Chiseled - We're all a work in progress - with Rob Commodari

Robert Commodari

The Chiseled podcast, hosted by Rob Commodari, is a biweekly show dedicated to fostering personal growth and self-awareness. Through candid conversations with guests from diverse backgrounds—including entrepreneurs, spiritual leaders, and individuals who have overcome significant challenges—Rob explores how life's experiences shape us into the people we are meant to be. The podcast emphasizes that we are all works in progress, continually being "chiseled" by our experiences to live our fullest lives. Launched in 2021, Chiseled delves into themes such as resilience, transformation, faith, and the pursuit of purpose. Rob's approach is deeply personal and spiritually grounded, often reflecting on how divine guidance influences our journeys. Each episode offers listeners insights and inspiration to embrace their own paths of growth and self-discovery.

  1. 2d ago

    Chiseled Ep 53 - The One Thing You Must Have to Survive Cancer | Noelle Banks

    Noelle Banks knew when she was 12 years old the life she was going to lead. Attending a non-denominational church for the first time in her family's adopted town outside Atlanta, Ga., she found herself in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. She also found a community of people that would model her lifelong relationships. It certainly came in handy in 2017, when Noelle found herself facing a breast cancer diagnosis, which resulted in a bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction. "I've always been very intentional about who I surround myself with and I think it has made a huge difference in my life," she said. The people who stepped up for Noelle in her time of distress included not only fellow congregants and friends but also strangers among the membership of Buffini and Company, the coaching company for real estate agents that she had joined in 2004. "We are designed to be around people and it's really important who you choose to surround yourself with on a consistent basis, which is one of the reasons why I so very much value our White Hat community in Buffini and Company," she said. Brian Buffini's podcast also ended up having a big role to play in her recovery. In this episode of Chiseled, Noelle shares the story of her evolution toward Jesus, her surprise diagnosis, and the support she received from the Buffini community. Full episodes of Chiseled are released every other Saturday at 8:00 a.m. ET. Chiseled is the podcast to help you create awareness in your life to become the person you were created to be. Through the personal experiences of host Rob Commodari and his guests, listeners gain insights into how they are continually being chiseled away to live their fullest life. We are all a work in progress!

  2. 5d ago

    Chiseled Ep 138 - The Secret Isn't Talent. It's Curiosity - Ron Tite

    Ron Tite is funny. The standup comedian-turned-business-consultant-turned-bestselling-author is, as they say in show business, a natural. He will have you laughing throughout this week's episode of Chiseled. Ron's disarming charm is due not only to his comedic instincts but also his endless interest with the unknown. Growing up poor, he was surrounded by people who told him he just had to find work. But Ron was too curious to get a blue-collar job. As a kid intrigued by the craft of comedy, he took risks early, starting with telling Bill Cosby-style stories at his high school in Oshawa, Ontario.   "I wanted to experience what it was like to deliver something in front of a crowd," he said.  Ron headed off to college without much more than a dime in his pocket, an interest in sports, and the desire to make people laugh. He had no idea the opportunities that lay in wait. "Like everybody in this field, I did a phys ed degree," he joked of his early ambitions. "I didn't know there were careers. ... If somebody would have told me, 'I am a writer,' I would have been like, 'Get out of here, nobody's a writer.'" Ron's insatiable appetite for discovery and his exposure to people outside his bubble opened his eyes to boundless possibilities. He went with them, first by getting a job in the business school at his university, then moving into program management before learning how to build websites at the dawn of the Internet. He was poached by the company he hired to design his business school's website, started consulting with them, and then got picked up by the advertising company that partnered with the website company. He eventually went out on his own, in many different directions, on- and off-stage. "There was no plan, there was no path, there was no journey. Just being open to new experiences and being curious about it along the way is what landed me in this position," he said. Ron has gone from a successful standup career to a creative director in advertising to the owner of a strategic consulting firm for global brands. His clients have included Walmart, Google, Kraft, Volvo, and Intel, to name a few. Whether using art, comedy, artificial intelligence, or something else, Ron says he is all-in on learning new ways of doing things. "It's not enough to be curious about it. You need to explore it and embrace it," he said of emerging technology and processes. Everything Ron does — even the tormented telling of a joke gone flat — is fascinating to him, he says. I think you'll find Ron's perspective and comedic flare fascinating too, so let's go get Chiseled.

  3. Jul 18

    Chiseled Ep 136 - Living LIfe on His terms -Christopher Fusco

    OK, bias alert: This week's guest is my cousin, 31-year-old Chris Fusco, who owns Summit Fitness and Performance and is founder of the All-Mountain Athlete Project. I admit I'm living vicariously through Chris. I've often thought of living off the land, so to speak, but that ship has sailed for me. For Chris, he's living on his own terms with no regrets. See, Chris is a professional nomad. He splits his time between his home base in Salida, Colorado, and living six months a year out of his Subaru Outback. Granted, he's not foraging for berries or eating what he traps. The Subaru is decked out with a bed platform, a refrigerator, and a Starlink satellite mounted on the roof so he can work online wherever he is. A big battery powers it all. "I can eat really well. I can do work. I can sleep well and I can just go. It's great; it's super fun," he said. Chris is living his dream after being burned out and physically exhausted. The fade started happening even before COVID hit in 2020. At the time, Chris was doing in-person training at a Maryland gym where individuals come for physical therapy. He was crushing his own workouts but feeling drained. As a mountain biker and avid snowboarder, he was tired of being stuck indoors and doing the same routine day after day. When everyone was ordered home, the gym business went south. Chris, on the other hand, went west, staying with a friend's family in Denver before venturing into the great unknown.   While meandering through Utah, he found that the unknown was filled with travelers just like him — people making their way through the country with everything they owned strapped to their cars. "I met a whole bunch of van lifers," he said. "Some people who have just, like, seasonal jobs, some people who own businesses, who have companies. Whatever. All of the different things living in all different kinds of vehicles." Joining a caravan, Chris made his way to Salida, where he decamped first at an eco-village and later in a cabin. He has been pursuing this lifestyle ever since. With a background in physical therapy and a need to earn income, Chris launched the All-Mountain Athlete Project to train individuals — from weekend warriors and 80-year-old grandpas with hip replacements to professional athletes — how to create a physical routine that maximizes activity while minimizing side effects. He helps people "crush mountain sports without burnout." Chris calls his training program the "minimal effective dose" for performing at peak without causing fatigue or feeling like a "kicked-in trash can." Chris's coaching program trains people so they can get outdoors, not stuck in a gym. It may not be for everyone, but for those with wandering souls, it may be the system they need to commune with nature — in a hardcore, workout kind of way — and feel great the next day. I couldn't be prouder of Chris, who shares his journey on this week's episode of Chiseled. Feel free to listen while you're trekking through the wilderness on your own journey this weekend. Enjoy.

  4. Jul 4

    Chiseled Ep 135 - Fast and Hard_ From Addictions to Redemption - Matt Tyner Sr_

    Matt Tyner Sr. grew up a "normal kid in Smalltown U.S.A." In his hometown of Decatur, Illinois, he learned about sports the old-fashioned way, attending local games. But in 1974, while watching ABC's Wide World of Sports, he saw University of Miami play in the College World Series and he knew that's where he wanted to go.  ​ "Since I was in fourth grade, I decided that I either wanted to be a professional baseball player or the president of the United States, and I didn't think I was going to make that second one happen," he said. ​ He and his best friend decided they wanted to go to college together, so they flipped a coin: heads, University of Miami, and tails, Arizona State. Heads it was.  Through a series of good fortunes, Matt became a walk-on at the University of Miami and when a buddy got sick, he filled in. His star was born. He went three times to the College World Series and in his senior year was a ninth-round draft pick by the Baltimore Orioles.  ​ But having grown up with an alcoholic mother and living the life of a star athlete in Miami in the 1970s, Matt developed a pretty severe alcohol and cocaine problem. He became a hard-core addict.  ​ "That drug would grab me and never let go," he said. "I would carry that with me for 28 years." ​ In 2001, Matt quit drugs and alcohol cold turkey, but he didn't get into a program. His physical body was cleaning up, but his mental state was not improving. After an unfortunate and highly public encounter with his estranged wife in 2003, he met someone who to this day is his sponsor at Alcoholics Anonymous. ​ "God puts people in your path," he said. "There are angels strewn all throughout my path." ​ In recovery and over the years, Matt reunited with his wife and reconciled with his children. He got a job as a coach for the Towson University Tigers baseball team, which he just officially retired from four days ago, on July 1. He found a spiritual path through AA and rediscovered his faith in Jesus. He has written a book, "Fast and Hard: From Addiction to Redemption," and plans to take his testimony on the road to speak to young athletes about staying focused on the bigger picture and not losing themselves in the enticements offered by college and pro sports. ​ "It's fast. There's a lot of fun. There's a lot but at what cost? What was the cost? That is the underlying theme on everything I speak on," Matt said. ​ As a sponsor, coach, and communicator, Matt shares entertaining stories of his youth, the Miami college sports scene, and the way forward after living the fast life. I am sure you will be entertained if not learn some of the benefits of joining a program to overcome addiction. So, tune in to this week's episode of Chiseled, and I hope you have a great day celebrating America's 250th founding! Happy Independence Day.

  5. Jun 6

    Chiseled Ep 133 - The Power of Your Thinking - Adam Buttorff

    There's an adage that says when people reveal themselves to you, believe them. I like to add an adjunct to that: when someone tells you who he is trying to become, support him. When Adam Buttorff describes himself as a "heathen," a "SOB," and "depraved," I know he's talking about someone he was. When I hear him describe his love for God and commitment to Christianity, I encourage it. It's no surprise Adam clings to the Lord. He has been tried in his personal and professional life. As a husband, he lost the love of his life — his wife and the mother of his children — to glioblastoma. As an investor before the 2008 market crash, he was nearly wiped out. But rather than rejecting God, he sought His embrace. "I was really angry with God, but I was also very thankful to God because I felt like he just helped me and brought people around me," he said. "I never for once felt godforsaken." After his wife's death, Adam started using his relationship with God to help others. He's now a business coach, trainer, author, and public speaker who imbues his Christianity into the services he provides. With fewer years ahead of him than behind him, as he says, he is still deep in real estate investment, but he's not wildly swinging for the fences as he did. Instead, he's a "steady Eddie." That stability has not only let him focus on raising his children to the young men they've become, but also it has helped him teach others how to make every day a gift and "turn a setback into a comeback." Adam acknowledges that just as it wasn't easy for him, it can be equally hard for others. "People love the results of growth, they just don't like to go through growth," he said. In this week's episode of Chiseled, Adam shares his faith journey and how it informs his every action, decision, and suggestion. For me, I believe the person he is becoming is exactly who he is meant to be. I hope you enjoy his story.

  6. Jun 1

    Chiseled Ep 54 - The Winston Project - Cindy Aronstam

    Lots of people love their pets, but few turn the loss oftheir dog into a life mission. But that's what Cindy Aronstam did after herbeloved English bulldog Winston passed away. Cindy, a real estate agent in San Diego, hadalways been a dog lover. Her parents had a dog before she was born. She grew upwith them. When she got her first dog of her own, she picked an English bulldogwhom she named Winston. Winston lived well beyond the 8–10-year lifespanof most bulldogs to almost 14 years old. His passing was so sorrowful to Cindythat she would take walks with her husband and stand behind him so that shewould be protected from seeing other people's pets. Two days after her beloved bulldog Winston passed,Cindy spotted a golden retriever with a gray beard and soulful eyes. She pulledaway from her husband Jim and asked the owner if she could pet the animal. Asshe bent down to touch the dog, the owner told her, "This isWinston." And she knew that the loss of her pup wouldn't be in vain. Fast forward and Cindy and Jim now have Harry, a"foster fail" that they were supposed to temporarily care for untilhe found a home. Turned out that Harry already was home, and Cindy foundrenewed purpose in helping not only her new pup, but all dogs. Soon after, Cindy and Jim started The WinstonProject, which aims to raise funds for shelters and rescues so they can do thework of saving animals. She says, hopefully, one day, the need for shelterswill be eliminated altogether. If you haven't heard the story of how my familygot our current dog, I share it in this week's episode of Chiseled. If you're adog lover, this episode with Cindy may well bring you to happy or sad tears,but it's a joyous and purposeful journey.  Cindy and Jim's Winston Project, which is now officiallya 501 c(3) nonprofit, is had its first annual gala in San Diego on June 8,2023. You'll probably feel the urge to donate after hearing Cindy describe her relationship with Winston, the WinstonProject's goals, and her passion for saving animals. You can find more about the gala and the WinstonProject on Cindy's website as well as on Facebook and Instagram. And if you're looking for Cindy for real estatein the San Diego market, you only need to look up "the bulldog realtor." Appropriate, don't you think?

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The Chiseled podcast, hosted by Rob Commodari, is a biweekly show dedicated to fostering personal growth and self-awareness. Through candid conversations with guests from diverse backgrounds—including entrepreneurs, spiritual leaders, and individuals who have overcome significant challenges—Rob explores how life's experiences shape us into the people we are meant to be. The podcast emphasizes that we are all works in progress, continually being "chiseled" by our experiences to live our fullest lives. Launched in 2021, Chiseled delves into themes such as resilience, transformation, faith, and the pursuit of purpose. Rob's approach is deeply personal and spiritually grounded, often reflecting on how divine guidance influences our journeys. Each episode offers listeners insights and inspiration to embrace their own paths of growth and self-discovery.