Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, Bleav

”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles life’s challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that it’s okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity.

  1. Shannon Salge on Burnout, Gut Health, and Healing Beyond Symptom-Chasing

    22H AGO

    Shannon Salge on Burnout, Gut Health, and Healing Beyond Symptom-Chasing

    What happens when your body completely breaks down—and no one can tell you why? In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Shannon Salge to talk about burnout, chronic illness, and the deeper emotional roots of healing that most people never address. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You can do everything ‘right’ and still feel broken—until you start healing what’s underneath.” — Shannon Salge Vote for Us — Women Podcasters Awards We’ve been nominated in the 2026 Women Podcasters Awards in the Mindset & Mental Health category—and this one means everything. What started as real, unfiltered conversations has grown into a space where people feel seen, heard, and a little less alone. Vote here: https://www.womenpodcasters.com/awards-voting Voting is open through April 30th at 6 PM PST One vote per person/email Thank you for being part of this journey. A Quick Word From Our Sponsor — Cozy Earth This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth—and honestly, this one hits home. We talk a lot about burnout, anxiety, and carrying way too much for way too long. Cozy Earth is about bringing comfort back into those quiet, in-between moments—the ones where you finally get to exhale. Their robes and slippers are soft, intentional, and made to support real life. Think about the women in your life—the ones who give endlessly. When was the last time they got that same level of care back? Head to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code OURHEADS for 20% off. Because the people who give the most deserve to feel taken care of, too. Episode Description Shannon Salge thought she was doing everything right—eating clean, working out, pushing through, and showing up at the highest level. Until her body completely shut down. In this honest and powerful conversation, Shannon joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to discuss what really happens when burnout, chronic stress, and unresolved emotional patterns manifest as physical symptoms. After years of being dismissed, misdiagnosed, and gaslit by doctors, Shannon was eventually diagnosed with an autoimmune condition—but that diagnosis didn’t explain everything. What she uncovered next changed the way she sees health entirely. This episode challenges the idea that healing is just about fixing symptoms. Shannon breaks down how gut issues, hormone imbalances, fatigue, and chronic pain are often tied to deeper stress patterns, nervous system dysregulation, and emotional suppression. She shares that learning to slow down, set boundaries, and listen to her body was the turning point in her recovery. You’ll also hear about alternative approaches like bioresonance testing and functional labs, and why advocating for yourself within the medical system is non-negotiable. If you’ve ever been told “everything looks normal” but you know something isn’t right—this conversation is for you. Keywords: Shannon Salge, burnout recovery, gut health, autoimmune disease, mental health, chronic stress, nervous system healing, women’s wellness, hormone imbalance, emotional healing, functional nutrition, root cause healing, fatigue recovery, health advocacy, holistic healing Meet Our Guest — Shannon Salge Shannon Salge is the founder and CEO of The Wellness Paradigm, a virtual practice helping women move beyond symptom-chasing and heal at the root. As a functional nutritionist, metabolism and hormone expert, and autoimmune warrior, she blends science-backed testing with emotional and energetic healing to help women restore their health, energy, and resilience. Website: https://www.thewellnessparadigm.com Podcast: https://thewellnessparadigmpodcast.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannon.salge/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannon.salge/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannon-salge Brand Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_wellness_paradigm/ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-wellness-paradigm/id1809268079 Key Takeaways Burnout and chronic illness often start long before symptoms show up in labs Mental health and physical health are deeply connected—not separate issues Treating symptoms without addressing root causes keeps you stuck Nervous system regulation is a critical piece of long-term healing Advocating for yourself in the medical system can change everything There is no one-size-fits-all approach—alignment matters in healing   Actionable Items Pay attention to patterns: when do your symptoms flare, and what’s happening in your life at that time? Set one boundary this week that protects your energy or reduces stress If something feels off in your body, trust that instinct and seek another perspective   Important Chapters 00:00 – Introduction and why mental health is part of total wellness The hosts set the stage for a deeper conversation about the connection between mental and physical health. 05:00 – Shannon’s breaking point: from athlete to autoimmune diagnosis Shannon shares how her high-performance lifestyle led to a complete physical collapse. 15:00 – Being dismissed by doctors and learning to advocate for yourself A candid discussion on medical gaslighting and the importance of pushing for answers. 25:00 – The connection between stress, emotions, and physical illness How unresolved emotional stress can manifest as physical symptoms. 35:00 – Discovering nervous system healing and setting boundaries The moment Shannon realized stress and overworking were major contributors to her illness. 45:00 – Alternative healing methods and finding what works for you Exploring bioresonance, functional medicine, and non-traditional healing approaches. 55:00 – Final thoughts: healing is possible, and you are not stuck A powerful reminder that change is possible—even after years of feeling unwell.   Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #BurnoutRecovery #GutHealthHealing #WomensWellness #HormoneHealth #ChronicIllnessSupport #NervousSystemHealing #RootCauseHealing #AutoimmuneAwareness #FunctionalNutrition #StressAndHealth #HealingJourney #HolisticHealth #HealthAdvocacy *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    54 min
  2. The War Inside You: Why You Still Miss Them After Covert Narcissistic Abuse (IFS Explained)

    5D AGO ·  BONUS

    The War Inside You: Why You Still Miss Them After Covert Narcissistic Abuse (IFS Explained)

    This week, we’re doing something a little different. As part of a special episode swap, we’re sharing a powerful episode from Renee Swanson of The Covert Narcissism Podcast—and this one is going to hit you right in the heart. Mental Health Quote “It’s not confusion—it’s communication. Different parts of you are trying to be heard.” — Renee Swanson Episode Description This episode is different—and intentionally so. We’re bringing you a raw and deeply validating conversation from Renee Swanson, host of The Covert Narcissism Podcast, as part of a special episode swap. And if you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I still miss someone who hurt me?”—this is for you. Renee breaks down the internal war so many survivors of covert narcissistic abuse experience. That push-and-pull between what you know is true and what you still feel isn’t weakness—it’s your internal system trying to protect you. Using the Internal Family Systems (IFS) framework, she explains how different parts of you—like the “firefighter” that urges you to reconnect and the deeper “exile” carrying pain—are working overtime to keep you safe, even when it feels confusing or overwhelming. This episode isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about understanding yourself. It’s about learning to sit with what’s coming up instead of judging it—and realizing that healing happens when you start listening inward instead of fighting yourself. If this episode resonated with you, I highly recommend checking out Renee Swanson and her Covert Narcissism Podcast. Her work goes so much deeper into understanding these patterns and helping you reconnect with yourself in a way that actually creates change—not just more awareness. You can find her podcast wherever you’re listening right now. I’ll link her podcast and coaching in the show notes, so you can easily find her. Keywords: covert narcissism, narcissistic abuse recovery, emotional abuse healing, trauma bonding, internal family systems, IFS therapy, toxic relationships, emotional healing, self-awareness, trauma recovery, attachment wounds, healing journey, self-trust Meet the Host of The Covert Narcissism Podcast — Renee Swanson Renee Swanson is the host of The Covert Narcissism Podcast and a coach dedicated to helping people make sense of emotionally abusive and confusing relationship dynamics. Through her work, she offers grounded, compassionate guidance to help listeners untangle internal conflict, rebuild self-trust, and reconnect with who they are after covert narcissistic experiences. Podcast: https://bleav.com/shows/the-covert-narcissism-podcast/ Coaching: https://www.covertnarcissism.com/ Key Takeaways Missing someone who hurt you is a normal part of trauma and attachment Internal conflict is not weakness—it’s different parts of you communicating “Firefighter” parts act urgently to protect you from deeper emotional pain Healing begins when you stop judging your feelings and start listening to them You don’t need to rush your healing—awareness is progress Actionable Items Pause when you feel the urge to reconnect and ask: what part of me is speaking right now? Try Renee’s 6-step IFS process: find, focus, flesh, feel, befriend, fear Practice responding to your emotions with curiosity instead of judgment References Mentioned The Covert Narcissism Podcast: https://bleav.com/shows/the-covert-narcissism-podcast/ Coaching with Renee Swanson: https://www.covertnarcissism.com/ Important Chapters 00:00 – Why you can still miss someone who hurt you 05:00 – Understanding internal conflict after narcissistic abuse 12:00 – Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS) 25:00 – Firefighters, managers, and exiles explained 40:00 – The 6-step process for navigating emotional triggers 55:00 – Building self-trust and ending the internal war Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more powerful conversations like this from Renee Swanson and The Covert Narcissism Podcast. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #CovertNarcissism #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaHealing #IFStherapy #EmotionalHealing #ToxicRelationships #SelfAwarenessJourney #HealingAfterAbuse #AttachmentHealing #InnerWork #SelfTrust *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    26 min
  3. Justin Goodman on Suicide Prevention, Bipolar Disorder & Workplace Mental Health

    APR 7

    Justin Goodman on Suicide Prevention, Bipolar Disorder & Workplace Mental Health

    What happens when someone risks their friendship to save your life? In this powerful conversation, Justin Goodman sits down with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to share how surviving addiction, bipolar disorder, and a suicide attempt led him to change how we show up for each other—especially at work. Trigger Notice This episode includes discussions of suicide, addiction, and mental health crises. If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. Call or text 988 (U.S. Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) Find global support: https://findahelpline.com Awards & Downloads Line Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 4x award-winning podcast — including the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award (Best Mental Health Podcast), and the 2026 NYC Podcast Awards Audience Choice Award (Best Hosts) — with over 4.5 million downloads and counting. Vote for Us — Women Podcasters Awards I’m incredibly proud to share that we have been nominated in the 2026 Women Podcasters Awards in the Mindset & Mental Health category. This recognition means more than words can capture. What started as honest, sometimes messy conversations has grown into something bigger—a space where people feel seen, heard, and a little less alone. Now we have a chance to grow that impact even further, and your support would mean everything. Vote here: https://www.womenpodcasters.com/awards-voting Voting is open now through April 30th at 6PM PST Voting is simple: • Click the link • Select the vote button • Complete the form Please note: only one vote per person and email address is allowed, and duplicate submissions will not be counted. Thank you for being part of this journey—whether you’ve listened, shared, or supported in any way. A Quick Word From Our Sponsor — Cozy Earth This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth—and honestly, this one hits home. We talk a lot on this show about burnout, anxiety, and carrying way too much for way too long. Cozy Earth is about bringing comfort back into those quiet, in-between moments—the ones where you finally get to exhale. Their robes and slippers are designed to feel like a deep breath at the end of a long day—soft, intentional, and made to support real life. Think about the women in your life—the ones who give endlessly. When was the last time they got that same level of care back? This is your reminder: comfort matters. And you deserve it, too. Head to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code OURHEADS for 20% off. Because the people who give the most should feel taken care of, too. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You can’t save everybody—and it’s not your job to carry their pain, only to help them through it.” — Justin Goodman Episode Description Justin Goodman’s story is one of those that stays with you. Not because it’s polished—but because it’s real. From being bullied as a kid to living with chronic pain and developing an addiction to painkillers, Justin found himself in a place where he didn’t want to be anymore. What changed everything wasn’t a grand plan—it was one person paying attention and stepping in at the exact right moment. In this conversation, Justin opens up about being misdiagnosed for years before finally learning he was living with bipolar disorder. He talks about how the wrong medication made things worse, how hard it was to find stability, and what it actually took to rebuild his life from the inside out. But what makes this episode hit differently is what Justin chose to do with that experience. Through Project 55, he’s helping everyday people learn to recognize when someone is struggling, have real conversations, and step in before things reach a breaking point. Because the truth is, most people don’t get help when they need it. And most workplaces still don’t know how to respond when someone is clearly not okay. This episode is a reminder that you don’t need to be a therapist to make a difference. Sometimes, you just need to notice—and care enough to act. Keywords: Justin Goodman, suicide prevention, bipolar disorder, workplace mental health, addiction recovery, mental health awareness, Project 55, depression, crisis support, employee wellbeing, burnout, anxiety, leadership, stigma, emotional wellness Meet Our Guest — Justin Goodman Justin Goodman is an entrepreneur and mental health advocate, and the founder of Project 55, a nonprofit focused on improving workplace mental health outcomes. After surviving addiction, a suicide attempt, and years of misdiagnosed mental health challenges, Justin now helps people learn how to recognize and respond to mental health struggles before they escalate. Connect with Justin: Website: https://project55.org LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/project55/ Key Takeaways Most people struggling with mental health never get help—and that gap is bigger than we think You don’t have to be a professional to support someone who’s hurting Misdiagnosis can delay healing, but the right tools can change everything Workplaces often miss the signs because no one is trained to look Feeling seen and valued can interrupt even the darkest thoughts   Actionable Items Check in on someone who feels “off” instead of assuming they’re fine Practice asking direct, compassionate questions—even if it feels uncomfortable Identify one person in your life you can be honest with when things get heavy   References Mentioned Project 55: https://project55.org 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org Global Crisis Support: https://findahelpline.com   Important Chapters 00:01:00 – Justin’s career path and how he found purpose in mental health advocacy 00:02:30 – Chronic pain, addiction, and reaching a breaking point 00:03:40 – The intervention that saved his life 00:05:00 – Bipolar diagnosis and the impact of getting it wrong first 00:07:00 – Why workplaces struggle to support mental health 00:10:00 – The E.A.G.E.R. framework and how to help someone in crisis 00:20:00 – The truth about not being able to save everyone 00:31:00 – Daily habits that help Justin stay grounded   Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more real, honest conversations. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #SuicidePrevention #BipolarDisorder #WorkplaceMentalHealth #AddictionRecovery #EndTheStigma #MentalHealthSupport #LeadershipMatters #EmotionalWellness #BurnoutRecovery #CrisisSupport #Project55 #JustinGoodman #GLDNPR *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    36 min
  4. Nicole Explains the Toxic Shame Cycle (And How to Finally Break Free)

    MAR 31

    Nicole Explains the Toxic Shame Cycle (And How to Finally Break Free)

    What if the voice in your head telling you you’re not enough… isn’t actually the truth? In this powerful episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with therapist Nicole Penrod to unpack the toxic shame cycle, perfectionism, and what it really takes to come back to yourself—and finally feel like you’re enough without having to prove it. A Quick Word From Our Sponsor — Cozy Earth This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth—and honestly, this one hits home. We talk a lot on this show about burnout, anxiety, and carrying way too much for way too long. Cozy Earth is about bringing comfort back into those quiet, in-between moments—the ones where you finally get to exhale. Their robes and slippers are designed to feel like a deep breath at the end of a long day… soft, intentional, and made to support real life. Think about the women in your life—the ones who give endlessly. When was the last time they got that same level of care back? This is your reminder: comfort matters. And you deserve it, too. Head to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code OURHEADS for 20% off. Because the people who give the most should feel taken care of, too. Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 4x award-winning podcast — including the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award (Best Mental Health Podcast), and the 2026 NYC Podcast Awards Audience Choice Award (Best Hosts) — with over 4.5 million downloads and counting. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You’re allowed to be a work in progress without being a problem to fix.” — Nicole Penrod Episode Description Why do so many of us feel stuck between “I’m not enough” and “I need to be perfect”? In this deeply honest and eye-opening conversation, therapist Nicole Penrod breaks down the toxic shame cycle—a pattern that keeps us bouncing between self-criticism and impossible expectations. Nicole shares her personal journey through depression, eating disorder recovery, and undiagnosed ADHD, revealing how even the most driven and capable people can feel like they’re constantly falling short. Together with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, they unpack how perfectionism, fear of rejection, and the pressure to “do it all” can disconnect us from our real selves. But this episode isn’t just about awareness—it’s about change. Nicole offers practical ways to recognize when you’re stuck in a cycle, set realistic goals that actually work, and celebrate small wins as one of the most powerful mental health tools you have. They also dive into boundaries, self-respect, and the uncomfortable truth that growth sometimes means people won’t always see you as the “nice” one anymore. If you’ve ever felt like you’re either failing or trying to be everything at once, this episode will hit—and help you find your way back to center. Keywords: toxic shame cycle, perfectionism, anxiety, depression, ADHD, self-worth, emotional healing, therapy tools, boundaries, mental health podcast, self-acceptance, rejection, personal growth, coping strategies Meet Our Guest — Nicole Penrod Nicole Penrod is a licensed marriage and family therapist based in California, specializing in relationships, anxiety, and nontraditional partnerships, including ethical non-monogamy. She works with individuals and couples to deepen self-awareness, improve communication, and navigate complex emotional patterns with clarity and compassion. Nicole is also a creative writer, bringing storytelling and humanity into her work—helping people feel seen, understood, and less alone in their mental health journeys. Website: https://nicolepenrodmft.com/about/ Practice: https://relationshipcenter.com Key Takeaways The toxic shame cycle keeps you stuck between “I’m not enough” and “I must be perfect.” You’re not broken—you’re responding to unrealistic expectations Small, realistic goals are more powerful than overwhelming, perfect plans Celebrating wins (even tiny ones) builds real confidence over time Boundaries can feel uncomfortable—but they create self-respect You don’t have to save the world to make a meaningful impact   Actionable Items Start a daily “wins list” and include even the smallest accomplishments Ask yourself: “What is realistic for me today?” before setting goals Notice all-or-nothing thinking and gently bring yourself back to the middle   Important Chapters 00:01:30 – Meet Nicole: therapist, writer, and creative thinker 00:10:30 – Mental health journey: depression, eating disorder recovery, ADHD 00:24:00 – Navigating fear, overwhelm, and today’s world 00:29:50 – The toxic shame cycle explained 00:34:30 – How to break the cycle with realistic goals 00:48:00 – Boundaries and letting go of being “too nice.” 00:52:00 – Rapid fire: anxiety theme song, favorite word, and more Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #ToxicShameCycle #PerfectionismRecovery #AnxietyHealing #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellness #TherapyTools #ADHDAwareness #HealingJourney #BoundariesMatter #SelfAcceptance #MentalHealthSupport *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    55 min
  5. Kate King on Toxic Relationships, Healing, and How to Mend or Move On

    MAR 24

    Kate King on Toxic Relationships, Healing, and How to Mend or Move On

    What if the hardest relationship you have to walk away from is the one you thought would heal you? In this powerful Season 17 opener, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with returning guest Kate King to unpack toxic relationship patterns, emotional healing, and how to finally choose yourself. Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads has over 4.5 million downloads and counting, we are listened to all over the world, and we are an award-winning podcast. 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) 2026 NYC Podcast Award Winner (Best Hosts) Feedback Link We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You don’t have to keep abandoning yourself just to keep a relationship alive.” — Kate King Episode Description Relationships can shape us—but they can also slowly break us if we’re not paying attention. In this deeply honest and eye-opening conversation, Kate King returns to the mic to talk about the patterns, blind spots, and emotional traps that keep people stuck in relationships that hurt more than they heal. Drawing on over 17 years of experience in mental health, art therapy, and coaching, Kate shares the inspiration behind her book, Mend or Move On, and walks us through the subtle ways we normalize dysfunction. From ignoring red flags to confusing chemistry with compatibility, this episode pulls back the curtain on why leaving isn’t always as simple as it sounds. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles keep it real as they explore the emotional tug-of-war between staying and going, how trauma and nervous system responses play into our relationship choices, and what it actually looks like to rebuild self-trust. Kate brings a grounded, compassionate approach—blending neuroscience, creativity, and practical tools—to help listeners reconnect with themselves and start making empowered decisions. If you’ve ever questioned your worth in a relationship, felt stuck in cycles you can’t explain, or wondered if it’s time to walk away, this episode will hit home—and help you find your next step forward. Keywords: toxic relationships, emotional healing, mental health podcast, relationship trauma, self-worth, boundaries, nervous system healing, leaving toxic relationships, codependency, relationship red flags, healing journey, self-awareness, personal growth, trauma recovery Meet Our Guest — Kate King Kate King is the founder of The Radiant Life Project, a Radiant Life Coach, Board-Certified Art Therapist, award-winning author, and former Licensed Professional Counselor with over 17 years of experience. Her work blends neuroscience, psychology, spirituality, and creativity to help people heal, reconnect, and live more authentic lives. Kate is the author of Mend or Move On, a therapeutic guide to recognizing and recovering from harmful relationships, and the creator of tools like The Radiant Life Project, The Authentic Mother, and the Ink & Wings Oracle Deck. Website: https://TheRadiantLifeProject.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theradiantlifeproject/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRadiantLifeProject/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChxGCo2H8iWIReg8X6ADubg LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theradiantlifeproject/ Key Takeaways Not all relationships are meant to be saved—and recognizing that is part of healing Toxic patterns often feel familiar because they’re rooted in past experiences Self-abandonment is one of the highest costs of staying in unhealthy relationships Awareness is the first step, but action is what creates real change Healing isn’t about perfection—it’s about reconnecting to your truth Actionable Items Write down the patterns you keep repeating in relationships and identify what they’re trying to teach you Practice setting one small boundary this week—even if it feels uncomfortable Create a daily check-in with yourself: “Am I honoring my needs right now?” Important Chapters 00:00 – Welcome back Kate King & why this conversation matters now 08:15 – How to recognize toxic relationship patterns early 18:40 – The emotional traps that keep people stuck 29:10 – Trauma, nervous system responses, and attachment 41:25 – When to mend vs. when to move on 52:00 – Rebuilding self-trust and choosing yourself again Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipTrauma #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #TraumaRecovery #Codependency #MentalHealthSupport *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    45 min
  6. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles on Reclaiming Your Authentic Self | Season 16 Mental Health Recap

    MAR 17

    G-Rex and Dirty Skittles on Reclaiming Your Authentic Self | Season 16 Mental Health Recap

    Season 16 has been a powerful ride. In this special finale, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles reflect on the wisdom, healing, and hard-earned lessons shared by this season’s incredible guests—all centered around one powerful truth: reclaiming your authentic self is one of the bravest things you can do. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), a 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), the 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, and the 2026 NYC Podcast Awards Audience Award Winner for Best Hosts, with over 4 million downloads and counting. Feedback Link We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Reclaiming your authentic self means letting go of who you were told to be and choosing who you truly are.” Episode Description Season 16 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads brought together powerful voices in mental health, resilience, and personal growth. Throughout the season, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sat down with professionals, advocates, and individuals with lived experiences who shared honest stories about healing, boundaries, trauma recovery, and rediscovering identity. Each episode peeled back another layer of what it really means to prioritize mental health in a world that often tells us to push through and stay silent. Our guests spoke openly about navigating difficult life experiences, learning to forgive themselves, and building healthier relationships with others and with themselves. What emerged across these conversations was a powerful theme: authenticity. Healing begins when we allow ourselves to be seen honestly—without shame, without masks, and without the pressure to be perfect. Some guests brought professional insight from decades of work in psychology, counseling, or advocacy. Others shared deeply personal journeys of overcoming adversity and reclaiming their voice. Together, these stories formed a season that reminded us of the importance of talking openly about mental health. In this season finale, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles reflect on the lessons that resonated the most and celebrate the incredible community that continues to grow around these conversations. Because when we share our stories, we help others realize they’re not alone. SEO Keywords: mental health podcast, emotional wellness, authenticity, trauma recovery, personal growth, resilience, therapy conversations, healing journey, self-discovery, boundaries, mental health awareness, recovery stories, mental health advocacy Meet Our Season 16 Guests ** Dr. Esther Zeldon Dr. Esther Zeldon shared powerful insights from her work helping individuals understand emotional patterns and reclaim their mental well-being. Her conversation focused on self-awareness, emotional healing, and the importance of compassionate self-reflection. ** Katherin Giovanni Katherin Giovanni brought a perspective rooted in forgiveness and emotional release. She discussed how letting go of resentment and learning self-forgiveness can open the door to deeper healing and personal freedom. ** Zulma Williams Zulma Williams shared her inspiring story of resilience and advocacy. Her work emphasizes empowering individuals to find their voice and create positive change in their communities while prioritizing mental wellness. ** Jeff Luther Jeff Luther offered an honest look at the challenges of navigating mental health struggles and the strength it takes to ask for help. His story highlighted vulnerability, courage, and the importance of connection. ** Dr. Kristen Williamson Dr. Kristen Williamson joined the show to discuss the realities of trauma recovery and the tools people can use to rebuild their emotional health. Her insights emphasized practical strategies and hope for long-term healing. ** Greg and Mike Greg and Mike brought a powerful shared conversation about lived experiences, resilience, and the value of open dialogue around mental health. Their episodes highlighted the impact of community support and honest storytelling. ** Scott Harris Scott Harris spoke about personal transformation and the lessons that come from confronting life’s hardest moments. His story underscored the strength that emerges when people face adversity with honesty and determination. ** Yvonne Trost Yvonne Trost shared her journey of personal growth and healing, offering insights into emotional resilience and the power of self-discovery. ** Olalu Ogunyemi Olalu Ogunyemi brought a unique perspective on mental wellness, leadership, and personal development. His conversation focused on growth, mindset, and empowering others through knowledge and storytelling. ** Jack Bohannan Jack Bohannan discussed the realities of mental health challenges and the importance of vulnerability. His story highlighted how sharing experiences can inspire others to seek support. ** Barb Nangle Barb Nangle’s conversation focused on boundaries, self-worth, and the courage to change unhealthy patterns. Her work encourages people to reclaim their lives by choosing healthier emotional habits. Key Takeaways Healing often begins with honest conversations about our experiences. Authenticity requires courage but creates a deeper connection. Boundaries are a critical part of emotional wellness. Sharing stories helps reduce stigma around mental health. Personal growth happens when we allow ourselves to learn from struggle. Actionable Items Reflect on what authenticity means to you. Identify one boundary that could improve your mental well-being. Start a conversation about mental health with someone you trust.  Important Chapters 00:00 – Season 16 Reflection G-Rex and Dirty Skittles open the finale by reflecting on the journey through this season. 08:15 – Lessons from Our Guests Key insights and memorable themes were shared throughout the season. 20:40 – Reclaiming Your Authentic Self A deeper look into how authenticity supports mental health and healing. 35:10 – Gratitude for the Community Celebrating the listeners and guests who made Season 16 possible. 45:00 – Looking Ahead Closing thoughts and excitement for the future of the podcast. Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #EmotionalWellness #AuthenticSelf #HealingJourney #TraumaRecovery #MentalHealthMatters #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealthAdvocacy #HealingCommunity #PodcastLife #MentalHealthConversations *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    42 min
  7. Barb Nangle (Part 2): Building Healthy Boundaries After Childhood Trauma

    MAR 12

    Barb Nangle (Part 2): Building Healthy Boundaries After Childhood Trauma

    Healing isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about finally feeling safe enough to be yourself. In Part 2, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with boundaries coach Barb Nangle, diving deeper into trauma recovery, nervous system healing, meditation, and the mindset shifts that help people build healthier relationships with themselves and others. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 4 million downloads and counting. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Boundaries help you go from reacting to life… to actually living it.” — Barb Nangle Episode Description In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, boundaries coach Barb Nangle explores what happens after we begin to recognize our trauma patterns. Growing up in dysfunctional environments can keep the brain locked in fight-or-flight survival mode, making it difficult to access the part of the brain responsible for clear thinking, decision-making, and identity. Barb explains how codependency often develops as a survival strategy—where people learn to focus entirely on the needs of others while disconnecting from their own feelings, preferences, and boundaries. Through recovery, meditation, and boundary-building, Barb discovered how to shift from being a reactor in life to becoming an actor—someone who consciously chooses how to respond instead of reacting from fear, anxiety, or old trauma patterns. The conversation also dives into the importance of community, mindset work, and challenging negative self-talk, as well as how meditation and nervous system regulation can help retrain the brain toward calm and emotional resilience. This episode is a reminder that healing doesn’t mean becoming perfect—it means learning to respond to life with awareness, compassion, and intention. Keywords: Barb Nangle, trauma recovery, boundaries coaching, codependency healing, nervous system regulation, people pleasing recovery, meditation for mental health, emotional healing, therapy, mindset work, recovery journey, mental health podcast Meet Our Guest — Barb Nangle Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and podcaster who helps professional women stop saying yes when they mean no and build emotionally healthy relationships. After nearly 40 years of therapy and personal development, Barb entered 12-step recovery at age 52, where she discovered that codependency and childhood trauma had shaped her life far more deeply than she realized. Recovery didn’t just add tools—it fundamentally changed how she related to herself and the world. Today, Barb helps women build internal safety, stronger boundaries, and emotionally available relationships through coaching, professional speaking, and her podcast, Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery. Connect with Barb: Website: https://higherpowercc.com/ Podcast: https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbnangle/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@higherpowercoaching Key Takeaways Trauma can keep people stuck in reactive survival patterns. Boundaries help rebuild internal safety and emotional stability. Healing involves learning to respond intentionally rather than reacting automatically. Meditation and mindset practices can retrain the brain toward calm. Connection and community are powerful tools for recovery. Actionable Items Notice when you are reacting emotionally versus responding intentionally. Try a short daily meditation or mindfulness practice. Replace negative self-talk with supportive internal dialogue. References Mentioned Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA) 12-Step Recovery Programs Meditation for Fidgety Skeptics Important Chapters 00:00 – Trauma, fight-or-flight, and survival responses 07:00 – Becoming an actor instead of a reactor 16:00 – The importance of community in recovery 24:00 – Recognizing and interrupting negative self-talk 31:00 – Meditation and nervous system regulation 37:00 – Advice Barb would give her younger self 41:00 – Final reflections and closing thoughts Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #TraumaRecovery #BoundariesCoach #CodependencyHealing #MeditationPractice #EmotionalHealing #SelfGrowth #MindsetMatters #HealingJourney #MentalWellness #RecoveryCommunity *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    38 min
  8. Barb Nangle (Part 1): Codependency, Trauma, and Why Boundaries Change Everything

    MAR 10

    Barb Nangle (Part 1): Codependency, Trauma, and Why Boundaries Change Everything

    What if the reason you struggle with boundaries isn’t weakness—but survival? In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with boundaries coach Barb Nangle to talk about codependency, trauma, and the moment that forced Barb to completely rethink how she related to herself and everyone around her. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) with over 4 million downloads and counting. Feedback Link Line We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “Boundaries are the antidote to codependency.” — Barb Nangle Episode Description Many people believe boundaries are simply about saying no. But according to boundaries coach Barb Nangle, that’s only a small part of the story. In this powerful first half of a two-part conversation, Barb joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to unpack the deeper roots of codependency, trauma, and people-pleasing, and how those patterns shape our relationships long before we recognize them. Barb shares the life-changing moment that sent her into recovery: inviting a homeless man into her home in an attempt to help him, only to realize she had completely lost herself trying to rescue someone else. That experience led her into 12-step recovery programs, including Al-Anon, Codependents Anonymous, and Adult Children of Alcoholics, where she began to understand how childhood trauma and emotional abandonment had shaped her behavior. Through recovery, Barb discovered something profound: boundaries don’t just protect relationships—they create internal safety, allowing us to show up in the world without constantly abandoning ourselves. This episode is an honest and deeply relatable conversation about healing, awareness, and what it really takes to break free from lifelong patterns. Keywords: Barb Nangle, codependency recovery, boundaries, trauma healing, people pleasing, emotional safety, adult children of alcoholics, therapy, relationship boundaries, self-awareness, mental health recovery, trauma patterns, emotional healing Meet Our Guest — Barb Nangle Barb Nangle is a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and podcaster who helps professional women stop saying yes when they mean no and build emotionally healthy relationships. After nearly 40 years of therapy and personal development, Barb entered 12-step recovery at age 52, where she discovered that codependency and childhood trauma had shaped her life far more deeply than she realized. Through recovery, she developed the boundary-building framework that now forms the foundation of her coaching and teaching. Today, Barb helps women create internal safety, healthier relationships, and stronger personal boundaries through coaching, speaking, and her podcast, Fragmented to Whole: Life Lessons from 12 Step Recovery. Connect with Barb: Website: https://higherpowercc.com/ Podcast: https://higherpowercc.com/podcast/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barbnangle/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@higherpowercoaching Key Takeaways Codependency often develops from childhood trauma and emotional abandonment. Boundaries are about understanding what is and isn’t okay for you. Many people confuse helping others with rescuing them. Recovery begins when you stop focusing on fixing others and start caring for yourself. Emotional safety is the foundation of healthy relationships.   Actionable Items Pay attention to moments when you say yes but feel resistance internally. Ask yourself regularly: “Is this my responsibility or someone else’s?” Start identifying what feels emotionally safe and unsafe in your relationships.   References Mentioned Al-Anon Codependents Anonymous (CoDA) Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA) Overeaters Anonymous (OA) Important Chapters 00:00 – Welcome and why boundaries matter 06:00 – Barb’s work and how she teaches boundaries 13:00 – The story of Dan and the turning point in Barb’s life 22:00 – Discovering Al-Anon and codependency 31:00 – Understanding childhood trauma and emotional abandonment 40:00 – How recovery began transforming Barb’s life Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #CodependencyRecovery #HealthyBoundaries #TraumaHealing #PeoplePleasing #EmotionalSafety #AdultChildrenOfAlcoholics #RecoveryJourney #SelfAwareness #MentalHealthSupport #HealingWork   *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    41 min

About

”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles life’s challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that it’s okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity.