationships, and self-discovery after divorce. From rebuilding confidence and embracing vulnerability to trying dating apps for the first time and blending families, we explore what it means to love—and live—fearlessly in midlife. Whether you're reentering the dating world, searching for companionship, or redefining what you want from love, this show gives you the insight, encouragement, and inspiration you need. Get ready for heartfelt discussions, expert tips, and a few laughs along the way. Because saying "yes" again isn't just about finding the right partner—it's about saying yes to yourself, your joy, and your second chance at love.

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